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OurChurch Family Gathering
OurChurch
113 episodes
16 hours ago
Kick off "Radical Christmas: Love in Action" by exploring the shift from superficial "gaze" (looking) to profound seeing that sparks compassion. Personal tales—like a timely hamper amid burnout or elevator dad panic—show how small acts (texts, meals) deeply impact because they truly see needs. Critique modern "professional looking" via scrolling/judgment/bias (choir miss story), quoting Christine Caine: "You can't unsee." Seeing costs but echoes God's Christmas act: Sending Jesus to our mess (Jn 3:16). Practical: Hampers/vouchers say "I see you"; kids' market disciples generosity. Challenge: Offer what's in hand—small multiplies like boy's lunch. Not seasonal—lifestyle love defies loneliness/anxiety. Prayer invites surrender, seeing Jesus' gaze. Beyond gaze: Acts change everything, revealing hope.
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Kick off "Radical Christmas: Love in Action" by exploring the shift from superficial "gaze" (looking) to profound seeing that sparks compassion. Personal tales—like a timely hamper amid burnout or elevator dad panic—show how small acts (texts, meals) deeply impact because they truly see needs. Critique modern "professional looking" via scrolling/judgment/bias (choir miss story), quoting Christine Caine: "You can't unsee." Seeing costs but echoes God's Christmas act: Sending Jesus to our mess (Jn 3:16). Practical: Hampers/vouchers say "I see you"; kids' market disciples generosity. Challenge: Offer what's in hand—small multiplies like boy's lunch. Not seasonal—lifestyle love defies loneliness/anxiety. Prayer invites surrender, seeing Jesus' gaze. Beyond gaze: Acts change everything, revealing hope.
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Christianity
Education,
Religion & Spirituality,
Society & Culture,
Self-Improvement
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Beyond the Gaze | Small Acts Change Everything
Kick off "Radical Christmas: Love in Action" by exploring the shift from superficial "gaze" (looking) to profound seeing that sparks compassion. Personal tales—like a timely hamper amid burnout or elevator dad panic—show how small acts (texts, meals) deeply impact because they truly see needs. Critique modern "professional looking" via scrolling/judgment/bias (choir miss story), quoting Christine Caine: "You can't unsee." Seeing costs but echoes God's Christmas act: Sending Jesus to our mess (Jn 3:16). Practical: Hampers/vouchers say "I see you"; kids' market disciples generosity. Challenge: Offer what's in hand—small multiplies like boy's lunch. Not seasonal—lifestyle love defies loneliness/anxiety. Prayer invites surrender, seeing Jesus' gaze. Beyond gaze: Acts change everything, revealing hope.
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16 hours ago

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Laugh at Yourself | Laugh to Live
Wrapping the "Hilarious" series, this finale spotlights joyful transformation through self-laughter: "When we learn to laugh, we learn to live." The speaker confesses his own struggles with embarrassment (e.g., zombie-dad elevator panic post-baby, where exhaustion sparks a hilarious back-door blunder), showing how mishaps like wrong waves or delays morph into funny stories later—God's gentle reminder: "Don't take yourself so seriously; I've got this."Distinguishing fleeting happiness from deep joy (Neh 8:10: "The joy of the Lord is your strength"), he positions "laugh at yourself" as the first key to spiritual defiance of despair, tuning hearts to heaven (Ps 2:4—God laughs sovereignly). Follow with laughing with others (rejoice/weep together, Phil 2:4) and in faith (trust the Author's punchline amid pain). Fire extinguisher prop highlights distraction from "hills" vs. victory dances—challenge: Spot red things weekly to refocus on divine strength.Prayer invites forgiveness, unspeakable joy, and witness. Self-laughter as worship: It testifies "My God is good—even now," filling mouths with songs (Ps 126:2). Ultimate takeaway: Laughing at yourself unlocks God's hilarious joy for fuller living.
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1 week ago

