Ever wondered what really happens at sex parties? Or how stepping outside the "norm" can reignite the passion in your relationship? Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are bringing the heat in this episode as they sit down with Tammy, who took a leap into the world of ethical non-monogamy after a chance encounter at a bar introduced her to the lifestyle.

From nervously attending her first sex party to finding confidence, connection, and erotic freedom, Tammy shares her unforgettable journey—complete with awkward moments, thrilling encounters, and the unexpected friendships that changed her perspective on relationships and intimacy.

She dives deep into what it’s really like to explore new desires, navigate pleasure with confidence, and embrace the power of female sexual empowerment. But here’s the twist—Tammy isn’t just another lifestyle explorer. Spoiler alert: She’s also a sex and relationship therapist and coach, bringing expert insight into why so many couples feel “stuck” and how they can break free to rediscover passion.

Join Mr and Mrs Mocha in this juicy and unfiltered episode as they dish out advice on breaking free from lifestyle peer pressure and embracing your authentic, sexy self . Whether you are new to the scene or a seasoned Explorer they encourage you to break out of cliques , explore different lifestyle communities,  and unlock the full potential of your wildest fantasies.

And because Mocha always bring the heat , she shares a hilarious explicit tale about her freshly (waxed kitty ) and how it held up during some steamy , friction - filled fun. Spoiler alert it's as spicy as it sounds!

If you are a curious couple,  a swinging soul, or a bored housewife craving more passion in the bedroom , this episode will inspire you to let your freak flag fly , laugh a little (or a lot ) , and dive into new adventures without shame . Sexy, sassy, and O-so-relatable -- this is one episode you don't want to miss .

Tune in , turn on ,and let's talk dirty . 

Dive into the steamy world of the swinger lifestyle in this sizzling episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha podcast! Joining us all the way from the UK are none other than Secret Vixen and her husband, Secret Stag, for a no-holds-barred conversation that’s as hot as it is revealing.

Discover how this power couple first dipped their toes into the lifestyle and how it reignited Secret Vixen’s confidence, bringing her “Sexy Back” in ways she never imagined. They share intimate details about their very first experience in the lifestyle—a moment that set Secret Vixen’s passion ablaze and inspired her to create a blog where she openly answers burning questions and shares her adventures.

Things heat up as Secret Vixen opens up about her recent trip to the US for Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention. Hear her gush about how empowered and sexy she felt at the event, and her excitement for more U.S.-based experiences.

But it doesn’t stop there. Mrs. Mocha doesn’t shy away from turning up the heat, encouraging Secret Vixen to explore even wilder fantasies, including taking on multiple men at once. By the end of the episode, sparks are flying as Mrs. Mocha and Secret Vixen make plans for a sexy team-up to take on a group of irresistibly hot men.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the swinger lifestyle, looking to spice up their relationship, or just seeking a fun, adult-themed escape. Whether you’re into sexy reality TV, couples’ sexual therapy, or just love a good, naughty story, this podcast delivers it all—raw, real, and unfiltered.

In our latest live episode, "The Men of Ofacez," recorded at the Splash Mocha Interracial Hot Wife convention in Orlando during the New Year’s Eve event, a powerhouse panel featuring Mr. Mocha, Demetri VC, Chris Minx, Misdaeastcoast, Andre, and Pussy Licka shared their insights.

They spoke about the importance of the Lifestyle community—a space that empowers, educates, and teaches accountability. The panel explored themes of normalizing sexual freedom and embracing the reality that men can be vulnerable while still embodying true masculinity.

This isn’t your typical relationship podcast—it’s a no-holds-barred exploration of connection, freedom, and the pursuit of pleasure. Tune in and discover what it means to live unfiltered.

"In this episode, recorded live at Splash Mocha in Orlando, Florida, an interracial hotwife event, Mr. Mocha and Mrs. Mocha explored the dynamics of sexual freedom for women within the lifestyle community. They engaged with the audience, including a discussion initiated by an experienced bull about the authenticity of Queen of Spades, and explored the topic of being a married bull in the lifestyle. Mrs. Mocha also shared her journey and how she's become more open sexually, challenging societal norms. The lively audience participation added a fun, sexy, and exciting element, making it a fantastic way to end 2024."

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are joined by party goers live from Splash Mocha Houston 2024. Off the rails from the start but fun and unfiltered! So no subject is off limits. Let's talk sex!

Brian define what it means to be a Sigma Male in the Lifestyle. How he was introduced to the LS . And how he it has changed his life. Sex as a single male and the way he brings sexual excitement to lives of couples. He introduces the topic of the " Quality Bull". Join Mr. Mocha and Brian and enjoy the show!

Mrs. Mocha is finally back to her old ways and loving life. She is back on the D! She is catching out for lost sex and moving full steam ahead!

Come along on this mind opening discussion as Drew shares his journey and navigation of being a Bi-Sexual Bull. He starts by talking about the struggles of being bi-sexual in a a close minded family and the discouragement he faced early on and how it hindered him from exploring this side of himself.  Mr. Mocha shares his own journey from homophobia to understanding and the effects of our society's homophobic programming.  They discuss the many aspects of being a bi-sexual bull from making sure you inform couples from the start, navigating a typically straight focused niche of the cuckhold lifestyle and what questions to ask couples to see how open they are. Drew also covers levels of bi-play, how to be comfortable in your own skin as a bi-bull, the differences between full Bi and hetero-flexible and how to communicate with other bulls in the lifestyle who may be open or not open.

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Mr. Mocha interviews The Creator of "Cuck Corner" Craig McKinney live from Splash Mocha. Enjoy the chat and interaction from the live audience. Mike from Keys and Anklets joins the show to help us wrap. Just set back and enjoy the random chats .

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx at chop it up with J Prez, mistaeastcoast Craig, Tina from Splash Mocha and a few more guest. Sex, laughs , and flogging. Just Tune in and enjoy!!!!!!

Sorry the feed got cut at the end so if you were not with us live you missed it forever!

Mrs. Mocha is Back and joined by.... Angel Minx, Siren, Coco and more talk dirty at Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Nothing like sexy ladies talkin about sex sex and more sex. In classic Dirty girls style they are wide open, all over the place, and Fun as hell to listen to!!!!!!!!!

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx pregame at the Splash Mocha live the day before it kicks off. They start off with DFW Goliath and Craig and are invaded by Mrs. Mocha , Angel Minx, Coco and more! The pregame show was all over the place and yet it is a great listen and will get you primed and ready for the following shows! Enjoy!!!!!!!!!

On this episode. Mr. Mocha and the rest of the panel welcome guest contributors Doyle and Socrates.
The guests share their personal stories on the cause of low or no self love. They share the effects that has had on their ability to deal with rejection both in and out of the lifestyle. Doyle contributes with his perspective on going down the rabbit hole of self doubt and how easily it is to fall into negative patterns when you lack an affirming upbringing.  Mr. Mocha by comparison shares his own experience of self love and confidence which was grown with his fathers guidance. They also discuss how self talk affects your self esteem and how to change your self talk to boost your self esteem. They round out the discussion by talking about rejection and all its inner and outer workings. How males rejecting each other has an effect but also remembering that a NO right now may not mean NO forever. Come along with this group of experienced lifestyle men as they dive deep into male emotions and experiences. #LowSelfEsteem#FearOfRejection#swingers 

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Mr. and Mrs. Mocha interview Wayne and Tina 3 days before Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Get it from the Owners mouth. What is Splash Mocha ? Where did it start? and How did it evolve? What makes Splash different from other events? And get personal and Learn about Splash Mocha's owner Wayne and his wife's intro into the Lifestyle. Customer service manager Tina shares her and her husbands LS intro and how they met Wayne and his wife.

 Let's talk about it!  Mrs. Mocha invites Salacious Scarlet from the Slut Sisters to share in a discussion about new advancements in sexual health. We are sharing our lived experience as sexually empowered women who take excellent care of our sexual health. Stigma surrounding STI's contributes to sex negativity in our culture. 
Topics discussed include:

• PrEP for HIV prevention
• DoxyPEP, a revolutionary new treatment protocol that provides post exposure prophylaxis for bacterial STI's such as Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Syphilis.
• Vaginal health products for the ladies that promote healthy ph and vaginal microbiome.

Part 2 with Drew Marston. Mr. Mocha and Drew talk finding the right couples. What he looks for and what he avoids. Understanding bonds and boundaries. Responding to having personal boundaries push.... and so much more!

Drew Marston is an experience Bull in the lifestyle as well as the founder and publisher of Spades Magazine. This is the first in a series of interviews with Drew. In this episode Mr. Mocha gets Drew's origin story. How he found the Ls, how long he's been in the LS, and his journey from rookie single guy to successful BBC Bull!

Dive into single male etiquette with Mr. Mocha and Q as they discuss the dynamics and roles for single men in the lifestyle.

Mr. Mocha discusses the various roles, relationships and dynamics in the lifestyle and how the single male interacts with each one.

They take you step by step from building a profile on lifestyle sites, approach, managing and responding to rejection and knowing how to read a room. 

They encourage observation and the importance of being selective.

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