What happens when Naughty Gym hands over the reins for the very first time? In this episode, Scott (“The Coyote Whisperer”) and April sit down with coaches Matt & Cara to unpack the very first PNW Naughty Gym meetup in Portland, Oregon. The day started at Sauvie Island’s clothing optional beach and ended with a packed Naughty Gym takeover at Club Pravada — one of Portland’s most iconic lifestyle clubs. Nearly 300 people showed up, proving that connection-focused events are exactly what the sex-positive community is craving. You’ll hear: The nerves (and pride) of letting others host a Naughty Gym event Why connection-first events change the lifestyle experience Behind-the-scenes of hosting at Club Pravada Portland The magic of Sauvie Island and authentic community building Why friendships make the lifestyle more fun (and more meaningful)

In this powerful episode, April and Scott open up about two months of unexpected personal chaos—and the tools that got them through it. From setting firm family boundaries to rebuilding self-trust after betrayal, they explore how to protect your peace without shutting down or giving up. April shares the story behind a life-changing letter she wrote to her brothers, the surprising fallout, and why pausing—even in non-monogamy—can be the healthiest move. They dive into the struggle of being the family fixer, the trap of overgiving, and the question at the heart of it all: Who do you think you aren’t… to deserve peace, trust, and space to be yourself? You’ll also hear: • How to nurture yourself when you’re always the nurturer • Why intuition matters (and how to listen without self-doubt) • The real impact of setting boundaries in open relationships • What to do when the people you love disappoint you Whether you’re juggling relationships, caregiving, or just trying to find your center again—this episode offers raw honesty, laughter, and some hard-earned wisdom.

Can a relationship thrive without rules? Or does lasting love require some limits? In this candid and thought-provoking episode, Scott sits down with one of his personal training clients (also named Scott) for a deep dive into one of the most uncomfortable questions in modern relationship philosophy: Are some imposed boundaries necessary to preserve long-term commitment? Centering mostly around Wild Love Theory’s radical premise—that maximal happiness requires maximal freedom—the conversation challenges traditional ideas about relational doubt, how much freedom is too much and staying together “no matter what.” Together, they explore:  • How much relational freedom is optimal  • If boundary-free love is liberating or potentially reckless  • How cultural norms about divorce shape our definitions of commitment  • The emotional trade-offs between safety and sovereignty  • Why ENM spaces often avoid talking about relational maintenance Whether you’re in a long-term monogamous marriage or navigating ethical non-monogamy, this episode asks the question most couples never dare say aloud: Can you be truly free—and still choose to stay?

When a viral kiss-cam moment exposed a workplace affair, the internet exploded with judgment, doxing, and moral outrage. In this raw and honest episode, April and Scott—who know a thing or two about public scandal—open up about their own affair-turned-marriage, the cultural obsession with punishing cheaters, and why so many people feel stuck in unhappy relationships. They unpack the real reasons people cheat, how shame prevents open communication, and why compassion is a better teacher than cruelty. Plus, they share upcoming Naughty Gym retreats, including a free PNW meetup and their wild and wise women’s event. Whether you’ve been cheated on, done the cheating, or just love a spicy hot take on relationships—this episode dares to go there.

Why is it so damn hard to know what we really want? In this vulnerable and unfiltered episode, April and Scott get real about the psychological and emotional roadblocks that make naming our desires feel confusing, overwhelming, and even scary—especially in non-monogamy. They explore: • Why childhood and culture train us to want what’s safe—not what’s true • The difference between relief and real desire • Why pretending to “want what they want” can quietly destroy you • How non-monogamy doesn’t make desire clearer—it just makes it louder • The 3 most common mistakes people make when trying to name what they want • Practical tools to help you reconnect to your real, wild, messy desires Plus, they share personal stories, relationship bumps, and how desire work is showing up in their own marriage, right now. This one’s for anyone who’s ever said, “I don’t know who I am anymore” or “I’m not sure what I want—but I know it’s not this.”

What do menopause, flogging, and protein-packed bento boxes have in common? This episode. Join April and guest Catherine of Expansive Connection Coaching for a no-BS, deeply personal, and often laugh-out-loud conversation about menopause, perimenopause, and postmenopause—from hormonal chaos to body image shifts, from low libido to wild awakenings. They bust myths, share their own messy transitions, and explain why your sex life can get better (yes, better) after 40. This isn’t just a women’s episode. If you have a partner who menstruates—or used to—you need to hear this. The emotional, physical, and sexual transformations of menopause don’t just affect one person in the relationship. They ripple outward. And the more you know, the less likely you are to end up “curbed” by the love of your life. Plus: the behind-the-scenes story of their upcoming Wild and Wise Women’s Retreat, and why this stage of life might be your most powerful one yet.