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God's Got Jokes In The Bible
In Week 2 of the "Hilarious" series, the speaker explores God's playful humor amid life's chaos, challenging the notion that holiness excludes laughter. Drawing from personal anecdotes—like Halloween tensions (pagan roots vs. outreach opportunities), childhood church disruptions due to "A-D-H-D-I need to pee," a disastrous Latin mass visit (mishearing as divine tongues, bungled communion), and marrying for a "sign" (a new car)—he shows how absurdity reveals God's control.Biblical ties include Paul's dark sarcasm in Galatians 5:12 (suggesting self-mutilation for legalists) and imagining the Trinity's pre-incarnation banter (Jesus as a baby in scandalous circumstances). Humor isn't denial—it's defiance against despair, trusting God amid media spins, climate fears, or daily mishaps. Laughter signals surrender: Life's too short without it, too long in despair. God laughs with us, not at us, using funny interruptions for growth. Applications: See humor in marriage/business evolutions, embrace chaos as divine creativity, stay open to Holy Spirit amid busyness (e.g., mid-cleaning healings). End with a call to surrender to Christ—easy, not religious drudgery.
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1 week ago

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God's Got A Sense Of Humor | Talking Donkey Edition
Dive into God's witty side in this "Hilarious" series opener! Megs unpacks the absurd Numbers 22 tale where prophet Balaam, tempted by King Balak's cash to curse Israel, ignores God's "no" and rides off—only for a divine angel to block the path. Balaam's donkey spots it, swerves, gets beaten thrice, then miraculously talks back: "What have I done?" Balaam argues with the beast before his eyes open to the angel, leading to confession and obedience.Blending Bible hilarity with real-life chaos (party crashes, drowsy falls, naked honeymoon calls), Megs shows God "embraces the ridiculous" through quirky creations (proboscis monkey's nose, platypus diva vibes). Life's "you wouldn't read about it" messes aren't cruel—they're creative nudges to redirect stubborn hearts. Flip "to me" woes to "for me" wow: Spot ignored prompts, patterns of interruption; invite God in; take one obedient step. God's humor builds faith, turning complaint to praise—proving He's faithfully fun in the absurd.
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2 weeks ago

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Breaking Free: How to Get Out of a Rut as a Christian
In this standalone episode, the speaker dives deep into the transformative power of "letting go"—releasing childish behaviors, toxic relationships, control, unforgiveness, and even success or dreams that become idols—to step into God's abundant flow. Drawing from personal stories (like his own marriage struggles and a grandson's transition from pacifiers), biblical wisdom (1 Corinthians 13:11, John 7:38, Philippians 3:13), and examples from Abraham, Peter, and Paul, he illustrates how clinging to the past or "good old days" traps us in emotional immaturity and spiritual stagnation.The core message: Hardest part of following Jesus isn't starting new—it's surrendering the old. Letting go isn't loss; it's making space for the Holy Spirit's "rivers of living water" to renew, heal anxiety, and propel us forward. He shares practical tools like SOAP devotions, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality (EHS), and symbolic acts (e.g., writing names on rocks and tossing them into the ocean for release). The episode culminates in a vulnerable prayer of surrender, inviting listeners to let God take control for true freedom and purpose.This raw, relatable talk challenges us to ask: What's hindering your flow? Perfect for anyone stuck in ruts, dealing with hurts, or seeking deeper spiritual maturity.
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3 weeks ago

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How to Serve Others Like Jesus | Sacrificial Secrets That Change Lives
In this concluding episode of the "Spill Over" series, titled "Serving: The Ultimate Overflow," we explore the transformative power of sacrificial servanthood as the final step in living a life filled with God's love. Drawing from personal stories, biblical insights like Mark 10:45, and Jesus' example of washing the disciples' feet, the speaker challenges us to move beyond selective, self-serving acts to genuine, unseen service that refines our character, dethrones pride, and ignites faith in others—like lighting a candle without dimming your own flame.Highlighting the "Handful of Rice" initiative from Mizoram, India, where small daily offerings have sparked massive community change (growing Christianity from 1% to 95% and funding schools, hospitals, and missions), we learn that true serving isn't about grand gestures but costly, inconvenient actions from the heart. It's about resembling Jesus, who came not to be served but to give His life as a ransom for many.As the series wraps, we're reminded that "Spill Over" is a discipleship blueprint: Be filled by God, listen well, speak life, forgive freely, and serve sacrificially to reflect His love in a broken world. Challenge yourself this week with one secret act of service—let it become your new norm and watch relationships, churches, and communities transform.Tune in for inspiration on turning everyday humility into eternal impact. What small step will you take today? Subscribe for more faith-building discussions!
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1 month ago

