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Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ben and Liz
20 episodes
5 months ago
Send us a text What happens when faith collides with real-world suffering? We tackle this question head-on, diving deep into a conversation most would rather avoid. Pain is universal—no one escapes it—yet our Western church culture often lacks a robust theology for navigating life's darkest valleys. Through the lens of Job's ancient story, we uncover how God never explains the "why" behind suffering, offering instead His presence and character. This biblical truth challenges common misconcep...
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Send us a text What happens when faith collides with real-world suffering? We tackle this question head-on, diving deep into a conversation most would rather avoid. Pain is universal—no one escapes it—yet our Western church culture often lacks a robust theology for navigating life's darkest valleys. Through the lens of Job's ancient story, we uncover how God never explains the "why" behind suffering, offering instead His presence and character. This biblical truth challenges common misconcep...
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Parenting
Education,
Kids & Family,
Religion & Spirituality,
Christianity,
Self-Improvement
Episodes (20/20)
Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 20 - Worthy of Your Pain: Reconciling Suffering with Faith
Send us a text What happens when faith collides with real-world suffering? We tackle this question head-on, diving deep into a conversation most would rather avoid. Pain is universal—no one escapes it—yet our Western church culture often lacks a robust theology for navigating life's darkest valleys. Through the lens of Job's ancient story, we uncover how God never explains the "why" behind suffering, offering instead His presence and character. This biblical truth challenges common misconcep...
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6 months ago
57 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 19 - The Shepherd's Voice: Tuning into God
Send us a text The ability to hear God's voice is a cornerstone of authentic faith, yet many believers struggle to recognize when the Lord is speaking to them. In this heartfelt conversation, Ben and Liz unpack Jesus's powerful metaphor of sheep recognizing their shepherd's voice, revealing how this ancient imagery perfectly illustrates our spiritual relationship with God today. Drawing from John 10, they explore how sheep know their shepherd through consistent exposure, trust, and relations...
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6 months ago
55 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 18 - Cheerful Giving: How it Changes You
Send us a text What happens in your brain when you give generously? Ben and Liz tackle the fascinating science behind "cheerful giving" and reveal how our brains actually release dopamine and endorphins during acts of generosity – the same reward chemicals we experience when receiving gifts ourselves! They share vulnerable stories of their giving journey, including a surprising mountain bike gift divinely orchestrated between Ben and a missionary friend, and a powerful moment when they each ...
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6 months ago
52 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 17 - Beyond Borders: Importance of Family Travel
Send us a text Having experienced international travel in our youth—Liz on a mission trip to Jamaica at age 12 and Ben as an exchange student in Russia at 15—we knew we wanted cultural exploration to be part of their family DNA. Despite the logistical challenges of traveling with half a dozen kids (including marathon 20-hour road trips), we discovered that the benefits far outweighed the occasional car sickness episodes and roadside diaper blowouts. The science behind our intuition is fascin...
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6 months ago
55 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 16 - 8 Tips For Newlyweds: Crowdsourced Marriage Wisdom
Send us a text What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn’t found in perfection, but in the messy, beautiful journey of serving one another? After 20 years of marriage, raising six kids in eight years, and now navigating life with four teenagers (plus seven chickens, two dogs, and our newest additions—two goats), we've gathered a kind of wisdom that only comes through lived experience. In this candid conversation, we’re sharing eight essential tips for building a strong foundation in marri...
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7 months ago
1 hour 10 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 15 - Family Digital Detox: Establishing Digital Boundaries & Restoring Human Connection
Send us a text Download a free 30 Day Digital Detox Guide The digital revolution promised connection, but delivered an epidemic of isolation. In this deeply personal and science-backed exploration, we reveal how screen addiction is fundamentally altering our children's brain development and mental health. With depression rates among teens increasing 250% since smartphones became mainstream and self-harm hospitalizations for young girls rising by 188%, the evidence is clear: our digital lifest...
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7 months ago
1 hour 24 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 14 - Raising Enjoyable Teens: Yes it's Possible!
Send us a text Ever wondered if enjoying the teenage years is actually possible? As parents of four (soon to be five) teenagers, we've discovered it's not just possible—it's happening in our home right now. Despite the cultural narrative that teen years are something to survive rather than savor, we've found these to be some of our most rewarding parenting seasons. In this episode we cover: • Understanding the unprecedented challenges teens face today including seven-plus hours daily on scree...
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7 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 13 - Pharisee or Tax Collector: Why Admitting Our Depravity is Really Good
Send us a text Ever caught yourself thinking, "At least I'm not like THAT person"? This episode dives into the uncomfortable truth about our natural tendency toward self-righteousness and why it might be the biggest obstacle in our spiritual journey. Ben and Liz unpack Jesus' parable of the Pharisee and tax collector from Luke 18, revealing how easily we all slip into comparison-based spirituality. We're startled by research showing 93% of drivers rate themselves "above average" (statistical...
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7 months ago
45 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 12 - All Your Thoughts on God: How Small Thoughts Create Big Impact
Send us a text God's thoughts about us and our thoughts about God hold tremendous power, shaping our identity, relationships, and entire worldview in ways we rarely recognize. But what if we allowed God to define Himself? Join us in this God thoughts episode as we discuss: • How small thoughts about God can have big impacts on how we view ourselves and the world • Creating healthy thought life means understanding God's true character • "Black" negative thought patterns vs "green" life-giving...
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7 months ago
57 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 11 - 2 Businesses, 1 Marriage: Life in a Double Entrepreneurial Home
Send us a text Life in a dual entrepreneurial home is an intricate dance of responsibilities, creativity, and the occasional chaos that comes with raising a family. In this episode, we navigate the joys and challenges of our unique journey as we run two separate businesses while caring for our six children. Our conversation dives into the realities we face, strategies we've adopted, and how we've turned challenges into shared successes. • Discussing the concept of a double entrepreneurial ho...
