In this episode of More Than Before Marriage, Nathan and Willow Cook open up about the intentional shifts they’re making in their home, marriage, and parenting routines. From simplifying laundry and decluttering to honoring Sabbath rest and creating meaningful family worship rhythms, they’re challenging the “we’ve always done it this way” mindset.
💬 In this episode:
Why traditions (like trimming a roast) need rethinking
How letting go of stuff brought mental clarity
Simple laundry hacks to reduce overwhelm
Building routines around rest, not just responsibilities
Finding your kids’ strengths and tailoring activities to them
Prioritizing connection over perfection in marriage
🎯 Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by life’s demands or ready to shake up your routines for deeper peace and purpose—this episode will help you reset your family rhythms for growth.
🔔 Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend or couple who’s ready to break the status quo!
In this honest and hilarious episode, Nathan and Willow sit down to unpack a week packed with real-life parenting chaos, spiritual growth, and hard conversations about priorities in marriage. From navigating kids' gymnastics to revisiting Father’s Day traditions, this episode explores the power of sacrifice, stewarding your family well, and what it takes to align vision as a couple.
They also dive into big-picture thinking inspired by the book 10X Is Easier Than 2X, discussing what it really means to make space for your dreams—and each other—by letting go of distractions, clutter, and even...sourdough.
Whether you're juggling CE credits, dog decisions, or dinner plans—this one’s for the couple trying to grow together without losing themselves.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
🎯 Parenting decisions that reveal your child’s unique giftings
🍼 Reflections on baby dedications and the role of spiritual stewardship
👨👩👧 Celebrating (and critiquing) Father’s Day in today’s culture
📚 Willow’s CE procrastination saga and the stress of deadlines
📖 Big takeaways from 10X Is Easier Than 2X—and why they matter in marriage
🧠 How to think bigger together as a couple
🍞 Nathan’s announcement about stepping back from sourdough
🐶 The (almost) decision to adopt two dogs and what it taught them
🧹 Decluttering life to make space for connection and growth
🔥 Episode Highlights & Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome & Word Vomit
Why they never know what day it is—and that’s okay.
03:00 – Kid Sports & Identity
Gymnastics, “said child,” and learning to evaluate your kids’ gifts with grace.
09:00 – Baby Dedication Reflections
Stewardship, fear, and surrendering your children to God.
13:30 – Father’s Day Feels
Why Nathan has mixed emotions about Father's Day—and the culture that shaped that.
20:20 – CE Crunch Time
Willow’s procrastination confession + how couples support each other during stress.
26:00 – 10X Is Easier Than 2X
How the book sparked vision conversations—and why sacrifice is key to growth.
35:00 – What Are You Willing to Give Up?
From sourdough to screen time, the couple talks about what they’re cutting for a better future.
43:00 – The Almost-Dog Decision
The heart vs. the vision—saying no for the sake of alignment.
50:00 – Marriage Mission Check
Staying on the same page, focusing your energy, and why "together" always wins.
Key Themes:
Marriage growth • Parenting choices • Stewardship • Sacrifice • Alignment in marriage • Vision • Family leadership • Minimalism • Humor
💬 Episode Summary:
This week, we’re ditching the usual bullet points and cozying up in our second living room (we think that’s what it is?) to talk real life. From late-night fears about hose water to unexpectedly powerful moments of family worship, we share the laughs, lessons, and lived experiences of parenting four young kids, balancing exhaustion, and giving ourselves grace.
You’ll hear about:
Rylan leading worship with her siblings
Why our kids can sit still (and what it cost us)
How “Lorenzo the Strawberry Man” became a part of our story
Crunchy mom spirals and social media stress
The beauty of sitting in silence (even for 5 minutes)
And why it’s okay if you don’t feel like you’re learning anything this week
If you’ve ever felt like you’re just surviving your week — this one’s for you. It's messy, hilarious, a little chaotic, and totally real.
00:00 – Intro from the Couch
Getting cozy, naming rooms, and podcasting in real life.
01:25 – Life Update: Juggling Work, Tiredness, and Worship
Trying to connect while being drained… and how we’re doing it anyway.
03:00 – The Microphone Obsession Begins
How three toy mics turned into spontaneous family worship.
05:00 – Bedtime Battles and Summer Chaos
Sunlight, sleep routines, and letting go of rigid schedules.
08:45 – Parenting Isn't One-Size-Fits-All
Each kid is different. So are the lessons. And yes, it's still hard.
10:10 – Teaching Kids to Sit Still (and Why It Matters)
Timeouts, self-control, and the surprising value of silence.
17:45 – Sitting in Silence as a Couple
Why quiet time together is underrated (and how we’re practicing it).
