By the time every human gains awareness of their existence and has cognitive abilities, biases are formed already.

We grow up believing what has been told to us, modeled to us, and shown to us by our immediate family and the environment we recognize, therefore we do not know what is true and what is not until we really and intentionally begin to question what is.

In this episode, I talked about how stereotypes come about, how we form them, what they cause, and how they affect how we perceive the world and see ourselves.

Dive in to find out if you are living with any stereotypes, which might have informed your biases.

Enjoy.

I am OAD...

Christian sisters are said to be more attracted to bad boys, or is it a myth? 

In this episode I decided to talk about this widely discussed topic, all age demographics are not excluded from this discussion, we have many people with different perspectives.

I decided to interview some people who would share their own thoughts on the topic... So do you think Christian brothers are losing their ladies to bad boys and why?

Listen in and find out what they all had to say, and share your thoughts as well in our DM @repairerofruins on IG, send us a voice message on Anchor, or respond to the question attached to this episode on Spotify.

I am O.A.D ...

We all know how our phones and social media are important to us, and how much we are dependent on them.

From communication to socializing to even sourcing information on the net, or is it work or making money? We are hooked on social media and we do not even know it.

In this episode, I exposed how to know if you are actually addicted or not and I also mentioned some practical steps to overcoming social media addiction.

Dive in to find out all the juicy information.

I am OAD...

ROTB is here again with another episode on overcoming addictions.

Many people, more than we actually think are going through these addictions, they actually struggling and trying to get off the hook.

In this episode, I talked about how we can overcome them, and I told a little secret in there.

Dive in and find out.

I am OAD...

Addictions as we know them most times carry a negative connotation.

In this episode, I will be expounding more on the types, categories, signs, and ways to overcome them, I also tried to define addiction in "God's words", imagine trying to think in God's voice, in your head how would you think God would define addiction?

We know addictions are not clearly spelled out in the scriptures, but we can use the word of God to define its similitudes.

So dive in and find out what I think God would liken to addiction. 

I am OAD...

HAPPYYYYYYYY NEW YEEEAAARRRR PEOPLE!!!

Wow, it's a beautiful beginning already, as 2023 has started for you and me on a high note. Yes, Believe it!

It's a New Year and we know the fuzz around resolutions and goal setting.

In this episode, I talked about how we do not realize the subtlety of being governed by culture and traditions as believers.

Are New Year Resolutions Clichés? Listen in and find out.

I am OAD...

ROTB is back with another beautiful episode.

In this episode, I talked about anger, and how anger is a secondary emotion triggered by other primary emotions like grief and the like.

Anger is like I said in this episode not really bad, but never allow it to control you, never put an action to it.

Anger always has an underlying trigger, find what could be causing it.

Listen in and find out some ways to overcome anger.

I am OAD...

Hey there, in this episode I talked about Envy and jealousy among believers.

How envy one of the works of the flesh is very subtle and can creep into the hearts of innocent believers who might not even notice that they are exhibiting such traits. It is very easy to resent the prosperity of others when we are waiting for that same particular blessing.

I talked about what envy does to us, and how it takes a toll on us. It is not beneficial to us in any shape, way, or form. Neither is it a good response in our waiting season.

Listen in to know how to overcome envy.

I am OAD...

In this episode, we welcomed our first guest Michelle Adudu.

We had her share her salvation journey, struggles, victories, and experiences as a believer.

We also talked about the works of the flesh that informs the mindset "Good girl no dey pay". Where did this statement come from and how do we overcome the mindset?

Listen in and Enjoy.

I am OAD...

Hello people, sure you are doing beautiful. It's yet another beautiful episode on ROTB.

In this new season, episode 1 we are introducing the works or fruits of the flesh. There are at least 15 of them mentioned in Galatians 5, but to mention a few- sexual immorality, rivalries, hatred, envy, and jealousy. In this episode, I talked about how humans got to begin exhibiting these evil and wicked traits.

After this episode, we will be having guests talk about the different works of the flesh and how we can overcome them.

Thanks for always dropping by and listening.

I am OAD...

Hey guys, in this episode I gave quick summaries of the different topics we have had on the ROTB Podcast.

