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Processing Trauma Out Loud
Kandace Rather and Sher Nyquist
180 episodes
6 days ago
Conversations about trauma and healing from two women who are doing the work. The scars of childhood trauma don’t fade away. The roots go deep. This trauma can wrap tentacles around every aspect of life, pushing and pulling us according to its will. These stories of harm have been hard wired into our brain. Yet, we don’t see the connection of childhood trauma and current day pain because it has been with us as far back as we can recall. We don’t realize this trauma is the source of our struggle to feel peace, joy, and love. Instead, we live with emptiness, loneliness, anxiety and shame. ​ The wounds of your trauma can be healed. It’s a process and we hope our podcast can help.
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Conversations about trauma and healing from two women who are doing the work. The scars of childhood trauma don’t fade away. The roots go deep. This trauma can wrap tentacles around every aspect of life, pushing and pulling us according to its will. These stories of harm have been hard wired into our brain. Yet, we don’t see the connection of childhood trauma and current day pain because it has been with us as far back as we can recall. We don’t realize this trauma is the source of our struggle to feel peace, joy, and love. Instead, we live with emptiness, loneliness, anxiety and shame. ​ The wounds of your trauma can be healed. It’s a process and we hope our podcast can help.
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Processing Trauma Out Loud
Overcoming Negative Beliefs | Episode 180 | 10.30.25

In today’s episode, Sher give us a pathway to overcoming the false accusations, judgements and condemnation that comes from the effects of childhood trauma. Slowing down and becoming aware is the first story. Listen in as Sher helps us get free from lies that have kept us in emotional pain. 


If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot comTikTok: @processingtraumaoutloudFacebook: /processingtraumaoutloudInstagram: processingtraumaoutloudYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

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6 days ago
16 minutes 14 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Time To Get Unstuck | Episode 179 | 10.23.25

In today’s episode, Sher speaks compassionately about the hope of healing and getting out of feelings of being stuck. When it comes to healing the effects of childhood trauma, it takes the good care and attunement of others to help us see our options and move forward. Listen in as Sher guides us to and through the new story we long for.


If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot comTikTok: @processingtraumaoutloudFacebook: /processingtraumaoutloudInstagram: processingtraumaoutloudYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

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1 week ago
18 minutes 16 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
The Healing Power of Art | Part Two | Episode 178 | 10.16.25

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher conclude  a two-part series on how the beauty of nature and art can play a significant role in our healing journeys. Whether its traveling to new landscapes, or simply enjoying the sun rising, creation can lead us to a sense of groundedness and peace. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discuss how nature has influenced their own healing journeys. 


If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot comTikTok: @processingtraumaoutloudFacebook: /processingtraumaoutloudInstagram: processingtraumaoutloudYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

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2 weeks ago
20 minutes 26 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
The Healing Power of Nature | Part One | Episode 177 | 10.9.25

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher conclude a two-part series on sharing where they find themselves on their healing journey. Listen in as Kandace interviews Sher on today’s episode. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot comTikTok: @processingtraumaoutloudFacebook: /processingtraumaoutloudInstagram: processingtraumaoutloudYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

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3 weeks ago
24 minutes 10 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 176 | Where We Find Ourselves | Kandace Interviews Sher

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher conclude a two-part series on sharing where they find themselves on their healing journey. Listen in as Kandace interviews Sher on today’s episode. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot comTikTok: @processingtraumaoutloudFacebook: /processingtraumaoutloudInstagram: processingtraumaoutloudYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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1 month ago
26 minutes 14 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 175 | Where We Find Ourselves | Sher Interviews Kandace

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher start 2-part series on sharing where they find themselves on their healing journey. Listen in as Sher interviews Kandace on today’s episode. 


If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot comTikTok: @processingtraumaoutloudFacebook: /processingtraumaoutloudInstagram: processingtraumaoutloudYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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1 month ago
28 minutes 34 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 174 | Attachment Wounding Wrap-Up with Sher

In today’s solo episode, Sher concludes a series on attachment woundings and our attachment styles. Having earned secure attachments in our life is the goal to flourishing. Listen in and reach out for help if you’re ready to start the healing journey.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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1 month ago
19 minutes 54 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 173 | The Fearful Avoidant Attachment Wound

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher continue their conversation around attachment styles and woundings. The fearful avoidant wounding puts a person in a bind of longing for closeness in the relationship and fearing closeness when it comes. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discuss their experience with this particular attachment wounding. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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1 month ago
28 minutes

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 172 | Interview with Therapist Lisa on Attachment | Part 2

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher continue their interview on attachment with their dear friend Lisa. Lisa is a licensed therapist in the Chicago area. Her understanding of attachment wounds and healing helps has not only brought healing into her own life, but that of her clients. Lisa is available for online clients. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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2 months ago
21 minutes 18 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 171 | Interview with Therapist Lisa on Attachment

