Welcome to PROPER, the comedy podcast that brings you genuine conversations about pop culture, dating, personal stories, and self-development. Hosted by Alexis Fernandez (@thankuexx), your new bestfriend, here to keep it raw, real and im(proper). Whether you’re looking for a good laugh, heartfelt advice, or just a dose of real talk, Lex has got you covered. Tune in every Tuesday for a mix of humor, honesty, and insightful discussions that will leave you properly entertained every week! Available wherever you stream your podcasts.
Head to @theproperpodcast on IG and @properpodcast on TikTok to stay tuned.
Website: msha.ke/properpodcast
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Welcome to PROPER, the comedy podcast that brings you genuine conversations about pop culture, dating, personal stories, and self-development. Hosted by Alexis Fernandez (@thankuexx), your new bestfriend, here to keep it raw, real and im(proper). Whether you’re looking for a good laugh, heartfelt advice, or just a dose of real talk, Lex has got you covered. Tune in every Tuesday for a mix of humor, honesty, and insightful discussions that will leave you properly entertained every week! Available wherever you stream your podcasts.
Head to @theproperpodcast on IG and @properpodcast on TikTok to stay tuned.
Website: msha.ke/properpodcast
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this week we have a proper guest - The Cinthia Medrano, aka @ball00nzz, aka the dominican demon, aka my heart, aka my bestieeeeee. which thankfully we have SOMETHIN since we been mia the last three weeks hehe - did you miss us? some of the proper topics discussed were: bald men, the art of titty suckin, robots, edging, dating in nyc in 2025, and more.
besides that, Cin and Lex spend about 20 min selling themselves on why they should be wifed up already and then another 20 min on why men are incapable. just somer proper girl talk between a Libra and a Virgo, with no filters. we hope you enjoy! see u next week xx
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inconsistency is triggering, which is why we’re showing up for you today - say @THANKULEXX !! this week we go from discovery mode (gay sht) to survival mode (straight sht) in the matter of seconds. while we love men, we’re realizing how our bodies can reject them, how they’re sometimes not enough, and how we barely wanna be their friends… but we LOVE THEM RIGHT ?! anyways, its the opposite of our HX3 week so our Proper Host is feeling pretty anti and is running on E. fill her tank up by sharing this episode and rating us 5 stars !! kk that’s all for now, ily ttyl !!!
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Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
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welcome back to another proper episode ! comment back if you even read this ??
Proper Recs:
Anxiety Tips
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
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For time purposes (and since yall dont read this anyway) our copy writing team (Lex) will not be writing anything *still writes something*... Things we remember discussing:
Proper Recs:
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
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this week we record on the last day of our cycle which makes us a lil insecure and a lil emo — so we’re really considering this a filler episode. still filled with proper wisdom, your hosts navigates her current emotions on grieving, being an “aspiring” influencer, and the lack of love and finances. inspiring you to show up as you are is the goal here and we hope you take that w you, if anything!!
Proper Recs:
- Reading before bed
- Building healthy habits ahead of seasons change
- NWTN Home (not sponsored)
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
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first episode since turning 30 and lex already got new rules in play (very virgo of her)!! this week we have some major PU’s of some characters we're leaving in our 20s (so this should be the last we hear about them EVER AGAIN) and with that, we carry the most valuable lesson which is to stop f*****g fans… anyways, your proper host is on some FINISH HIM mode and she’s bout to out some mf’s. adding to the gravesite if u will. hope you enjoy and see you next week!
Proper Recs:
- So This is War by Meghan Quinn
- Sending me a birthday present (cashapp $thankulexx, venmo thankulexx813)
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
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Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
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everyone say happy birthday to your proper host by sending her $5 EACH - she deserves it since she’s entering her 30’s without a proper nut, ride or relationship. this week we raw dog w ya a lil more than usual… it’s virgo szn and lex is honestly going off the rails (send her $5 if you care). so pls enjoy this very vulnerable, reflective and light hearted episode where we reflect on our 20’s and see what we wanna bring into our 30’s (money and nuts).
Proper Recs:
- The Summer I Turned Pretty
- Sending me a birthday present (cashapp $thankulexx, venmo thankulexx813)
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
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we’ve got major PU’s this week but they put the PEEEYEWWWW in PU …. meaning we got some stanky mf’s getting added on to the story board. we also have a returning character (???) unsure of the vibes this week tbfh but as always — we UP! always UP when it’s our Hx3 week !! every week we realize how women are the way and men are (g)ay. anyways that’s all - enjoy !!!
Proper Recs:
- Dr. Dennis Gross On The Spot Eliminator
- Dermalogica Age Renew SPF
- No Broke Boys
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
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Our TikTok: @properpodcast
Our Youtube: @thankulexx
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we’re back but don’t ask us no questions. sit back, listen, laugh and rate us five stars. talk to us on IG tho and in the YT comments. kk ily bye!!
*watch us on YT if you wanna feel like we're on FT!
Proper Recs:
- Spearmint Tea for PCOS and Acne
- The Hunting Wives on Netflix
- Yellow Picnic: use code PROPER
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
Our Instagram: @theproperpodcast
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Our Youtube: @thankulexx
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Trying our best to get an episode out to ya weekly, even if its proper nonsense - so here's that! Enjoy!
xx
Proper Recs:
Spearmint Tea
Love Island USA and my notes
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
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We got another Proper Chat this week with some major updates: Lex is officially intentionally fluid (happy pride !!!), Cognac is back…, and fck cancer szn & fck a cancer!!