19:00 – Learning to Be Present in the Little Moments
Going to the pool, skipping dishes, and choosing connection.
28:30 – The Lorenzo Story
A fruit stand, a friendly farmer, and a personalized water bottle that brought tears.
32:55 – Final Thoughts + Why Real Conversations Matter
You’re not alone. Mess and all, we’re in this together.
🕰️ Chapters & Time Stamps
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🎙️ Episode Title: Breaking the Cycle: Practical Tools to Strengthen Your Relationship💬 Episode Summary:In this heartfelt and practical episode of More Than Before Marriage, Nathan and Willow open up about one of the most common struggles couples face: negative cycles. From stress to miscommunication, it's easy to spiral — but it’s also possible to break free. 💡They share simple, powerful habits that can reignite connection and bring joy back into your relationship:🌳 getting outside,💃 moving together,😂 laughing out loud,📚 learning something new,🍽️ sharing meaningful meals, and🙏 praying side by side.Whether you’re stuck in a rut or just looking to deepen your bond, this episode offers practical tools for transforming your relationship—one intentional choice at a time.❤️🔥 Big Takeaways:Emotional health starts with awareness — break the cycle before it breaks youNature, movement, and laughter are powerful mood-shiftersLearning together builds shared purposeFood, prayer, and meaningful communication create lasting connectionBeing proactive is key to a thriving marriage🔑 Memorable Quotes:🗣️ “Laugh together, not at each other.”🌿 “Get outside and be in nature.”🍝 “Eat something special together.”⚡ “Experience more together.”⏱️ Episode Chapters:00:00 – Welcome and why this topic matters01:02 – What are negative cycles and how do they show up?02:45 – Reconnect by getting outside and moving07:24 – Why laughter matters more than you think10:43 – Growing together through learning13:58 – Bonding over meals and intentional moments17:12 – The power of prayer and emotional unity🎧 Tune in and start doing more than before for your marriage.
In this episode, Nathan and Willow Cook discuss the challenges couples face in marriage, particularly focusing on conflict resolution. They explore the concept of assuming positive intent and provide practical steps to reduce fighting, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in a relationship. The conversation highlights how negative assumptions can lead to a breakdown in partnership and offers insights on fostering harmony and love within marriage.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Marriage Challenges
01:52 Understanding the Roots of Conflict
10:15 The Concept of Noble Intent
14:43 Scriptural Insights on Marriage
23:50 Five Key Strategies to Reduce Fighting
30:27 The Consequences of Negative Assumptions
Takeaways
In this episode, Nathan & Willow Cook discuss the various changes and challenges they have faced in their lives, particularly focusing on the themes of change, chaos, and personal growth within the context of marriage and family dynamics. They explore how to navigate these changes, the importance of intentionality, and the role of communication and conflict resolution in maintaining a healthy relationship. The discussion emphasizes the need for couples to embrace change together and to support each other through life's transitions.
Takeaways
Change is a constant in life and relationships.
Chaos often accompanies significant life changes.
Different people react to change in various ways.
Intentionality is crucial when navigating change.
Apathetic responses to change can hinder growth.
Conflict in relationships can be healthy if managed well.
Understanding each other's perspectives on change is vital.
Small changes can have a big impact on daily life.
Communication is key to managing change effectively.
Embracing change together strengthens relationships.
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Life's Seasons
02:58 Embracing Change and Chaos
06:12 The Impact of Change on Relationships
08:54 Managing Change in Family Dynamics
11:46 Intentionality in Times of Change
14:50 Conflict and Communication in Marriage
18:10 Growth Through Change
20:58 The Power of Yes and in Relationships
In this heartfelt conversation, Nathan and Willow share their experiences of welcoming their fourth child, Selah, and the challenges that come with it. They discuss the dynamics of family life, the birth experience, health concerns with the newborn, and the importance of finding joy and rest amidst the chaos. They emphasize the need to focus on what truly matters in life and relationships, encouraging listeners to cherish small moments and be present with their loved ones.
Chapters
00:00 Welcoming Baby Selah
05:23 Adjusting Family Dynamics
12:17 Finding Rest and Joy
21:14 Embracing the Journey Together
Takeaways
Selah's arrival has brought both joy and challenges.
The birth experience was a prayer answered after a difficult pregnancy.
Adding a new child requires adjusting family dynamics.
Health challenges with the newborn have been stressful but manageable.
Finding joy in small moments is essential during tough times.
Rest and time with family are crucial for well-being.
Focusing on what you can do is more important than what you can't.
Communication and presence are key in family relationships.
It's okay to not have everything figured out.
Things will improve with time and effort.
