In this episode, top lawyer and leverage expert Rebecca Zung reveals why narcissists make fake allegations and how to protect yourself legally and emotionally. Learn the psychological reasons behind false accusations, the manipulation blueprint narcissists follow, and proven legal and communication strategies to neutralize their attacks while maintaining credibility. 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook:   / rebeccazung   📸 Instagram:   / rebeccazung   🎥 YouTube:    / @rebeccazungesq   💼 LinkedIn:   / rebecca-zung-6753893b   🐦 X (Twitter):   / rebeccazung   🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group:   / narcissistnegotiators   THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:    Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Aura Frames:  Exclusive $45-off Carver Mat at https://on.auraframes.com/REBECCA. Promo Code  REBECCA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Rebecca Zung breaks down the secret texting tactics narcissists use to manipulate, confuse, and control you - and shows exactly how to take your power back. Learn how love bombing turns into gaslighting, ghosting, and guilt-tripping, and discover the communication strategies that put you back in control. 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you suspect you're dating a narcissist? This episode dives into the world of narcissism and relationships, revealing key narcissist red flags to watch out for. Learn about the subtle manipulation tactics they use and how to protect yourself from narcissistic abuse. You’ll learn: How narcissists turn intimacy into a form of control and domination The 10 signs you may be having sex with a narcissist How narcissists withhold affection, attention, and truth to punish you The real difference between “diamond-level” and “coal-level” supply Why narcissists crave admiration and use sex to feed their ego The psychological and physical effects of sexual and emotional abuse Why narcissists fear true intimacy and vulnerability How to protect yourself and rebuild emotional and physical safety Connect with Me Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com Facebook:   / rebeccazung   Instagram:   / rebeccazung   YouTube:    / @rebeccazungesq   LinkedIn:   / rebecca-zung-6753893b   X (Twitter):   / rebeccazung   Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Join My Free Facebook Group:   / narcissistnegotiators   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover the secret psychological strategy that instantly shifts power away from narcissists—without arguing, yelling, or losing control. Attorney and Leverage Expert Rebecca Zung reveals her proven “Micro-Yes Technique,” a subtle communication tool that works in courtrooms, co-parenting situations, and everyday conversations. Learn how to use this method to outsmart manipulation, restore your peace, and win with logic—not emotion. 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:    Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn how narcissists use the technique of mirroring — copying your words, body language and behavior — to create emotional bonds, gain control and eventually manipulate you. Rebecca Zung exposes the tactic, shows how it plays out in relationships and negotiations, and provides powerful strategies and phrases to reclaim your power, set boundaries and stop being manipulated. Description: Discover what the mirroring tactic is and why narcissists use it. Understand how covert and overt narcissists become emotional “chameleons” by mimicking you to gain trust and access. See how mirroring evolves from love‑bombing and idealization into manipulation, gaslighting and control. Learn how in negotiations or high‑conflict interactions mirroring may appear, and how to spot it. Get practical tools: neutral phrases that don’t escalate drama; voice and tone techniques to stay calm and grounded. Explore a toolkit of 10+ “kick‑ass comebacks” and dialogues to defuse manipulation and reclaim your voice. Understand how to differentiate care vs control: boundaries, freedom, communication, intentions and your gut response. Recognize deeper traps: hero/victim roles, passive‑aggressive behavior, guilt‑baiting, financial or social dependency, and manipulation disguised as support. Learn how to document inconsistencies, force the narcissist into contradiction (e.g., by asking “Can you repeat that?”), and build leverage for your own negotiation strategy. Reclaim self‑worth: You have value. You deserve relationships where you are celebrated, not controlled. Find additional resources: free phrase sheets, email/text templates for narcissist interactions, support communities and more. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn the top ways to stop a narcissist’s control, expose their lies, and protect yourself emotionally, legally, and socially. Discover what truly hurts narcissists, how to navigate love bombing, Hoovering, and smear campaigns, and the signs that you’ve gained leverage over them. This guide is essential for anyone dealing with narcissistic manipulation in personal, business, or family relationships. Understand the three things that hurt narcissists the most: loss of supply, fear of abandonment, and being exposed. Learn how going no-contact or setting boundaries affects a narcissist’s control. Identify Hoovering tactics: Heat, Workaround, Rotation, and Hawk. Recognize signs that you’ve hurt a narcissist: withdrawal, excuses, blame-shifting, accusations, and full-on discard. Discover why narcissists fear your independence and how it drives their rage, gaslighting, and smear campaigns. Explore the love bombing and devaluation cycle and how narcissists condition their targets. Gain insights into managing narcissistic manipulation in romantic, family, and business contexts. Learn strategies to ethically expose narcissists while protecting yourself. Practical tips for negotiating and reclaiming control from narcissists using proven psychological strategies. Access resources like phrases to disarm narcissists at disarmthenar.com and negotiation prep at winmynegotiation.com. Who this is for: Survivors of narcissistic abuse Professionals dealing with narcissistic colleagues Anyone navigating toxic family or business relationships People wanting to understand and reclaim power from manipulative individuals 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful interview, relationship expert Thais Gibson explores the underlying reasons you may consistently attract the wrong partner, and offers actionable strategies to shift your dynamic — starting with your relationship to yourself. Rather than focusing solely on dating tactics, she emphasizes the importance of healing attachment wounds, rewriting your relational blueprint, and establishing healthy boundaries so you can start attracting the right person with alignment and authenticity. Discover why you keep attracting mismatched or emotionally unavailable partners — and what’s really going on under the surface. Understand the role of attachment styles in repeating relationship patterns and how your early experiences shape who you’re drawn to. Learn why the “wrong” person often feels familiar because they reflect unresolved parts of you — and how to begin healing that. Gain clarity on how to rewrite your relationship blueprint: replace unconscious patterns with conscious choices. Explore how healthy boundaries, consistent self-respect, and emotional authenticity change your attraction dynamic. Shift your focus from trying to fix or win someone over to becoming someone who attracts from a place of wholeness. Find practical steps to stop settling for less, stop performing for approval, and begin embodying the kind of love you deserve. Suitable for anyone tired of repeating the same relational cycle and ready to create lasting change in how they connect. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   ❤️ Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this eye-opening episode, Rebecca exposes the hidden tactics narcissists use to manipulate, control, and sabotage you — from covert insults and gaslighting to gift-giving traps, holiday sabotage, and the dangerous “dangling carrot” of future faking. Learn how to recognize these psychological weapons, reclaim your power, and stop falling into their emotional traps for good. Discover the Narcissist’s Playbook — the exact methods narcissists use to confuse, dominate, and control you. Rebecca Zung breaks down how narcissists manipulate emotions, twist reality, and keep you trapped in their toxic cycle. You will learn: How narcissists weaponize gift-giving to insult, control, and create guilt. The 9 most common narcissistic insults that destroy your confidence and independence. How gaslighting works — and the subtle ways it makes you doubt your memory, judgment, and sanity. Why narcissists ruin holidays and special occasions just to keep the attention on themselves. The meaning of the “dangling carrot” tactic — how they promise love, change, or rewards they never deliver. What future faking looks like in relationships, workplaces, and negotiations. Why narcissists act kind or generous only when it serves their image or control. How to protect your mindset and use leverage to shift the power dynamic back to you. Rebecca Zung draws from her powerful S.L.A.Y. Negotiation Method (Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, You) to show you how to outsmart manipulation and take back control of your life, confidence, and peace. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn how to finally turn the tables on the narcissist in your life using the most powerful tool — leverage. In this eye-opening conversation, Rebecca Zung and Judge Lynn Toler reveal how to outsmart manipulation, regain control, and win — both in court and in life. Discover the S.L.A.Y. Methodology and insider strategies to protect yourself, negotiate powerfully, and stop being controlled by a narcissist’s lies and tactics. FULL DESCRIPTION: Discover the #1 most powerful tool you can use against a narcissist — leverage — and how to build it ethically and effectively. Learn the S.L.A.Y. framework: Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, and focus on You. Understand the difference between diamond-level supply (status, image, reputation) and coal-level supply (chaos, control, and conflict). Hear real-life insights from Judge Lynn Toler on handling narcissists in court and separating emotion from strategy. Learn how to stop defending yourself, set boundaries, and communicate from strength. Discover how to use narcissists’ own behavior — lies, contradictions, and ego — as leverage. Explore Rebecca’s M.A.T.T.E.R. Framework for negotiation success. Find out how to prepare mentally, emotionally, and legally when a narcissist tries to destroy your peace or reputation. Gain clarity on how leverage is not manipulation — it’s your power to create incentive for fair outcomes. Transform fear into confidence and finally shift from victim to victor. Perfect for: anyone navigating narcissistic abuse, divorce, custody battles, or high-conflict negotiations. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You told the truth. You worked hard. And now you’re the one being called a liar, “crazy,” or “unstable.” The rumors spread faster than facts — and suddenly, you’re fighting to defend your name. This is no accident. It’s a smear campaign — one of the narcissist’s most destructive tactics to destroy your reputation and power. In this episode, I’m giving you The Smart Person’s False Accusation Playbook — the exact steps to protect your reputation, credibility, and legal standing when a narcissist attacks. You’ll learn: ✅ Why narcissists launch smear campaigns — and how they manipulate public perception ✅ The four most common smear tactics: lies, triangulation, humiliation, and legal abuse ✅ The step-by-step defense playbook: document, don’t panic, and stop feeding the fire ✅ How to turn their lies into evidence and regain control of your narrative ✅ The critical difference between reacting emotionally vs. responding strategically Smear campaigns are meant to break you. But with the right plan, you’ll come out stronger, smarter, and untouchable. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Free Facebook Group – Narcissist Negotiators: / narcissistnegotiators THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   ❤️ Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this deeply revealing episode, Rebecca Zung exposes why defending yourself against a narcissist only fuels their control — and how real power comes from knowing and standing in your truth. Joined by Nadine Macaluso, former wife of Jordan Belfort (the “Wolf of Wall Street”), they uncover the hidden psychology of trauma bonds, dopamine addiction, and the traits that make strong, intelligent people targets of narcissists. This conversation reveals how to break free from manipulation, reclaim your worth, and finally stop explaining, justifying, or trying to fix the unfixable. Description: Why You Should Stop Defending Yourself: Rebecca explains how every defense, justification, and over explanation gives the narcissist control — and how silence and self-certainty are your ultimate weapons. The Power of Self-Validation: Learn why knowing your truth is stronger than trying to prove it. John Edward’s Story: The lesson from psychic medium John Edward that transformed how Rebecca responds to false accusations. Nadine Macaluso’s Journey: Nadine shares her experience as Jordan Belfort’s (Wolf of Wall Street) ex-wife and how charm, coercion, and trauma bonding entrapped her. The Science of Trauma Bonding: Understand how intermittent reinforcement and dopamine addiction create powerful emotional ties to abusers. Sandra Brown’s Research: Discover why high-achieving, loyal, and conscientious people are often drawn into relationships with narcissists. Hope is the Hook: Why believing you can change or “fix” the narcissist keeps you trapped in the cycle. Breaking Free from the Narcissistic Cycle: How awareness, education, and boundary mastery are the keys to healing. Rebecca’s Six Rules for Dealing with Narcissists: The Psychology Behind Hope, Fear, and Control: How your brain chemistry keeps you tethered to the toxic dynamic — and how to rewire it. From Survival to Freedom: Nadine’s personal insights on overcoming trauma, shame, and emotional dependency after abuse. Healing Through Awareness: The path to reclaiming power and creating a new, abundant identity beyond the narcissist. Rebecca Zung’s Expert Guidance: Legal and psychological strategies to “SLAY” narcissists with calm, clarity, and confidence. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook:   / rebeccazung   📸 Instagram:   / rebeccazung   🎥 YouTube:    / @rebeccazungesq   💼 LinkedIn:   / rebecca-zung-6753893b   🐦 X (Twitter):   / rebeccazung   🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group:   / narcissistnegotiators   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover how to break free from the narcissist’s toxic scarcity mindset and step into your own power through abundance thinking. In this empowering episode, Rebecca Zung reveals how narcissists manipulate from fear and lack — and how you can flip the script using mindset mastery, leverage, and conscious creation to win back your peace, confidence, and control. Learn how narcissists operate from a deep-seated scarcity mindset — believing there’s never enough love, attention, money, or respect. Understand why this scarcity belief drives their manipulation, control, and constant need for supply. Discover the one question that traps a narcissist in their lies: “Can you repeat that?” — and how it exposes contradictions in court, conversations, or