Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
Nicole Weeks: PhD/Masters Provisional Psychologist, Mum of two, Science-Practitioner
33 episodes
8 months ago
Science-based parenting. Join me as I learn through research and practice about babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and how we can form lasting and positive attachments with our children . If you have a child born since 2011, this podcast is for you. The first few episodes will focus on sleep, then I'll get into discipline, from there, I'll investigate questions that arise about my kids (born 2012 and 2014), and from my listeners.
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Science-based parenting. Join me as I learn through research and practice about babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and how we can form lasting and positive attachments with our children . If you have a child born since 2011, this podcast is for you. The first few episodes will focus on sleep, then I'll get into discipline, from there, I'll investigate questions that arise about my kids (born 2012 and 2014), and from my listeners.
Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
14 minutes 41 seconds
9 years ago
PRP020: Possums Sleep Intervention Part 4
Show Notes: Possums Sleep Intervention Part 4
Dr Koa Whittingham (A collaborator on the Possums Sleep Intervention - www.possumsonline.com) shares her thoughts on the use of dummies, and dealing with separation anxiety and sleep for young toddlers.
Summary
Dummy use
The Possums Approach is that use of the Dummy is a personal decision.
It is best to wait until breast feeding is established.
Dr Whittingham's opinion is that Dummies are a labor saving device, like baby bouncers.
By all means use labor saving devices, just be aware that you are doing it.
Use them if they allow you to regain sanity and be more responsive throughout the day.
Don't use labor-saving devices as a replacement for your attention and time with baby.
Sucking for comfort is a very natural tendency. Consider what your boundaries are - sleep time only? Up to 6 months? 12 months? 18 months? 24 months?
Separation Anxiety and Sleep for young toddlers
It is natural for children to want to be with parents at night.
It's about balancing the child's desire to be with parents and parents' needs and preferences.
This is very young to require solo sleeping.
Consider the parent's values, needs, and desires. What is it about bed-sharing that is a problem?
Experiment with a range of options. Bedsharing, room sharing, night-time visits.
It is not forever.
At the end of the day - do what works. Once they are adults, no one will be able to tell whether they coslept for 1 year or 7 years.
Links
Possums Sleep Intervention: Possums Online, and Feed your baby to sleep - The possums sleep intervention new recommendations
The Discontented Little Baby book by Dr Pamela Douglas
First step in any good sleep intervention (understanding sleep biology): www.practicalresearchparenting.com/firststeps or sign up by clicking here.
Parenting from the Heart: www.koawhittingham.com.
Becoming Mum book by Dr Koa Whittingham
Sleep Options Wizard for 0-5 year olds
For more great resources on Mindfulness and ACT for parents, check out these links:
Free Mindfulness Meditation App for pregnant couples: Mind the Bump .Org .Au
9 Tips for Mindful Mothering
ACT: Taking Hurt to Hope – Struggling with attachment with Newborns
This is the 7th Episode in the series, here are links to the rest of the series:
PRP014: Angry Parents Part 1 Acting inline with values despite anger
PRP015: Angry Parents Part 2 Acting inline with values despite anger
PRP016: Becoming a Mother
PRP017: The Possums Sleep Intervention Part 1
PRP018: The Possums Sleep Intervention Part 2
PRP019: The Possums Sleep Intervention Part 3
PRP020: The Possums Sleep Intervention Part 4
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Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
Science-based parenting. Join me as I learn through research and practice about babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and how we can form lasting and positive attachments with our children . If you have a child born since 2011, this podcast is for you. The first few episodes will focus on sleep, then I'll get into discipline, from there, I'll investigate questions that arise about my kids (born 2012 and 2014), and from my listeners.