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Forgiveness is Freedom
Episode: Forgiveness Is Freedom | Spill Over Week 4 In Week 4 of Spill Over: Live from God’s Heart, dive into the liberating power of forgiveness. The speaker shares a raw story of betrayal and the struggle to forgive, revealing how unforgiveness traps us in pain while forgiveness opens doors to joy and peace. Drawing from Jesus’ teachings and the Lord’s Prayer, learn that forgiveness is a choice—not based on feelings, but on God’s mercy for us. Discover practical steps to release offenses, pray for those who hurt you, and let God’s love fill the empty spaces. This episode challenges us to forgive repeatedly, breaking chains of bitterness and embracing true freedom. Forgiveness isn’t easy, but it’s the key to a transformed life—start your journey today! Key Takeaways Forgiveness is a choice that releases you from resentment’s grip. God’s mercy empowers us to forgive others. Let go through prayer and symbolic release. Freedom comes from forgiving, not forgetting. Call to Action: Identify one person to forgive this week—pray for them and release the hurt—and step into the freedom it brings!
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1 month ago

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The Words That You Speak Matter
Episode: The Words That You Speak Matter | Spill Over Week 3 In Week 3 of Spill Over: Live from God’s Heart, discover how your words can build up or tear down the people around you. Through a funny childhood story of a bath overflow ([00:00:23]), the speaker illustrates that what’s in your heart spills out in your speech, shaping lives for better or worse. Drawing from Proverbs 18:21, learn practical ways to choose words of encouragement and affirmation over criticism ([00:32:14]). By filling your heart with God’s love, your words can transform homes, workplaces, and communities ([00:33:31]). This episode challenges you to speak life intentionally, making every conversation count. Start using your words to build today—your influence will ripple far! Key Takeaways: Your words reflect what’s in your heart—choose goodness ([00:00:00]). The tongue holds power to build or destroy (Proverbs 18:21) ([00:01:07]). Speak affirmation to create brighter relationships ([00:32:34]). Fill your heart with God’s love for life-giving speech ([00:33:31]). Call to Action: Choose one person this week and speak an encouraging word—see how it changes their day!
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1 month ago

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Why Listening Is Important | Listen to Love Better
Episode: Why Active Listening Is Important | Listen to Love Better | Spill Over Week 2 In Week 2 of Spill Over: Live from God’s Heart, discover why active listening is essential for showing love and unlocking deeper connections. The speaker shares honest struggles with distraction, self-focus, and jumping to solutions, revealing how true listening requires full presence and patience. Learn practical ways to listen without planning replies, to understand rather than respond, and to create space for people's stories. From family kitchen conversations to everyday interactions, see how listening transforms relationships and allows God's love to flow naturally. This message challenges us to slow down, ask open questions, and trust the Holy Spirit to guide our words. Start listening with intention today—your relationships will grow stronger and more meaningful. Key Takeaways Active listening starts with putting away distractions and being fully present. Listen to understand, not to respond or solve. Create space for others' stories without judgment. Trust the Holy Spirit to guide conversations and timing. Call to Action: Try one listening practice this week—ask a genuine question without interrupting—and watch how it deepens your relationships!
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1 month ago

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How To Let God’s Love Overflow In Your Life
Episode: How To Let God’s Love Overflow In Your Life | Spill Over Week 1 What’s inside you spills over to others—God’s love or the world’s brokenness? Kick off the Spill Over: Live from God’s Heart series with this powerful message on filling your heart with Christ’s love ([00:00:00]). By staying connected to Jesus and surrendering brokenness, you can pour out blessings to family, friends, and beyond. Learn practical steps to transform your inner life and share hope, starting today! Perfect for anyone seeking a faith-filled journey. Key Takeaways: You can only pour out what’s in your heart—choose God’s love. Connection to Christ transforms your life and impact ([00:00:00]). Surrender brokenness to spill over hope and blessings.
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2 months ago

