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Pinoy Love Language
Roanne de Guia-Samuels, LMFT
53 episodes
4 days ago
Roanne is a licensed Psychotherapist mom and an immigrant twice in America. She has frequented 500 Filipino homes and is the author of the book: 5 Pinoy Love Languages. Episodes include a deep dive into cultural nuances rarely talked about in Filipino American Psychology, trauma-informed conversations AND her fav Pinoy Love Languages, the unique ways Filipinos seek and express affection.
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Roanne is a licensed Psychotherapist mom and an immigrant twice in America. She has frequented 500 Filipino homes and is the author of the book: 5 Pinoy Love Languages. Episodes include a deep dive into cultural nuances rarely talked about in Filipino American Psychology, trauma-informed conversations AND her fav Pinoy Love Languages, the unique ways Filipinos seek and express affection.
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Pinoy Love Language
EP #52: The Pity (Awa) Trap & Transforming in Into Empathy

The problem with pity as it relates to your Filipino relationships.


In this episode, we will explore-

  • What is Awa(Pity)
  • How does culture shape Awa in you and your family?
  • What's the difference between Awa and Empathy
  • Harm that Can Result from Awa
  • Reshaping Awa to Empathy
  • ...atbp


This episode is brought to you by the your Free Assessment Guide for Filipino Women Navigating Guilt, Emotional Burnout, & Boundaries.

Your guide will assess how much emotional burnout you're carrying and give you actionable tips to break the cycle of pleasing others, while denying yourself to finally feeling good enough.

Download your guide free here:

https://www.kalamansijuice.com/filipino-women-with-family-guilt

To read articles on the Kalamansi Juice Blog, visit:

https://www.kalamansijuice.com/blog

To book a Free Consult with Roanne:

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne

Salamat po sa pakikinig,

Roanne

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1 month ago
16 minutes 6 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #51: Managing Difficult conversations: Political Views Disagreement

In this episode, we will explore-

  • research why we spend less time in family gathering especially with loved ones with differing political views
  • Reasons why we disagree and the different conversation styles used by immigrants and Filipino Americans.
  • Ways to have better connection despite disagreements with political views.
  • atbp....

This episode is brought to you by Story Therapy, a holistic approach to your healing journey that incorporates mind-body-soul approach. To see if this is a good fit for you. Book a free consult with Roanne-


https://roannelmft.theraplatform.com/#/scheduler/ui


To read more topics on Filipino culture, relationship, cultural nuances and on mental health, visit the KJ blog


https://www.kalamansijuice.com/blog


Ingat,

Roanne


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2 months ago
14 minutes 20 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #50: Managing Challenging Relationships: Filipino In-Laws

In this episode, we explore-

  • Difficulties navigating relationships with Filipino in laws when it comes to boundaries
  • Why Filipino parents seem to discount your personal space
  • What you can do today today to navigate this challenging relationship with love.

If you need support navigating your relationship with your partner and how it relates to navigating relationships with your in-laws, book a free consult in the link below-

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne


Salamat po sa pakikinig.

Ingat lagi,

Roanne


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3 months ago
13 minutes 43 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #49: Filipino Martial Law Parenting

EP 49

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6 months ago
21 minutes 5 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #48: Why Healing Entails Using Your Imagination NOT just Thoughts

Are you running with an old, outdated edition of your story that keeps you safe but limits your life to be the greatest-story-ever-told? In this episode, let's explore:

  • How you have been conditioned to believe an outdated story about yourself
  • The power of your imagination to update your story
  • The Framework I use to help others reclaim their TRUE story
  • How to align your IMAGINATION to your desire

Links Mentioned by Roanne

Visit the kalamansijuice blog

Get Weekly Love Notes/Newsletter from Roanne

Kalamansi Juice Academy for Courses and Offerings

To Schedule a Complimentary Consult with Roanne


Salamat po sa Pakikinig,

Roanne

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8 months ago
14 minutes 31 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #47: Common Misunderstandings in Interracial Filipino Couples

47

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1 year ago
17 minutes 45 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #46: The Performer Who Hates to Perform

46

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1 year ago
19 minutes 40 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
Ep 45: Why Healing Takes More Than Changing Your Thoughts

Are you running with an old, outdated edition of your story that keeps you safe but limits your life to be the greatest-story-ever-told?  In this episode, let's explore:

  • why you will need more than changing your thoughts to change your story
  • the power of your imagination, for better or worse
  • aligning your imagination to your desire
  • and more....atbp
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1 year ago
15 minutes 27 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #44: Inner Child Wounds: When Pain Isn’t Fluent In Words

What do you do when you want to evade or can't completely remember your childhood memories? You want to transform your inner critic, your wounds, but at a loss of words.


In this episode, let's explore:

  • the hurting child turned hurting adult
  • why you need more than talk therapy
  • how to give voice to your inner woundings or trauma
  • and instill hope for your brighter future.

