Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed by your child’s tantrums—like their emotions instantly trigger yours, and before you know it, you’re both melting down? I’ve been there too, mama. In this episode, I’m unpacking what’s really going on during those big emotional outbursts and how you can stay calm, connected, and confident even when your child loses it. We’ll talk about the nervous system science behind tantrums, how your calm presence helps your child’s brain return to peace, and why punishment doesn’t work the way we think it does. You’ll also hear a personal story from my own motherhood journey—one that taught me how fear, healing, and the Holy Spirit all play a role in helping us parent with grace. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t my child just calm down?” or “Why do I lose it when they do?”—this episode will bring clarity, compassion, and hope.  What You’ll Learn Why tantrums are a healthy and necessary part of your child’s development How to recognize your child’s (and your own) nervous system zones—green, red, and blue What’s really happening when kids “calm down” after punishment How to help your child process emotions through play and connection How healing your own emotional wounds allows you to parent with peace and presence  My Key Takeaway Tantrums aren’t proof that something’s wrong—they’re proof that your child’s body is doing exactly what it’s meant to do: release big emotions. My calm presence is what helps my child’s nervous system return to safety and peace. When I let God meet me in my own triggers, I can become the calm my child needs.  Reflect & Pray I encourage you to pause and reflect on these questions after listening: How do your child’s tantrums make your body feel? What old fears or stories rise up in you when your child loses control? How might God be inviting healing in you so you can show up with His peace? Take a moment to pray and ask the Holy Spirit to bring calm and compassion into those tender places.  Continue the Journey If this episode resonated with you and you’d like to go deeper, I’d love to walk alongside you in my 6-Week Peaceful Parenting Coaching Program. Together, we’ll uncover the root causes of reactivity, invite healing, and help you create a rhythm of peace and connection in your home. You can learn more at ListeningHearts.Family/Join. And if this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with a friend? Every share helps another mama find hope and peace in her parenting journey.  Scripture to Anchor Your Heart “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” — Exodus 14:14

If you’ve ever felt torn between wanting to stay calm and loving and needing to hold firm boundaries with your kids, you’re not alone. I know how tricky it can be to find that balance between grace and structure — especially when the chaos starts to rise! In today’s episode, I’m sharing three secrets to creating healthy, Christ-centered boundaries that protect your peace and help your children grow in wisdom and responsibility. We’ll talk about how to root boundaries in your values (not “because I said so”), how to know when to set them, and how to navigate consequences that teach rather than punish. You’ll walk away knowing how to create boundaries that actually build connection, not conflict — and reflect God’s heart for peace in your home. Take a few minutes after listening to pray through these reflection questions: What are our family’s top three values right now? Are our boundaries consistent with those values? Am I focusing on the yes behind every no? What skills are my children needing my support right now to learn, and how can I lovingly support them through my boundaries? If you’re ready to set peaceful, faith-filled boundaries that bring calm and connection to your parenting, I’d love to invite you to join my 6-Week Peaceful Christian Parenting Class. You can learn more and save your spot at 👉 ListeningHearts.Family/Join

Have you ever wondered, “How do I help my kids not lose it emotionally—and how do I keep from losing it when they do?”That was my question for a long time. I used to be caught in the cycle of reacting, feeling guilty, and hating how I showed up. I wanted so badly to parent differently than how I was raised, but I didn’t know how. I even hid in the bathroom during my kids’ tantrums just so I wouldn’t explode. But that’s not my story anymore. God has walked me through such a healing journey—and now I have tools that help me hold my emotions safely, so I can hold my children’s emotions safely too. In this episode, I’m sharing my 4-step process called The 4 S’s: Safe, Soothed, Seen, and Supported.We’ll talk about how to move from chaos and overwhelm into calm connection—by understanding our emotions the way God designed them and learning how to co-regulate with our kids. If you’re longing for calmer days and deeper connection with your kids, I think this episode will really encourage your heart. So grab your favorite warm drink, take a deep breath, and let’s dive in. In this episode, I talk about: My personal story of breaking free from emotional reactivity and guilt How our beliefs about emotions often start in childhood Seeing emotions not as “good” or “bad,” but as messengers God can use What the Bible shows us about how God honors our emotions (Psalm 56) The 4 S’s framework for emotional connection: Safe – calming your own body first so your child can borrow your calm Soothed – practical tools like prayer, deep breathing, movement, laughter, and hugs Seen – helping your child feel known, valued, and understood in their emotions Supported – gently guiding them toward growth after connection is restored Scriptures mentioned: Psalm 56:8 – God keeps our tears in His bottle Genesis 16 – “The God who sees me” Psalm 23 – How the Lord, our Shepherd, models the 4 S’s for us Reflect and pray: Which of the 4 S’s do I naturally offer my child? Which one do I need to grow in? How did my parents handle emotions when I was growing up, and how has that shaped me? What skills are my children needing my support to learn right now, and how can I lovingly guide them? Invitation:If you’ve been longing for more than just another parenting strategy—if you want heart transformation and real peace in your home—my 6-week personal coaching experience might be just what you need. It’s a sacred space to invite the Holy Spirit into your parenting story, heal what’s heavy, and build a peaceful rhythm in your family.👉 Visit ListeningHearts.Family/Join to learn more and sign up. If this episode encouraged you, would you take 30 seconds to share it with a friend who’s craving more peace and connection in her home too? And if you haven’t yet, please leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts—it means the world to me and helps other moms find this encouragement.  

