You ever start talking and end up solving the whole world’s problems? That’s how this one kicked off—with laughs, insight, and Robert & Mrs. Sawyer doing what they do best: talking ‘bout some real ish while staying optimistic. But don’t worry, the stories were just as chaotic. From a girlfriend overhearing her man’s therapy session (yikes) to a pink envelope triggering a whole breakdown & breakup, and one mother-in-law who really sent her church friends to do her dirty work.

We also respond to two Classmate emails and get into some superbly Toxic Confessions.

We got bias, boundaries, and a dash of watermelon. Come get this work.

00:00 Homeroom

02:00 A Pickleball Story

06:29 That's Not My Name

09:07 Unconscious Bias

12:11 Want Some Watermelon?

18:05 ATBK- June 18, 2025 Episode

21:09 Zones of Genius

27:55 ATBK- Should I Cut off my friend for Turning into an Asshole after she started Dating her Fiancé

42:44 AITA For Sending Pink Envelopes

53:03 Fandom

57:00 Drums vs Flats (again)

58:06 TIFU By Leaving the Baby Monitor On

01:00:11 AIO- Boyfriend Made Reference During Happy Time

01:05:47 AITA For Locking the Bedroom Door When My Husband Works

01:07:59 Petty Revenge- Owner Fired My Job Then Came Asking For Work

01:10:53 My Girlfriend Came Home And Overheard My Therapy Session, Now She is Very Angry

01:16:06 My Ex-Mother-In-Law Sent Her Church Friends to Harass My Daughters, I exposed her

01:24:33 TC- I Married a Good Man, But I Can't Move on from my Best Friend

01:28:12 TC- I Know Rondo Loves Me, But He's Trapped with a Wife He Doesn't Want

01:28:44 TC- My Husband Sends Meat Pics to his Exes

01:30:41 TC- PSA From a Retired Pimp

Some people will do anything to avoid accountability… even if it means ruining a date, dodging bills, or telling grandma to shut up and eat it.

In this episode, we’re knee-deep in delusion—from a man ready to divorce his wife over one bad weekend to parents beefing over whose kids deserve snacks. Oh, and don’t miss the Ask the Black Kids update from our Spy Gadgets classmate… just when you thought that saga couldn’t get any wilder.

These stories? 10 outta 10 messy.

Hit play and tell us—are they bold… or just wrong?

Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

00:00 Homeroom

00:57 Homework Follow Up- What's Something Toxic You Used to Normalize

05:48 ATBK- Backstory and update on Spy Gadgets & STDs story

13:21 ATBK- AITA for expecting a share of my daughter's settlement?

19:01 TIFU by telling my girlfriend’s grandma to “shut up and eat it

21:18 He Stay Getting in Trouble

25:23 My neighbor’s dog ruined my sleep so I used it to ruin his

27:39 My date asked for me to pay for a free meal and I refused.

31:13 AITA for feeling like it's not my job to make sure all the kids at my ex's house have just as much as our two sons?

38:12 AITA for refusing to comply by my ex-wife's husband's rules about what my kids can eat so they can go to their mom's house?

43:42 I'm (38/M) considering divorcing my wife (33/F) because of this past weekend

43:45 Thank Goodness for Dr. Raquel Martin

01:00:51 TC- Arnell was my Handyman

01:02:07 TC- My Scammer Boyfriend Set Me Up

01:04:03 TC- My Dad is on the DL

01:05:27 TC- Betty got a Second Job

01:06:37 TC- What Do You Mean ONE of your Brother's Ladies?

The Classmates’ inbox is officially on fire, so we’re back with another all Ask the Black Kids episode—and whew, the stories did not disappoint.

We’ve got everything from messy friendship breakups and slow-burn relationship drama to navigating life with a parent living with schizophrenia. There’s an update from a Classmate facing a life-changing decision, plus one listener who’s just straight-up tired of adulting.

This one has everything: big feelings, bigger tea, and the kind of honest conversation only the Classmates can bring. Plus, all new Toxic Confessions straight from @ms_parkerforreal

Hit play and get ready to weigh in—y’all’s lives are wild, and we’re clocking every bit of it.

Need advice? Leave us a message: onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

03:14 ATBK- Not Getting any Younger - UPDATE

14:00 Let the Cap Begin

23:02 ATBK- No subject (mom is schizophrenic)

31:42 ATBK- She’s a horrible person, Am I wrong for wanting nothing more to do with her?

