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RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
NLP master life coach, Betrayal Recovery Coach, FDN-P
132 episodes
5 days ago
Are you a wife who has discovered her husband is a porn or sex addict and you’re feeling overwhelmed and worried about the future? Are you a couple navigating recovery trying to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal but struggling to navigate the triggers and emotions that come up? Hi I’m Kylene, a betrayed partner in recovery, and Patrick, a former sex addict in recovery. In 2021, we found ourselves lost, overwhelmed and scared, having no idea if our relationship would survive or if we could heal as individuals. Thankfully, we got connected to powerful recovery tools quickly and began doing healing work both individually, and together. Now, we are 4 years in recovery and we have moved from lack of trust, to deep trust. From triggers and rumination every day to few and far between. From having a completely destroyed relationship, to creating a new, beautiful and happy relationship with 2 new, healed people. Kylene works as a betrayal recovery coach to help women move from trauma to transformation and Patrick runs several recovery groups locally for men guiding them from addiction to sobriety to deep recovery. In this podcast you will find vulnerable stories, real life application, tools, resources, mindset work, and everything you need to step into FULL recovery whether you are the spouse who has been betrayed, the addict working to get into deep recovery, or a couple wanting to reconcile the relationship. Let’s do this together! Next steps: If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Are you a wife who has discovered her husband is a porn or sex addict and you’re feeling overwhelmed and worried about the future? Are you a couple navigating recovery trying to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal but struggling to navigate the triggers and emotions that come up? Hi I’m Kylene, a betrayed partner in recovery, and Patrick, a former sex addict in recovery. In 2021, we found ourselves lost, overwhelmed and scared, having no idea if our relationship would survive or if we could heal as individuals. Thankfully, we got connected to powerful recovery tools quickly and began doing healing work both individually, and together. Now, we are 4 years in recovery and we have moved from lack of trust, to deep trust. From triggers and rumination every day to few and far between. From having a completely destroyed relationship, to creating a new, beautiful and happy relationship with 2 new, healed people. Kylene works as a betrayal recovery coach to help women move from trauma to transformation and Patrick runs several recovery groups locally for men guiding them from addiction to sobriety to deep recovery. In this podcast you will find vulnerable stories, real life application, tools, resources, mindset work, and everything you need to step into FULL recovery whether you are the spouse who has been betrayed, the addict working to get into deep recovery, or a couple wanting to reconcile the relationship. Let’s do this together! Next steps: If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
121 - 5 Practical Ways to Create Safety After Discovering Your Spouse is a Sex or Porn Addict
In today's episode Kylene and Patrick walk through 5 practical and actionable steps to consider after discovery. What actually helps create stability when you're just beginning your recovery journey?   Here are 5 steps to consider: Sleeping in separate spaces to give yourself the opportunity to reset and recover Setting boundaries around communication Getting connected to practitioners specializing in addiction and betrayal Making sure the basic modes of addiction are shut down/blocked Create a plan - work with your practitioner and spouse to create a plan that works for you If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune       --   To your health, Kylene Terhune Betrayal Recovery Coach Host of RecoverU podcast FDN-P, Master NLP life coach, Master QTT practitioner   Are you a betrayed partner? Join my free FB group RecoverU here
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2 days ago
59 minutes 16 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
120 - 3 Mindsets That Set You Up for Success in Recovery
This week Kylene and Patrick discuss 3 mindsets that will set you up for success in recovery and how those impact the betrayed partner and the addict in their journeys.   I am more than my circumstances Healing is possible for everyone, but requires change and change is uncomfortable  There is something better that is available to me     If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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1 week ago
51 minutes 14 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
119 - Unapologetically You: A Guide for Betrayed Partners with Jackie Newman
In today’s episode, Jackie Newman shares about the journal/workbook she co-authored called Unapologetically You.    Unapologetically You is your personal companion on a transformative journey towards inner peace, emotional healing, and self-awareness. This journal offers a collection of guided prompts, exercises, and reflective spaces to help you reconnect with your true self, heal old wounds, and embrace the fullness of who you are.   This journal is a reminder that healing is not a destination, but a beautiful, ongoing process. Step into the best version of yourself and begin your journey of healing today.   Today we walk through the 5 sections of the journal including:   Safety Connection to Self Grounding and Self-Care Journaling Inspiration     And share how the journal helps betrayed partners feel more grounded and move forward on their healing journey       Conference:https://csbdhopeforhealing.org   Jackies website: https://www.ampersandintegrative.com   Barnes and Noble book link: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/unapologetically-you-jackie-newman/1147552402?ean=9798317694548 Lulu: https://www.lulu.com/shop/jackie-newman-and-grounding-grace-co/unapologetically-you/paperback/product-q6dk69y.html?srsltid=AfmBOoqyShlvGtOuXn_ULA7SWh7iWJ_yVMOpVkjLX3sznvolFCNU8Zw0&page=1&pageSize=4   Previous episode with Jackie Newman: Prepping for disclosure: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000634888047  
