Welcome back! Today we're answering questions from listeners about moving to a city and trying to find your groove, cutting off a relationship with your ex's mom, sharing Spotify playlists with your ex, and how to handle it when your boyfriend is obsessed with his job.
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Welcome back! Today we kick it off with a story about the "bird test" in my relationship. Next we dive into listener questions about how to cut off communication with an ex, overcoming dating app burnout, feeling stagnant in a long term relationship, and whether or not you should accept a setup from a family member.
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Welcome back! Today we're kicking off with a question from a woman who went on a great date with a guy who then said he needs to wait three months until they go out again because he's taking a break from dating. Next, we chat about keeping photos of your ex framed in your apartment, addressing the future with a new partner, and whether you should be annoyed that your partner is still talking to an old hookup.
We wrap up with a few rapid fire listener questions.
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Welcome back! Today we're kicking off with my weekly "what I'm loving" rundown, which this week is the Evvy at-home Vaginal Microbiome test.
Next, I share my list of subtle signs they see a future with you (both for early dating and for people in a relationship thinking about the long term future).
Our listener questions are from a woman who is frustrated that the guy she is dating never initiates deep conversations. Next up we hear from a listener who is having trouble with comparing everyone she dates to her situationship that recently ended. We wrap up with a run club meet-cute gone (potentially) wrong, a woman who thinks her date is drinking too much, and a reality check for a woman who was ghosted.
Intro ends at 10:03
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Welcome back! Today we're kicking off talking about my thoughts on The Life Of A Showgirl (obviously) and a new product launch I'm super excited about.
Our listener questions are from a man who isn't sure about whether he wants to propose to his girlfriend, another listener who isn't sure if she's in a rebound relationship, and a woman who is sick of being the planner in her relationship.
Listener questions start at 8:30.
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Welcome back! Today’s episode starts with a rundown on signs a relationship isn’t right even if nothing is “wrong.” Next, I share my tips on how to flirt and build chemistry on early dates. Our listener questions are from a woman who feels like her boyfriend isn’t fully letting her into his world (or posting her on social media). We also discuss staying independent while in a relationship, navigating boring conversations on dating apps, and going from friends with benefits to just friends.
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Welcome back! Today's solo dives into situationships, being single and feeling like you're no one's top priority, what to do about your partner's financial debt, and more.
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Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a rundown of what's been new with me, plus what I'm loving right now (these Shokz headphones for running).
Listener questions start at 25:25. The first question is from a woman who isn't sure if she should have the DTR talk or wait things out. Next, we hear from a woman whose boyfriend keeps getting texts from his ex.
We wrap things up with a rundown on workplace romances.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back!! After a brief and unexpected break, we're back with a solo episode.
Today we're chatting about how to stop overthinking things in the early stages of dating someone new (+ how to keep the momentum going when you can't be together), key conversations for long distance relationships, hot and cold behavior in dating, and balancing different levels of ambition in a relationship.
**Don't care about my intro thoughts? Listener questions begin at 6:26.
P.S: Please excuse the low sound quality, I did not want to wait any longer to release this episode so I had to record this one remotely.
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Welcome back! Today we’re talking about timelines for saying “I love you” and signs they're falling in love with you. Next, we dissect a longer question from a 31-year-old male who found out his girlfriend of two months hadn’t deleted her dating apps.
We wrap up with rapid fire questions about the guidelines for asking “permission” to propose and how to decide if you should keep going on dates with someone or call it when there’s no spark but all green flags.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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Welcome back! Today we’re diving into listener questions about what to do when you’re losing hope in your dating life, how to stay independent and get alone time when in a relationship, relocating for a boyfriend two years into a relationship, conversations couples should have two years into dating, and how to know if you’re spotting red flags or if you’re just holding onto trauma from past relationships.
We also discuss my dating course, the Mostly Dating Blueprint, and how to use it to transform your dating life.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! Today we're starting off by chatting about how to meet people IRL and how to be more approachable.
Next, we discuss a listener question about what to do when you feel like you're growing a lot in your relationship and your partner isn't
Our next listener question is from a woman who works from home from the same apartment as her boyfriend and is feeling overstimulated.
Lastly, we discuss a male listener who is bothered by his girlfriend repeatedly making little digs at him in front of friends.
We wrap up the episode with a few rapid fire listener questions.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! Today we're starting off by chatting about signs your relationship needs better communication and how to have better communication early on in a relationship.
Next, we discuss a listener question about how to handle different communication styles in a relationship, specifically in arguments.
Our next listener question is from a woman who has been dating a guy for three months and recently saw he was active on Hinge.
We wrap up the episode with a few rapid fire listener questions about avoidant attachment styles, getting back with an ex, and run club hookups.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Lara Mahler, NYC-based wedding planner and founder of The Privilege Is Mine.
Lara shares her journey from dance teacher to wedding planner and then we dive into common wedding planning stressors and how to stay calm during the process. Laura offers tips on setting boundaries with family, deciding on wedding priorities, and incorporating personal touches. We also chat about current wedding trends, bridesmaid dilemmas, and the significance of a shared vision between partners.
Find Lara on Instagram @tpimweddings or head to the website to learn more about working with Lara and her team.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! In today’s solo episode, Carleigh vents about her recent eyebrow disaster, shares about one of the best instant-results facials she recently had in NYC, and a first date suggestion she’s rethinking.
We then dive into listener questions about:
& more!
Links from today's episode:
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Welcome back! In today's solo episode, we're chatting about what to do when someone who ghosted you comes back, how to end a situationship once and for all, feeling like "too much," navigating wedding party invitations from distant friends, and more.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating and @mostlydatingpodcast and on TikTok @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
Links I mentioned:
FORM workouts & meditations
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Welcome back! Today we're joined by returning guest, Amy Nobile Messing, a holistic dating coach with a shocking success rate.
Amy shares her journey from a successful career in PR and writing to becoming a holistic dating coach after her own life-changing experiences with divorce and dating in New York City.
We delve into Amy's unique approach that combines practical dating advice with intuitive guidance and energy work. Amy discusses the importance of knowing your core values, emotional readiness, and the transformative power of meditation and self-awareness in dating.
Tune in for insights on navigating the dating world, embracing vulnerability, and ultimately finding love and fulfillment.
Find Amy on Instagram @love.amy.nyc or head to her website loveamy.co to learn more about working with her.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! Today we're joined by sexologist, relationship scientist, and head of relationship research at Arya, Nicholas Velotta.
what we talk about:
& more
Find Nicholas on Instagram @mind_on_love and sign up for Arya to learn your sexual persona and start improving your sex life.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Carrie Berk, author and creator, to discuss her latest book, Mindfire: Diary of an Anxious Twentysomething.
If you're a Gen-Z or Millennial and you've ever struggled with anxiety, OCD, or another mental health obstacle, this one is for you.
Find Carrie on Instagram @carrieberkk and TikTok @carrieberkk and check out her first book, My Real-Life Rom Com.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Monica Danus, who is opening up about her whirlwind experience on Love Is Blind Season 8 (+ the aftermath that's unfolded since it aired).
what we talk about:
& more!
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To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.