Every Christian mom longs for her children to grow up loving Jesus — but what happens when fear whispers, “What if they don’t?” In today’s episode, we’re uncovering the powerful connection between secure attachment, identity in Christ, and raising Godly kids. You’ll learn how your loving presence and connection with your child shapes not only their emotional security but also their spiritual confidence and understanding of God’s love. Together, we’ll explore how to:💛 Bring your fears about your child’s faith under the care of Jesus🫶 Build secure attachment through warmth, connection, and trust🌿 Help your child form a lasting identity rooted in Christ If you’ve ever felt pressure to “get it right” in your parenting or worried that you might be pushing your kids away from faith, this episode will bring peace, perspective, and hope. So grab a cozy drink and a quiet moment and let’s rest in the truth that God’s got your kids, He’s got you, and through His grace… you’ve got this.

Is Proverbs really against gentle parenting? Today I’m diving into some of the most quoted “rod” verses—Proverbs 22:15, 23:14, and 26:3—and uncovering the Hebrew meaning and cultural context behind them. For years, these scriptures were used in my home to justify spanking, but as I’ve studied Hebrew and lived in Israel, I’ve discovered a very different picture. In this episode, I’ll share my own story of growing up under fear-based discipline, why I longed to parent differently, and how these verses actually point us toward authority rooted in wisdom, teaching, and guidance—not punishment. And ultimately, we’ll look at how Proverbs aligns with the heart of Jesus: strong yet gentle, full of grace and truth. If you’ve ever wrestled with how to reconcile the book of Proverbs with gentle, Christ-centered parenting, this conversation will give you fresh insight and encouragement. Takeaway: Parenting like Jesus means shaping hearts, not breaking wills. Link: www.listeninghearts.family/join

In today’s episode of Peaceful Christian Parenting, I’m sharing my story of lying as a child, the fear and shame that fueled it, and how God has been rewriting that story in my parenting. Together we’ll explore why children lie, what’s really going on beneath the surface, and how to create safety and connection so they feel free to tell the truth. Instead of punishing lies, I’ll show you how to pause, pray, and respond with mercy—building bridges of trust rather than walls of shame. We’ll also look at how God Himself responds to lies in Scripture, from Adam and Eve to Peter, and how His redemptive love can shape the way we parent today. If you’ve ever struggled with a child who lies, or carried your own childhood wounds around fear and dishonesty, this episode will encourage your heart with hope, healing, and practical tools for parenting in God’s love.

Do you ever feel powerless when parenting your strong-willed child? I know I did. My son’s determination pushed every button in me, and I often found myself in daily battles over everything from brushing teeth to eating meals. I had committed to not spanking, but I felt stuck—I didn’t want to overpower him, yet I didn’t know how else to lead him. In this episode of Peaceful Christian Parenting, I share the three shifts that completely transformed how I parent my strong-willed child: recognizing my own limiting beliefs, teaching the why behind our family boundaries, and letting go of rigidity to embrace flexible stability. I’ll also tell you a story of how these changes led to deeper connection—and even a sweet little book my son made for me called “Mom and Asher Best Friends.” If you’re tired of constant battles and want to see your strong-willed child’s determination as a gift rather than a problem, this episode will give you hope, encouragement, and practical steps to move from disconnection to connection.

In this episode of Peaceful Christian Parenting, I’m sharing how my view of obedience has been completely reshaped by the Hebrew meaning of the word—“to listen.” For years, I believed obedience meant quick, unquestioning compliance, and I even spanked for disobedience. But as I’ve grown in my walk with God, I’ve realized that obedience is not about fear or force—it’s about relationship. I’ll take you through what I’ve learned from Scripture, including the story of Jonah, and how God models obedience with patience, support, and love. You’ll hear how I now teach my children to thoughtfully listen and respond rather than blindly obey—and how I’ve learned to support them step by step instead of punishing or labeling them. If you’ve ever wondered how to handle disobedience without resorting to fear or punishment, this episode will give you practical tools and a fresh perspective rooted in God’s heart for connection.