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2 weeks ago
41 minutes 36 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
118 - Overcoming Adversity: Healing from our pain so we can live a life of purpose
Today’s episode is a speech that Kylene was asked to present about overcoming adversity. She shares some of her own story as well as 3 keys she notices helps her and others move through painful experiences: Value, Clarity and Courage —> Knowing who you are, getting clarity on the future, and having courage to take steps towards it.   She shares these 5 truths: You are not responsible for the behavior, reactions or thinking of others.  You are responsible for your own behavior - show up with integrity every day - if you can go to bed at the end of the day and say - I did my best - that’s all you can do Mistakes are ok  when we take responsibility for them  You are more than your experiences  - in other words, negative things that happen in our lives do not have to become our identity  You are worthy and valuable just as you are - because you exist - and you don’t have to accomplish anything for that statement to be true.   Episode on self confidence vs self worth: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000708437532   Episode with future you meditation: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000611570008   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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3 weeks ago
33 minutes

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
117 - 3 Things to Remember When Repairing Your Marriage as a Recovering Sex Addict
In todays episode, Patrick shares his thoughts on 3 important principles for a sex addict to remember in recovery: It takes time - don’t expect your betrayed partner to recover from discovery quickly. There are many factors that play into their ability to heal and everyone’s relationship and trauma level is different. Healing and relational reconciliation is a lifelong commitment. Demonstrate consistency so you can create safety for your partner. Be proactive. Make sure your motivation comes internally - your spouse shouldn’t have to push you to move through your own recovery.      If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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1 month ago
30 minutes 30 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
116 - Permission to Divorce: Choosing Health After Betrayal
Sometimes divorce isn’t just admissible, it’s beneficial. When a relationship hinders one or both parties from moving forward in health, divorce may be the best choice.   Kylene and Patrick know that there are many reasons that a couple may struggle with this decision including faith based guilt, internalized people pleasing, financial reasons, children etc… This is an nuanced conversation, and one that a single episode certainly will not cover in its entirety.    We are not here to tell you what to do. Instead, we are sharing some situations where divorce may be the healthiest option (outside of abusive situations which we do not focus on in this episode).   We hope this episode takes the pressure off, lets you take a deep breath and know that if you are heading down the path of divorce, there is nothing wrong with you. A relationship takes TWO people fully committed to work.    If you are listening to this episode and struggling with this decision we are sending you so much love.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune  
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1 month ago
50 minutes 13 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
115 - Why New Habits and Self Discipline are Crucial for Recovery
In this episode, Patrick explores the critical role that habits, routines, and daily discipline play in deep, lasting recovery. He emphasizes the value of fully engaging with all the tools and resources available in whatever recovery plan or program you're following. Patrick also shares insights on the power of journaling and the importance of being intentional when replacing old, unhealthy patterns with new, life-giving ones.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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1 month ago
51 minutes 18 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
114 - Self Confidence vs Self Worth in Recovery
Both the addict in recovery and the betrayed partner may struggle with self confidence, self worth, or both. But are they different?    In this episode, Kylene and Patrick unpack the differences between self-confidence and self-worth, sharing how each has wrestled with these issues in their own lives—Kylene with low self-confidence and Patrick with low self-worth.    They explore how these struggles have shown up in their personal journeys, the healing work they've done, and how anyone can grow in these areas. If you've ever questioned your value or doubted yourself, this episode is for you.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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1 month ago
56 minutes 45 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
113 - When our strengths can be a weakness in recovery (and vice versa!)
