Hey Beauties! We hope this podcast finds you well. This week, Kelly and Stacey bring you a cautionary tale about seeking enlightenment. Turns out not all self-help helpers are the same. James Arthur Ray was a self-help guru who thought very highly of his abilities to ‘help’ people. But in October of 2009, a Spiritual Warrior retreat went way off the hot rails - and three people lost their lives. So never let anyone intimidate you if you are too hot and need some air! That goes for menopause and non-sanctioned sweat lodges.   On a much better path to spiritual enlightenment, Stacey and Kelly went to Korea Town in midtown Manhattan for some self-care with a surprise couples massage,  and a not-hot steam room because it was broken. We did, however, enjoy a nice dry sauna, and went shopping at not one but two K beauty stores.    Follow us on IG MMOTW Email us murdermurderonthewall@gmail.com   Beauty: 1:13 Kosette Beauty The Face Shop Lemon Sparkling Peeling Gel Biodance Collagen Real Deep Mask Mediheal Watermide Mask   Sources: Wikipedia James Earl Ray Wikipedia: Sweat Lodge The Guardian NYTimes ABC News CNN MPR News Seek Safely Guru The Dark Side of Enlightenment Enlighten Us Dare I Say It Naomi Watts