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Legacy of a Godly Father
Episode: Legacy of a Godly Father | Father’s Day 2025 Celebrate Father’s Day with this inspiring message on the legacy of godly fatherhood! Discover how fathers, granddads, uncles, spiritual fathers, and solo-parenting moms shape lives through presence, love, and faith, not perfection ([00:00:00], [00:01:35]). God uniquely chooses you to lead your family with kingdom values ([00:00:59]). Small acts like praying with kids or encouraging others ([00:10:46]) bring Jesus’ hope and love ([00:11:30]). Echoing the “Unusual” series’ call to live differently with character, love, peace, and joy, and the servant-hearted humility of our prior series, leave a legacy this week! Perfect for anyone seeking faith-driven parenting. Key Takeaways: Godly fatherhood is about presence, not perfection ([00:01:35]). Small acts shape eternal legacies (1 Peter 2:9, implied) ([00:10:46]). God chooses you to lead with faith ([00:12:27]). Connects to character, love, peace, joy, and servanthood.
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2 months ago

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I Want To Hear God's Voice | Unpacking SOAP Devotions
Episode: How to Hear God’s Voice with SOAP Devotions | Unpacking SOAP 2025 Discover how to hear God’s voice through SOAP devotions (Scripture, Observation, Application, Prayer) with Kevin in this standalone episode. Learn the transformative power of sitting at Jesus’ feet, guided by the Holy Spirit, to conform to Christ’s image ([00:01:04]). Unlike programmatic faith, SOAP fosters personal growth in community ([00:01:43]). Through surrender and prayer ([00:36:16]), avoid misinformation and grow closer to God’s design. Echoing the “Unusual” series’ call to live differently, this practice builds character, love, peace, and joy. Start SOAP this week—choose a scripture, pray, and share in community! Perfect for anyone seeking authentic faith. Key Takeaways: SOAP helps you hear God’s voice directly (1 Peter 2:9, implied) ([00:00:00]). Surrender and community transform your faith ([00:35:25]). Avoid conformity; grow uniquely with the Holy Spirit ([00:01:27]). Connects to character, love, peace, and joy from prior series. Call to Action: Try SOAP devotions this week, share your experience with #HearGodsVoice and #ChristianLiving!
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2 months ago

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How to Live a Christian Life According to the Bible
Episode: How to Live a Christian Life According to the Bible | Unusual – A Peculiar People In the final “Unusual” series episode, Anita and speakers Kev, Pauline, Phil, and Meagan share how to live a Christian life rooted in the Bible’s kingdom values (1 Peter 2:9). Discover character built on the Fruit of the Spirit, unconditional love that transforms, peace in chaos, and joy that outlasts happiness. From Kev’s call to godly character, Pauline’s compassionate love, Phil’s peacemaking, to Meagan’s resilient joy, learn to apply these traits through community and servanthood, shining God’s light (Matthew 5:13-16). Like the humble service of our prior series, share your gifts to live differently. Take one biblical step this week—love, pray, or serve—to inspire others. Perfect for anyone seeking authentic faith and a life that stands out. Key Takeaways: Live a Christian life with biblical values (1 Peter 2:9). Build character, love, peace, and joy to shine God’s light. Share gifts in community, like a servant of God. Take one step to live differently, per the Bible.
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2 months ago

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Joy vs Happiness in the Bible: What's the Difference?
Episode: Joy vs Happiness in the Bible: What's the Difference? | Unusual – A Peculiar People In the final “Unusual” series episode, Meagan Greenway reveals the difference between joy and happiness as God’s “peculiar people” (1 Peter 2:9). Unlike fleeting happiness, true joy—rooted in Jesus’ sacrifice ([00:42:03])—is a God-given strength that endures chaos ([00:01:58], [00:41:35]). Meagan’s love for laughter ([00:02:23]) shows how a Jesus-centered life shines joy ([00:00:51]). Through praise and prayer ([00:40:06]), we cultivate this Fruit of the Spirit, building on the character, love, and peace from prior episodes ([00:10:17, 00:12:49, 00:25:26]). Choose joy by singing, praying, or sharing it with others ([00:40:24]) to stand out in a restless world. Take one joyful act this week to live differently and inspire those around you. Perfect for anyone seeking authentic faith and lasting joy. Key Takeaways: • Biblical joy outlasts happiness, making us peculiar ([00:01:58]). • Praise and prayer cultivate joy (Nehemiah 8:10, implied) ([00:40:06]). • Jesus’ sacrifice fuels our joy ([00:42:03]). • Joy builds on character, love, and peace ([00:10:17, 00:12:49, 00:25:26]).
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3 months ago

