Marriage isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the right person. In this episode, we dive deep into the true purpose of marriage, breaking the cultural myth that it’s all about happiness. Instead, we explore how marriage is a refining process designed to make us more like Christ. 🔹 The World’s View vs. God’s Design for Marriage🔹 Why 75% of people unconsciously marry a partner who mirrors their worst parent🔹 The hidden reason marriage triggers deep emotional wounds—and how God can heal them🔹 The Four Predictors of Divorce & How to Guard Against Them🔹 The Biblical Blueprint for Marriage: Love, Respect & Sacrificial Leadership We’ll explore psychological insights from Dr. Gabor Maté and John Gottman, biblical truths, and real talk about why marriage can feel so hard—but also why it’s worth it. Key Scripture: Ephesians 5:25-27 – "For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean..." Your marriage isn’t meant to just make you happy—it’s meant to make you holy. Let’s unpack what that really means. 🎧 Listen now & share with someone who needs this!

En este poderoso mensaje, exploramos el camino hacia la renovación de nuestra mente y la liberación de creencias limitantes, patrones heredados y fortalezas invisibles. Basado en principios de psicología y escritura, este episodio examina cómo nuestra vida de pensamientos da forma a nuestra realidad y cómo podemos aprovechar el poder de la mente para lograr una verdadera transformación espiritual. Descubre pasos prácticos para romper barreras ocultas, deshacerte de viejos patrones y alinearte con el propósito de Dios. Si estás listo para desafiar tus antiguos pensamientos y comenzar un “desintoxicación mental” y espiritual, este episodio te animará y equipará para iniciar el cambio.

In this powerful message, we dive into the journey of renewing our minds and breaking free from limiting beliefs, inherited patterns, and unseen strongholds. Based on principles from psychology and scripture, this episode explores how our thought life shapes our reality and how we can harness the mind’s power for true spiritual transformation. Learn practical steps for breaking free, uncovering hidden strongholds, and aligning with God’s purpose. If you’re ready to challenge old patterns and step into a renewed way of thinking, this episode will encourage and equip you to begin your own mental and spiritual “detox.”

In this episode of "Thinking for a Change," recorded live at TFC McAllen on July 24, we delve deeply into the transformative power of neuroplasticity and the timeless wisdom found in Psalm 23. We explore how our thoughts shape our reality and the vital importance of aligning them with God's Word to achieve true healing and transformation. By examining Psalm 23, we uncover profound insights into God's role as our Shepherd, providing guidance, peace, and restoration in every season of life. We start by understanding the impact of our thoughts and the concept of synaptic plasticity, which is the brain's ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections. This episode illustrates how, through repeated meditation on scripture, we can rewire our minds, leading to lasting spiritual and emotional change. The story of the woman with the issue of blood is highlighted, demonstrating the power of persistent, faith-filled self-talk and its impact on our mental and spiritual well-being. Further, we draw lessons from David's life and his profound relationship with God as depicted in Psalm 23. This psalm not only reflects David's personal experiences but also offers us a framework for understanding God's multifaceted nature as our Shepherd, Provider, Healer, and constant Presence. By delving into the Hebrew names of God revealed in Psalm 23, we gain a deeper appreciation of His character and His promises to us. Through this exploration, we are reminded of the importance of guarding our hearts and aligning our thoughts with God's Word. By doing so, we can experience the peace and assurance that comes from trusting in God's provision and guidance. Join me as we uncover the layers of Psalm 23, discovering its relevance to our daily lives and the profound peace it offers to those who embrace its truths. This episode is a journey into the heart of spiritual transformation, encouraging us to renew our minds and live out the wisdom of Psalm 23 each day.    