What happens when a beloved teacher and drag performer in Alabama becomes the target of a national smear campaign? In this powerful Pride Month episode, we sit down with Majesty Divine—former middle school math teacher turned drag icon—to hear the raw, unfiltered truth behind the viral headlines, hateful threats, FBI involvement, and the beauty and heartbreak of staying visible in the South. This isn’t just a story about drag. It’s a story about freedom, resilience, grief, and the sacred act of refusing to disappear. From a small-town drag bingo to national news, from protestors to parades—this is the real story they didn’t want you to hear. 💥 Trigger warning: mentions of threats, slurs, and religious extremism.

In this powerful Pride Month episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we sit down with advocate and fitness coach Cara Turnquist to tackle one of the fitness industry’s lingering blind spots: true inclusivity for LGBTQ+ individuals. 👉 Why do so many gyms remain unwelcoming—even if they don’t explicitly exclude? 👉 What are the invisible barriers LGBTQ+ folks face just walking into a fitness space? 👉 And why do those of us with privilege have a moral responsibility to fight for change? Cara shares the origin of her groundbreaking Lift Up program (a safe, empowering gym experience for LGBTQ+ members), personal stories of navigating fatphobia and exclusion, and why representation, small language shifts, and fearless advocacy matter more than ever. We also unpack: ✅ How gym owners & fitness professionals can make spaces truly inclusive ✅ Why locker rooms and bathrooms are still battlegrounds ✅ How allies can stop sitting quietly on the sidelines ✅ The myth of “neutrality” in today’s climate ✅ Actionable steps for building community and saving lives through fitness This isn’t just about rainbows on the wall. It’s about creating spaces where everyone feels safe, seen, and free to take up space. If you’re a gym owner, a coach, a fitness lover—or simply someone who gives a damn about making the world better—this episode is a must-listen. 🎧

In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to be openly bisexual in swinger and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) spaces, and why it’s time to break the stigma, especially around male bisexuality. As a bisexual married couple, we’re often assumed to be straight. But bisexuality doesn’t disappear just because you’re in a “hetero-presenting” relationship. We’re sharing our personal experiences, the double standards we’ve faced, and how we’ve learned to show up more unapologetically in the lifestyle. We’ll also explore: • Why male bisexuality is still taboo in many swinger spaces • How female bisexuality often gets fetishized instead of validated • How to start exploring your own bisexuality, whether you’re male, female, partnered, or solo • What real allyship looks like in non-monogamous communities Whether you’re bi, questioning, or just want to be a better ally, this episode is for you. 🏳️‍🌈 You deserve to be seen. Your identity is valid. And there’s space for you here.

In this powerful and deeply honest episode, we sit down with sex educator, writer, and CannaSexual® Ashley Manta for a raw conversation about body image, weight stigma, and what it really means to be seen. Ashley opens up about her personal journey with GLP-1 medication, navigating public perception, and the grief that comes with being treated better only when you're smaller. We also explore how body autonomy, desire, and visibility intersect—and what happens when the world treats your worth like it’s conditional. We also talk: - The emotional whiplash of weight-based validation - Why “being healthier” isn’t always the full story - Toxic masculinity, sexual empowerment, and reclaiming space - How to make peace with your body in a world that profits off your shame If you’ve ever felt unseen, dismissed, or punished for existing in your body—this episode is for you.

In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re giving you the full, unfiltered recap of our unforgettable retreat in El Salvador! 🌋🌴 From volcano hikes and hidden waterfalls to epic parties and intimate connection circles, this retreat had it all—including a surprise plot twist: a stomach bug that made its way through most of the group. 😅 But even that couldn’t kill the vibe. We’re sharing:  • What made this event one of our most powerful yet  • How the community came together in the face of discomfort  • Why deep connection was the true focus of the retreat 💞  • And of course, the legendary Naughty Gym moments you’ve come to expect 🍸🔥 This one had it all—adventure, laughter, vulnerability, and a whole lot of love. If you missed it, get the inside scoop. If you were there, come relive the magic (and the madness) with us.

We spent 30 days at Hedonism Resort coaching fitness classes and playing host for close to 2000 people over that period. This episode is an overview of the whole month, what we learned about ourselves, and some tips we picked up that may help you better enjoy a vacation at this iconic adult playground.