36:38 Announcements

49:47 ATBK- AITA FOR WANTING A SLOW BURN??????

01:05:45 ATBK- Since you asked...

01:15:53 ATBK- AITA for cutting off my best friend of over 10 years and her wife?

01:27:31 ATBK- Adulting is hard

01:41:34 ATBK- Curtis White

01:46:04 Ms_ParkerForReal- I'm Pregnant by My Daughter's Baby Daddy

The Classmates came with the TEA, and we came ready to clock it.

In this episode, we’re unpacking everything from secret relationships with married men to choosing between your kids (yes, really). We’ve got microaggressions at work, a messy attachment-style breakup, and a Classmate Controversy update that proves family drama never really ends. Plus, all new Toxic Confessions straight from @ms_parkerforreal

It’s unfiltered, it’s real, and it’s exactly why you tune in: our community telling their stories, asking their questions, and trusting us to keep it a buck.

Grab your mug, pour it up, and let’s clock it together.

Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

00:00 Homeroom

00:45 ATBK- I was in a relationship with a married man

08:05 ATBK- Is it GAD, ADHD, Attachment, or is this a sign to end it?

20:47 ATBK- Not getting any younger

33:38 ATBK- Have to pick between my 2 kids!!!

39:56 ATBK- Microagressions- Racist Coworker

49:44 ATBK- What should I do?

55:32 ATBK- Read on Classmate Controversy update Re: Should I forgive or forget my mother?

59:22 Classmate Comments

01:07:19 ATBK- Micro aggression or just plain ignorant

01:10:39 ATBK- Re: Ask the Black Kids

01:17:27 Toxic Confession- I No Longer Want My Wife, I Just Want Her Money

01:20:31 Ms_ParkerForReal- I Took My Boyfriend's Dog to the Shelter Because He Cheated on Me

01:21:20 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Son Married His Wife to Cover Up

01:21:37 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Girlfriend Doesn't Know I Know She has a Girlfriend

01:22:19 Toxic Confession- I Like The Money But I Hate How She Earns It

01:23:33 Toxic Confession- My Baby Mama Took My Kids to Live in Colorado

01:25:13 Toxic Confessions- My Fiancé Got His Ex Pregnant But I Still Want the Wedding

01:26:11 The Tea App

01:27:48 Ms_ParkerForReal- I Did The Whole Team & My Man Don't Know

01:29:00 Ms_ParkerForReal- I Met Baby's Father Before I Fell in Love With His Brother

Is being a little petty ever justified? Or are some of y’all just doing the most for no reason? 😭 From ignoring allergy warnings to canceling dates mid-argument, these stories have us wondering — are they wrong… or just real?

One fiancé refuses to pay the mortgage. One dad’s inheritance goes nowhere near his wife. And someone really said “I don’t give a damn about your peanut allergy.” Like… huh??

Robert and Mrs. Sawyer are fired up in this one — you’ve been warned.

🎧 So tell us — are they the jerk? Or would you have done the same?

Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

00:00 Homeroom

03:29 ATBK- I need your help

08:43 Why 'k' is the most hated text message according to science

16:02 AITAH for telling my fiancé I won’t help pay the mortgage?

24:44 I called my (31M) wife (30F) ungrateful, cancelled our date and left her in the car to cry. How do I make her feel what I feel?

33:35 Am I the Jerk for refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house because she’s "a vegan with a peanut allergy"?

38:50 AITA for telling my roommate I don’t give a fuck about her boyfriend's allergies

42:45 What is your favorite insult without using curse words?

45:16 AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby?

51:58 Am I the jerk for refusing to give my stepmom the money my dad left me?

58:48 Toxic Confessions- I'm His Only Girlfriend & He's Faithful to His Wife

59:32 Toxic Confessions- Kenny Loves me More than Jay does

01:00:00 Toxic Confessions- Leaving Las Vegas with my Wife

01:01:37 Toxic Confessions- My Husband Met My WOAH Cousin First

This episode is giving Group Chat on fire. Every single story was sent in by y’all—and the drama, the audacity, the realness? 10/10.

From a sugar daddy who just might be someone’s ex’s father (yikes), to family feuds that would make a therapist take PTO, we’re deep in the Classmate Controversy era. Plus, the Lizard Wars get context, premarital counseling gets spicy, and one listener wants to know: should I forgive or forget my mom?

