Should you accept your placement in someone’s life when it ends in a way that you do not agree with? Is it right to control someone’s lifestyle with your expectations? What do you consider a friend? This episode is about releasing the blame from yourself on the relationships you may be manipulated into keeping. Everything does not need to be explained (in my opinion, of course). Be a good person but don’t exhaust yourself into being more than what your soul can offer. Take space for you and let people be them. Don’t let it break you. Don’t let what they think of you, bring out the dark side of you. You’re better than that (in my opinion, of course).

Are you tired of asking yourself what is right with you? Tired of being right all the time? Are you entertained by abusing others with your cruel words, selfish expectations and evil antics? Have you taken the narcissism test? Listen, don’t listen to this if you’re expecting a happy ending. This subject makes me angry ! Article we talked about: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/14-signs-of-narcissism YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/3RkLvglGKCQ

We talk about “red flags”, but how do you know what to look for if you don’t see the part you played to welcome the repetitiveness? You have to be ready to accept your responsibility in something in order to make some kind of change in your life. If you want “peace”—you have to be peaceful. Forgive others without them apologizing for their wrongdoings and move on. Go ahead and hold a grudge! Your heart can turn into stone, but I refuse to not see the bigger picture. If it costs “forgiveness” to let someone go and feel peace—well, then... GOODBYE to all the apologies that aren’t owed to me. Forgiveness is for myself 🙏🏾 💯 ♾ The Royal We: https://youtu.be/qy9kBqK4Nm4 Inappropreality: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIJ7_4vyVGBuMmNnx0anYTg Color Code of Awareness: https://sofrep.com/news/the-cooper-color-code-and-threat-assessment/

Why do we always need an apology? Why do we feel like a person who can’t take responsibility for hurting you, can say “sorry” for hurting you? Will you be satisfied with an apology that is not felt? When is it going to be your time to heal? How long are you going to let a person prey on you and change the person that you are suppose to be? You change when you’re ready! Own up to what you are doing wrong so YOU can be a better YOU! Walking Away: https://youtu.be/GEeLQvivgdg Beneficial Depression After Abuse: https://youtu.be/JMJVFtQEADQ Regarded or Discarded By the Narc: https://youtu.be/0Kivk8r994k Emotional Control: https://youtu.be/62e9Pp8twWo

Hey!!! Do you ever look at yourself and see how a person changed you? Whether it’s for better or for worse? Do you ask yourself if you’re anything like them after dealing with them for so long? Is it possible that you are developing the traits of a narcissistic individual?

Not too personal! Ouch! But I wanna express something that I feel is very important to society today... TALK to your kids... you 𝘢𝘳𝘦 their parents, yes, BUT you were ALSO their first “friend” 🥰. Don’t step around my triggers cause I’m using them to bounce back in every way that I can!!!

Dag... I don’t even know where to express this... but if you need some motivation, tuuuune iiiiin 🗣🗣🗣🗣 Narelle IG: https://instagram.com/narelleakc?igshid=tnvztg4hwps9 SNE Donations: https://www.paypal.com/biz/fund?id=FYPG9KX4D67VJ

I mean... expect what you accept, right? Wrong. Well... in my opinion. Should we love with no limits? Is it healthy for us to say, “I love you. If you need me, I’m here, but 𝘚𝘈𝘠𝘖𝘕𝘈𝘙𝘈”? Can you be friends with someone you once loved? Like true, true friendship without the sex? Idk but press play to hear my opinion about it. 😭❤️🙏🏾

Chatting it up with my friend about some controversial stuff on the Facebook feed! Man it’s interesting to know what other people think... but here are our opinions!!! Great convo and good laughs! The links we spoke about: Post on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/512420796/posts/10159155495570797/?d=n Narelle’s Meditation Podcast: https://anchor.fm/narelle4/episodes/Throat-Chakra-Clearing-Visualization--Express-yo-self-ese5ns Narelle’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/narelleakc?igshid=111iquiag3xdp Narelle’s 𝘕𝘌𝘞 Store: https://teespring.com/stores/narelleakc