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher interview their dear friend Lisa. Lisa is a licensed therapist in the Chicago area. Her understanding of attachment wounds and healing has not only brought healing into her own life, but that of her clients. Lisa is available for online clients. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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2 months ago
20 minutes 54 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 170 | Designed For Connection: Anxious Attachment Wound

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher continue their discussion around attachment wounds that lead us to our attachment styles. Having an anxious attachment wound comes when a child experiences the unpredictability of their needs being met. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discuss Part 3 of being designed for connection. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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2 months ago
24 minutes 32 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 169 | Designed For Connection: Avoidant Attachment Wound

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher continue their discussion around attachment wounds that lead us to our attachment styles. Having an avoidant attachment wound comes when a child experiences repeated rejection around their needs being met. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discus part two of being designed for connection. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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2 months ago
21 minutes 48 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 168 | Designed for Connection: Secure Attachment

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher make their way back to one of their favorite topics. Understanding our attachment wounds, how they developed, and how to heal them is changing peoples’ lives every single day. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discuss what it means and feels like to live with a secure attachment. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #attachment

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3 months ago
22 minutes 34 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 167 | The Brokenhearted - Blessing Our Good Desires

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher wrap up their discussion on the topic of brokenheartedness. Most often, underneath our broken heart is the pain of needs not being met. Listen in as Kandace and Sher explain how blessing our good desires can help us ask for what we need in ways that both protect ourselves and others.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #relationships

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3 months ago
24 minutes 50 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 166 | The Brokenhearted - Anger & Desire

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher continue their discussion around the topic of brokenheartedness. In a recent experience of brokenheartedness, Kandace processes how anger helped her slow down and listen for what she needed. Listen in as Kandace and Sher explain how working with our parts helps bring relief to the burdens we carry. 

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #relationships

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3 months ago
22 minutes 32 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 165 | The Brokenheartedness We Carry

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher start a three-part series around the topic of brokenheartedness. Often times in life we experience heartbreak from a very young age, even from the womb. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discuss what it means to care for the parts of us who carry the weight of being brokenhearted.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #relationships

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3 months ago
21 minutes 36 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 164 | Group Retreat & IFS | Building Relationships

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher conclude their discussion around the positive impact IFS can have in relationships and group dynamics. When we understand that every person has parts that show up in relationships in different ways, we can be curious and seek to understand more. Listen in as Kandace and Sher discuss why they love using IFS as a way to build healthy relationships.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #relationships

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3 months ago
18 minutes 56 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 163 | Group Retreat & IFS | Sher's Experience

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher process their time together at a recent group retreat. Through the lens of IFS, we can notice when we get triggered and seek the repair we need in order to feel safe again. Listen in as Kandace talks with Sher about Sher’s experience of being triggered during the retreat and the beauty of bringing it to the group for repair.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #withness

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4 months ago
18 minutes 55 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 162 | Group Retreat & IFS | Kandace's Experience

In today’s episode, Kandace and Sher process their time together at a recent group retreat. Through the lens of IFS, we can notice when we get triggered and seek the repair we need in order to feel safe again. Listen in as Sher talks with Kandace about Kandace’s experience of being triggered during the retreat and the beauty of bringing it to the group for repair.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #withness

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4 months ago
23 minutes 40 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Episode 161 | The Healing Power of With-ness

In today’s episode, Sher discusses what with-ness means on this journey of healing from childhood trauma. Listen in and be sure to reach out if you need support to start your own healing journey.

If you have a chance, please rate and review this podcast on your preferred streaming service. Your feedback is extremely valuable and contributes to the success of this podcast.

Email: kandacesher at gmail dot com
TikTok: @processingtraumaoutloud
Facebook: /processingtraumaoutloud
Instagram: processingtraumaoutloud
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdXcQkR0sd2f9c8Lo_c_3Og

Sound Engineer: Jeremiah Jones, Audistory, LLC | https://www.facebook.com/YourAudistory/

#trauma #freedom #podcast #ptsd #cptsd #ifs #therapy #healing #power #withness

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4 months ago
16 minutes 11 seconds

Processing Trauma Out Loud
Conversations about trauma and healing from two women who are doing the work. The scars of childhood trauma don’t fade away. The roots go deep. This trauma can wrap tentacles around every aspect of life, pushing and pulling us according to its will. These stories of harm have been hard wired into our brain. Yet, we don’t see the connection of childhood trauma and current day pain because it has been with us as far back as we can recall. We don’t realize this trauma is the source of our struggle to feel peace, joy, and love. Instead, we live with emptiness, loneliness, anxiety and shame. ​ The wounds of your trauma can be healed. It’s a process and we hope our podcast can help.