In this episode, Nathan and Willow Cook discuss the theme of uncertainty in life, particularly in marriage and parenting. They explore how to navigate uncertain times by trusting in God, planning for the worst while expecting the best, maintaining connections with others, and finding joy in the present moment. The conversation emphasizes the importance of leaning into each other during challenging times and encourages listeners to embrace the uncertainties of life together.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Uncertainty in Life
02:54 Navigating Uncertainty in Marriage
05:49 Trusting God Amidst Uncertainty
09:03 Planning for the Worst, Expecting the Best
12:00 The Importance of Connection
14:47 Enjoying the Moment in Uncertainty
Takeaways
Keywords
uncertainty, marriage, trust, planning, connection, joy, parenting, life challenges, faith, family
In this episode, Nathan and Willow Cook discuss the challenges of maintaining relationships and intimacy while feeling tired and overwhelmed. They reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences and emphasize the importance of taking action rather than procrastinating. The conversation covers key aspects of communication, emotional and physical intimacy, connecting with others, and spiritual growth, encouraging listeners to engage actively in their relationships even when they feel fatigued. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Thanksgiving Reflections 06:27 Effective Communication in Relationships 14:31 The Role of Intimacy in Marriage 22:14 Connecting with Others and Community 28:31 Conclusion and Encouragement to Act Takeaways: - It's important to take action and not procrastinate. - Communication is key in relationships, especially when tired. - Emotional and physical intimacy should be prioritized. - Praise and appreciation can uplift your partner. - Connecting with others fosters community and support. - Spiritual intimacy is vital for growth as a couple. - Don't let tiredness prevent meaningful conversations. - Small actions can lead to significant changes in relationships. - Recognize the difference between anxiety and excitement. - You're not alone in feeling overwhelmed; many couples experience this. Keywords #relationships #communication #intimacy #marriage #takingaction #emotionalconnection #spiritualgrowth #family #parenting #encouragement #marriage
In this episode, Nathan and Willow Cook discuss the importance of being present in relationships, especially during the busy holiday season. They share personal stories and insights on how to balance tasks with meaningful connections, emphasizing the value of transparency and open communication. The conversation encourages listeners to cherish every moment and prioritize relationships over perfection, ultimately fostering a deeper connection with loved ones.
Takeaways
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast
10:05 Clarifying Focus and Relationships
19:01 Openness and Transparency in Relationships
24:17 Living in the Moment and Managing Expectations
In this episode of the More Than Before podcast, Nathan and Willow discuss the concept of 'baggage' that individuals bring into their marriages. They explore how family backgrounds, experiences, and perspectives shape relationships, particularly during the holiday season. The conversation emphasizes the importance of transparency, communication, and choosing to love one another despite differences. The hosts share personal anecdotes and practical advice for couples to navigate their unique challenges together.
takeawaysIn this episode of the More Than Before Marriage podcast, Nathan and Willow Cook discuss the significance of prayer in marriage. They emphasize the importance of transparency, aligning hearts with God's will, and finding clarity through prayer. The couple shares personal anecdotes about their journey and the transformative power of praying for one another. They also highlight the necessity of asking each other how to pray and the benefits of praying together as a couple.
Takeaways
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates
07:19 Aligning Hearts with God's Will
15:18 Asking How to Pray for Each Other
20:27 Praying Together as a Couple
In this podcast episode, Nathan and Will discuss the challenges of balancing family life, personal ambitions, and the importance of rest in marriage. They share personal experiences of navigating family health issues, the impact of selfish ambition and jealousy on relationships, and the necessity of taking time to rest and recharge. The conversation emphasizes the significance of communication, understanding, and prioritizing one's relationship with God and spouse.
Some takeaways:
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Life Updates
03:14 Navigating Family Challenges
06:03 Selfish Ambition vs. Jealousy in Relationships
12:03 The Importance of Rest in Marriage
18:04 Understanding the Purpose of Marriage and Rest
Tell us more about you! Is there a topic you want us to talk about? Is there something that touched you in this episode? Let us know in the comments or you can send us questions and topics at:
podcast@morethanbefore.org
In this episode, Nathan and Willow Cook discuss the importance of togetherness in marriage, emphasizing that doing things together strengthens relationships. They share personal anecdotes and practical tips on how couples can enhance their connection through shared activities, communication, and spiritual growth.
Discover the Key Practices that are more than just advice—they're the keys to unlocking a deeper connection and joy in your marriage. Whether it's the art of communication, the joy of shared activities, or the peace found in spiritual growth together, Nathan and Willow guide you through how to weave these practices into the fabric of your daily life.
But it's not just about listening; it's about transforming your relationship. 🌟 Each story, each tip, is a stepping stone towards a marriage filled with more understanding, more laughter, and more love.