We kept it short n sweet for you since we do not actually get paid to be here and we’re about to burn tf out (pls spread the proper word the way you spread your legs for that man who dont even like you!!!).
Anyways we UP, never down - even when we feel down we still UP tf!!!
Proper Recs:
Practicing Free Will
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
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Feels like summer hasn't started yet but like it’s already ended ??? Question mark ?? Anyone else not fckn w the vibes? Us to - so we’re here to give you a proper quickie (at leastttttt 25 min of course) so you can catch a proper nut and get a lil distraction. We’re talkin nonecents but we fear your host made a buck or two with her mini PP (Proper Point) of the week: they’re just not that into you … and it’s really them not you … anyways - we’re into you tapping in every week so thank you, love you, and C U Next Tuesday !!
Proper Recs:
Love Island USA
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
Yellow Picnic — code PROPER
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this week we are out with the men and in with the V’s… as in Virgos… and whatever body part that starts with a V… that’s right, we’re talking gay sht today yall happy pride!!!!
we did all this and kept it PG with our Proper Guest, Kia Little (@kialikethecarr) — pretty girl spokesperson for the spoiled! who went from dating big (headed) men to pretty (proper) women
before we move forward, we want you to ask yourself some questions: am i gay? are you gay? imagine your life in 5 years, will you be gay then? the answer here is yes but let us know if you disagree.
anyways happy pride, f*ck ICE - and C U Next Tuesday!!!!
xx
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Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
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This week we have a light episode with some Proper Updates (peeeeyewww) on your Proper Mother’s boring dating life (because she’s dating *only* men, not *enough* men? unsure), going out alone, and her regular life type shiii.
Anyways, y'all barely read this anyways so ... go head and go tap in, tune in, n turn ON!
Proper Recommendations:
Codes n links
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how tf has it been 3 months since we’ve talked?? idek but we are back and up and RAW!!! please bare with the first couple min of audio - still working on production hehe
anyways, wtf is up ??? apparently your host’s confidence and character development ?? let’s let her have it, i guess … but we got some mf stories for you !! stories as in, Lex literally trying to move through life with a big heart n a$$ and life beating her down so now she just makes them into funny stories… when this is in fact her life :)
regardless, we UP!!! will let this episode speak for itself :)
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Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
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we have our very first proper guest this week, Demi mf Mundo (@queendemi), and we play some games - not the games those men play… but some astrology games where you can play along - or with yourself!
alexis and demi are two cuban hyena’s in this week’s episode, sharing some confessions about previous (and unfortunately, still current) lovers, situationships, and entanglements (the E stands for earth sign men). in these situations you gotta ask yourself - will they let you be the STAR that you ARE (based on your star sign compatibility)… if they’re a Leo or Libra man then probably not.
besides that, lex caught a case and beat it, self represented, like the Virgo boss she is!!! she walked into the court room with a phat a$$ and a fat stack of papers defending her squatters rights!!!
anyways, we hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did. comment your thots and answers, leave us a 5 star review, and we’ll see you next tuesday!!!
Proper Recs:
Codes n links
Brand 92 Candles — use code PROPER
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Last time we talked it was about getting over a ghost. That was nothing compared to what we’re going over this week. It’s only right I cry on the internet for one purpose, and that’s for Nalah Bean Fernandez. The one not the two. My best friend. My daughter. My sugar pie. We filmed this episode 4 weeks post Nalah and I still sat on this for another 3 weeks - so thank you for baring with us during this transition. Also note we are testing a new mic so it goes fuzzy for a sec. Anyway, next week will be more light hearted and back to our regular proper schedule. Thank you for holding space for us and loving us. Nalah left me in good hands <3 xx
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Ever been ghosted? I know you have bc you’re hot and proper and the hottest PP’s are the ones who get ghosted (just like you’re host)! This week our Proper Point is How to Get Over a Ghost & Under a Man — going through the psychological impacts of ghosting, and how tf to get through it (over it) in multiple ways. Besides that, your PH (Proper Host) gets vulnerable through her PH (Proper High) with her PP (Proper P____) — are you keeping up??? HELLO!!!!? Anyways, let us know how you feel about this episode by messaging us on IG and sharing your thots, stories, and praise. C U Next Tuesday !!!! ily
Proper Recs:
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we don’t have much to say this week but that doesn't mean we wont have a proper chat, HELLO! honestly do you even read these? let’s hope this week is one of the ones you don’t :) enjoy !!! xx
Links for LA Relief:
save the animals: https://spcala.com/programs-services/dart/?bbFormId=178a1dfb-5482-4675-ba9e-4b315097f86f
food bank: https://www.lafoodbank.org/fire/
temporary donation center in NYC on jan 25th 2025 - 12pm-6pm - 31w 125th St New York, NY
Proper Recs:
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You ever enjoy your alone time so much that you feel like you got a crush?? That crush being yourself… Yeah - thats true celibacy we fear but that’s OK. It’s a path we’re choosing… Anyways, this week we get into a few boy updates, which boys??? THE boys… smh some made it over to 2025 but we’re putting an end to it !! (we hope) and we’ve been binge watching tv so we got mad recs for you! Besides that, our PP (Proper Point) of the week is: Are you addicted to stress? and how to rewire that thinking. We really hope you enjoy this week! Talk to us!! and C U Next Tuesday !!! xx
Proper Recs:
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