Whether it’s policing women’s bodies or narratives or threat of invasion, it’s the same playbook oppressors are using to manipulate the oppressed.
When women speak, someone tries to shut them up.
When Nigeria stands on its own, someone else suddenly wants to “save” us.
It’s all control disguised as concern.
Let’s talk about it.
This episode is for Ochanya and all the girls living in horrors caused by wicked people. This episode is about how our silence can be the very thing people such as the perpetrators of this horrors are banking on. Our collective silence continues to fail young girls across the world.
Silence is complicity.
Listen to the new episode of Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl: Justice for Ochanya.
On this episode I discuss most things ableism and I hope in listening to me, you can reflectively look inward and examine yourself.
Ask yourself the deep questions, have you been ableist? Even as a disabled or chronically ill person, you can be ableist.
Also ask yourself, “what am I doing my part in the fight for inclusion?”
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Let’s talk about it.
Why do you stay in situations that have stopped serving you? Until when will you keep using the excuse of time to keep receiving the treatment you don’t deserve?
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Let’s talk about it.
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This episode is sponsored he Scath Company a modern co-working and innovation hub in Kaduna offering workspaces, mentorship, and support for startups and creatives.
Sometimes I wonder if men can ever truly be feminists.
Not because they don’t care but because they’ll never know.
Feminism isn’t just theory; it’s lived. It’s the fear, the silence, the fight, and the constant demand to be seen as human.
I don’t need men to call themselves feminists.
I just need them to act like they believe women are fully human.
🎙️ New episode: Can Men Really Be Feminists?
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Let’s talk independence and everything in-between…
Are you a young girl enamored by an older guy?
Are you underage?
Is a man telling you, you are matured for your age?
Are you thinking of dropping out of school or deferring because of a man?
Do you need us to pull your ears?
This episode is for you !
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Send your stories and dilemmas to tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com
Please wear it…
In this episode, I share how I learned to speak up for myself in adulthood to make decisions, set boundaries, and believe that what I want matters.
And guess what? You can too! Thats the cool thing about the journey of becoming.
Hold on to your headphones and join me and Halimah @thehealinggen_z on the 28th of August as we talk about most things social media, the good, the bad & the unfiltered!
Let’s unpack how it is shaping our view of success and self-worth and how we navigate that.
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I'm tired but what else is new?
Join me on this episode as I discuss the madness from Zikoko, a salty performer and a man about to get what he deserves!
On this episode we talk of the idea of “home” and how home isn’t always safe or flourishing for everyone.
The idea that we all end up the same or follow each other’s footsteps can be so stifling because in doing that we end up limiting ourselves.
I am challenging the girl that has always felt different and unheard to find her version of home. It can be a physical home or a mindset. You may need to change your mindset, your friends or limit access of some people to yourself.
If you haven’t done so please leave a 5 ⭐️ rating on Apple podcast and Spotify podcast.
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Until next time ♥️ and peace.
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Why do we feel guilty when we ask for help?
What is it about saying “I’m not okay” that makes us feel inadequate and whose fault is it?
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Let’s unpack it.
Are you a K-drama baddie? Do you currently lack motivation or your're looking for Inspiration? Here are top 10 K-drama's that would totally motivate you, honorable mentions and on American series that made it on this list!
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I know right? It is smelly in these streets girls.
At some point, you start healing. You start setting boundaries, speaking kindly to yourself, walking into rooms like you belong there. And suddenly… people around you start shifting.
This episode is about that moment.
About what it means to finally love yourself and how uncomfortable that makes some people.
I talk about how we’ve been taught to shrink, especially as women, or anyone who’s just a little “too much” for the world. I explore why people feel the need to humble you the moment you begin to feel proud of yourself.
I speak directly to the ones who do it whether it’s subtle shade, disapproving silence, or casual criticism masked as “just being real.”
This episode isn’t just a call-out. It’s a mirror and I am challenging you to look at it.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for your confidence, if you’ve been told “you’ve changed” like it’s a curse, or if someone else’s self-love makes you feel small this conversation is for you.
Hello my love, how are you doing? How have you been!
On this episode I talk about unlearning and taking responsibility for my self, whether that be emotionally, physically, mentally.
Refuse to be silenced my love. Until next time xo
Love
Hikmah
A Tired Nigerian Girl