I gave the highlights on the past topics, just for ease of access, in case you are new here and wondering which episode might interest you most. Just listen to this summary and find the topic that caters to your search Asap.

Thanks for listening.

I am OAD...

Hey guys, it's OAD here, it's been Eons since I was here. I'm so sorry, I've had a whole lot on my plate.

But I'm back now, and I hope I don't go anywhere anymore.

In our very last episode, before I went M.I.A, I talked about people-pleasers. How we can subconsciously fall victim to allowing mediocrity rule our person.

But in this episode, I continue to talk about the second aspect of people-pleasers, those who are hypocrites intentionally, those who tend to betray others for simple favors.

In this episode, I talked about how we can overcome People-pleasing through LOVE.

Listen in and enjoy...

I am OAD...

Hey guys, what's popping with y'all? In this episode, I talked about People pleasers.

As believers who are "Love beings", we tend to want to be seen as kind, sweet and loving, in so doing we succumb to societal pressures to accept the things we shouldn't.

In this episode, I talk about how to know when you begin to people-please, and a little on how to strike a balance with being kind and loving.

Listen in and enjoy...

I am OAD...

Hey there, this is the part3 of the Scriptures for situation topic, and in this episode i talked about the negative effects of sexual perversions. The Physical, spiritual, emotional and relational effects.

Sexual immorality is a sin committed against our own bodies, the consequences and repercussions are not to be toyed with. A person who loves themselves will not mishandle their bodies. God loves us too much to want to allow us to hurt ourselves.

Listen in and get to know the negative effects of sexual immorality and how you can avoid them.

I am OAD...

Hey there, this episode expounds on what God says about sexual perversions, sexual immorality like fornication, adultery, lesbianism, homosexuality and the likes.

Does the bible actually support the claims of the lgbtq community? Are we too hard on them, are we just speculating and condemning them?

Listen and get to know the truth in this episode as i show you what the scriptures says about these said perversions.

I am OAD...

Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where it seems like you just can't deal anymore? I have definitely experienced a number of ups and downs, how did I get out of the pit of frustration and discouragement?

I have a secret to share with you, it's not much of a secret anyway.

In this episode, I share what helps in making all the problems seem like they are just simple speed bumps. Negative situations should never really stop you. You shouldn't see them as mountains that cannot be moved, but as little potholes that you can scale through, and you can do this with the help of the word of God.

Listen and get some scriptures you can use at times when you really need an anchor.

I am OAD...

The Gingerbread Man 2 episode is a sequel to our previous episode, I talked about how God has a lot in store for man, and how man would rather reject the many blessings and toil all his life in vain.

The devil is an ancient being who has mastered the art of deceit, he succeeded at it in the garden of Eden when he beguiled Eve and made her eat of the tree of good and evil and also give her husband as well, causing the ultimate fall of man, which in turn led to the evil that rampages the earth.

Listen to this episode and find out how you can overcome this thief that poses as an angel of light.

I am OAD...

The story of the Gingerbread man is a folktale that has traveled through the time for centuries unknown. In this episode, I talk about how this story is just reminiscent of that of God and humans.

We, humans, tend to misunderstand exactly what this supreme being- 'God' wants for and from us. Have you ever though to sit still and listen to what He has to say to you?

He has too much in store for you, He made you, He knows exactly what you need and when you need it.

... I am OAD.

Forget about comparing yourself with others. You can never compare your pinky to your thumb, they have different functions. The arm and the leg are appendages but have different uses. 

Be who you are called to be, you are different from that girl or dude for a reason. You were born in that family for a reason. 

Never try to be someone else, but your maker; God.

... I am OAD

Time and time again we are caught in unhealthy situationships, life happens to us in the most unpleasant ways sometimes because of wrong relationships. And most times we never see it as our fault. We tend to blame others for everything bad that happens to us. We do not remember to "blame" or praise others when it goes good. We say we are self-made when it's all rosy and beautiful.

This attitude stems from the place of not loving others like ourselves. We find everything wrong with people who do not do our biddings. 

But have you ever thought to understand what true love really is, and if it is truly hard to come by?

... i am OAD