En el episodio de hoy de nuestro podcast, exploramos cómo nos relacionamos con la cultura y nuestro papel como creyentes en ella. Discutimos la creencia común de que para influir en la cultura, debemos parecernos a ella, sumergiéndonos en su lenguaje, música y estilos. Esta idea es especialmente popular entre los jóvenes que consideran que, para tener un impacto significativo, necesitan ganar aceptación en los sectores más influyentes de la sociedad. Sin embargo, reflexionamos sobre el desafío de interactuar con la cultura de manera consciente y deliberada, asegurándonos de que nuestra fe influya en la cultura en lugar de permitir que la cultura diluya nuestra fe. El debate se profundiza al considerar la propuesta de algunos de que, mientras estamos inmersos en la cultura, deberíamos evitar ser abiertamente cristianos para no alejar a otros. Esta perspectiva sugiere mantener la fe en secreto, revelándola solo cuando las circunstancias sean adecuadas, promoviendo una presencia cristiana discreta. Contrastamos esta visión con la enseñanza bíblica de que, como seguidores de Cristo, estamos llamados a ser sal y luz del mundo, no a ocultar nuestra fe. Analizamos cómo este enfoque de "esperar el momento adecuado" puede ser tanto deshonesto como infiel, y cómo debemos, en cambio, presentar con valentía la metanarrativa de nuestra fe: Creación, Caída, Redención y Restauración. Finalmente, abordamos la importancia de no conformarnos a los patrones del mundo no creyente, sino de atraer a otros a nuestra cosmovisión. Citamos a 1 Corintios 1:27-31, donde se nos recuerda que Dios usa lo débil del mundo para avergonzar a lo fuerte, y que nuestra devoción debe centrarse en conocer a Dios más profundamente, no en ganar popularidad o estatus para luego usarlos para Dios. Reflexionamos sobre cómo la exposición excesiva y no crítica a la cultura puede diluir nuestra fe, destacando la necesidad de una vigilancia espiritual continua para no ser consumidos por la cultura, sino transformarla mediante la renovación de nuestra mente, según Romanos 12:2.

Welcome to today’s episode, where we dive deep into the crucial challenge of engaging with our culture thoughtfully and intentionally. How can we ensure that our faith influences the culture rather than allowing the culture to dilute our faith? This question lies at the heart of our discussion. There's a prevalent belief, especially among younger generations, that to impact and transform culture significantly, we must fully assimilate into it, gaining acceptance and recognition in the most influential sectors of society. Some even argue that while embedded in the culture, we should avoid being overtly Christian to prevent alienating others. They suggest keeping one's Christianity subdued and revealing it only when deemed appropriate. However, for a born-again believer, intentionally withholding the gospel to achieve status before sharing the message is both dishonest and faithless. As followers of Christ, we are called to be salt and light in the world, not to conceal our faith in hopes of gaining acceptance or influence. We’ll explore the idea of being discerning observers of culture versus becoming indiscriminate consumers. We'll discuss the significant difference between these two approaches and the importance of maintaining a biblical worldview. Today’s episode will also cover the power of the subconscious mind, with insights from Bill Buckner's story and the analogy of the Chinese Bamboo Tree, illustrating the importance of patience, persistence, and consistent effort in our spiritual growth. Join us as we unpack Romans 12:2 and discuss the call to be countercultural, the dangers of spiritual drift, and the importance of taking a stand for our faith with biblical examples. We’ll also delve into the current state of the church, the cultural war for minds, and the four greatest influencers on the next generation. Finally, we’ll conclude with practical steps to avoid neutrality and stand firm in our faith. Get ready for an enlightening and empowering discussion that will challenge you to live out your faith boldly and authentically in today’s culture. Let's dive in!

In today's enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative power of the mind and the spiritual journey toward fulfillment. We explore the profound message of Romans 12:2, which urges us not to conform to this world but to be transformed by renewing our minds. This scripture serves as a cornerstone for our discussion, illuminating the path to discerning God's will. We'll also dive into the intriguing world of neuroplasticity and how it relates to our spiritual practices. You'll discover how journaling, a simple yet powerful tool, activates the basal ganglia and the motor cortex, integrating our brain's emotional and logical aspects. This process not only aids in processing our emotions but also in aligning ourselves with our true purpose. Our journey doesn't stop there. We reflect on the wisdom of Solomon regarding the mind, understanding how biblical insights intersect with modern psychological concepts. And in a world where emotional turmoil often manifests as physical ailments, we turn to Proverbs 17:22 to understand the healing power of a joyful heart. Join us as we unravel these biblical truths, offering practical insights into harnessing the power of your mind and spirit for a more fulfilling life. Whether you're seeking spiritual growth, mental clarity, or emotional healing, this episode is a beacon of hope and guidance.

