What does it mean to be a spiritual man in today’s world — one rooted in faith, vulnerability, and purpose? In this episode of Mxnzplain, Bishop Steve Moreo, Anglican Bishop of Johannesburg, speaks candidly about masculinity, mentorship, and the deep inner life men often neglect. He challenges cultural myths of toughness, invites men to rediscover grace, and reminds us that real strength begins with honesty and community. Listen now to a conversation about faith that is raw, redemptive,...

Black tax isn’t just about money, it’s about emotional expectations, silent obligations, and the weight of generational responsibility. In this thought-provoking episode of Mxnzplain, Lebo and Kabelo unpack what it really means to be the “one who made it” in a family, and how the pressure to give back can leave you empty. Whether you’re navigating family guilt, burnout, or just trying to make peace with your own success, this episode is your mirror. Subscribe to catch more honest, unfiltered ...

In this vulnerable and powerful episode of Mxnzplain, Lebo and Kabelo dive deep into the reality of addiction and substance abuse in Black families. Kabelo shares his personal journey with alcohol, denial, and recovery, offering a raw, honest look at what addiction really feels like behind closed doors. From generational silence to cultural shame and healing, this is a conversation we all need to hear. If you’ve ever wondered what recovery really looks like or why we don’t talk about addictio...

What happens when you’ve done everything right, but still feel like something’s missing? In this emotionally resonant episode, Lebo and Kabelo open up about navigating midlife as Black professionals carrying family expectations, cultural pressure, and unspoken grief. From identity loss to redefining success, this episode holds space for anyone in their 30s or 40s wondering: “Is this it?” The most introspective episode of Mxnzplain yet. Mxnzplain | A space for men to be. Follow @mxnzplain on Y...

In this thought-provoking episode of Mxnzplain, Kabelo and Lebo explore the meaning behind the phrase “my brother’s keeper” and what it truly takes to support, guide, and hold each other accountable as men. They discuss how brotherhood goes beyond blood ties, emphasizing the importance of responsibility, trust, and deliberate connection. Through personal stories, they challenge listeners to reflect on the relationships that shape them, question toxic “bro code” expectations, and extend grace ...

In this episode of Mxnzplain, Kabelo and Lebo dive into the widespread issue of imposter syndrome and how it affects personal and professional growth. They explore the inner dialogue that leads to feelings of inadequacy, the pressure to meet external expectations, and the constant battle between self-worth and self-doubt. With personal insights and practical tips, they discuss how to overcome imposter syndrome, embrace your strengths, and unlock your full potential. Join the conversation for ...

In this episode of Mxnzplain, Kabelo and Lebo explore the evolving relationship men have with money, shifting from a pursuit of wealth for personal gain to building a lasting legacy for future generations. They dive deep into collective saving as a community, drawing lessons from models like the Royal Bafokeng and the Emirates, where long-term planning and shared resources lead to greater success. The discussion covers how men can shift away from transactional relationships, where economics d...

In this episode, Lebo and Kabelo engage with Anele Siswana, a distinguished psychologist and spiritual healer, who shares his transformative journey of embracing his spiritual calling. Anele discusses the complexities of balancing masculinity with spirituality and how his identity has impacted his professional life, leading to the loss of clients and business. Despite these challenges, he has emerged stronger, finding renewed purpose in offering his unique expertise to those who seek authenti...

In this insightful episode of Mxnzplain, hosts Kabelo and Lebogang sit down with renowned African visual artist Mark Modimola. Mark shares his inspiring journey of leaving a comfortable job at a top agency to pursue a path as a self-employed creator whose work deeply resonates with him and brings purpose to the world. The discussion delves into the challenges of being Black in the arts, especially the complex support dynamics from Black parents. Mark also explores the concept of masculinity i...

In this episode of Mxnzplain, hosts Kabelo and Lebogang explore the evolving concept of masculinity, emphasising being the best version of oneself rather than conforming to societal expectations. Kabelo shares his journey of changing to fit traditional masculine norms, while Lebo discusses the impact of his father's "normal masculinity" on their household. They delve into the roots and effects of toxic masculinity in South Africa, how it extends to men devaluing other men, and its link to men...

In this powerful episode of Mxnzplain, hosts Lebo and Kabelo bravely tackle the topic of male vulnerability. They redefine vulnerability as an act of courage, sharing personal stories about the pressures and situations where they had to be open and honest. This episode addresses the alarming suicide rates among men and highlights the benefits of therapy. Lebo and Kabelo also examine whether society and relationships allow men to be vulnerable or if this vulnerability is often weaponised. They...

In this episode of Mxnzplain, hosts Lebogang and Kabelo dive into the complexities of fatherhood. From growing up with or without a father to forming identities through father figures, mentors, and society. They explore the profound impact of a present father and unpack how this generation of men can navigate the challenges of modern life to become good fathers. Mxnzplain | A space for men to be. Follow @mxnzplain on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok and Facebook.

In this episode of Mxnzplain, we attempt to go "Back to Source," uncovering the fundamental essence of the original Man. Join us as we explore the pivotal role of spirituality, the sense of duty, and the concept of men as stewards. Discover the timeless principles that shaped early human existence and how they can inspire today's world. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on the foundations of manhood and spiritual stewardship. Mxnzplain | A space for men to be. Follow @mxnzplain on Yo...