negotiations. Rebecca Zung shares her personal story from law to coaching and how shifting from scarcity to abundance transformed her entire career and relationships. Explore how mindset and energy shape negotiation outcomes, influence people, and attract better results — based on quantum and psychological principles. Find out why 80% of negotiation success comes from preparation and mindset, not just tactics. Learn how to stop giving the narcissist power by cutting off their supply and turning pain into empowerment. Insights on transforming victimhood into victory — reframing every setback as training for your next level of greatness. Discover the three pillars of success — mindset, skill set, and habits — and how to align them to attract abundance in love, money, and self-worth. Step-by-step guidance to reprogram your thinking: Define what you no longer tolerate. Eliminate negativity and low-vibration influences. Rack up daily wins to build unstoppable confidence. Featuring insights from The Alchemist, Untamed, and Big Magic — on courage, belief, and the art of conscious creation. A powerful message on how to rise above manipulation, reclaim your worth, and build a life of freedom and abundance. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful interview, Rebecca Zung and Dr. Ingrid Clayton expose the hidden trauma response known as fawning—the disease to please. Learn how people-pleasing, codependency, and boundary collapse are actually survival responses to deep relational trauma. Discover how to heal, set boundaries, and reclaim your authentic power from narcissists and toxic dynamics. What you’ll learn: The fawn response — the hidden fourth trauma response beyond fight, flight, and freeze. How fawning develops in childhood as a survival mechanism in unsafe or abusive environments. Why people-pleasers and codependents aren’t weak — they’re trauma survivors seeking safety. How narcissists exploit fawners through guilt, obligation, and fear of abandonment. The connection between fawning, complex PTSD (CPTSD), and chronic relationship patterns. Practical healing tools from somatic therapy and self-regulation to rebuild inner safety. How to identify trauma reenactment and stop attracting narcissistic or manipulative partners. Why setting boundaries and “taking up space” is not mean — it’s healthy and necessary. Steps to transform from appeasement and fear into authentic self-worth and empowerment. About the guests: Rebecca Zung – Top 1% attorney turned narcissism negotiation expert, author of SLAY the Bully, and creator of the SLAY method for reclaiming power in toxic relationships. Dr. Ingrid Clayton – Clinical psychologist, trauma specialist, and author of Believing Me, who brings deep insight into fawning, CPTSD, and somatic healing. Watch if you’re: Recovering from narcissistic abuse, codependency, or people-pleasing. Tired of always apologizing or walking on eggshells. Ready to take your power back and stop living for others’ approval. 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X (Twitter): / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   ❤️ Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The discard phase is the most dangerous stage of narcissistic abuse — and the easiest to miss until it’s already underway. In this deep dive, I walk you through clear early signs, the smear-campaign setup, and how hoovering keeps you trauma-bonded. Then we map the seven real reasons narcissists discard, the top 10 lies they say after, how to spot a fake discard, and the steps to rebuild emotional autonomy and protect your leverage. You’ll learn: ✅ 10 early discard signs and 5 warning phrases you must not ignore ✅ How trauma bonding is created and why hoovering works ✅ 7 reasons they discard (and how to turn the last one into leverage) ✅ Top 10 things narcissists say after discarding you — decoded ✅ Real vs fake discard — how to tell and what to do next ✅ Boundaries, documentation, and the SLAY method to stay in control 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook: / rebeccazung 📸 Instagram: / rebeccazung 🎥 YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq 💼 LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b 🐦 X Twitter: / rebeccazung 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Free Facebook Group – Narcissist Negotiators with Rebecca Zung: / narcissistnegotiators ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this in-depth episode, Rebecca Zung dive into the ultimate guide for handling narcissists in mediation, divorce, and custody battles. You’ll learn exactly how to prepare, protect yourself, and win against manipulative tactics used by narcissists in court. From legal leverage to emotional boundaries and self-empowerment, this masterclass breaks down every stage of the fight — and how to reclaim your power with clarity, strategy, and strength. What You’ll Learn How to Handle Narcissists in Mediation and Legal Battles — preparation, strategy, leverage, and negotiation psychology. How narcissists distort communication — twisting words, gaslighting, and manipulating evidence to gain control. Essential leverage techniques that force narcissists to settle or comply without giving in to emotional games. Why emotional control and confidence