We laughed, we sighed, we side-eyed. This one’s for the real ones.

Need advice? Leave us a message: onlyblackkids.com

00:00 Homeroom

01:09 School Lunch

05:46 Comments

16:13 Coming to the D

18:56 OBK in DC

22:07 Thank You

28:06 ATBK- Lizard Wars Context

36:25 ATBK- Just a question??

43:05 ATBK- Re: Toxic Family Unraveling - Update 1 & 2

46:04 ATBK- Premarital Counseling & SOTU

01:01:13 ATBK- Help a Friend with Mental Health

01:07:35 OBK Dynamic

01:15:05 Classmates Come Through AGAIN!

01:17:03 My Sugar Daddy is My Ex Boyfriend's Father

01:19:46 OBK Diaspora

01:21:00 ATBK- Love the Show — Thoughts on Kids' Birthday Parties

01:27:12 ATBK- Help, need advice.. how to salvage my relationship with SILs

01:38:34 ATBK- Should I forgive or forget my mother?

01:57:40 TC- I don't want to be his Room mate with benefits

01:58:22 TC- I'm 6 Months Pregnant by my Married Boyfriend

01:59:34 TC- I'm Married to a Successful Plastic Surgeon

02:01:09 TC- I Visit Her Daily to Quietly move in

02:02:35 TC- Full Beast Mode

Classmates, we’re diving deep into the darkest corners of family drama in this episode.

From shocking revelations that will make you question everything to jaw-dropping moments where family loyalty is tested—these stories will have you shaking your head in disbelief.

We’re talking estranged fathers, family secrets, and the wildest betrayals you’ll ever hear about.

This week, we’ve got:

* A classmate navigating a fractured relationship with her father

* A sister and husband dropping some uncomfortable innuendo

* Parents handing over a house to one sibling, leaving the others out in the cold

* A daughter not getting a car from her father with a Napoleon complex

* A mom having a full-on meltdown over her daughter quitting gymnastics

Plus, we read some toxic confessions about a sugarless daddy and if size really matters

🎧 Tune in for the full tea and get ready to join the classroom conversation.

Listen to the full episode on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts. You don’t want to miss this one!

Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

00:00 Homeroom

04:43 ATBK Update- Help! How to Stop Crying When I Look My Husband in the Eye?

08:54 ATBK Asking for Advice - Estranged Father Edition

27:22 ATBK- Love Still Exists

29:43 Once you were old enough, what were the dark family secrets you were finally let in on?

34:55 AITA for refusing to help my parents after they gave my sister their house?

49:56 AITA for walking out on a family dinner because my sister and my husband implied they were sleeping together?

57:58 AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me?

01:21:59I (18F) am going to be quitting gymnastics, and my mother (41F) is having a mental breakdown over it, because me doing it is her entire life. How do I deal with this, when it makes me feel guilty?

01:27:29 My girlfriend (24F) reminded me (28M) to pay her back $10 after I forgot my wallet — I’ve paid for almost everything over 4 years and it left me feeling weird.

01:33:59 I met my step-daughters boyfriend yesterday.

01:35:35 Story Rankings

01:37:07 TC- I Can't Stop Thinking of Him Being Bigger

01:40:57 TC- Prison is a Better Option For Me, I Hate my Wife

01:42:17 TC- He was about to go back to his Wife when I got Pregnant

01:43:04 TC- I'm Going Celibate

01:45:18 TC- She Called me a Sugarless Daddy

01:46:59 TC- She Had My Ankles by my Ear Lobes

01:48:01 TC- My Fiancé is my Half-Brother

01:49:40 TC- How Do I Make Her Life Miserable Until She Forgives Me

This episode is loaded with petty behavior, delulu energy, and peak entitlement—and we’re calling all of it out.

We kick things off with two Ask the Black Kids emails from Classmates dealing with petty frenemies, including one “friend” who keeps tabs like it’s her full-time job 👀

Then it gets WILDER:

🛍️ A kid expected a birthday gift… for someone else’s birthday?

💼 A prank so dumb, we’d absolutely sue too

🐍 A broke best friend who refuses to take the job you offered them

Plus:

💬 A round of Toxic Confessions you won’t believe

🦎 A return to the Lizard Wars™

This episode is for anyone who’s tired of participation trophies, allergic to entitled energy, and here for real talk + real laughs.

Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

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00:00 Homeroom

04:33 ATBK- Am I Petty for Cutting off Friend Because I Disrespected Her with Advice

13:40 Define Friends

22:17 I will Cook For You

24:13 ATBK- You Don't Hang Up on Me, I Hang Up on You

32:40 The Lizard Wars Continue

40:15 AITA for Correcting a Co-Worker About Something

47:52 AITA for Refusing to Buy a Gift for a Kid Because it's their Sibling's Birthday

50:33 We Had One Nintendo

01:01:44 Where's the Popcorn

01:03:20 AITA For Taking my Brother-in-Law to Small Claims Court for a Prank

01:09:47 My Best Friend is Broke. I've Been Offering Him a Job for Months

01:23:30 Shout out Servers

01:26:37 Not the Opossums

01:28:09 Get it Out the Mud

01:31:32 Story Ranking

01:33:30 Toxic Confessions- My Husband Was Engaged to Another Woman when we Met

01:36:05 Toxic Confessions- He Said You're Exclusive to Me

01:37:44 Toxic Confessions- My Family is Squatting in Our Family Home

01:38:56 Group Economics

Entitled people are back—and bolder than ever.In this episode, we’re reacting to next-level shenanigans:🧬 A sister faking cancer for sympathy🍽️ A MIL expecting you to foot the bill for 8 people🐱 A woman who demanded he get rid of his cat… before the first date✈️ An airplane couple who tried to assign someone else the middle seat🚪 A neighbor who needs to check her husband—not youPLUS: this week’s Classmate Homework: What’s the most entitled thing someone’s ever asked you for?If you love delusion, drama, and petty justice—this one’s for you.Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.tiktok.com/@onlyblackkidsTikTok | https://www.instagram.com/onlyblackkids

00:00 Homeroom

10:26 ATBK- I just want to tell my story

24:10 AITA for exposing my sister's fake cancer to our parents after she refused to come clean herself?

29:20 I need help... my mother in law asked if i'm okay paying for a dinner for 8 people?

32:45 AITAH for telling my neighbor she should check her husband and NOT me?

38:18 Matched with a girl yesterday. I told her I had a cat. She asked me to get rid of it. I don’t even know her and never met her.

41:25 On a flight yesterday, entitled couple tells me I need to sit in the middle seat.

44:37 HW- What’s the most entitled thing someone has ever asked you for

47:53 TC- I'm Pregnant By My Incarcerated Boyfriend's Opps

49:16 TC- He Tested My Loyalty

50:08 TC- Sweetie's New Husband Did time

51:09 TC- My Husband is 12 years older than me. My boyfriend is 9 years younger

This one’s all Classmates, all chaos.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into listener-submitted stories that had us laughing, shaking our heads, and genuinely asking: “Wait… what?!”

We unpack:

• A possible long-lost sibling situation 👀

• A wedding dilemma involving mental health and messy cousins

• A question of cutting off a best friend

• A heartbreaking cry for help from a Classmate struggling to look her husband in the eye 😢

• And yes… we definitely discuss the Classmate whose husband has a growing collection of homemade **** 😬🌽

And of course…the return of Toxic Confessions!

These aren’t Reddit. These are real people. Real stories. Real tough love.

Come sit with us and bring tissues, tea, and maybe a burner phone.

Hit play and report to class!

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00:00 Homeroom

11:31 ATBK- For your consideration: Shows to consider

14:25 ATBK- OBKITC Appreciation Email

15:45 ATBK- I may have discovered another siblings and I don’t know what to do

23:47 ATBK- Am I the AH for not wanting my cousins dealing with mental health issues at my wedding?

28:31 ATBK- Help!How to stop crying when I look my husband in the eye?

53:49 ATBK- My Husband Has a lot of Homemade Corn videos of Me

56:40 ATBK- AITAH for cutting off my “best friend”?

01:02:18 Chicago with Sza

01:13:22 We need More Spots- Drop the Restaurants

01:14:52 ATBK- Conflicted

01:29:20 Homework- What Would You Do If You Knew You Would Succeed?

01:31:25 TC- Church Building Fund

01:32:57 TC- He Spent the Money on the Cowboy Carter Tour

01:34:07 TC- Magic Trick Kids

01:36:04 TC- My Husband Got My Daughter's 18yo Friend Pregnant

Think your family is wild? These Reddit stories said “hold my drama.”

