In this bonus episode, Chanler is joined by her husband Ben and their wedding planner, Laura from Love, Laura. We discuss what it actually takes to plan a wedding that feels intentional, elevated, and true to you. From walking away from their original venue to rethinking the wedding party altogether, this conversation goes deep on the emotional, logistical, and aesthetic realities of modern wedding planning — with expert advice from Laura herself. Check out Love, Laura on Instagram www.instagram.com/lovelauraevents  Check out Love, Laura events www.lovelaura.co  (00:00:00) 💍 Where to Start — the foundation of a great wedding and why your planner actually matters (00:08:32) 🥂 Defining Your Style — avoiding trend traps, trusting your gut, and staying true to your vision (00:16:40) 🎻 Making It Meaningful — how to create a ceremony that feels intimate, not performative (00:22:13) 🪑 The Guest List Equation — setting boundaries, navigating family politics, and curating with intention (00:28:48) 🧠 Avoiding the Spiral — decision fatigue, emotional overload, and how to reset when it gets too much (00:37:05) 👗 Dress Wisdom — why it’s okay to change your mind, and how to find a look you actually feel good in (00:43:41) 📸 Capturing the Moment — trusting your team, letting go of the shot list, and being present (00:52:20) 💒 Final Advice — Laura’s golden rule, Ben’s hot take, and the one thing every bride should prioritize Please note this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.