En el episodio de hoy, exploramos el poder transformador de la mente y el viaje espiritual hacia la realización, basándonos en el último sermón que prediqué este año en The Family Church en McAllen, Texas. Profundizamos en el mensaje de Romanos 12:2, que nos insta a no conformarnos con este mundo, sino a transformarnos mediante la renovación de nuestra mente. Esta escritura es la piedra angular de nuestra discusión, iluminando el camino para discernir la voluntad de Dios. Además, nos adentramos en el fascinante mundo de la neuroplasticidad y su relación con nuestras prácticas espirituales. Descubrirás cómo el escribir en un diario, una herramienta simple pero poderosa, activa el ganglio basal y la corteza motora, integrando los aspectos emocionales y lógicos de nuestro cerebro. Este proceso no solo ayuda a procesar nuestras emociones sino también a alinearnos con nuestro verdadero propósito. Nuestro viaje no se detiene ahí. Reflexionamos sobre la sabiduría de Salomón en cuanto a la mente, comprendiendo cómo las percepciones bíblicas se cruzan con los conceptos psicológicos modernos. Y en un mundo donde la turbulencia emocional a menudo se manifiesta como dolencias físicas, recurrimos a Proverbios 17:22 para comprender el poder curativo de un corazón alegre. Únete a nosotros mientras desentrañamos estas verdades bíblicas, ofreciendo perspectivas prácticas para aprovechar el poder de tu mente y espíritu para una vida más plena. Ya sea que busques crecimiento espiritual, claridad mental o sanación emocional, este episodio es un faro de esperanza y orientación.

Welcome to a transformative episode of "P23: Medicine for the Soul," where we journey through the restorative and comforting verses of Psalm 23. Just as medicine heals the body, Psalm 23 serves as a remedy for the soul's anxieties and uncertainties. Join us as we dive into this timeless scripture that brings solace, hope, and guidance in every season of life. In "P23: Medicine for the Soul," we explore how this beloved psalm acts as a soothing balm for the challenges we face. We'll uncover the hidden gems within each verse, shedding light on the profound promises and imagery of the Shepherd's care. Through the lens of Hebrew names for God, we'll deepen our understanding of the Shepherd's attributes that align perfectly with our needs. From green pastures that rejuvenate our spirits to the valley's shadow that reminds us of divine presence, we'll find strength and serenity in the Shepherd's guidance. Tune in as we uncover the transformative power of Psalm 23, which reminds us that even in the face of adversity, we can find refuge, restoration, and unshakable hope. If you're seeking a dose of inspiration, a moment of reflection, or simply a reminder of God's unfailing love, "P23: Medicine for the Soul" is your prescription for inner healing and renewal. Join us as we explore how Psalm 23 is more than just words—it's medicine for the soul that leads us toward a life of purpose, peace, and unwavering faith.  

In this empowering episode on Forgiveness", we embark on a profound exploration of the liberating power of forgiveness from a biblical worldview. Throughout this transformative journey, we delve deep into the extraordinary benefits that forgiveness bestows upon our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions, urging us to make the conscious choice of embracing forgiveness. Within this episode, we unveil five life-changing revelations that grace our lives when we choose the path of forgiveness: • Mental Liberation: Forgiveness liberates our minds from the heavy burden of resentment, granting us clarity and peace within. • Emotional Healing: The act of forgiveness brings profound healing to our emotional wounds, nurturing compassion and empathy while dissolving bitterness and animosity. • Physical Well-Being: Embracing forgiveness triggers a relaxation response, reducing stress and enhancing our overall physical well-being. • Spiritual Renewal: Forgiveness aligns us with divine principles, nurturing spiritual growth and deepening our connection with our Creator. • Restoration of Relationships: Through forgiveness, we open the doors to reconciliation, fostering harmonious relationships and building a sense of community. As we journey further into this episode, we also explore the dangers of choosing not to forgive: • Emotional Imprisonment: Refusing to forgive traps us in a cycle of emotional imprisonment, hindering personal growth and emotional freedom. • Spiritual Stagnation: Unforgiveness obstructs our spiritual journey, limiting the flow of divine grace and hindering spiritual growth. • Physical Impact: The weight of unforgiveness can manifest in physical health issues, impacting our overall well-being. Discover the profound transformation that awaits when we choose the path of forgiveness, setting ourselves free and unshackled. Welcome to this enlightening journey of forgiveness, leading us to a life of true liberation and profound peace.