𝘍𝘜𝘓𝘓 𝘋𝘐𝘚𝘊𝘓𝘈𝘐𝘔𝘌𝘙: 𝘐𝘧 𝘣𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘶𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦, 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘤𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. ⚠️ Me and friends chatting it up about 🤭🤭🤭. Tune in and take in some tips (tips 😂)... Oral Sex Demon We Talked About: https://fb.watch/3YBB61Df6n/ “Mindless” Music Video: https://youtu.be/Kp06JHxRqF0 Follow @ktjamesx on IG

If you guys didn’t see the movie... 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵! I loved every second of it... but do not play this episode if you don’t want the spoiler alert!!!!

It’s not what you think it is... It’s just another conversation about being human.

I feel like most of the world has tried to 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 someone just to get over someone else. But what if the someone finds 𝘺𝘰𝘶? Are they still considered a “rebound”? Come sit in my brain for a sec 🙃.

Crazy how a blackbird has all the space in the sky and their most common cause of death are cars... and cats. Did you hear them singing at the end of January? Or maybe you heard a crow 🥴 😂... tune in... I got some new views. ❤️

Yeah... it’s time to end that... it’s just too much to deal with. I want to talk about the things that matter. Let’s reset...

Okay... so, first I had a baby, then I had love —but no marriage? Do I care? Do you care? Does the thought of never walking down an aisle, exchanging affordable rings and nervously kissing your partner, in front of hundreds of ugly strangers, really bother you? It only bothers me in romance movies because it’s too perfect to compare to real life. Compare a 20 year long term relationship to a 20 year marriage... what’s the difference? Taxes? .... pretty much 😂 Listen in to hear my thoughts. Peace. ✨ Article we talked about: https://metro.co.uk/2018/05/22/an-open-letter-to-anyone-who-watched-the-royal-wedding-and-worried-that-theyll-never-get-married-7564517/

*hits blunt* Imagine a person performing love through actions (cause actions speak louder, right?) and then BOOM 💥 they tell you they don’t love you. How would you feel? Well, of course you’d have to move on... but how do you just erase something that was so meaningful—to you? 🤔 Check out this article here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/laugh-cry-live/201502/after-the-break-when-moving-seems-impossible

Hey... guess what the Mayor’s office asked me to do 😊? You have to listen to find out ❤️!!! Listen... I’m starting to think I have to pick a lane... do I want to be a singer, author, motivational speaker, host...? Should I put some things on the back burner to focus on the most important? Or do I just keep pushing it all? Such a tough decision! Listen to how I feel about this... give me some feedback? 😳

What does the “golden rule” mean to you? Do you look back on your situations and ask, “hmmm... if I was that person, how would I feel?” Is it important to you to cherish the people who have done nothing but shown you love? Is it important to you to love without being lost? Do you fear the thought of letting go? Sit down and think of your purpose in everyone’s lives. What’s their purpose in yours? Have they served their purpose? Is it time to let that bird fly??? 😂 Nah—this is a serious matter. All jokes aside... listen to this and check out this article that I read for you: https://www.idiva.com/relationships-love/family/cutting-ties-with-people-is-not-all-bad-for-the-sake-of-your-mental-health/17080129

Why do we have to always give you a reason why we’re single? Why is singleness always seen as a bad thing? Have you ever heard the question: why are you in a relationship? I mean—I haven’t. I did hear once that single means: “Stress Is Now Gone Life’s Easier”!!! Is that true? Of course! People associate being single with loneliness and boredom (yo—the boredom part is true 🤣). I can’t lie... I do feel lonely a lot but then I get lost in my crafts and forget people exist lol. Nah—I would very much live the rest of my life as a single person before I settle for a person that can’t even add to me in a motivational, spiritual or inspirational sense. Here is that article we talked about: https://herway.net/romantic-love/soulmate/stay-single-until-you-find-someone-who-actually-gives-a-damn-about-you/