Welcome to the New Dad Order podcast! In this powerful episode, Ray and Parfait dive into a deeply personal and eye-opening discussion about the 8 most harmful phrases parents unknowingly say to their kids. Whether you're a new dad, seasoned parent, or someone healing from childhood trauma, this conversation will resonate with you.Starting at 1:07, the hosts break down phrases like “What’s wrong with you?”, “Don’t have time for you,” and “Because I said so”. Drawing from real-life experiences, coaching backgrounds, and honest parenting moments, they explore how these common phrases affect children's mental health, self-worth, and long-term development.Each harmful phrase is examined through a psychological, emotional, and practical parenting lens. Ray shares the impact of being compared to others, while Parfait reflects on how small things like saying “in a minute” can create emotional distance. They also discuss how guilt, shame, and fear are often unintentionally reinforced by language—and how parents can flip those moments into opportunities for growth, trust, and connection.This episode is more than just calling out toxic parenting phrases. It’s a real, raw, and often funny journey through the modern fatherhood landscape—offering actionable tips, introspective moments, and real dad talk about how we can do better. From talking about yelling vs. communicating, to discussing gut feelings, religious values, and potty-training behind the couch, this episode is both profound and entertaining.👨👧 Whether you're a conscious parent, coach, educator, or just want to break generational cycles, this episode will give you the clarity, motivation, and insight to grow as a parent.🛠️ Key Takeaways:How subtle language impacts a child’s identityWhen “Because I said so” becomes damagingThe long-term harm of guilt-based disciplineRecognizing manipulative parenting patternsCreating trust-based communication at homeTHANKS to Psych2Go for the topic!