We’re talking:

👶 Breastfeeding boundaries

💔 Estranged sons and broken trust

👀 A mother-in-law who ruined a marriage with one conversation

💍 An open marriage that’s none of your business

🎁 Plus a Mother’s Day disaster and a husband who missed the birth of his child

Tap in as we react, roast, and ask: Can family be too messy to fix?

Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

00:00 Homeroom

10:15 ATBK- Thank You

14:26 ATBK- Thanks For Your Help

17:25 AITA For Refusing To Give My Former Son A Second Chance?

27:11 AITA for breastfeeding my niece?

39:11 Princess Peach is a 304

42:27 AITA for not going home after giving birth because my husband missed it to help our friends?

53:46 My MIL decided to gossip with my daughter about my marriage, blowing a giant hole in my life.

01:06:04 How can we (35f/36M) get my SIL to understand that our open marriage is NOT hurting my disabled husband? (3 stories)

01:10:25 She don't think I can get a badder b!tch?

01:16:49 AITA For showing up to Mother's Day When My SIL Warned me she would make a scene

1:21:05 How can we get my SIL to understand our open marriage

Classmates… this episode is full of panic, bad decisions, and people who folded under pressure.

From running during an attack to hiding sexual secrets with your girlfriend’s parents 😳, these stories had us asking:

“WHAT would you do??”

We’ve got:

🎒 A mom checking her daughter’s bags behind her husband’s back

😂 A husband laughing at the absolute wrong moment

🧬 A boyfriend with way too much family history

🏃🏾‍♂️ A fiancé who ran for his life during a dangerous moment

✂️ A hairstylist who’s literally been hoarding someone’s hair??

💥 Plus, Robert and Mrs. Sawyer share their own fight or flight moments

This episode is packed with wild decisions, boundary-crossing, and real talk on how fear exposes people’s true instincts.

🎧 Tap in. Pick your side. And tell us… what would YOU have done?

Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

00:00 Homeroom

07:23 AITA for checking my daughter's bags after my Husband packed them

14:12 AITA for Laughing at my Wife's Comment

16:00 My Boyfriend has a Sexual History with my Parents. Can we still Survive?

21:17 AITA for Considering Breaking up With my Fiancé Because he ran away while we were being attacked

28:57 Robert's Fight or Flight

32:59 Mrs. Sawyer's Fight or Flight

38:13 Hairstylist Has Been Keeping my Hair

47:46 Update

01:03:40 Homework

01:08:26 Toxic Confessions- She's Jealous of My Ex

01:10:23 Toxic Confessions- She Made me Date for 5 Months before She gave me the Cat

01:11:47 Toxic Confessions- I Chose Ortiz to be my Husband

01:13:10 Toxic Confessions- So Called Men Play Too Much

Classmates… This episode is pure, concentrated, uncut TOXICITY.

We’ve got:

🚨 A woman telling her 5-year-old about the time her dad got her arrested

💍 A man who… doesn’t know he’s married??

👶🏾 A paternity twist with no grandparents allowed

🍻 A petty king taking back the beer from a party he wasn’t invited to

🛏️ A father fighting for his daughter’s peace—with two messy updates

💒 And the ultimate wedding revenge: “She erased us from hers… so I erased her from mine.”

PLUS:

We read a Classmate submission so toxic, we had to take a breath before responding.

And this week’s homework?

👉🏾 What’s a toxic behavior you used to normalize… until you realized it wasn’t healthy, it was control?

This episode is full of betrayal, petty power moves, long-held grudges, and deeply unhealthy behavior.

🎧 LISTEN and ask yourself:

At what point do we stop calling it family… and start calling a lawyer?

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00:00 Homeroom

12:45 Homework Responses: Siblings

15:19 ATBK- AITA for telling my 5 year old the reason I don’t engage with her father is because he got me arrested and sabotaged my medical career?

24:42 ATBK- God Makes a Way

29:51 He doesn’t know we’re married

33:29 AITA for not letting my parents be grandparents to my “son”?