In this impactful Father's Day sermon titled "Sharpening Arrows: A Father's Call to Equip His Children for God's Kingdom," the speaker emphasizes the vital role of fathers in raising their children to follow God's path. The sermon begins with personal anecdotes, highlighting fathers' profound influence on their children's lives. Gratitude and thankfulness are emphasized as essential attributes for believers, reminding fathers to approach their role with a thankful heart and recognize the blessings their children are. The message urges fathers to prioritize their children's salvation above all else, seeking God's guidance and interceding on their behalf. The sermon draws from scriptural references to outline the responsibilities of fathers: teaching, exemplifying Christ's love, providing for the family, spending quality time, showing compassion, and praying ceaselessly for their children. The speaker emphasizes that children are precious blessings from God, regardless of their ease of upbringing or challenges they may present. The significant impact of a father's love and presence is explored, surpassing even the influence of a mother. The sermon underscores the unique emotional connection a father's embrace brings, shaping a child's identity and emotional landscape. Furthermore, it highlights the unparalleled role of fathers in shaping their children's future destiny. Addressing the distinction between fathers and mothers, the sermon asserts that men and women are equal in Christ but have different roles and capabilities. Three core responsibilities of fathers—presiding, protecting, and providing—are highlighted, stressing their importance in maintaining family security and well-being. The sermon raises awareness about the growing issue of fatherlessness, citing alarming statistics and its profound impact on children. It discusses the increased risks children face in areas such as poverty, substance abuse, mental health disorders, crime, and teen pregnancy when they lack a father figure. Drawing from the priestly blessing in Numbers 6:24-26, the sermon encourages fathers to bless their children and choose a path of life, offering guidance and nurturing their potential. The speaker emphasizes the need for fathers to prioritize their families and lead by example, as their influence shapes their children's perception of God the Father. The sermon underscores the importance of connecting with children's hearts, earning their trust, and providing a safe and loving environment. It urges fathers to speak words of affirmation, offer physical touch, and demonstrate active love to their children. The impact of a father's relationship with God is highlighted as a frame of reference for children's perception of their Heavenly Father. The speaker challenges fathers to become skilled warriors, equipping their children for their God-given destinies. They are urged to be authentic, knowledgeable, and willing to guide their children to places they have never been. The power of words and the prophetic nature of a father's affirmation are emphasized, encouraging fathers to speak life and potential over their children. Four ways of parenting are discussed: rules without a relationship lead to rebellion, relationship without rules lead to aggression, absence leads to desperation, and the combination of rules and relationship brings blessings. The sermon stresses that fathers should embody qualities such as faithfulness, affection, teaching, humility, empathy, and resilience. Addressing fathers who may have experienced their own traumas, the sermon encourages them to seek healing and restoration, preventing their pain from negatively affecting their children's lives. It concludes by challenging fathers to repent, seek God's healing, and commit to their most important ministry—being a father.

This episode delves into the importance of forgiveness and the consequences of holding onto grudges and resentment. In this episode, we explore the power of forgiveness, drawing inspiration from the ultimate act of forgiveness demonstrated by Jesus Christ on the cross at Golgotha. Through the lens of Christ's example, we examine the spiritual, emotional, and physical impacts of refusing to forgive those who have offended us. We'll explore the harm that grudges and resentment can cause to our mental and physical well-being and the damage they can inflict on our relationships. Join us as we explore the beauty and power of forgiveness and how it can transform our lives and relationships. We'll delve into practical steps that we can take to overcome our grudges and embrace the freedom that comes with forgiveness. Whether you're struggling to let go of an offense or seeking to deepen your understanding of forgiveness, "The Great Exchange" is the perfect podcast episode for you.