In this weeks episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss how patterns of thinking and behavior like: compartmentalization, the ability to feel deeply, and being someone who’s able to take action and get things done, can be great strengths in recovery, but those same strengths can also be our weaknesses in a different scenario.   They discuss how understanding our wounds, identifying the filters we view life through, and processing our emotions can help us challenge our own perspective so we can choose the healthy middle.     If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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1 month ago
45 minutes 55 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
112 - Reconnecting and Healing your Relationship after Betrayal with the Raabsmith’s
Meet Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith. In today’s episode, they share their personal story recovering from sex addiction and betrayal trauma. They share the ups and downs of their recovery and the process of healing they have found to be successful not only for themselves but for hundreds of other couples pursuing reconciliation as well.   Find their book Building True Intimacy here: https://a.co/d/dnwA2rw  Check out their free check-in resource here: https://raabsmithteam.com/free Interested in their programs? Click here: https://raabsmithteam.com See the Intimacy Pyramid here: https://intimacypyramid.com   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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2 months ago
43 minutes 50 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
111 - Understanding the Phases of Recovery for a Betrayed Partner
In today's episode, Kylene walks through the 5 phases of recovery, common things you may feel or experience in these phases, and how to know if you are moving through them into the next phase. She offers some questions to consider and steps to take in order to continue moving forward in your healing process.   WELCOME to the new RecoverU facebook group - if you are a betrayed partner please join us HERE: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2     If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8      For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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2 months ago
45 minutes 50 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
110 - The #1 Emotion a sex/porn addict must heal in order to truly recover
Show notes: In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick talk about shame, how it hinders recovery and wreaks havoc in relationships, and how you can begin to move through it to release it as part of your recovery journey.      Interested in joining us for Sexual Integrity 101? Register with the link below! Have more questions? Reach out to PatrickATerhune@gmail.com and we would love to answer them :) SI 101: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSelbTVNK2KEFPCecHhBzF0lXVJw1og_aTb1VJPW-p4XaUrn8g/viewform?usp=sharing   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8      For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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2 months ago
45 minutes 30 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
109 - Advice that is Helpful in Theory but Not in Practice
In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss 3 pieces of advice that are helpful in theory but not in practice when it comes to marriage and reconciliation.   They share how: Don't control your partner Marriage is hard Divorce is not an option ...are often shared with well meaning intent but can actually cause harm and dysfunction in relationships when understood in certain ways.   Interested in joining us for Sexual Integrity 101? Register with the link below! Have more questions? Reach out to PatrickATerhune@gmail.com and we would love to answer them :) SI 101: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSelbTVNK2KEFPCecHhBzF0lXVJw1og_aTb1VJPW-p4XaUrn8g/viewform?usp=sharing   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8      For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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2 months ago
53 minutes 25 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
108 - The Recovery Process is Hard, but the Outcome is Worth it!