37:58 AITA for Taking back the Beer I brought for a party to which I was uninvited

43:23 HOMEWORK- What's a Toxic Behavior You Used to Normalize

44:23 She Erased Us from Her Wedding So I'm Erasing Her from Mine

50:34 AITA for getting my daughter her own room (2 updates)

01:14:26 Toxic Confessions- I'm Forced To Give Birth to My Daughter's Children

01:15:43 Toxic Confessions- My Boyfriend Looks Like Winnie the Pooh

01:16:56 Toxic Confessions- Your Child's Mother is the ULTIMATE Soul-Tie

01:18:39 Toxic Confessions- My Father Was Arrested for Arson

01:20:19 Toxic Confessions- Withholding from my Wife

01:21:24 Toxic Confessions- His Wife Made him Renew their Vows

Classmates, get ready to evaluate your relationship standards like never before.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into relationships and asking the tough question: Is this relationship really ready for ‘I Do’? From self-reflection to judgmental moments, we’re unpacking the reality of what it truly takes to make a lifelong commitment. This episode focuses on what happens before you say ‘I Do’.

We’ve got:

💔 A wife confronting her husband after he abandoned her on their honeymoon

😤 A fiancé threatening to call off the engagement after a ring rejection

🔥 A partner questioning the marriage after a secret is revealed

💬 Plus, a special Ask the Black Kids email about what getting ready for marriage entails

And of course, we’re serving up Toxic Confessions that’ll make you question every relationship you know.

🎧 Tap in, laugh with us, and ask yourself: Is your relationship truly ready for forever? Or is there work to be done?

00:00 I Sent Her a Wedding Invitation to My Wedding, Not Hers

03:08 Homeroom

8:10 ATBK- Regarding Premarital Counseling

16:54 Mrs. Sawyer Beat Him Up

22:10 Premarital Counseling

28:44 How To Speak My Partner's Language

what should I be looking for in a premarital counseling session? What should I be bringing to the table?

What does a State of the Union meeting look like for a couple/marriage?

38:02 AIO that my husband left me alone on our honeymoon

45:13 AIO for thinking about calling off the engagement after she didn’t like the ring?

54:28 Husband(26M) told me(26F) that we’re in major credit card debt. Is this salvageable?

01:11:28 IG Story Relationship Questions

01:23:20 TC- Junior Isn't My Husband's First Born Son

01:25:00 TC- All the Daddy You Need

01:27:09 TC- Ken Told Me He was Forty

Classmates, we’re back with a special episode straight from Atlanta!

This week, we dive into real talk with our Classmates, addressing everything from mental health support and navigating adulting struggles from the USA to South Africa. We also share our love for the diaspora and dreams of taking OBK on a World Tour to connect with Classmates everywhere.

In this episode, we’ve got:

💬 A classmate asking for tips on getting her husband to help more with adulting

🌍 A South African Classmate wondering if she’s doing too much for a friend

💸 A surprising twist about tax refunds and child support

🍽️ And we’re looking for the best eats in ATL (drop your suggestions!)

Plus, as always, we read some Toxic Confessions and tackle this week’s Homework Assignment: What’s the pettiest reason you’ve ever cut off a friend?

🎧 Tap in, laugh, learn, and share your thoughts!

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00:00 Homeroom

02:55 ATBK- Thanks for Your Help

06:00 ATBK- My Husband Refuses to Help with Adulting

17:38 ATBK- Am I Doing Too Much

29:02 The World Tour

30:16 Cherry Blossoms

32:00 AITA for Being Angry My Tax Refund Paid off My Husband's Child Support

39:01 ATL

41:46 Homework- What's the Pettiest Reason You've Ever Cut Off a Friend?

43:15 Toxic Confessions- The Cop Made Me Call My Wife

45:36 Toxic Confessions- How Do I Know if My Girlfriend will Leave Her Husband for Good?

47:08 Toxic Confessions- She received Her Retirement Benefits and Left me and Our Sons

49:32 Soul Food

Classmates, Does Love Survive Lies?In this episode, we dive into jaw-dropping moments of lies, betrayal, and the complexities of trust. From a wife being blindsided by a shocking confession to a husband who doesn’t know how to handle his own lies—we’re talking all things trust, loyalty, and love.We’ve got:💔 The most toxic Ask the Black Kids email we’ve ever received (trust us, you don’t want to miss this one)💥 A man caught in a web of lies during an intimate moment💸 A proposal rejection gone horribly wrongThis one’s full of real talk, real drama, and a lot of “what would you do?” moments.🎧 Tap in, laugh with us, and let’s get into it—this one’s gonna stir some feelings.

