Welcome to the New Dad Order Podcast, where we get real about the modern Dad Identity Crisis and the challenges men face from dating to marriage to fatherhood. In this episode, hosts Ray and Parfait break down what it really means to lose — and then rediscover — yourself as a husband and father.They dive deep into the stages that shape your identity: going from dating to dad, balancing a demanding career with family time, and finding ways to keep your marriage strong long after the honeymoon phase. Whether you’re a new dad wondering how to juggle work-life balance, a husband trying to reconnect with your partner, or a father feeling pulled in every direction — this episode is for you.Ray and Parfait share honest stories about long dating phases, instant family life, huge family gatherings, and the real cost of splitting time between households. They discuss practical tips on how to rediscover your identity, protect your mental health, and build a thriving marriage beyond raising kids.They also touch on modern challenges like joint custody during the holidays, being a stepdad, and how faith, family, and strong communication help keep things together when life feels overwhelming. You’ll hear real examples that every father can relate to — the big wedding vs. small wedding debate, the chaos of family holidays, and the bittersweet realities of sharing kids across households.If you’re ready to join a supportive community of dads, laugh a little, and maybe even find new strategies to thrive as a husband and father, you’re in the right place. Hit play and get ready for honest dad talk that helps you feel less alone in your journey.🔔 Subscribe to the New Dad Order Podcast for more real conversations about fatherhood, marriage, identity, and keeping the spark alive when life gets real.#DadIdentityCrisis #FatherhoodPodcast #MarriageAfterKids #WorkLifeBalanceForDads #NewDadOrderPodcast #ModernDadTalk #ParentingPodcast #HusbandAndFather #RediscoverYourself #familylife Time stamp:00:00 – Intro: Welcome to New Dad Order Podcast01:50 – What Is a Dad Identity Crisis?02:15 – How Fatherhood Changes Your Identity04:50 – From Dating to Dad: Our Personal Stories08:00 – Big Wedding vs. Small Wedding – Different Paths10:45 – Blending Families & Big Family Holidays14:20 – Balancing Work, Life, and Family18:00 – Rediscovering Yourself as a Husband & Father21:30 – Marriage Beyond the Kids: Keeping the Spark Alive25:15 – Split Families & Co-Parenting During Holidays28:45 – Real Talk: Dad Energy, Health & Staying Present31:30 – Closing Thoughts & Next Episode PreviewReach out to Jerrard or RayJerrard-Jmparfait@gmail.comJerrard-IG is @itsparfait Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.comMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbSpotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc6#joerogan #theovon #shawnryanshow #news #dailydoseofwisdom