Links mentioned:

5 Day Inner Child Prompts (free)

https://tinyurl.com/innerchild5day


Set up a complimentary consult with Roanne

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne


To receive weekly lovenotes from Roanne

https://bit.ly/lovenotesfromRoanne

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1 year ago
16 minutes 27 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #43: CULTURE AS AN EXCUSE PART 2

When culture is a better explanation than not giving an explanation or feeling what needs to be felt.

This is part 2 of Culture as Excuse episode.

In this episode, let's explore

  • the purpose of culture
  • is it me or my culture?
  • who's behind the mask of culture
  • atbp...many more

To read the blog article:

https://kalamansijuice.com/culture-as-excuse-using-culture-as-a-fallback-for-unprocessed-trauma/


To see Roanne's offerings:

https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/


Masterclass on Pakikiramdam

https://tinyurl.com/pakiramdammasterclass


salamat po sa pakikinig (thanks for listening)!

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1 year ago
12 minutes 25 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #42: CULTURE AS AN EXCUSE? Trauma or the Filipino Culture

When culture is a better explanation than not giving an explanation or feeling what needs to be felt.


In this episode, let's explore

  • the purpose of culture
  • is it me or my culture?
  • who's behind the mask of culture
  • atbp...many more

To read the blog article:

https://kalamansijuice.com/culture-as-excuse-using-culture-as-a-fallback-for-unprocessed-trauma/


To see Roanne's offerings:

https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/


Masterclass on Pakikiramdam

https://tinyurl.com/pakiramdammasterclass


salamat po sa pakikinig (thanks for listening)!

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1 year ago
30 minutes 14 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #41: KUSANG LOOB

Why does the word "loob" often use in the Filipino language?

Is it indicative of the inner workings of the Filipino psyche?


In this episode, let's explore-

  • the concept of loob
  • What does it say about the worldview of the Filipino?
  • What is kusang loob?
  • How does the concept of kusa cause conflict in the Filipino/x homes?
  • Ways to reconnect with this indigenous trait while adapting to the call of the times.

Links you might be interested in-

Kalamansi Juice Blog

Pakiramdam Masterclass: Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words

5 Pinoy Love Languages E-Book

Kultura Cards


Salamat sa Pakikinig (thanks for listening),

Roanne

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2 years ago
15 minutes 14 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #40: LAKAS NG LOOB: FILIPINO INDIGENOUS TRAIT

Why does the word LOOB appear so often in the Filipino lexicon? The English language do not do justice in its translation. At best, I translate it as the innermost workings of the Filipino psyche/soul.


In this episode, let's explore:

  • the concept of loob and its indigenous qualities
  • what it means to be Malakas ang Loob
  • How this trait is useful to the Filipinos in the motherland
  • How this trait can be useful to the Filipinos in America/diaspora
  • ...atbp

Links Mentioned by Roanne in the show-

Pinoy Love Language Ebook

https://tinyurl.com/5PinoyLoveEbook

Masterclass on Pakikiramdam

https://tinyurl.com/pakiramdammasterclass


Kalamansi Juice Academy (Other Offerings)

https://kalamansijuiceacademy.podia.com/


To receive Roanne's weekly (almost) love notes;

https://www.subscribepage.com/kjblogupdate


Salamat sa pakikinig (thanks for listening),

Roanne



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2 years ago
15 minutes 20 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #39: MOM IS GETTING THERAPY: WHAT TO DO

In this episode, we explore, how to support a Filipino mom in her healing journey through accessing therapy for herself.


Let's talk about:

  • How to be supportive from the lens of an immigrant Filipino receiving therapy
  • How to ask questions about mental health care while giving space to save face
  • What potential questions to ask to without asking direct questions
  • ...atpb

If you're interested in scheduling a complimentary consult with Roanne, schedule here-

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne

FREE 5 Day Inner Child Journal Prompt

https://tinyurl.com/innerchild5day

READ THE BLOG

www.kalamansijuice.com


Salamat sa pakikinig,

Roanne

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2 years ago
12 minutes 56 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #38: DIFFICULT FILIPINO RELATIONSHIPS: ON SETTING BOUNDARIES

Healthy boundary setting is essential but when its not culturally relevant can bring more harm to the relationship than good.


In this episode, let's explore-

  • What does boundary mean to you?
  • Cultural nuance of boundary setting and space in the Western vs Filipino culture
  • Blessing and Curse with the concept of interdependence
  • Reframing your boundary setting to a more culturally responsive approach. Your improve your agency and continue to honor your elders and relatives along the way.


Links mentioned by Roanne:

30 Days Inner Child Playground: 30 Days to Playful Restoration Journal Prompts

Read the Bloghttps://kalamansijuice.com/blog/ Schedule a 30 minute complimentary consult with Roanne here.