are your greatest weapons during mediation or court. What to do when narcissists violate court orders or ignore agreements — effective legal steps that hold them accountable. Understanding narcissistic supply and how to cut it off to regain your power. Why early mediation, collaborative law, or “being nice” doesn’t work with narcissists. Documentation mastery — the exact kind of evidence judges believe and how to build your case strategically. Rebecca Zung’s SLAY Method — Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, and focusing on YOU to turn the tables on narcissists. The truth about the family court system — how to recognize bias, expose manipulation, and fight smartly for your rights. Real success stories and tactical steps to outsmart narcissists legally and emotionally. Key Takeaways Mediation with narcissists isn’t about fairness — it’s about leverage and boundaries. The courtroom is a psychological battlefield — preparation and emotional neutrality win. Narcissists will delay, obstruct, and twist facts — but documentation, calm strategy, and a strong legal team turn the tables. Your recovery and mindset are just as vital as your legal approach — clarity equals power. #RebeccaZung #DrRamani #NarcissistDivorce #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #NarcissistMediation #HighConflictDivorce #FamilyCourt #CustodyBattle #NarcissistLaw #NarcissisticParent #LegalStrategy #SLAYProgram #NarcissistLeverage #DivorceRecovery #TraumaBond #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissismAwareness #EmotionalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #Boundaries #CovertNarcissist #OvertNarcissist #NarcissistSurvivor 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful interview, Rebecca Zung and Dr. John Gray dive deep into the biological and emotional dynamics between men and women. Learn how hormones, communication styles, and emotional needs shape love, attraction, and long-term connection. Discover how women can reclaim balance, reduce stress, and reignite polarity through simple yet transformative relationship techniques based on John Gray’s groundbreaking Mars and Venus principles. Description: Discover the truth about how hormones impact attraction, communication, and emotional connection between men and women Learn why asking men how they feel can actually hurt relationships — and what to do instead Understand how testosterone and estrogen shape stress, happiness, and intimacy John Gray reveals how women can reduce overwhelm by receiving help and embracing their feminine energy Why men feel successful when appreciated, and women feel loved when heard How to use small, confident requests to raise estrogen and rebuild connection Explore the concept of the “Venus Talk” — a 10-minute exercise that deepens love without blame or fixing Understand why postmenopausal women often feel more independent and how hormone balance shifts emotional needs The biology behind polarity, passion, and why attraction fades if not consciously nurtured How modern relationships can thrive by honoring differences instead of resenting them Insights from John Gray’s books Be Happy With or Without a Man and Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: For Women Only Learn about his Mars Venus Heart Space App and new six-book series on modern love and connection Hosted by Rebecca Zung, attorney, bestselling author, and narcissism negotiation expert ⁠#RebeccaZung⁠ ⁠#JohnGray⁠ ⁠#MarsAndVenus⁠ ⁠#RelationshipAdvice⁠ ⁠#WomensEmpowerment⁠ ⁠#FeminineEnergy⁠ ⁠#MasculineEnergy⁠ ⁠#EmotionalIntelligence⁠ ⁠#CommunicationInRelationships⁠ ⁠#HormoneHealth⁠ ⁠#LoveAndConnection⁠ ⁠#BeHappyWithOrWithoutAMan⁠ ⁠#MenAreFromMarsWomenAreFromVenus⁠ ⁠#RelationshipCoaching⁠ ⁠#RebeccaZungInterview⁠ 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: ⁠https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT⁠ 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: ⁠https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT⁠ 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: ⁠https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT⁠ 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: ⁠http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT⁠ 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: ⁠https://www.rebeccazung.com⁠ 📘 Facebook: ⁠  / rebeccazung  ⁠ 📸 Instagram: ⁠  / rebeccazung  ⁠ 🎥 YouTube: ⁠   / @rebeccazungesq  ⁠ 💼 LinkedIn: ⁠  / rebecca-zung-6753893b  ⁠ 🐦 X (Twitter): ⁠  / rebeccazung  ⁠ 🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...