In this episode of Peaceful Christian Parenting, I’m opening up about something every mom faces at some point — mom guilt. If you’ve ever heard that whisper, “You’re not enough,” this conversation is for you. I share a real story from my own parenting (yes, even a water bottle moment with my five-year-old!) and talk honestly about the difference between guilt and shame. Here’s the big idea: guilt can be a gift — it points us back to our values and offers a way forward. But shame attacks our identity and keeps us stuck. Together, we’ll walk through practical steps of repair — first in our own hearts, and then in our relationships with our kids. And we’ll invite Jesus into those hidden places of shame so His love and truth can bring freedom. My prayer is that this episode encourages your heart, gives you fresh hope for your parenting, and reminds you that God’s extravagant grace is for you, right here and right now.   Show Notes – Episode Highlights The truth about mom guilt: why guilt can be a teacher and shame keeps us stuck. Naomi’s real-life story — what happened when stress and overwhelm led to an unexpected reaction. How to separate guilt from shame so you can grow instead of staying stuck. 3 steps of inner repair: curiosity, making sense of your story, and making a plan. 3 steps of relational repair: apologize, share your plan, and invite the other person in. What to do when “mom guilt” is really projected judgment from others. Encouragement and prayer to release shame and walk in God’s grace and love. Resources & Next Steps: Learn more about 1:1 Christian parenting coaching: listeningheartsfamily.com/join Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today

Have you ever caught yourself comparing your parenting to someone else’s—and instantly felt the joy drain away? In this episode of Peaceful Christian Parenting, I share how comparison steals our peace as moms and keeps us from living in the unique identity God has given us. Together, we’ll look at why comparison sneaks in, how it affects both us and our children, and most importantly, the 3 steps you can take to break free: curiosity, acceptance, and thankfulness. You’ll walk away with practical tools and biblical encouragement to stop measuring yourself against others and start parenting with confidence, joy, and the freedom Christ offers.   #ChristianParenting #ParentingPodcast #OvercomingComparison #FaithBasedParenting #ParentingWithJoy

Have you ever felt the heavy weight of needing to “get it right” as a parent? In this episode of Peacful Christian Parenting, I share my own journey of realizing I was a hidden perfectionist—and how God gently invited me to let go of perfection and receive His process of love instead. Together, we’ll look at how perfectionism shows up in parenting, why shame fuels the cycle, and how shifting from “power over” or “power under” to a “power with” approach brings more connection and healing with our kids. My prayer is that you’ll leave this conversation encouraged, with practical ways to invite curiosity, acceptance, and grace into your parenting journey. #ChristianParenting #GentleParenting #PeacefulParenting 

Do you ever go to bed wondering if your anger or frustration did more harm than good today? Are you exhausted from trying to stay calm when your kids are losing it — and you feel like you’re losing it too? Do you ever fear your kids won’t trust you or forgive you for the moments you lose control? Have you ever wondered how to guide your children with love and boundaries without turning to punishment or guilt? If so, welcome! I’m so glad you’re here! This podcast is here to help Christian parents, like you, create peaceful homes built on trust and joy-filled connection with your kiddos. Each episode offers practical tools and biblical encouragement to help you move from reactivity and overwhelm to calm leadership—so you can raise Godly, emotionally healthy kids without relying on punishment or fear.  Hi, I’m Naomi — a wife, mama of five, and Christian parenting coach who knows what it’s like to feel overwhelmed, reactive, and unsure how to respond to my kid’s emotional overwhelm. For years, I wanted to parent differently than the way I was raised, but I didn’t know how. Through my own healing journey, God began teaching me how to move from control and chaos into becoming a calm, joyful parent, knowing how to help my kids handle their big emotions and handling my own as well.  Now I help other Christian parents do the same—parenting from a place of peace, grace, and grounded presence. I am not here to fix you or tell you how to parent your kids, but to support you to become the parent you long to be. If you’re ready to parent with peace instead of stress, to respond with grace instead of frustration, and to build a home filled with connection, joy, and the presence of God—this podcast is for you. Let’s go deep to grow strong together!

Welcome to the very first episode of Peaceful Christian Parenting! In this episode, I (Naomi Parsons) open up and share my story—growing up in a large Christian family, navigating perfectionism, fear, and punishment-based discipline, and how God has been leading me into a new way of parenting: peace-filled and punishment free! I talk about: The generational patterns of punishment, control, and emotional shutdown. My struggles with anxiety, rigidity, and permissiveness as a young parent. How God revealed a new path—parenting with both boundaries and connection. Why emotions are at the heart of healthy parent-child relationships. If you’ve ever longed to parent differently than the way you were raised, or you struggle with the tug-of-war between harsh discipline and permissiveness, this episode is for you. Together, we’ll walk this journey of healing, growth, and becoming parents who lead with peace, confidence, and God’s love. Connect with me: www.listeninghearts.family/join