Salamat sa Pakikinig (thanks for listening),

Roanne

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2 years ago
22 minutes 41 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #37: UNCOLONIZE TO DECOLONIZE

DECOLONIZATION is not a linear process but a route that is similar to a rotonda (round-about) where there are multiple entry points and exit routes.


In this episode, let's explore:

  • the Myth around a linear path to DECOLONIZATION
  • the difference between (the mindset) UNCOLONIZED vs COLONIZED Filipinx
  • The Path to UnCOLONIZE to DECOLONIZE and the many in-betweens
  • The Eastern teaching on UN-Colonizing to DeColonize
  • ...atbp!

Mentioned links in this episode:

The Inner Child Playground Course: 30 Days to Playful Restoration

https://tinyurl.com/innerchildheal


The Kalamansi Juice Blog

https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/


To schedule a complimentary 30 minute consult with Roanne

https://roannelmft.theraplatform.com/#/scheduler/ui


Maraming Salamat po sa pakikinig (thanks for listening)!


Roanne



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2 years ago
17 minutes 14 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #36: THE UNCOLONIZABLE FILIPINO

There is no doubt the years of colonization has deeply influenced the Filipino but has it completely colonized the Filipino psyche?


In this episode, let's explore:

  • the uncolonizable Filipino
  • his practice and ancestral leaning to pre-colonial knowing
  • how the uncolonizable Filipino manifests itself in everyday life
  • the myth that the Filipino today can be wholly understood by his colonized mind
  • atpb...

Links mentioned by Roanne:


PAKIRAMDAM MASTERCLASS

https://tinyurl.com/pakiramdammasterclass


INNER CHILD PLAYGROUND: 30 DAYS TO RESTORATION

https://tinyurl.com/innerchildheal


TO READ THE BLOG

https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/


TO SCHEDULE A COMPLIMENTARY CONSULT WITH ROANNE

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne


Please leave your stellar review so that others can find our message!


Salamat sa pakikinig (thanks for listening),

Roanne



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2 years ago
17 minutes 45 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #35: ISLAND TALK IN AMERICA PART II

This is Part II of Island Talk , the first part is the very first episode of the Pinoy Love Language podcast. thank you po for listening!


In this episode, we will explore-

  • Ancestral communication style of early (indigenous) Filipinos
  • Why the Filipino speaks in codes
  • When what is conveyed is the opposite of what they mean. Ay sus!
  • How to listen in to stories beyond what is articulated
  • ...atbp.

Links mentioned by Roanne

To purchase your KULTURA CARDS

 https://bit.ly/kulturacards

To schedule a complimentary consult with Roanne

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne

To read the Kalamansi Juice Blog

https://kalamansijuice.com/blog/


Share our feedback and your thoughts with Roanne at info@kalamansijuice.com


Marami pong salamat sa pakikinig (thank you for listening),

Roanne





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2 years ago
19 minutes 14 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #34: SHADOW SIDE OF KAPWA

Kapwa is the value of deep interconnected-ness from which a Filipino traditionally navigate his world from. It is the ability to see someone as a part of you and you in them. In today's episode, we will explore the light and shadow side of this core value & why it can be a challenge to adhere to with our kapatids that are in diaspora.

 

In this episode, we will explore-

  • the beauty of the core value of kapwa
  • why it's both a survival and a thriving mechanism
  • the shadow side of kapwa
  • the cause of scarce cultural whisperers
  • ...atbp

Links mentioned by Roanne

To get weekly love notes from Roanne

Read the KJ Blog

5 Pinoy Love Language Ebook

Pakiramdam: Filipinos On Affection Beyond Words Masterclass 


If you'd like to receive 1:1 support/therapy, you can schedule a complimentary consult below:

https://tinyurl.com/consultwithRoanne


Maraming salamat for listening,

Roanne


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2 years ago
24 minutes 8 seconds

Pinoy Love Language
EP #33: THE ART OF RESPONDING

What's an artful way to respond to tita and her intrusive questions and comments? 

In this episode, we will explore-

  • Why Filipinos asks personal questions
  • How to enter spaces so that you can have a better cultural and familial experience
  • Strategies to artfully and gracefully respond to tita so you can both have a win-win interaction with each other
  • When to bring your shield in Filipino potlucks


Links mentioned by Roanne

Pakiramdam (Attunement) :Filipinos on Affection Beyond Words Masterclass

Kalamansi Juice Blog

For other Offerings

Kalamansi Juice Academy

Consider Subscribing to Get Weekly Love Notes from Roanne. Subscribe here.


Salamat po sa pakikinig (thank you for listening)!


Sa uulitin,

Roanne

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2 years ago
24 minutes

Pinoy Love Language
Roanne is a licensed Psychotherapist mom and an immigrant twice in America. She has frequented 500 Filipino homes and is the author of the book: 5 Pinoy Love Languages. Episodes include a deep dive into cultural nuances rarely talked about in Filipino American Psychology, trauma-informed conversations AND her fav Pinoy Love Languages, the unique ways Filipinos seek and express affection.