Bottom line is any person in your life will always treat you exactly how you've taught them to treat you and how you've allowed them to treat you! It doesn't matter who the individaul is, they will do to you what you allow them to get away with! You teach your significant other exactly how he or she can treat you because you show your vulnerabilities out of what you perceive is love, when it has nothing to do with love. A person who truly loves you should enhance your life, not use, abuse, or control you! Most people don't have a clue of what love is because they've never learned to love self first!

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It's all about the mindset that you have! When you're of unhealed hearts and minds you're very quick to act and/or react over things to include speculation and lies! Many people are very easily provoked over hearsay. It goes back to the ridiculous lie over the rapture. Many people fell for it because people want so badly to believe in something, yet if they really believed in Jesus, they should have known better. It goes to show that most people talk one thing but believe and do another! When you have your own unresolved issues that you neglect, and you continue to put them on the back burner to go along, to get along, to belong, you'll always be left behind and falling prey to the many predators who feed off of the vulnerabilities you've shown to them! You'll contine as broken people who are being mentally bamboolzled and controlled by other broken people! Change must start with you, it's an inner process that must take place! You must be willing to unlearn all the bad conditioning and behaviors to become the best version of yourself! You are better than who or what you come from, if you believe it! Nothing you've gone through or will go through dictates your life unless you choose for it to dictate your life!

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Most people around the world neglect self! People are more focused on minding the business of others rather than their own and it's one huge reason people remain the same. When you don't allow inner healing and self love, you don't mentally mature and because of it you're easily brainwashed, influenced, convinced, bamboolzled, and deceived by other broken people who are from all walks of life. People normally don't think in depth about things until they're directly affected, until then, they will go along to get along because they want to belong. That type of mentality is keeping many people in broken states of mind! Invest in yourself to become the best that you can be!

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This episode goes for both immature men and women, because they think, feel, and act in similiar and immature ways. Stop expecting people to conduct themselves as mature when they are broken and lack mental maturity. It's all about the mindset! The problem is so many people are broken and because of it they embrace negativity and foolishless but they too are immature people. There are immature men and women in every single group/race! Unhealed people love and relish in negativity/bad news/gossip, etc. One major and important thing that is indeed free, but most people don't want, is the truth!

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Many people are hiding behind the name Jesus and the name God, yet it's for their own glory and not for the Glory of God! It is the very reason souls aren't being changed. People are more focused on pleasing and appeasing man than God! They want man to believe they're God fearing Christians when it's clear they're aren't but many people can't see it because they too aren't connected to Jesus and therefore don't really know God for themselves!

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Immature women think that dressing inappropriately shows they're confident, beautiful, etc. Lies! Women who are walking around half dressed are very disrespectful to themselves and to others. These women think they're showing confidence and strength but in reality it shows just the opposite. It shows who these women are inside. They lack confidence and have lots of insecurities that they'll never admit to. It doesn't matter how cute she is when a woman is half dressed it makes her look bad. Women who are walking around wearing clothes that are too small have no clue how horrible they look. It's not cute at all! I feel sorry for women who feel a need to dress inappropriately and can't take a real look at themselves to see what they're really showing others! What's inside is always coming out in many ways, dressing inappropriately is just one! They lack self-love and are in denial. What they see in the mirror is a reflection of what's inside of them but it's not reality! Some men dress inappropriate too and everything applies to him. What people forget is children are also watching!

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You must be able to stand on your own and you can do it with Jesus! Your friends, family, and others will quickly stop checking on you, but don't let that discourage you in any way! It's not that they don't care, but people just don't have time because they're too caught up in their own lives. It's okay! Look to the hills whence cometh your help, not to man or woman!

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If your significant other is good, hang on to him or her because it's rare these days and times. Make no mistake about it, just being good isn't enough, they have to be someone who loves God, love themselves, love others, mature, healed, committed, faithful, dedicated, honest, loyal, etc. When you have the total package, don't mess it up! The dating pool is very tough these days! Don't let your unhealed hearts and minds get you bamboolzed and manipulated into thinking you have something when you have nothing! Hold on to that special someone!

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Most people believe others are their enemy but don't realize that their mindsets is their biggest enemy. How you think affects how you feel and act. Most people go through life causing self-inflicted pain in their own lives becasue of who and what they accept and allow into their lives.

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Yes, they are the future in terms of being younger than we are, but we may be in trouble if it's meant any other way, because children are being raised by everything and everyone other than the people who are supposed to raise them. Many children go through hell in their homes and they grow up to be angry people who never allow healing to take place in their lives. If you don't believe me, look around to see all of the mess going on by ALL the angry, hateful, wicked, mean, disconnected, and brainwashed young and old adults! There are some phenomenal children in this world too but most children haven't been given a good or fair start!

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When you refuse to see the truth, it is you who will suffer the most! People don't realize that most of what we go through is self-inflicted!