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Finding Peace and Purpose in a Chaotic World
Episode: Finding Peace and Purpose | Unusual – A Peculiar People Join Phil Rourke in the “Unusual” series as he unpacks how finding peace and purpose defines us as God’s “peculiar people” (1 Peter 2:9). Drawing from his days as a concreter, Phil shares how he brought peace to a chaotic crew ([00:02:48]), reflecting God’s transformative calm. Jesus’ call to shine as the light of the world (Matthew 5:13-16 [00:25:26]) inspires us to live with purpose, bringing our “little bit of lunch” to see God multiply our efforts ([00:26:24]). Like the love and character explored in this series ([00:10:17, 00:12:49, prior episodes]), peace sets us apart in a conflict-driven world. Through simple steps like prayer or obedience ([00:25:02]), we can find calm and shine God’s light in workplaces, homes, and communities ([00:27:26]). Take one step this week—pray, resolve a conflict, or serve humbly—to embrace the peace and purpose that make you unusual. Perfect for anyone seeking authentic faith and a meaningful life. Key Takeaways: God’s peace transforms chaos, making us peculiar ([00:27:26]). Small acts, like prayer, bring calm and purpose ([00:25:02]). Shine as Jesus’ light in a chaotic world (Matthew 5:13-16) ([00:25:26]). Peace builds on love and character from prior episodes ([00:10:17, 00:12:49]). Call to Action: Subscribe to the “Unusual” series, try one act of peace this week, and share your story with #PeaceOfGod and #UnusualPeople!
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3 months ago

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What Does Unconditional Love Mean?
Episode: What Does Unconditional Love Mean? Be Peculiar! | Unusual – A Peculiar People In the “Unusual” series, Pauline Hatch explores what unconditional love means as God’s “peculiar people” (1 Peter 2:9). Jesus’ compassion for the woman caught in adultery (John 8:1-11 [00:07:24]) and a Christian’s hug to a Satanic church leader ([00:19:58]) show love’s transformative power (1 Corinthians 13 [00:12:49]). Forgive much to love unconditionally (Luke 7:36-50 [00:27:06]) through acts like a hug or meal ([00:25:29]). Try one act of unconditional love this week! Key Takeaways: Unconditional love defines us as peculiar ([00:10:02]). Compassion transforms, as Jesus showed ([00:08:54]). Forgiveness fuels unconditional love ([00:27:20]). Small acts build God’s character ([00:25:29]). Call to Action: Subscribe to the “Unusual” series, try one act of unconditional love, and share your story!
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3 months ago

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Build Your Character on these Foundations
Episode: Build Your Character on These Foundations | Unusual – A Peculiar People Kick off the “Unusual” series with Kevin Thomas as he reveals how to build character on God’s foundations, shaping us as His “peculiar people” (1 Peter 2:9 [00:07:06]). Through David’s humility, Daniel’s integrity, and Joseph’s faithfulness ([00:11:51 - 00:18:31]), discover how unseen moments form character ([00:18:43]). Be faithful in small things (Luke 16:10 [00:19:48]) to live, love, and serve like Heaven with love, joy, and patience ([00:22:43]). Choose one foundation to grow this week! Key Takeaways: Build character, not reputation, in private moments ([00:14:12]). Faithfulness in small things is a foundation for more (Luke 16:10 [00:19:48]). Live counterculturally with love, joy, and patience ([00:22:43]). Serve humbly, reflecting Jesus’ example ([00:23:33], John 13:4-5).
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3 months ago

