Just because I’m your baby mama doesn’t mean you still have access. In this episode, I’m unpacking the firestorm of a real conversation I had with my oldest child’s biological father—and the nerve he had thinking I’d always have “that love” for him. Newsflash: we have a kid, not a bond.

I’m breaking down why single mothers must stop being emotionally available to men who abandoned the assignment—and how reclaiming your peace, boundaries, and power is the real glow-up.

Tap in if you’ve ever been expected to mother a man you didn’t give birth to.
Tap in if you’ve ever been guilt-tripped into being the “bigger person.”
Tap in if you’re done with the circus and the clowns.

This one’s personal. This one’s powerful. This one’s for every woman who had to raise a child and herself after being left to do it alone.

This week on NIKKI. Period., we’re calling out the tired narrative that women are supposed to be a man’s sanctuary, emotional regulator, and therapist—without reciprocity. Sis, you are not a safe haven for someone who created his own storm. In this episode, I’m digging into the cultural conditioning that tells women—especially Black women—that it’s our job to be his peace while he brings chaos. No ma’am.

We’re reclaiming our time, our energy, and our boundaries.
Because you’re allowed to have standards. You’re allowed to want more.
And you’re allowed to say, “Not me. Not anymore.”

🖤 Rooted. Rebellious. Reclaimed.
Tune in. Speak up. Be free.

In this podcast, I reflect on the impact Malcolm-Jamal Warner had on my generation through his iconic role as Theo Huxtable on The Cosby Show. As a fellow New Jersey native and creative spirit, I always admired his work and the representation he brought to TV. I also share some fun facts about The Cosby Show and what it meant introducing my son to this classic piece of television history.

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In "Addicted To Monsters: Chapter 1, Part 4," I delve into the driving force behind this series, urging women to break the silence and share their stories unapologetically. Join me as I confront societal taboos and empower women to speak out against the oppression perpetuated by male bad behavior. It's time to reclaim our voices and stand together in solidarity. #AddictedToMonsters #SpeakUp #BreakTheSilence #EmpowerWomen #Solidarity

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Dive into the raw realities of my past in the latest episode of "Addicted To Monsters." Explore the profound impact of my first physical encounter and how it shaped my journey with intimacy dysfunction. Join me as I navigate the depths of childhood trauma and its lasting effects on adult relationships. Subscribe now for an unfiltered glimpse into my healing journey.

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Title: "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Unveiling the Journey to Darling Nikki"

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Dive into the raw and unfiltered journey of my life in "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS." Join me as I chronologically recount the tumultuous experiences with men that shaped the creation of my alter ego, Darling Nikki. From heartbreak to empowerment, each episode unveils the raw truths behind the evolution of my identity. Subscribe now for a candid exploration of resilience, self-discovery, and reclaiming power. #AddictedToMonsters #DarlingNikki #PersonalJourney #Empowerment

In this episode I recall early moments of family life while living in Europe.

Title: "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Unveiling the Journey to Darling Nikki"

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Dive into the raw and unfiltered journey of my life in "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS." Join me as I chronologically recount the tumultuous experiences with men that shaped the creation of my alter ego, Darling Nikki. From heartbreak to empowerment, each episode unveils the raw truths behind the evolution of my identity. Subscribe now for a candid exploration of resilience, self-discovery, and reclaiming power. #AddictedToMonsters #DarlingNikki #PersonalJourney #Empowerment

In my latest video on Darling Nikki, I tackle the sensitive topic of Reproductive Abuse, drawing from personal experiences to empower and forewarn women. Join the conversation, raise awareness, and support this vital cause. Like, share, subscribe, and donate to make a difference. #ReproductiveAbuse #Empowerment #Awareness #DarlingNikki

Unbox the Drama: In today's video, I'm diving into the absurdity of relationship 'shit tests' inspired by none other than Dr. Seuss's 'Green Eggs and Ham.' Ever had someone ask if you'd live in a box under a bridge with them? 📦🌉 Join me as I hilariously dissect this bizarre 'not in a box' scenario from my past, revealing just how far some will go to test relationship boundaries. Spoiler alert: Dr. Seuss wouldn't approve! 🚫😄 #RelationshipHumor #GreenEggsAndHam #ShitTestsExposed ⭐️ Connect: https://linktr.ee/darlingnikkigrinds

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Dive into my latest episode where I unpack the contrasting perspectives on single girls' vacations. My ex believed they were lonely; let's challenge that assumption together. Are they truly sad or living their best lives?

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