On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome Dr. Kris Marsh to talk about her Real Love Scenario.


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On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome back Amanda Seales to talk about her Real Love Scenario.

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In this special episode of Real Love Scenario, Rhonda and Dre hit pause on the usual format to have a heartfelt conversation about where relationships stand in 2025. As they prepare to take a short break from the show, they reflect on the cultural shifts, challenges, and recurring patterns they’ve seen in love, dating, and commitment this year. From the impact of social media to evolving gender roles and emotional intelligence in relationships — nothing is off limits. Tune in for an honest, insightful, and forward-looking conversation that sets the tone for where Real Love Scenario is headed next. Let’s talk about what’s real — and what we hope to restore.

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What would you do if the love of your life from college reached out a decade later with a handwritten letter? In this emotional episode, a listener shares how her old flame—now a father and no longer engaged—came back into her life in the most unexpected way. After ten years of silence, she’s asking: Is it ever too late for love? Dre and Rhonda weigh in on whether this is a risky backslide… or a rare shot at real, grown-up love.

💌 Share your thoughts in the comments — is she romantic or reckless?
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In this week’s Real Love Scenario, we’re unpacking a deeply emotional and complex situation—how do you support a friend who’s living in denial? Our listener shares the story of a close friend who’s been pretending to be married to her ex for years. From wearing a ring to using his last name and even planning to speak publicly about relationships, she’s built an entire life around a lie. But with the ex now in a serious relationship with someone else, the stakes are higher than ever. Is this a cry for help rooted in fear and unmet emotional needs? Or is it a dangerous path that could lead to public embarrassment and personal heartbreak?

Join us as we explore: 

💬 When honesty becomes an act of love

🧠 How to approach tough conversations with compassion

💔 The cost of protecting someone from the truth We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments—What would you do?

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In this Real Love Scenario, we dive into a relationship dilemma that’s all about boundaries—or maybe double standards. Her boyfriend has a rule: no new friends after the relationship starts. The catch? He already had close female friends, but she didn’t have many friends at the time… and now she’s expected to just accept that. Is this a fair boundary or a one-sided control tactic? How do you get your partner to understand when something feels emotionally imbalanced? And where do we draw the line between respect and restriction in a relationship?

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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we unpack a heartbreaking story from a listener who gave everything — emotionally, financially, and mentally — to someone who couldn’t give the same in return. After a long-distance relationship turned live-in, she discovered he was still entertaining his ex and other women. Despite her love and support, he chose to leave without a word and claimed he preferred relationships that required “less.” Now in therapy and on a journey to heal, she’s left asking the question so many of us face after a painful breakup: Was it me? Or was he never capable of loving me in the first place?

💬 Let us know in the comments: What do you think — was she asking for too much, or was he not ready for real love?

🧠 Topics Discussed:
• Emotional labor in relationships
• Long-distance love & false promises
• Being the giver in a one-sided relationship
• Healing, therapy, and self-worth
• When love isn’t enough

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In this insightful episode of Real Love Scenarios, our co-host Rhonda is joined by special guest Mac Stanley Cazeau, a licensed mental health counselor with a focus on couples therapy, communication skills, and infidelity recovery. As they navigate a listener's heartfelt dilemma involving a possible separation and the future of their 7-year-old son, Mac provides expert advice on prioritizing the child's well-being. They delve into the importance of therapeutic communication, the emotional needs in relationships, and the often-overlooked impacts of infidelity.

Tune in for a thoughtful discussion aimed at fostering healthy, sustainable relationships even in the face of significant challenges.

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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we tackle a tough question from a listener who’s dealing with a boyfriend who has a serious issue with her wardrobe. He claims her style disrespects their relationship — but is this about love and boundaries… or control and insecurity? Rhonda and Dre dive deep into the difference between expressing preferences in a relationship and crossing the line into controlling behavior. Is it ever okay to ask your partner to change how they dress? How do you tell the difference between healthy compromise and manipulation? If you’ve ever questioned whether your partner’s “requests” are reasonable or a red flag, this conversation is for you.

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In this raw and emotional episode, we dive deep into the realities of toxic love and the cost of carrying more than you should in a relationship. A 22-year-old woman wrote to us, sharing her heartbreaking story of emotional trauma, financial burden, and ongoing betrayal.

We talk candidly about:
• Why staying in toxic relationships keeps us stuck
• The mental toll of financial stress in love
• The danger of taking on too much, too soon
• What real support looks like when you’re healing This conversation isn’t just for her—it’s for anyone who has ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or felt too responsible for someone else’s potential.

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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda unpack the emotional fallout of a listener’s 30-day relationship that started with intense passion and ended without warning. What happens when you move fast, believe it’s real, and get left holding the emotional weight alone? They explore the dangers of rushing connection, the importance of emotional sobriety, and how to protect yourself from manipulation masked as love. They also answer a powerful viewer question: “How do I know if what I’m feeling is trauma… or truth?” — and share why therapy might be the most important part of healing.