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8 months ago
45 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 10 - Un-bubblewrap your kids: Embracing the Antifragile nature of childhood
Send us a text This episode focuses on the importance of raising anti-fragile children who thrive on challenges and adversity. We discuss the dangers of overprotecting kids and share practical strategies to foster resilience, including allowing rough play and encouraging emotional growth through difficult experiences. • Discussing the concept of anti-fragility • Sharing personal parenting stories and challenges • Highlighting the importance of exposure to hardships • Practi...
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8 months ago
53 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 9 - Sex Ed Family Devotions: A Rule of Life, Prioritizing Family God time
Send us a text Practicing The Way Book (affiliate link) Rule of Life builder website Psalms in 30 days Book (affiliate link) Dwell App Family devotions serve as both a source of laughter and a foundation for spiritual growth in our household of six kids. We share the humorous moments, the chaos, and the importance of creating a rule of life that prioritizes intentional living and meaningful connections during our family time. • The hilarity of navigating sensitive topics during devotions&nb...
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8 months ago
29 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 8 - Will You Serve Your Spouse?: Egalitarian vs Complementarian vs Servitarian
Send us a text Click here to get the book The Great Sex Rescue mentioned on this episode. (affiliate link) Click here to get a free pdf guide on being a servitarian This episode deepens the exploration of marriage dynamics through humor and personal stories while contrasting egalitarian and complementarian views. We advocate for a "servitarian" mindset, emphasizing love as mutual service and commitment over rigid roles, encouraging listeners to view their relationships through this lens...
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8 months ago
33 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 7 - Creative Legacy Conference: Recap, Speakers and What We Came Away With
Send us a text View the Creative Legacy Website Through a joyful recap of their experiences at the Creative Legacy Conference, we explore the themes of creativity and calling. With insights from engaging speakers, personal stories, and valuable reflections, we encourage listeners to step out of their comfort zones and embrace their creative potential while fostering community among fellow artists. • Key highlights from various speakers and their inspiring messages • Importance of...
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9 months ago
34 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 6 - My Right to Offense: Embracing Humility, Rejecting 'Righteous' Anger
Send us a text Get Brant's Book "Unoffendable" (affiliate link) Who knew a rubber rat could spark such hilarity in our household? Join us as we share the chaos of losing Mama Jean, our beloved chicken, to a fox, and the unexpected levity that followed when Liz stumbled upon what she thought was a real rat during a cleaning spree. The ensuing family prank involving the rubber rodent added a much-needed dose of humor and surprise to our bustling lives, filled with homeschooling, running two bus...
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9 months ago
34 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 5 - We Did a We Retreat: Create Space to Rekindle, Renew and Refocus
Send us a text Click here to get a free We Retreat Guide pdf! Have you ever found yourself face-to-face with a snake in your chicken coop, and wondered what parenting and farming have in common? Get ready for a rollercoaster ride as we recount our snake saga—complete with startled kids and a paper-bagged snake in our living room. This amusing adventure is just one colorful page in our family's story of homeschooling six kids while juggling two businesses. Listen in as we tackle the chaos of ...
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9 months ago
31 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 3 - First-Time Obedience Part 1: Transforming a Chaotic Home with Applied Wisdom
Send us a text (Welcome to our new podcast! We are dropping 4 episodes initial but stay tuned for a weekly release every Friday.) What if the secret to a harmonious household with six kids lies in the seemingly old-fashioned concept of first-time obedience? Discover how our chaotic, stressed-filled home turned into a place of peace and respect as we share our transformative journey with this strategy. Join us as we recount the vibrant, sometimes overwhelming, atmosphere of raising children c...
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9 months ago
36 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 4 - First-Time Obedience Part 2: Reaping Dividends from Training
Send us a text (Welcome to our new podcast! We are dropping 4 episodes initial but stay tuned for a weekly release every Friday.) Can a single strategy like teaching first-time obedience make parenting smoother? On "One Blessed Mess," we navigate the whirlwind of raising six kids, managing businesses, homeschooling, and dealing with a house full of pets. We relive a delightful holiday mishap with a niece’s creative spin on a nativity decal, underscoring how lively and unpredictable family li...
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9 months ago
32 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 2 - I Married a Mutant: Parenting, Autism, and Unexpected Joys
Send us a text (Welcome to our new podcast! We are dropping 4 episodes initial but stay tuned for a weekly release every Friday.) Can you imagine balancing the chaos of nearly five teenagers, homeschooling, and a flock of chickens, all while unraveling the mystery of a genetic mutation within your family? Join us on a rollercoaster adventure through our lively household, where towering laundry piles and staggering grocery bills are just the beginning. We take you on a journey of unexpected d...
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9 months ago
30 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Ep. 1 - It's Us: Our Journey Through Family, Faith, and Entrepreneurship
Send us a text (Welcome to our new podcast! We are dropping 4 episodes initial but stay tuned for a weekly release every Friday.) What happens when two completely different worlds collide in the chaos of family life and entrepreneurship? We, Ben and Liz, invite you to join our journey as we blend our different upbringings—one from a single-parent home facing financial struggles, the other from a stable middle-class household—and manage the whirlwind that is our family, complete with six kids...
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9 months ago
21 minutes

Our 1 Blessed Mess
Send us a text What happens when faith collides with real-world suffering? We tackle this question head-on, diving deep into a conversation most would rather avoid. Pain is universal—no one escapes it—yet our Western church culture often lacks a robust theology for navigating life's darkest valleys. Through the lens of Job's ancient story, we uncover how God never explains the "why" behind suffering, offering instead His presence and character. This biblical truth challenges common misconcep...