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If you fell for the rapture story, shame on you! I saw how people believed it with all thier heart, but the whole time it was a lie! No man or woman knows when Jesus will return, even Jesus doesn't know when God will send him back! The same way people wholeheartedly believed the rapture was coming, if they took that same energy and belief and put it on Jesus and God, their lives would change and their mindsets would be healthier. If people don't change, they'll always be easily tricked! Stop looking outward for a resolution to make you feel better and to make your life better. Instead, look inside of yourself and allow healing to take place! Man nor woman can do it for you because most people are broken too! With the mindsets that people have, millions upon millions will make it too easy for the anti-Christ to fool them! Instead of seeking man, seek Jesus, for He's the ONLY way to God and to Heaven!

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You should always stand in the gap for those who don't know and follow God, but doing so will NOT prevent them from going to Hell! People must love and serve Jesus and God for themselves! Whether a person go to hell or heaven does NOT fall on you, it falls on them! However, never stop standing in the gap!

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The USA and the world have been taught hate, violence, and division. What's worse is some Black people are still so lost that they believe like the racist White person. Those types of Black people don't realize they are used and abused by racist White, to push their agendas and their narratives going. If you want to know why all of the White on White crimes are happening such as school shooting, etc., look in the mirror! Racists Whites has done nothing for 400 plus years other than teach their children, women, family, and friends; hate, violence, and division with no understanding of why. If anyoe should hate it is Blacks, but because God chose us to go through this, He also made us in a way that we aren't created that way. If you can't love everyone down here, don't even think about Heaven, because unless you change, you'll never go! People are bamboolzed, brainwashed, blind, deceived, manipulated, conditioned, indoctrinated, and used; to keep sprewing hate, to be violent and divisive. Race was created by the White man along with the terms Black and White. I TRULY pray people think about this episode and be willing to learn for themselves.

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It's wild, but unfortuante people are doing it. When people believe that a computer loves them, you know people are so lost! A computer will never have real emotions or feelings for a human. It's very sad that some people are so broken that they actually believe they're in love with computers or they believe that they have a close connection with a computer. People will only go further down the rabbit hole with the ever changing technology and will be led wrong becasue of their unhealed hearts and minds, that's caused the beliefs that they have. Many people are lonely and because of it will turn to computers, thinking that they have real connections with them.

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If you want change in your life, it is you who must initiate change. The only way it can happenn is by doing that inner work, because all of the mess inside is causing dysfunction in your outside world. Most people hold on to the negative aspects of their experiences, which forms their negative mindsets. If you don't progress you remain mentally stuck. Therefore, there's no mental maturity, which is why people continue to make bad choices and decisions.

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It's hard to save with bad habits, point blank! You don't have to be on the low end of the spectrum to lack financial wisdom. It has nothing to do with how much money you have or don't have but it has everything to do with your mindset and the ability to manage your finances. The worse thing people do to themselves is to live for others to see what they have or what they pretend to have. It's a ridiculous and very stressful way to go through life! Stop worrying about what others have and stop trying to keep up with what others have. Gain financial wisdom and watch how you crawl out of the pit you've dug for yourself! If you want a better life you can't sit around waiting for someone to pull you out, for the lottery to hit, for someone to die, etc., you have to choose better for yourself! Make better choices and decisions! Stop getting into debt and stop living beyond your means!

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Most workplaces have unhealed leaders and because of the mindsets of those leaders (CEO, Bosses, Leaders, Supervisors, etc.) things are allowed to take place and therefore, trickle down. Many leaders simply don't know how to lead. A good leader sets the example and lead from the front. Unfortunately, that isn't what is happening in most workplaces. That's why workplaces all over the world have nepotism, favoritism, discrimination, harassment, hostility, low morale, etc. You take you everywhere you go and whatever is in you is coming out in one way or another. It doesn't matter what title, position, or status you hold, it will never heal what's inside of you. Therefore, you will display and project your unresolved pains into the lives of other people. It's not just the leaders it is also the employees who falls under the leaders. Workplaces are full to the brim of people with unhealed hearts and minds! It will never change until people choose to be better people and that won't happen without inner healing and change! I think all agencies should have a Facilitation Team to help with internal issues.

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Most people don't have self control over anything! If you don't have self control it will lead to many more issues in your life. Self control is also one of the "Fruits of the Spirit!" The lack of self control can lead to different addictions (sex, food, drugs, alcohol), and other things such as negative thoughts, anger, etc., that ultimately causes many problems for people. What you don't have self control over, will control you! It goes back to the mindset that a person has, because we all have free will to exert self contol, but we all don't use it for the good in our own lives. Hence why, people have no self control in many areas of their lives!

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No one is exempt from getting old and don't let anyone fool you into believing otherwise. The only people who didn't age are in their graves! Accept aging because as sure as you live it will happen! Love yourself enough to embrace the inevitable aging process! Changes will take place but you don't have to be unhappy about it because it's a part of the process. Be thankful you're around to experience it! People who are distraught about aging have far deeper inner issues that's affecting their mindsets!

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