This episode is unlike any we’ve ever recorded. For the first time, April opens up about some of the deepest wounds from her past—stories she’s rarely shared in public. Like so many women, she endured sexual abuse as a young girl, a trauma that shaped her journey but never defined her. Through years of personal work, she’s fought to reclaim her power, her body, and her voice—emerging as the strong, fearless woman she is today. But healing is a process, not a destination. For the past 10 years, we’ve navigated non-monogamy together, dismantling the belief systems we inherited and embracing the expansive, limitless potential of love. We’ve taken our time, been intentional, and built something beautiful. And yet—April recently discovered an entirely new level of healing through Wild Love Theory. In this episode, she shares how embracing Wild Love Theory has allowed her to shed some of the final remnants of the pain that trauma left behind. It’s a raw, emotional, and deeply personal conversation about breaking free, finding strength, and learning to love without fear. This wasn’t an easy episode to record. Vulnerability is scary. But April holds nothing back, offering her story to anyone who has ever struggled with past wounds, control, or fear in their relationships. If you’ve ever felt trapped by the past, if you’ve ever questioned the limits imposed on love, or if you simply want to hear a story of true resilience and transformation, this episode is for you. 💜 Listen now. This one will stay with you. 💜

DTF, otherwise know as "Down To F^@%," is an acronym that some use despairingly and others wear as a badge of honor. But what does it mean to be DTF? And why do people label others as DTF much more often than anyone adopts it for themselves? Do we all define DTF the same? Or differently? Listen in on this episode as we try to get some clarity on what it means to be DTF.

We interview the creators of the Hacking Love podcast, Anna & Aiden. They have a tremendous podcast focused on deepening commitment through open relationships. Anna is also an expert coach in sexual and hormonal health and can be reached for coaching services at annaaiden@gmx.com. In this episode we discuss all the various ways our lifestyle choices, nutrition, and hormone imbalances can negatively impact our consensual non-monogamy journey and why it is so important to recognize how bad most primary care doctors are at handling these issues. Through this episode you will undoubtedly come away with some nuggets of wisdom that will help make you healthier, look better in a swimsuit, and be better in bed! If you are struggling to get your hormones balanced and are concerned that your doctor isn't answering all your questions or providing you the service you need, Anna's health coaching services could be your answer. Reach out to her at annaaiden@gmx.com

This episode is a video of Coach Scott's LIVE Keynote address, including the Q&A session, at BBBB 2025 at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica. The keynote is followed up with April and Scott discussing more details of Wild Love Theory, it's implications, and the difficulties of implementation.

This episode is our full recap of Be Better At Being Bad, our full resort takeover of Hedonism II Resort, in Negril Jamaica. It took place Jan 4-11th, 2025. We cover some of things that really stood out to us, the progress we've continued to make in our lifestyle journey and the ways we both pushed past some of our comfort zones. This event takes nearly a year of planning, a BBBB team of 30 volunteers and speakers, and the help of the entire staff of Hedonism Resort.

Did you miss BBBB week at Hedonism II? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered! In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we’re bringing you the full recording of April’s keynote speech, Unmask Your Inner Badass: Crushing Imposter Syndrome, Owning Your Goals & Being Unapologetically You. This speech was recorded live inside the famous Piano Bar! April’s dives into breaking free from self-doubt, owning your unique power, and embracing the confident, unstoppable version of yourself. Whether you were in the audience or couldn’t make it this year, now’s your chance to experience the energy, inspiration, and insights from this unforgettable event.

In our last episode of the year we cover our favorite personal, professional, and relational moments of 2024. Then we go in depth about our goals (April hates the word resolution) for 2025. It is a great way to end the old year and look forward to the new. 👉🏼 Check out www.naughtygym.com to join our community! 👈🏼

In this episode Scott surprises April with a gift he's been emotionally working towards for months and months. It's his theory, called Wild Love Theory, and he's implementing it with April despite his fears and insecurities and her hesitancy in actually using the gift. Wild Love Theory is Scott's keynote address at 2025's Be Better At Being Bad event at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. The theory states that "Imposed relational boundaries prevent maximal relational happiness." Scott discusses the basics of the new theory without going too deep into the details (which will be released in full on January 10th). But the resulting summary is this... April no longer has any imposed relationship boundaries from Scott. She can flirt, connect, message, date, play, or love whomever she chooses, whenever she chooses, and to whatever degree of frequency she desires. Listen in on this discussion and let us know what you think!