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What is a Servant of God
In the final episode of the "For" series, we explore the transformative power of servanthood, inspired by Jesus washing the disciples’ feet (John 13:4-5 [00:00:19]). Tim and Michelle share their 25-year journey of living a “towels over titles” life, from Michelle’s prayers that led Tim to faith ([00:05:30 - 00:07:02]) to their work in kids’ ministry, chaplaincy, and missions in Thailand ([00:16:55], [00:18:31]). Michelle vulnerably admits feeling she had “nothing” to offer but learned to ask God, “What have I got in my toolbox?” ([00:26:43]), encouraging everyone to use their unique gifts. Tim emphasizes acting on God’s promptings, whether through cooking meals ([00:22:38]), supporting refugees ([00:18:31]), or one-on-one conversations with students ([00:20:53]). They challenge us to prioritize people over tasks, even in messy moments like parenting ([00:24:52]), and to serve daily with what’s in our hands ([00:13:57]). Discover how small acts of kindness—local or global—reflect Jesus’ heart and transform lives. Join the Thailand mission trip ([00:32:19]) and ask God what’s in your toolbox to serve today! Key Takeaways: Servanthood starts with asking God, “Who do you say I am?” ([00:28:12]). Small acts, like a meal or a conversation, echo Jesus’ example ([00:20:53], [00:22:38]). Involve kids in ministry to model servanthood ([00:23:11]). Serve locally and globally with what’s in your hand ([00:13:57], [00:18:31]).
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3 months ago

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How to Share God's Love
In the second episode of the "For" series, "Flip Script," Kevin Thomas calls us to live missionally by loving others through action, not excuses. He emphasizes the church’s mission to partner with the Holy Spirit, loving God and others in daily rhythms ([00:00:41]). Using John 13:34, Kevin highlights Jesus’ command to love as He loved ([00:02:22]), illustrated by Luke 14’s parable of excuses ([00:06:44]) and Luke 19’s story of Zacchaeus, where Jesus ignored social barriers to bring salvation ([00:18:07]). Kevin shares Anita’s story of embracing inconvenience to support a dying woman, Kate, leading her to Christ ([00:20:41]), and a mother’s organ donation story, showing love’s impact ([00:38:03]). The key to silencing excuses is joyfully embracing inconvenience ([00:23:38]), as Jesus did by leaving heaven ([00:24:56]). Kevin urges us to say yes to God’s nudges, reject excuses like busyness or fear ([00:09:18]), and make a difference by loving actively in everyday life ([00:29:28]).
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4 months ago

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Love Is Not A Word It's An Action
In the first episode of the "For" series, "Compassion Does," Ruth Arnold challenges us to transform potential love into kinetic action through compassion. Sharing a personal story of helping a 90-year-old woman at Target ([00:01:51]), Ruth illustrates how God’s nudges prompt us to see and act. Using John 3:16 ([00:11:42]) and the Parable of the Good Samaritan ([00:18:11]), she shows how Jesus’ compassion moved toward the hurting, not past them ([00:05:37]). Ruth contrasts sympathy, empathy, and compassion ([00:08:38]), urging us to see people as God’s image bearers ([00:16:28]) and live missionally ([00:31:19]). Through communion, she calls us to let Jesus’ sacrificial love shape our actions, loving others as God loves us ([00:35:26]).
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4 months ago

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Kick off "Radical Christmas: Love in Action" by exploring the shift from superficial "gaze" (looking) to profound seeing that sparks compassion. Personal tales—like a timely hamper amid burnout or elevator dad panic—show how small acts (texts, meals) deeply impact because they truly see needs. Critique modern "professional looking" via scrolling/judgment/bias (choir miss story), quoting Christine Caine: "You can't unsee." Seeing costs but echoes God's Christmas act: Sending Jesus to our mess (Jn 3:16). Practical: Hampers/vouchers say "I see you"; kids' market disciples generosity. Challenge: Offer what's in hand—small multiplies like boy's lunch. Not seasonal—lifestyle love defies loneliness/anxiety. Prayer invites surrender, seeing Jesus' gaze. Beyond gaze: Acts change everything, revealing hope.