Have you heard or said, “we never go anywhere?” One of you dreams about Italy, sipping wine and your partner wants to stay home. So what happens when one partner craves adventure and the other craves routine? That’s what I get into in this episode.
I talk about the fights, the guilt trips, and even the little digs from family and friends like, ‘Wow, you never go anywhere?” But more importantly, I get into the solutions. How do you balance it without driving each other nuts when your interest in traveling doesn’t match?
How do you compromise without your partner always feeling like they're being dragged along? I talk about why people have this desire to travel and if they cannot travel, what happens then.
Relationships are not about turning into the same person. They are about finding a system that works for both of you. And if you relate to the argument, “We never go anywhere,” then this episode is for you.
If you would like to start your journey to a fulfilling and healthy relationship, go to www.lovelifecoachxo.com to schedule a one-on-one consultation with me.
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A little correction here, a small criticism there doesn’t seem like a big deal. But for a man, it can feel humiliating, like losing his dignity.
In this episode, I am talking about emasculation, where it comes from, how it shows up, and why even small comments can push your partner into silence or distance.
And this is not about blame, it’s about awareness. Because once you see the patterns, you can work on them. And instead of tearing each other down, you can start building each other up.
So, join me for this powerful talk. Trust me, you will never look at ‘harmless corrections’ the same way again.
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Some couples look picture-perfect on Instagram with all smiles, all lovey-dovey, #CoupleGoals. But behind the scenes, there is silence and distance, resentment and falling apart. Some couples spend more energy performing for the world than connecting with each other. It’s like polishing the outside of a house but ignoring the cracks in the foundation. Behind the filters and hashtags, there is a different truth.
Deep inside, many couples feel lonely even in their own relationship. In this episode, I talk about why couples pretend and how to break free from the performance. I talk about the hidden cost of performing as the ‘perfect couple’
Because your relationship deserves more than a performance.
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What does it mean when your partner’s friends disrespect you and your partner says nothing?
When your partner’s friends disrespect you why do they still keep them around?
Why do some people stay silent?
How to bring it up with your partner without starting a fight?
If you have ever walked away from a group hangout feeling small, uncomfortable, or alone in your own relationship, this episode is for you. Because respect is not optional.
Dating in midlife can feel overwhelming. I get it. You show up, go on dates, and follow advice — you are doing all the ‘right’ things. But nothing sticks. Nothing feels solid or lasting. it’s just draining. And deep down, you wonder, ‘What if I never find the right person?
You’re putting in so much effort and still ending up empty. It’s kind of like eating soup with a fork. You’re doing the motions, but barely getting anything out of it. Now, imagine picking up a spoon instead. Same soup. Same you. But suddenly, it works. Because now you are using the right tool - self-awareness, calmness, grounded energy. You are not forcing. You are not overthinking. And instead of confusion and burnout, you finally feel nourished.
In this episode, I talk about why dating feels so broken today, the emotional toll, the patterns you might not even realize you are stuck in, and what you can do to make dating feel less exhausting.
I talk about how to shift from dating with anxiety to dating with clarity and how and why that shift can change everything.
What happens when the power dynamic shifts and THE HUSBAND NO LONGER FEELS LIKE THE MAN OF THE HOUSE?
Let’s talk about the unspoken tension, role reversals, and the emotional disconnection.
This is something that no one really says out loud.
In this episode, I am breaking it all down…why this dynamic happens, how it affects both of you, and how to shift back into partnership without blame.
Listen to the full episode. And if this hits home, message me. Let’s talk about how you can feel supported, seen, and safe again…Together.
Moms and dads with daughters in the dating world & single women, this episode is for you. AJ, a private investigator, and I talk about the crimes and scams that target women in dating. The mission is to protect and empower as many women as possible. Don’t miss this important conversation. We share true stories
You will learn from:
How to recognize scammers before they target you
The hidden tricks players use to manipulate trust
Real-life dating safety tips that could save you from heartbreak.
Dating should be exciting, NOT dangerous. Don’t miss this eye-opening episode.
If anyone is interested in connecting with me or AJ further, we would love to hear from you at sonali@lovelifecoachxo & info@dating-screen-course.com about anything and everything. It will be an honor to hear your stories. We look forward to hearing from you.
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Love,
Sonali & AJ
Leaving a relationship is never easy. it’s not as simple as just pack your bags and leave. It requires confronting fears, challenging deeply held beliefs, and taking a leap into the unknown.
Staying in a relationship that’s not serving you is like wearing shoes that don’t fit. Sure, you can keep walking, but it’s going to hurt a lot. So you need to lace up some sneakers that actually feel good, and start walking toward the life and love you want.
But before doing that, explore and understand the reasons that keep you stuck, is it about fear of change, is it about your attachment style, is it low self-worth or is there something else. Understanding all the whys is the first step to make a change
So don’t miss this episode.
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I’m fine; you’re the one who has a problem.’ this one sentence has the ability to quietly destroy your relationship.
Find out why is it that one partner often dismisses relationship concerns as “your problem”? Have you ever felt like you’re fighting for your relationship... alone? You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone.
Saying, 'I don’t need therapy because I’m not the problem' is like saying, 'I don’t need to work out because I’m not sick.' This mindset is very common in relationships.
In this episode you will hear real-life examples, practical insights, and tools to strengthen your connection together. Find out why this happens and how to turn it around. Listen now wherever you get your podcasts from, spotify, apple or iheart . Don’t wait for things to fall apart.
Do you feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells, because you are afraid to trigger your partner’s short temper?
In this episode, I share simple, real-life tips to communicate better, protect your peace, and break out of the cycle of constantly feeling on edge.
Join me to learn how to handle these tough situations and work toward a healthier, more balanced relationship.
You will know the practical ways to communicate more effectively and protect your well-being and stop the cycle of fear and anxiety.
Tune in to learn how to handle these challenging dynamics and take steps toward a healthier, more balanced connection.
Have you ever stayed quiet in a relationship just to avoid conflict? Maybe you kept quiet after the first date, not letting the other person know that this doesn’t feel right, or even in your marriage, to ‘keep the peace’? Your partner ends up thinking you're okay when you're definitely not. Well, here’s the thing—that silence seems harmless, but it impacts the other person big time.
In this episode, I talk about -
💬 Why do we stay quiet?
💔 How does it affect those we love?
💡 What can we do to break the silence and build stronger connections?
Join me as I share stories (including my own) and explore why we sometimes choose silence.
👉If you are the one who keeps quiet or has experienced silence from the other person, then listen to this episode.
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If you have ever felt like you are losing touch with your partner because they are always on the go, this episode is for you.
In today’s fast-paced world, we are juggling careers, social commitments, family responsibilities, hobbies and personal goals—all while trying to maintain our relationships.
I will talk about what really drives this behavior. Whether it's you or your partner, why do some of you always try to keep yourself busy? Why do you keep your plate full all the time? I will also talk about how it impacts relationships and what you can do to address it.
Dating in midlife can be exciting, overwhelming and frustrating. As you step into this new chapter of your life, you are filled with a sense of curiosity and adventure. You desire a meaningful connection. You meet people and are eager to see where this path leads next.
Do you go by your first impression, or do you explore the possibilities together and see what you can create?
[Disclaimer]: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not a replacement for coaching sessions. Everyone’s situation is different.