
How do you know if your child is dealing with fake friends at school? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the realities of childhood friendships, parenting struggles, and the hard lessons kids face when friends turn toxic.As parents, we want our kids to grow up surrounded by real friends who uplift them, not fake friends who use, criticize, or tear them down. But spotting the difference isn’t always easy—especially in elementary and middle school, when cliques, jealousy, and peer pressure start to shape your child’s social life.In this conversation, we break down the 7 signs of fake friends every parent should know:Only reaching out when they need somethingCriticizing instead of upliftingTalking behind your backDismissing your feelings or dreamsMimicking your interests for the wrong reasonsGetting jealous of your winsLeaving you drained after hanging outAlong the way, Ray and Parfait share real parenting experiences about guiding kids through friendship struggles, school drama, and balancing sports, academics, and personal hobbies. From helping your child handle toxic friendships to teaching them how to be a true friend themselves, this episode is full of practical parenting tips, relatable stories, and encouragement for families.We also cover:How to protect your kids from fake friends without sheltering themThe right way to talk to your child about jealousy, criticism, and gossipBuilding resilience and empathy so kids can thrive socially and emotionallyWhy friendship struggles are part of growing up—and how parents can guide their kids through themWhether your child is facing toxic friendships in school, struggling with losing a best friend, or just starting to navigate the ups and downs of childhood friendships, this episode gives you the tools to help them spot the red flags and build stronger, healthier relationships.If you’re a parent who wants actionable parenting advice on friendships, fake friends, and helping kids grow socially, this one’s for you.👉 Don’t forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more conversations on parenting, kids, and real-life family struggles.Time Stamps:00:00-intro 01:27-Thirdzy Ad 01:56-Friend talk 12:19-When do friends separate? 14:33-7 things fake friends do 14:43-#1 Friend needs me when he needs something 17:58- #2-Criticize more than uplift 20:49-#3-friends who talk behind their back 23:16-Dubby Ad 23:56-#4-they dismiss your feelings or make fun of your dreams 27:30-#5-They mimic your interest 29:02-#6-Jealous of your wins 31:02-#7-You feel drained after hanging out 33:00-How do we teach our kids not to be fake friends 37:50-outro📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderThanks to Psych2Go!