In this episode, we hear the story of Clavius, a Roman centurion who was present at the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. Through Clavius' eyes, we witness the harrowing events of the crucifixion, including the mocking, the scourging, and the eventual death of Jesus. As the episode progresses, we learn more about Clavius himself - his background, his beliefs, and his inner struggle as he witnesses the events of that fateful day. Despite being a soldier of Rome, Clavius begins to question his own loyalties and beliefs in the face of the powerful and inexplicable events he witnesses. "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." - John 3:16 (NIV)  

One of the most powerful examples of enduring the process in order to receive the blessing can be found in the biblical story of Job. Despite being a righteous man, Job faced numerous trials and tribulations, including the loss of his wealth, his children, and his health. But even in the midst of his suffering, Job held fast to his faith in God, refusing to curse Him despite the urging of his friends. In Job 42:10, we see how God ultimately turned what the enemy meant for evil into good for Job. It reads, "And the Lord restored the fortunes of Job, when he had prayed for his friends. And the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before." Through his unwavering faith and endurance, Job was not only restored to health and wealth but was also blessed with double what he had lost. The story of Job serves as a powerful reminder that even in the darkest of times, there is hope for restoration and blessings if we trust in God and endure the process.

Este episodio fue grabado el 18 de Diciembre del 2022 en el cumpleaños # 80 de mi padre. Es un tributo lleno de sabiduria y testimonios de la misericordia de Dios.  

Prov 29:18 “Where there is no vision the people perish, but he that keeps that law happy is he” My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6) Vision is a powerful God-given gift that many have forsaken. Sight is of the eyes but vision is of the heart. (Helen Keller - the only thing worse than being blind is having sight yet no vision) Vision is not a “name it and claim type thing- vision goes hand in hand with God’s promise for you and your family.  People of great faith are able to envision God’s promises coming to fruition in their lives (affirmation and declaration without action is the beginning of insanity) A vision that comes into alignment (vertical) with God’s word will produce a blessed outcome, however, a skewed vision will produce undesirable results. Dysfunction creates a distorted perception of who God is and who we are in Him.   Amos 3:3: how can two walk together if they don’t come into an agreement (breakthrough won’t come for an undecided mind) Indecision is closely related to doubt and fear   Paul told the people of Corinth “for we walk by faith and not by sight” Our life is a matter of faith and not sight. Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen (Heb 11:1)… Corrie Ten Boom "Faith sees the invisible, believes the unbelievable, and receives the impossible.”  

The Darren Harrison testimony. Amazing! Listen to His voice.

La generación Z, también conocida como Zillennials, comprende a aquellos nacidos en los últimos años de los 90's e inicio de los 2000 (1995-2000) aunque aún no se encuentre bien definido. Aunque pareciera ser similar a los millennials la verdad es que tienen rasgos muy definidos. La Generación Z es la de los nativos digitales, sus integrantes nacieron con un móvil y una tablet bajo el brazo. Ven en el uso de la tecnología una virtud y el entorno digital como un contexto de la comunicación, entienden la tecnología de una forma diferente a los padres quienes tenemos una cultura con mayor tendencia a desconfiar de ésta. 

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are potentially traumatic events that occur in childhood.  ACEs are linked to chronic health problems, mental illness, and substance misuse in adulthood. However, ACEs can be prevented. Preventing ACEs can help children and adults thrive and potentially: Lower risk for conditions like depression, asthma, cancer, and diabetes in adulthood.   The 10 ACEs of Trauma Physical abuse. Sexual abuse. Emotional abuse. Physical neglect. Emotional neglect. Mental illness. Divorce. Substance abuse.

I use God’s mighty weapons, not those made by men, to knock down the devil’s strongholds. 5 These weapons can break down every proud argument against God and every wall that can be built to keep men from finding him. With these weapons, I can capture rebels and bring them back to God and change them into men whose hearts’ desire is obedience to Christ. 6 I will use these weapons against every rebel who remains after I have first used them on you yourselves and you surrender to Christ - 2 Cor 10:4-6