Don't just take our word for it! Press play and let Nathan and Willow lead you on a journey to a more connected, more vibrant marriage. And remember, the journey to a stronger bond is one we make together—so share, like, and subscribe to join a community of couples committed to growing and becoming more than before!
Welcome to a special episode of "More Than Before Marriage," where hosts Nathan and Willow Cook delve into the essence of what it means to build and maintain a strong, resilient marriage. In today's episode, we explore the power of encouragement, positive thinking, and effective communication as tools to weather the inevitable storms of life together. Join us as we share personal stories and actionable advice designed to strengthen your relationship, foster a supportive community, and deepen the connection with your partner.
In This Episode, You Will Discover:
- 💪 The critical role of encouragement in navigating life's challenges as a couple.
- 🌟 How adopting a positive mindset can light up the darkest corners of your relationship.
- 🗣️ The significant impact your words have on the resilience and strength of your bond.
- 🛠️ Strategies for preparing together for future challenges.
- 🤝 The importance of creating a supportive community around your marriage.
- ❤️ Effective ways to understand your spouse's needs and enhance your connection.
- 🌱 Why daily encouragement is vital for a flourishing relationship.
- 👀 The power of recognizing the best in your partner, especially during tough times.
- 🎧 How listening can sometimes be more powerful than speaking in achieving mutual understanding.
- 🌺 The growth that comes from facing challenges together.
Episode Chapters:
- 00:00 - Introduction: The Journey Through Life's Storms
- 02:50 - The Power of Positive Thinking in Marriage
- 06:06 - The Impact of Words: Building or Breaking
- 09:50 - Encouragement in Difficult Times: The Lifeline
- 17:00 - Preparation for Future Storms: Strategies for Resilience
- 21:00 - Building a Supportive Community: The Foundation of Strength
If today's conversation has inspired you, don't let the momentum stop here. Follow and subscribe to our channel to ensure you never miss an episode. Each story and piece of advice we share is a step toward building stronger, more resilient relationships. Become part of our growing community dedicated to transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Together, let's continue to nurture and strengthen our relationships.
#MarriageStrength 💑 #PositiveThinking 🌈 #CommunicationInMarriage 💬 #MoreThanBeforeMarriage 🎙️ #NathanAndWillowCook 👫
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In this enlightening episode of More Than Before Marriage, Nathan and Willow dive deep into the crucial topic of managing expectations within a marriage. They shed light on the transformative power of growing together as a couple, the importance of clear communication, and the benefits of adopting an expectant mindset over clinging to rigid expectations. The discussion also highlights the significance of understanding each other's needs, especially through the various seasons of life, including the challenges of parenting and the journey of spiritual growth.
Key Takeaways:
- Embrace the journey of growing together as a couple to strengthen your bond.
- Recognize how uncommunicated expectations can lead to frustration and conflict.
- Learn the importance of clarifying expectations to minimize misunderstandings.
- Discover the value of being expectant, allowing for flexibility and adaptability in your relationship.
- Understand the necessity of daily communication about each other's needs for a harmonious life.
- Appreciating each other's orientation (task vs. people) can greatly aid in managing expectations.
- Acknowledge that different seasons of life demand different expectations and focus areas.
- The role of leading by example, particularly in the context of parenting.
- Explore how prayer can serve as a powerful tool in nurturing your marital relationship.
- Highlight the significance of mutual encouragement and support in strengthening the marital bond.
Chapters:
- 00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Podcast
- 03:09 Understanding Expectations in Marriage
- 08:29 Managing Expectations Effectively
- 14:34 Shifting from Expectations to Being Expectant
- 19:58 Clarifying Expectations in Daily Life
- 24:43 Navigating Seasons of Life Together
Join Nathan and Willow in this episode as they provide valuable insights and actionable advice for couples looking to deepen their connection and navigate the complexities of marriage with love, understanding, and resilience. Whether you're newlyweds or have been together for years, this episode offers something for every couple striving for a fulfilling and lasting relationship.
In this inaugural episode of the 'More Than Before Marriage' podcast, Nathan and Willow Cook share their journey through marriage, parenting, and the challenges of life. They discuss the purpose behind their podcast, which is to encourage couples to engage deeply in their relationships by sharing real-life experiences and struggles. The couple emphasizes the importance of recognizing different seasons in life, maintaining transparency in marriage, and practicing gratitude to foster a supportive environment. They aim to create a space for open conversations that inspire couples to grow together.
Takeaways
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
02:15 The Purpose of Sharing Marriage Experiences
05:09 Navigating Life's Seasons
12:28 The Importance of Transparency in Marriage
20:33 Finding Peace Amidst Chaos
28:57 Practicing Gratitude in Marriage
Keywords
marriage, podcast, relationships, communication, parenting, transparency, gratitude, life seasons, encouragement, personal growth