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00:00 Homeroom

07:01 ATBK- Love Your Show

07:41 ATBK- AITA for Spying on my Boyfriend

17:42 The Lizard Wars

23:57 My husband lied to me during one of our most intimate moments. Now I don’t know how to trust him.

38:07 AIO husband poops his pants, says it’s no big deal

48:56 AITA He Calls me the Wrong Name

54:05 AITA for Telling my Wife she Smells Bad

58:41 My fiancé (44M) and I (29F) moved to a certain race-dominated town, and he’s acting odd, where to go from here?

01:07:34 Broke up with my GF over tattoos. She no longer "agrees" with Our Breakup

01:14:31 Toxic Confessions- My Wife is Adventurous

01:15:22 Toxic Confessions- I'm Not Sleeping on the Floor, I have a Sleeping Bag

01:17:13 Toxic Confessions- My GF is a High Fashion Influencer

01:18:19 Toxic Confession- My Fiancé Won't Marry a Mama's Boy

Classmates… some of y’all are beefing with your siblings like they’re lifelong opps!

In this episode, we’re diving into the pettiest, messiest, and most emotional sibling drama we’ve seen yet. From weddings that weren’t rescheduled, to dying sisters who want forgiveness, to in-laws treating your house like it’s theirs—it’s clear some family members missed the “respect” part of the family handbook.

We’ve got:

👰🏽 A sister demanding a wedding be moved because she’s grieving

🍼 A sibling who wants free babysitting after a public humiliation

💔 A man confronting his wife’s brother… again

🚪 A woman telling her sister, “get out of my house”

💬 And a special Ask The Black Kids email titled:

“My brother is being passive-aggressive toward my husband…” 👀

This episode is full of boundary violations, broken trust, and bad family behavior—but also some real talk about healing, holding your line, and choosing peace over guilt.

🎧 Tap in. Laugh with us. Vent with us. And ask yourself:

Are they really your sibling… or just your enemy with matching DNA?

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00:00 Homeroom

3:19 Show Recommendations

10:28 ATBK- My brother is being passive aggressive towards my husband

19:17 AITA for kicking my sister out of my house for telling my husband he's so lucky to be rich?

24:14 AITA for telling my wife that I'm ending our marriage because I found her brother at our house (again) and said it in front of him?

31:15 AITAH for not rescheduling my wedding after my sister was widowed?

35:21 AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids after she embarrassed me at a family dinner?

38:25 Homework Assignment

40:22 AITAH for refusing to make amends with my dying sister.

46:24 Toxic Confessions- My Mother Lied About My Age for more Child Support

47:40 Toxic Confessions- If I Didn't Steal Him, Why Doesn't He Move Out and Give me My Car Back

49:21 Toxic Confessions- I've Been Dating an UnHappily Married Man

Classmates… we’ve all been there—when money comes between love, relationships get messy.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the cost of loyalty and how financial issues can tear relationships apart. From husbands demanding money after making mistakes, to partners taking ultimatums over finances—this one is full of jaw-dropping moments.

We’ve got:

💰 A partner who’s demanding a divorce over shared lotto winnings

💔 A woman calling out her husband’s broken trust during intimate moments

🔒 A friend setting financial boundaries that affect everyone around them

💸 And a husband who shuts down his wife over her spending habits

Plus, we’ve got an Ask the Black Kids email from a classmate grappling with step-children and inheritance drama. And as always, Toxic Confessions will have you shaking your head and laughing at the same time.

This episode is packed with real talk about relationship breakdowns, trust issues, and financial tension. Tap in and let us know—how far would you go for money in love?

🎧 Tap in. Laugh with us. Vent with us. And ask yourself:

How much is too much when money gets in the way of love?

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00:00 Homeroom

03:13 ATBK- Advice Needed

11:10 ATBK- Should I Cancel My Hotel Room… or Wait for This Wedding to Implode?

16:58 Drums vs Flats

23:21 This Week's Homework

29:14 Robert was on a podcast

31:49 AITA for telling my Wife we share our Lotto winnings or we Separate

36:45 Comment- My Attorney Didn't Charge me for my Divorce

44:04 AITA for Not Stopping My Husband from Getting a Paternity Test

46:21 My Neighbor Takes up all the Parking Spaces so I made Friends with the Birds

49:03 AITA for Breaking up with my GF After she Insisted I pay her sister's student loans

56:27 AITA for Not Bringing anything to My Friend's Potluck After She Told me Not To

58:40 AITA for Telling My GF Not to Join Me on Vacation Because of Her Finances

01:01:05 Toxic Confessions- My Job Offer Was Rescinded

01:02:56 Toxic Confessions- I'm the Only Baby Mama in My House

01:04:15 Toxic Confessions- All He Offers is a One Way Trip to Pound Town

01:04:55 Toxic Confessions- She isn't the Loving Woman I Married

01:05:49 Toxic Confessions- My Husband Quit His Job After He found out about my Affair

Send us your relationship stories & questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com

Classmates… it’s time to talk about the moments when boundaries and common sense are thrown out the window.

In this episode, we’re diving into outrageous stories where people are crossing lines, creating chaos, and acting like they’re entitled to it all. From partners bickering over cookies to cringey roommates, this one’s full of head-shaking moments that’ll have you questioning what’s really going on. Plus a Classmate shares a follow-up on their journey of growth since reaching out earlier this year—what a transformation! 🙌🏿

We’ve got:

🏠 A partner who’s charging rent in their own house

🍪 A husband who made a major cookie mistake—now he’s sleeping on the couch

🛏️ A roommate who decided the bed wasn’t good enough and started sleeping under it

Plus the mind-blower:

💉 A shocking question of trust: did he cheat or was it just an STD…from a koala?

This episode is packed with confusion, bold decisions, and messy situations about boundaries, ownership, and understanding when it’s time to stop putting up with nonsense.

Tap in and let us know:

How far would you go before cutting someone off? And who do you think is really in the wrong here?

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00:00 Homeroom

06:00 ATBK- My Poly Debacle

13:54 ATBK- Shady Pines UPDATE

19:58 Podcast Friends

22:55 AITA for Charging my Partner Rent for Living in the House I Own

31:43 AITA For Not Listening to My Wife and Eating the Wrong Cookie

43:18 AITA for being Angry that my Roommate was Sleeping Under My Bed for Months

53:29 Did He Cheat, or did I catch an STD from a Koala

01:11:01 Toxic Confessions- Hannah from Sweden

01:12:22 Toxic Confessions- I've Been Dating My Husband's Replacements

01:13:25 Toxic Confessions- He's Got a Job, He can Move Around

Classmates… some of y’all need a serious reminder that being in someone’s life doesn’t mean you’re owed everything.

In this episode, we’re diving into stories where roles and boundaries are crossed, twisted, or straight-up ignored. From petty breakups and bad bosses to family entitlement at baby showers—this one had us shaking our heads the entire time.

We’ve got:

💇🏾‍♀️ A girlfriend who’s mad she cut her hair for charity—and wants her boyfriend to pay for it

🎰 A man who hit a cruise ship jackpot, and now his brother thinks he deserves a cut

🚪 A boss asking for the company code—AFTER he fired his employee

👀 A friend getting salty after learning the truth about someone’s sex life

🛋️ And a boyfriend who refuses to sleep on the couch just to “keep the peace”

Plus the jaw-dropper:

A woman cheats just to “see if she still had it”… and now she wants her man back 🙃

This one is full of confusion, bold delusion, and hard conversations about who owes who—and who absolutely does NOT.

Tap in and let us know: When is someone asking too much… and when are you responsible for your peace?

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00:00 Homeroom

06:33 ATBK- Toxic Family Unraveling

17:27 ATBK- Chill's Does Not Cost $30

26:13 AITA For Refusing to Pay for My Girlfriend's Haircut After She Donated Her Hair

30:40 AITA For Telling SIL Get out of my Daughter's Baby Shower

37:05 I Won a Jackpot on a Cruise, Now my Brother Wants His Fair Share

39:02 AITA If I Don't Provide a Code for My Boss Who Fired Me

41:59 Friend is Mad After Learning Details of My Sex Life

44:59 AITA For Refusing to Take My GF back after she Cheated Just to see if She Still had It

50:37 AITA For Refusing to Sleep on the Couch

58:10 TC- He Needs a Baby Sitter While He Cakes Down Other Men

59:25 TC- My Skater Wife

1:00:06 TC- My BF Wants to Unalive Me