Love isn't something you can't explain. It's an experience you choose daily, hourly, every minute, every second. It's not something that happens to you on your blind side. It's an active part of your consciours decisions. Finding love is intentional work, it is not falling in love or hoping for love. It is all about taking conscious and active steps to find love (person) that complements you and vice versa for the goals you both want to achieve in the long term.