On this episode of Pleasure Principles with host Avik Chakraborty, licensed marriage & family therapist and certified sex therapist Keri Green unpacks dating in your 40s, the paradox of hookup apps, and how presence—not perfection—drives connection. We dig into consent-first communication, de-shaming desire, creating safety in the body, and why long-term relationships thrive when partners evolve honestly. Practical, direct, and grounded, this conversation moves beyond buzzwords to simple tools you can use tonight. Optimized for YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn discovery: sex therapy, intimacy, dating after 40, relationship communication, mindful sexuality, consent, desire mismatch, ethical non-monogamy context, therapy for couples, body-based awareness.    About the guest   : Keri Green, LMFT is a licensed marriage & family therapist and certified sex therapist with 20+ years of clinical experience helping individuals and couples communicate needs, navigate desire differences, and build pleasure-positive, consent-led intimacy.    Key takeaways:  Dating later in life offers clarity and complexity: clearer self-knowledge, tighter schedules, and the need for intentional effort. Apps expand options but can fragment focus; honesty in profiles and staying present with one match at a time improves outcomes. Real intimacy starts with consent, comfort, and communication—before technique or timing. Presence is a skill: the same mindfulness that supports yoga or meditation supports more connected sex. De-shaming desire matters; explore preferences without judgment when they’re consensual and legal. Long-term relationships need updated tools: regular check-ins, shared definitions of intimacy, and acceptance that growth can change compatibility. Over-analysis drains spark; choose which issues merit energy and which can be let go. Reconnecting to your body can start in the shower: slow down, notice sensation, smell, and breath—no sexual outcome required. Therapists are human; personal experience can deepen empathy but doesn’t replace doing the work as partners. If a relationship ends after honest work, it can still be a healthy outcome—prioritize safety, authenticity, and mutual respect.   How to connect with the guest   Website: kerigreenlmft.com    Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik   Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.     Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty—storyteller, survivor, wellness advocate—this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on: • Mental Health & Emotional Well-being• Mindfulness & Spiritual Growth• Holistic Healing & Conscious Living• Trauma Recovery & Self-Empowerment With over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, join us as we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™📧 Email: join@healthymindbyavik.com | podcast@healthymindbyavik.com🌐 Website: www.healthymindbyavik.com📍 Based in: India & USA 🎙️ Open to collaborations, guest appearances, coaching, and strategic partnerships. Let's connect to create a ripple effect of positivity. CHECK