Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
Nicole Weeks: PhD/Masters Provisional Psychologist, Mum of two, Science-Practitioner
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Science-based parenting. Join me as I learn through research and practice about babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and how we can form lasting and positive attachments with our children . If you have a child born since 2011, this podcast is for you. The first few episodes will focus on sleep, then I'll get into discipline, from there, I'll investigate questions that arise about my kids (born 2012 and 2014), and from my listeners.
PRP027 Sensitive Child: How to Help them Thrive Part 1
Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
35 minutes 57 seconds
9 years ago
PRP027 Sensitive Child: How to Help them Thrive Part 1
Show Notes: How to Help your Sensitive Child to Thrive
Do you have a sensitive child? Does she have major melt-downs especially after high excitement, or in a new or crowded place. Does he notice the little things? Does she sometimes seem shy? Being a sensitive child, and a sensitive person is a wonderful thing, if we just craft our environment and actions. Listen to this interview with Alane Freund to discover how to help your sensitive child to thrive.
Listen to this episode first, then check out How to Help your Sensitive Child to Thrive Part 2 here.
Summary
Highly Sensitive Children
Highly sensitive people are distinguished by the following characteristics:
Depth of processing: Reflect more than others about the meaning of life, decisions, ideas etc.
Over stimulation: Notice everything and therefore get overstimulated easily.
Emotional Responsiveness and Empathy: Stronger emotional reactions, easily moved to laugh, or cry.
Sensitive to subtle stimuli: Notice moods, subtle sounds, smells, tastes.
Sensory Processing Sensitivity Trait
Highly sensitive people and children are those with the sensory processing sensitivity trait. This trait is:
Common across species: Found in 15-20% of over 100 species, possibly present in all species.
Innate: Animals and people are born with it.
Adaptive: Every species need highly sensitive members to warn them of danger, to survive threats, and think more deeply about things.
Even present in prey animals: All horses are sensitive because they are prey animals, but still 15-20% are more highly sensitive. Tend to be more spooky, challenging, and don't like to be touched.
Equally common for males and females at least in humans.
Observed in both extroverts and introverts: 70% of HS people are introverts.
Expressed differently depending on the person/animal and environment.
Major advantages
Highly sensitive children and people are really wonderful as long as they look after themselves and limit over stimulation:
Ask really insightful questions.
Think deeply about issues.
Detect and warn of danger.
Stop to smell the roses.
Empathise and make deep connections with others.
Possible developmental challenges
Highly Sensitive Children experience similar developmental stages to other children, but these can be amplified. For example they can be (but aren't always):
Particularly fussy eaters.
Perfectionists: Prefer to do something once and make sure it is done right.
Difficult sleepers: Sleep difficulties due to over stimulation and over arousal. Screens and caffeine (even from chocolate) can be especially problematic. Can have greater sleep need.
Experience Social Challenges: Need to process new situations and places before entering and engaging with them.
Labelled "Shy": Can become labelled as shy. Tend to prefer quiet play.
Prone to tantrums, meltdowns, and other challenging behaviour when over stimulated: E.g. Get over stimulated when children at preschool get too loud and busy.
Parenting Challenges
Parenting a highly sensitive child can be challenging. In addition to the points above:
Childhood looks very different for a highly sensitive child. Some parents can struggle to accept this. E.g. HSC's may not want big birthday parties.
Hard to access the amount of patience that a highly sensitive child needs.
If an HSC's needs aren't met, behaviour becomes challenging
Takes longer to move into new environment.
Can still meltdown from overstimulation even when changes are gradual, they are well slept, and well fed.
If you suspect you have a highly sensitive child,
Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
Science-based parenting. Join me as I learn through research and practice about babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and how we can form lasting and positive attachments with our children . If you have a child born since 2011, this podcast is for you. The first few episodes will focus on sleep, then I'll get into discipline, from there, I'll investigate questions that arise about my kids (born 2012 and 2014), and from my listeners.
