Shifting from Performative to Embodied Sex: A Guide to Authentic Pleasure In this episode of Pleasure Playbook, Jenna & Steph talk all things performative sex, including faking it, stroking a mans ego and why you might be trying to look like a porn star with your lover. They share personal anecdotes and practical tips on transitioning from performative to embodied sex.
There is a sweet little treat at the end of this episode. Enjoy a guided meditation experience to drop into your body and out of the mind, getting more friendly with embodied pleasure.
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Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Faking It 02:06 Personal Stories of Faking Orgasms 03:30 The Impact of Media and Education 07:09 Empowerment and Authenticity in Sex 09:15 Exploring Reasons Behind Faking It 11:27 The Importance of Communication 14:11 The Evolution of Female Pleasure 23:01 Performative vs. Embodied Sex 26:34 Overcoming Insecurities in Intimate Moments 27:28 Personal Stories and Body Positivity 28:54 Understanding Performative Sex 30:53 The Essence of Embodied Sex 35:45 Practical Tips for Authentic Intimacy 38:44 Communicating Needs and Boundaries 44:31 Exploring Pleasure Without Goals 46:53 Embodiment Practices and Final Thoughts