⁠ 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group: ⁠  / narcissistnegotiators  ⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   ❤️ Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to know what actually makes a narcissist panic? This episode shows you the exact pressure points narcissists can’t handle and how to use them safely and strategically. We’ll cover calm power moves like no emotional engagement, boundary setting, and exposure-based leverage so you stop reacting and start leading. You’ll learn: ✅ Why supply drives everything they do and how to turn it off ✅ Panic triggers: brutal honesty, pushback, loss of control, exposure ✅ Seven tactics to make them lose control without losing yours ✅ What truly drives them crazy and how to protect your peace ✅ How to convert triggers into leverage using the SLAY method 👉 Get your FREE “Crush My Negotiation Prep Playbook”: https://winmynegotiation.com/?el=YT 👉 Download your FREE “Doc the Narc” Cheat Sheet: https://docthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get your FREE “Phrases for Disarming Narcissists” Guide: https://disarmthenarc.com/?el=YT 👉 Get my book Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: http://slaythebullybook.com/?el=YT ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your gut isn’t dramatic—it’s data. In this powerful conversation, we unpack the physiology of trauma bonds, why covert tactics feel “small but constant,” and the exact steps to trust your instincts, set boundaries, and break free (quietly, safely, strategically). You’ll learn: ✅ How love-bombing + intermittent reinforcement create chemical addiction ✅ Why targets look “emotional” while narcissists look calm (courtroom optics) ✅ The SLAY Method to negotiate and win: Strategy • Leverage • Anticipate • You ✅ Practical scripts to hold boundaries without inviting rage ✅ Recovery tools: documentation, no-contact, somatics, therapy, and community 🌐 Connect with Me 💥 Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com 📘 Facebook:   / rebeccazung   📸 Instagram:   / rebeccazung   🎥 YouTube:    / @rebeccazungesq   💼 LinkedIn:   / rebecca-zung-6753893b   🐦 X (Twitter):   / rebeccazung   🎧 Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💬 Join My Free Facebook Group:   / narcissistnegotiators   ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover how to break free from disappointment and transform setbacks into powerful opportunities with Christine Hassler, author of Expectation Hangover. Learn how unmet expectations can lead to emotional pain, anxiety, and frustration—and why they are actually hidden invitations for growth. Explore Christine’s proven strategies for reframing failure, shifting mindset, and moving past regret so you can reclaim your power and purpose. Gain practical tools to let go of what you thought your life should look like and embrace what’s possible instead. Understand the three types of expectation hangovers—situational, interpersonal, and self-imposed and how to heal from each one. Discover why emotional processing is critical for success, resilience, and authentic fulfillment. Perfect for anyone navigating heartbreak, career disappointment, or life transitions who wants to find clarity and freedom on the other side. #ExpectationHangover #ChristineHassler #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #MindsetShift #Resilience #Breakthrough #LifeCoach #SelfDevelopment #TransformYourLife #OvercomeDisappointment #SpiritualGrowth ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   ❤️ Shopify : Sign up for a $1/month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/best⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Rebecca Zung breaks down the brutal reality of the discard phase in narcissistic relationships. Discover the exact patterns narcissists follow when they are done with you, the psychological tactics they use to devalue and discard, and how you can take back your power. What you will learn: The 10 warning signs that a narcissist is preparing to discard you. Why narcissists ghost, gaslight, and smear their targets. How narcissists manipulate with flying monkeys and projection. Why they often leave you feeling worthless and doubting your own reality. The hidden psychology of the hoovering cycle and why they come back. The role of your own survival brain and trauma bonds in keeping you stuck. How to stop the cycle and protect yourself from future narcissistic abuse. Real-life examples of narcissist discard patterns in high-conflict relationships. The first of the 7 things you can always rely on narcissists to do (ruin special occasions). Practical steps to regain your confidence and break free from narcissistic control. Who this is for: Anyone recovering from narcissistic discard. People dealing with toxic partners, exes, parents, or coworkers. Those preparing for divorce, custody battles, or high-conflict negotiations with a narcissist. Survivors who want to understand the discard, devalue, and hoover cycle. #NarcissistDiscard #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissistRecovery #NarcissistHoovering #NarcissistSmearCampaign #ToxicRelationships #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #Gaslighting #FlyingMonkeys #NarcissistCycle ___________________________________ _________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the EXPOSE THE NARCISSIST IN COURT: INSIDER SECRETS TO WIN YOUR CASE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://slay.rebeccazung.com/slay-it-now-a⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ___________________________________ _________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.rebeccazung.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow her on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@rebeccazung⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  GRAB YOUR FREE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!  SUBSCRIBE TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices