Cold Hard Truths: FAFO and What Would We Do? Social Media Edition 2

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Refrigerator Moms

Kelley Jensen, Julianna Scott

19 episodes

2 days ago

Born from 20 years of friendship, during which they navigated the trenches of autism parenting and advocacy, the Refrigerator Moms is Kelley Jensen and Julianna Scott’s way of reaching out to parents waging the same battles they were. Their purpose with this podcast is to clear the fog, silence the noise, and find a path through neurodivergence for parents that are stuck between bad choices. They tackle parenting topics such as mom guilt, tantrums, pathological demand avoidance, siblings, medication, comorbidities, social media, and much more.

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Cold Hard Truths: FAFO and What Would We Do? Social Media Edition 2

Refrigerator Moms

20 minutes

1 month ago

Cold Hard Truths: FAFO and What Would We Do? Social Media Edition 2

Hosts Julianna Scott and Kelley Jensen dive into viral social media posts about autism parenting in this Cold Hard Truths episode. They examine FAFO (F*** Around and Find Out) parenting as a trendy rebrand of natural consequences, analyze complex PDA parenting scenarios including pancake requests and fast food battles, critique Autism Speaks' new legislation proposal, celebrate potty training victories, and discuss the importance of proper diagnosis. The duo provides practical perspectives on navigating autism parenting challenges while cutting through social media noise.

Key Takeaways

• FAFO parenting is simply natural consequences rebranded—avoid contrived punishments.
• Learning happens when consequences remain natural to the behavior.
• PDA accommodations that aren't working need honest evaluation and adjustment.
• Parents cannot and should not be their child's therapist—professional help is essential.
• Proper diagnosis is the starting point, not the end goal, for understanding behaviors.
• Consistency and persistence are crucial—some milestones take years to achieve.
• The Autism Family Caregivers Act may reduce services rather than improve support.
• Level 3 autism and profound autism have important distinctions that matter for services.
• Self-diagnosis in support groups without professional evaluation isn't helpful.

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