In today's episode, Kylene shares how recovery has helped her step into her voice again, culminating in a successful concert where Patrick even sang a duet! They share how sticking through recovery during the hard times really allowed them to feel so safe, happy and relaxed together in a way that years ago would have felt impossible.   Enjoy bits of the concert here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8Q5jecgJblS1r8-hN8MRoAS20JfkDf40   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8      For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune  
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3 months ago
37 minutes 23 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
107 - The Affair Aftermath - Answering Your Questions
In today's episode, Kylene answers questions submitted by betrayed partners including - how do you deal with the pain of an affair and what happens if he says he loves you, but isn't "in love" with you?   She answers these questions in a very broad perspective but encourages each individual to work with a practitioner 1:1 so that your individual pain points and relational nuance can be taken into consideration.   Sex ThroughRecovery - Year 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/54-sex-through-recovery-year-1/id1674653111?i=1000649141817   Establishing True Intimacy: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/55-establishing-true-intimacy/id1674653111?i=1000649843594   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune   --   To your health, Kylene Terhune Betrayal Recovery Coach Host of RecoverU podcast FDN-P, Master NLP life coach, Master QTT practitioner   Are you a betrayed partner? Join my free FB group RecoverU here
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3 months ago
37 minutes 3 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
106 - Stress is Inevitable - 3 Strategies to Dial in When it Hits
In this episode, Kylene and Patrick talk about the reality of stress, how it can impact your body after betrayal, and how stress won't go away after recovery! They share some personal experiences as well as three things you can do today to help you deal with every stressors:  Stay connected in community, determine next steps, and prioritize self care.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune   --   To your health, Kylene Terhune Betrayal Recovery Coach Host of RecoverU podcast FDN-P, Master NLP life coach, Master QTT practitioner   Are you a betrayed partner? Join my free FB group RecoverU here
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3 months ago
39 minutes 49 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
105 - Pornography and Gen Z - Protecting the Next Generation
In today's episode, Casey shares his personal story navigating pornography addiction, how technology played a significant role in his exposure and development of addiction, and throughout hte episode we discuss several things we can do as a society and as parents to support our children in living porn free lives.   Resources:   Gabb Phones - www.GABB.com Needed Navigation (book) - https://a.co/d/aEWD7xE SheRecovery.com - Women’s recovery Top Gun (book) - https://puredesire.org/shop/top-gun/       Parent Training Course: https://puredesire.org/shop/parent-training-course-equipping-parents-to-have-conversations-with-their-kids-about-sex/   Good Pictures Bad Pictures: https://a.co/d/8tVHwpz Good pictures Bad Pictures JR.: https://a.co/d/ePArGkG  God Made All of Me: https://a.co/d/cBJujTI      If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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3 months ago
52 minutes 44 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
104 - Marriage Questions Answered with Kylene and Patrick
In today's episode we answer questions ranging from how we met to how we navigate conflict, and how we help each other through tough times. We have included the questions with a link below in case you would like to use them in a conversation with your partner!    Questions in today's episode: https://tinyurl.com/9kjca7m9   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql     Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune  
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4 months ago
1 hour 6 minutes 2 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
103 - Recognizing and Releasing Destructive Patterns for the Addict and Betrayed
It’s always easier to identify negative patterns in someone else. In today’s episode, Kylene shares four common patterns that can show up in both the addicted partner and the betrayed partner — but in different ways: Qualifying and Comparing Using Absolutes like “Always” and “Never” Looking Outward Instead of Inward Dehumanizing Thoughts or Behaviors While these patterns may show up very differently, we can all get stuck in them from time to time. In this episode, Kylene discusses healthier, alternative choices you can make to move your healing forward.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune  
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4 months ago
48 minutes 3 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
102 - Supporting Your Betrayed Partner: 4 Tools That Will Help You Help Her
In today's episode, Patrick shares four ways a recovering addict can show up for their betrayed partner while demonstrating consistency, sincerity and healing: Make an effort to understand Focus on your own healing  Practice your responses Don't seek her external validation We often mention the "Help Her Heal" workbook and encourage you to utilize the exercises within the book while personalizing them for your own relationship. Purchase help her heal here: https://a.co/d/6WvocpH   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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4 months ago
22 minutes 40 seconds

RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery
Are you a wife who has discovered her husband is a porn or sex addict and you’re feeling overwhelmed and worried about the future? Are you a couple navigating recovery trying to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal but struggling to navigate the triggers and emotions that come up? Hi I’m Kylene, a betrayed partner in recovery, and Patrick, a former sex addict in recovery. In 2021, we found ourselves lost, overwhelmed and scared, having no idea if our relationship would survive or if we could heal as individuals. Thankfully, we got connected to powerful recovery tools quickly and began doing healing work both individually, and together. Now, we are 4 years in recovery and we have moved from lack of trust, to deep trust. From triggers and rumination every day to few and far between. From having a completely destroyed relationship, to creating a new, beautiful and happy relationship with 2 new, healed people. Kylene works as a betrayal recovery coach to help women move from trauma to transformation and Patrick runs several recovery groups locally for men guiding them from addiction to sobriety to deep recovery. In this podcast you will find vulnerable stories, real life application, tools, resources, mindset work, and everything you need to step into FULL recovery whether you are the spouse who has been betrayed, the addict working to get into deep recovery, or a couple wanting to reconcile the relationship. Let’s do this together! Next steps: If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune