Tough Love in this hang today, we all have the same 24 hours in the same day. So whether you're resistant to make sacrifices, or you are not ready to face the truth on your habits - maybe this episode is the little push you need.
In my second ADHD rant, I get a little deep ... we talk about growing up in a narcissistic, alcoholic abusive household - growing as an adult and healing your inner child. Alot of reflection has happened this year, and thank you for allowing me the space to share this with you.
Forget the motivation. Forget the inspiration. You get real time ADHD, unhinged thoughts. Let's cozy up, let's sit across from each other and actually connect. Because thats why you're here.
Stop searching for the one magic solution! Every coach sells their zone of genius - be it nervous system healing, marketing strategy, or mindset - as the single key to success. But the harsh reality is that it’s everything.
In this unfiltered episode, we expose the illusion of the single solution and dive into the Cohesive System you need to build: the interlocking mastery of your self, your systems, and your communication. I'm sharing why you can't get $100K months with a side-hustle mentality, and why attacking your life like a beast (like my current 75 Hard challenge and sub-1:50 half-marathon goal) is the only way to earn the season of softness. If you want big results, you need to bring BDE to the process.
Here's a polarizing truth: Trading your time for money is the number one way to keep yourself financially broke. You're not working hard enough - you're working in a Linear Trap where your income is mathematically capped by the 24 hours in a day.
In this episode, we expose why the salary and the hourly wage are an illusion of safety that leads to financial suffocation. We break down the only way out: shifting to Non-Linear Income by mastering the two pillars of wealth - Leverage and Scalability. If you're ready to stop trading your life for a paycheck and start building a ceiling-less future, this episode is your radical wake-up call.
Do you feel like you're chasing smoke? You're reading all the books, saying all the affirmations, and listening to all the podcasts, but the money isn't sticking around. You're stuck on the Personal Development Treadmill.
The eye-opening truth is this: Money is not the goal; it is the inevitable byproduct of the system you build inside yourself. In this thought-provoking episode, we dig deep into the three essential inputs that actually determine your output:
Why your Brand is your Belief System (and how your self-worth dictates your pricing).
Why your Work Ethic is your Integrity (and why tiny, consistent habits beat frantic effort).
How your Relationship with Money (rooted in fear) leads to self-sabotage.
Stop chasing the external strategy. Start fixing the internal formula. This episode will fundamentally change how you approach your business and make success the natural result of your self-mastery.
Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by financial stress that you were just fighting to breathe? In this raw and honest episode, I'm sharing my personal story of earning $3,000 a month with over $100,000 in debt, and the moment a grocery store declined my card, leaving me with a full cart and a feeling of complete suffocation. I'll get real about the shame, the anxiety, and the brutal uphill battle of making money online. But more importantly, I'll reveal why that craving for a different life is the only thing that will fuel your fight and why the struggle is absolutely worth it. This isn't just a story about money; it's a testament to the power of grit, and the promise that you will figure it out.
I lost $45,000 on a coaching program that left me with unfulfilled promises, gaslighting, and a heavy sense of betrayal. But the most valuable thing I ever gained was a lesson that money can't buy. In this episode, I'm getting brutally honest about the investment wound-the pain of a failed investment, and why it taught me that the only voice you can truly trust is your own. I'll share how I learned to listen to my gut, and why chasing your dreams, even after being burned, will always be the best investment you can make.
Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night with a jolt, heart pounding with a type of anxiety that no one ever talks about? In this episode, I'm getting raw about the brutal truth of starting over - the part no one shows you on social media. I'll get honest about my own battle with nervous system dysregulation and why your excuses of being "too busy" or "it's too hard" are just a symptom of being comfortable. We'll dive into the one mindset shift you need to make to go from focusing on outcomes to controlling your inputs, and I'll give you the tough love you need to finally do what the 1% do: show up consistently even when it feels like you're failing.
There are only four months left in the year. How different could your life look by January 1st if you finally embraced the discomfort of change? In this episode, I'm sharing my commitment to 75 Hard and a massive business goal to prove that the uncomfortable choice is the only one that truly matters. We'll dive into the psychology of why humans resist change, the difference between fleeting motivation and deep inspiration, and why you have to shed your old life to step into a new one. This isn't just a pep talk, it's a wake-up call to make the final four months of the year count.
Do you feel paralyzed by the thought of being judged by friends and family? The fear of being seen in your business—without perfect lighting, makeup, or a flawless script—is often more terrifying than the fear of failure itself. But what if that fear is the single biggest thing standing between you and the life you want?
In this raw and honest episode, I'll share the truth about where that fear comes from and how I finally overcame it. I'll get real about my own struggle, from putting only $10 of gas in my car at a time to the powerful mindset shift that made a full tank non-negotiable. We'll break down why the "perfect" online persona is what's holding you back, and I'll give you a simple, actionable method to work through the fear of posting so you can finally show up and connect with the people who need you.
Ever feel like giving up is easier than pushing through? The online world sells us the "easy path," but the truth is, true success is forged through grit and resilience. In this deeply personal episode, I'll share my own stories—from running a 23km race with severe blisters to navigating life's toughest moments—to show you why your ability to endure is your greatest asset. We'll talk about why giving up feels so good in the moment, what it's costing you long-term, and how the hardest parts of your life have already prepared you for the challenges of building a business that lasts. If you're tired of running from obstacles, this is your wake-up call to start running through them.
Your business breakthrough starts here: https://www.skool.com/businessmasterylab/about?ref=609cfb25f92a48ec917ef09a1c339c1e
Are you stuck in the cycle of course collecting? You've bought the courses, the templates, and the promise of a better life, but you're still not seeing results. The reason isn't a lack of knowledge; it's a lack of a crucial mindset shift.
In this powerful episode, we dive into the mental and emotional hurdles that keep you stuck as a perpetual student, not a business owner. We'll explore why collecting courses feels safe, what that safety is really costing you, and how to finally make the courageous leap into owning your power. We also get honest about the unique challenges of navigating this journey with ADHD, offering a path to build a system that works with your brain, not against it.
If you're ready to stop consuming and start creating, this episode is your roadmap out of the course collector's curse and into a life of real, tangible freedom.
Ready to stop dreaming and start building?
The shift from course collector to business owner requires more than just a mindset change; it requires a proven system, consistent support, and accountability.
That's exactly what we provide in the 5 Pillars Business Mastery Lab. This isn't another course for your digital graveyard. It's an immersive program that gives you the framework, feedback, and community you need to build a rock-solid business foundation and finally turn your ideas into consistent income.
Click the link in the show notes to learn more and join the Business Mastery Lab today.
https://www.skool.com/businessmasterylab/about?ref=609cfb25f92a48ec917ef09a1c339c1e
You've seen the headlines: "$100K in 30 days!" and "Quit your job and scale to six figures!" This narrative of rapid, effortless success is everywhere in the online world, and it's a lie. This myth is a huge reason why so many of us feel like failures when our own journey is a slow, steady climb.
In this episode, we're getting honest about the "overnight success" myth and the unsustainable hustle grind it creates. I'll show you why your frustration is a normal, valid response to unrealistic expectations and, most importantly, how to reframe your journey. We'll explore how small, consistent actions are the real secret to building a business that not only makes you money but also gives you the true freedom you're chasing.
Is your digital library overflowing with courses you've bought, one after another, each promising to be "the one" that finally makes you money online? You're not alone. The cycle of course hoarding and shiny object syndrome has left countless aspiring entrepreneurs stagnant for months, even years, jumping from one shiny new strategy to the next, often buying with money they don't really have.
In this episode, we're cutting through the noise to expose the brutal truth: the problem isn't that you lack knowledge. It's that you're missing implementation and a strong foundational strategy. I'll dive into why we get caught in this trap and, most importantly, how to finally break free and move the needle towards building the freedom-based business you actually want.
Ready to stop collecting and start creating? Join me for my FREE live workshop, "FROM STUCK TO STRATEGIC: BUILD THE FREEDOM-BASED BUSINESS YOU ACTUALLY WANT," on August 6th! We'll break free from the course-collecting curse and get you on the path to consistent results.
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Have you fallen victim to the "online income fad diet"? For the last two years, the internet has been swept up in a "course craze" – promising quick riches and automated empires, much like the deceptive allure of fad diets in the fitness world. Many have invested heavily, only to find themselves two years later, stuck with a digital library of unused courses and zero results.
In this no-bullshit episode, I'm dissecting why we fall for the shiny object syndrome and the true cost of information consumption without implementation. Drawing clear parallels to the fitness industry, I'll reveal why buying more courses won't solve your problem. Instead, we'll dive into practical, implementable strategies to finally turn your digital purchases into tangible progress. If you're tired of feeling overwhelmed and ready to transform your learning into earning, this episode is your wake-up call and your action plan.
Six years of higher education, accumulating degrees and certifications – all for a 'safe path' that left me feeling trapped, anxious, and buried under $100,000 in debt. If you've ever felt the suffocating pressure of living paycheck to paycheck, struggling daily, and having someone else dictate your worth, this episode is for you.
Join me as I share the raw truth about leaving the conventional path behind to build an online business. This wasn't about proving anyone wrong; it was about fighting for financial freedom, reclaiming full control over my life, and finally living on my own terms. Discover how I navigated the fear, shed external expectations, and redefined what 'success' truly means when you're driven by a relentless desire for autonomy.
Have you ever found yourself saying "yes" when every fiber of your being screams "no"? This week, I'm diving deep into why setting boundaries, especially with that powerful two-letter word, feels incredibly hard. Building on our conversations about being "too much" and "hard to love," I'll share my own journey of learning to say "no" without guilt, fear, or endless apologies.
Join me as we explore the hidden costs of constant "yes-ing," the subtle ways we give our power away, and practical strategies to confidently wield your "no" as your ultimate act of self-love. It's time to reclaim your energy, honor your worth, and create space for what truly matters. Because protecting your peace and authentic self? That's not your problem to apologize for.
You're Not Hard to Love: Unpacking the Lie of Unworthiness
Have you ever been told you're "too much"? Or felt like you constantly have to earn love? In this raw and honest episode, I'm diving deep into the pervasive belief that we are "hard to love." I'll share my own personal experiences with a narcissistic parent and abandonment, revealing how these early wounds taught me to shrink, over give, and abandon myself in pursuit of acceptance.
I'll expose the truth: when someone labels you "hard to love," it's often a reflection of their emotional unavailability, not your worth. Discover why your depth, your emotions, and your needs aren't flaws, but powerful aspects of who you are. This episode is a vital guide to unlearning the painful patterns of the past, reclaiming your inherent lovability, and confidently stepping into your authentic self. Because your journey to emotional freedom and true connection is not your problem to fix for anyone else.
Ever been told you're "too loud," "too emotional," or just plain "too much"? If so, this episode is for you. Join me as I share my own journey of shrinking myself to fit in, and why I finally realized being "too much" wasn't my problem, it was theirs. We'll dive into what that label actually means, and I'll give you practical, juicy tips to reclaim your space and step into your full, vibrant, main character energy. Stop dimming your light and start living unapologetically YOU!