On this episode of Pleasure Principles, we cut through the confusion around intimate content in modern relationships: When you send nudes or explicit material, what happens to consent when the relationship ends? Certified sexologist Mandy Hart lays out a clear, non-judgmental framework for digital consent—how to set terms before sharing, what “for your eyes only” actually means, and why consent can be erotic instead of awkward. We cover risk, responsibility, and repair after trust breaks, plus practical scripts that turn consent into connection. If you care about agency, safety, and honest intimacy online, this conversation is straight to the point. About the guest: Mandy Hart is a Certified Sexologist and founder of Hart’s Desire — Intimacy & Relationship Coaching. She blends behavioral science with trauma-informed, somatic methods to help people untangle shame, reclaim desire, and define intimacy on their own terms. Key takeaways: Consent isn’t a one-time checkbox. It’s a living agreement that should be revisited when context changes—especially at a breakup. Set terms up front. Before sharing any intimate content, state conditions plainly (e.g., “for your eyes only while we’re together; if we end, please delete”). Avoid assumptions on both sides. The sender risks unwanted retention; the receiver risks violating privacy. Clarity prevents harm. Name the data risk. Devices get lost, stolen, or hacked. Holding intimate files means you accept real security responsibilities. Make consent sexy. Turn asks into desire (“I want to… would that feel good?”). Agree on styles—explicit step-by-step, or “green until red” with a safe word/gesture. Center core desires. For many, being respected and asked lights up arousal more than any specific act. Consent communicates care. If shame shows up, name it. Hiding grows shame; speaking/writing it down begins release. Your choices don’t define your worth. After a breach, focus on repair. Validate impact, define next steps (deletion/notifications), and re-establish boundaries before deciding on continued contact. Connect with the guest: Website & scheduling (as mentioned in-episode): Visit Mandy’s site and use the Scheduling tab for a free consultation. Instagram: @harts.desire.coaching Email: mandy@harts-desire.com Want to be a guest on Pleasure Principles? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty—storyteller, survivor, wellness advocate—this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on: • Mental Health & Emotional Well-being• Mindfulness & Spiritual Growth• Holistic Healing & Conscious Living• Trauma Recovery & Self-Empowerment With over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, join us as we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™📧 Email: join@healthymindbyavik.com | podcast@healthymindbyavik.com🌐 Website: www.healthymindbyavik.com📍 Based in: India & USA 🎙️ Open to collaborations, guest appearances, coaching, and strategic partnerships. Let's connect to create a ripple effect of positivity. CHECK PODCAST S