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In this raw and deeply personal episode, we explore the story of a man caught between ambition and intimacy. As he navigates the pressures of a demanding master’s program, a casual relationship has unexpectedly turned into something much more complicated. When your time, energy, and emotional bandwidth are maxed out, how do you decide between what you need and what someone else wants? Dre and Rhonda unpack the reality of modern relationships, emotional responsibility, and the hard decisions that come when timing just isn’t on your side.

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In this powerful episode, Dre and Rhonda dive deep into the complexities of intimacy in relationships. They tackle a listener’s dilemma about not enjoying oral sex from her otherwise perfect boyfriend, emphasizing the importance of honest communication in the bedroom. Dre breaks down the 80/20 rule in relationships and why non-sexual intimacy is just as crucial as physical connection. The hosts share practical tips on how to talk about your desires without awkwardness and why setting realistic expectations is key to a fulfilling love life.

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In this deeply emotional episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener’s heartbreaking dilemma—her best friend’s husband has been unfaithful and now wants to start a family with his mistress, while she struggles with infertility.

Joined by Dr. Lara and Memi from Marriage Pinnacle, they unpack:
🔹 The emotional and psychological toll of infidelity
🔹 Cultural and societal pressures around marriage & fertility
🔹 How to support a friend while maintaining personal boundaries
🔹 The importance of mental health and community in navigating relationship crises

Can a marriage survive this level of betrayal? How should friends step in without overstepping? This conversation is raw, real, and necessary. Stay tuned until the end for insights into Chats from the Peak, a podcast fostering deep relationship discussions, and their community-building initiatives designed to strengthen love and connection.

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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Ronda tackle a deeply relatable relationship dilemma: How do you support a mentally exhausted partner when resources are tight? Ronda opens up about feeling sleep-deprived, while Dre shares his own struggles with needing space after a long day. Together, they unpack a listener’s story about a man struggling to help his stay-at-home partner who is feeling overwhelmed—while also dealing with the financial strain of high daycare costs.

💡 Key insights in this episode:
• How to create a work-life balance that works for both partners
• The power of time blocking & prioritization
• Why asking for help from family & friends is a game-changer
• Crafting an “escape plan” for mental & emotional relief
• Building a partnership that fosters appreciation & safe spaces

The episode wraps up with viewer shoutouts from across the country and an open invite to share your own Real Love Scenarios. Drop your thoughts in the comments & let’s talk! 

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💰 How important is financial stability in a relationship?
💔 How do you support a grieving partner while also prioritizing your own needs?
🗣 When is it time for a serious conversation—or even professional help?
💍 Does the approach change in a marriage versus a dating relationship?

Join the discussion as we unpack the complexities of love, support, and personal fulfillment in relationships. Drop your thoughts in the comments—what would YOU do in this situation?

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Navigating Love After Incarceration: Real Love Scenario Goes Live!

Join Dre and Rhonda in the inaugural live episode of Real Love Scenario as they dive into a listener's heartfelt query about dating a partner with a significant past. They discuss the complexities of emotional regulation, compatibility versus chemistry, and the unique challenges faced by those reentering society after long-term incarceration. Engage with the lively chat, hear diverse perspectives, and gain valuable insights on whether love can truly conquer all. Tune in every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and be part of the conversation!

In this virtual edition of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener’s shocking dilemma—after eight months of dating, she finds out her partner is still legally married for green card purposes!

😳💔 💬 How do you handle discovering such a major secret?
🔥 Is this a red flag or just a complicated situation?
🙏 Can love survive when trust is broken?

We’re breaking down the importance of integrity, the dangers of “convenient lies,” and how to balance personal truths while dating.

Plus, we share our own experiences with deception in relationships and offer advice on moving forward.
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After a heartbreaking end to a five-year relationship, I found myself in a whirlwind of emotions and complicated connections. From dating someone going through a divorce to working alongside my ex while navigating lingering feelings, life became a rollercoaster of rekindled intimacy and unresolved emotions. In this video, I share my journey of love, loss, and self-discovery, along with the practical advice I’m seeking to finally move forward. Join me as I unpack this emotional chapter and explore what it takes to heal and find clarity.

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In this episode, Dre and Ronnie dive into the complexities of starting fresh in the new year, discussing whether resolutions still hold value, and the importance of personal goals. The conversation shifts to a listener's dilemma involving an ex who demands financial help despite being unwilling to commit. Using personal experiences, Dre and Ronnie offer heartfelt advice on the necessity of setting boundaries and prioritizing one's own happiness. They also share updates on new projects for 2025, including the launch of a Relationship Restored community.

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