Feeling stuck or overwhelmed on your Matching & Blessing path is more common than you think. In this episode, Benjy offers the compassion we need when the journey feels heavy and also the courage required to keep walking in faith. If you’re wrestling with the urge to give up, this conversation will help you see your struggle with new hope and confidence.

Marriage is hard at times. But if you keep walking, your Blessing can become incredible. In this episode, Benjy shares about overcoming the “hump” and finding joy through unconditional acceptance.

Marriage is hard at times. But if you keep walking, your Blessing can become incredible. In this episode, Benjy shares about overcoming the “hump” and finding joy through unconditional acceptance.

Benjy shares from the heart in this raw episode on the real struggles and victories of an international Blessing.

Still unsure about the Blessing? You’re not alone. In this episode, we walk through 3 simple steps to help you get clear about your beliefs.

Not 100% sure you’re ready for the Blessing? In this episode, Cathy & Benjy talk about how much faith and understanding you really need before saying yes—and why perfection isn’t the goal.

Watch Benjy’s full presentation on "Why Not 2026?" here https://youtu.be/2FPzfzz2pT0 Struggling to feel ready for the Blessing? In this episode, Benjy shares the first essential step to prepare your heart, clear your conscience, and move forward with confidence in God’s plan.

How do you bring up past mistakes during the matching process? In this episode, Benjy breaks it all down in a 3-step process.

Navigating crushes is one of the most difficult things that single people face when preparing for the Blessing. Benjy help illuminate this topic with perspective and experience.

Benjy dives into the hardest question in the matching process: “Is this really the one?” Here's how to find clarity, not by overthinking, but by having the one conversation that might change everything.

If you want God to work through you in your life, it starts with letting go. Benjy outlines helpful reasons to let go of control and let God work.

Benjy and Cathy share deep insight on parenting in this episode. Whether you have kids or not, there is such wisdom that we can all benefit from and that can help in the raising of the next generation.

Benjy gives a helpful exercise to figure out what is blocking you from moving toward your Matching & Blessing.

As the Blessing approaches, Benjy shares a message to parents who are looking to encourage their adult children to participate in the Blessing. Words from True Father: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Books/sm-gww/GWW-02.htm

Do you ever struggle and have strong doubts about your dream for the matching and Blessing coming true? Join Benjy who delivers a hopeful message for us all.Words from True Mother: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Talks/hakjahanmoon/hjh980401.htm?utm_source=chatgpt.com Words from True Father: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Books/sm-gww/GWW-02.htm

Benjy uses the words of True Parents to encourage those who may be feeling frustrated by their matching journey. If you can invest into being the best version of yourself and have faith in Heavenly Parent, then you will be led to your goal. Words from True Mother: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Talks/hakjahanmoon/hjh980401.htm?utm_source=chatgpt.com Words from True Father: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Books/sm-gww/GWW-02.htm

It takes being above average to prepare yourself for a Blessing that will thrive. Benjy shares his own story along with words from our True Parents that will help young people be above average and enjoy lasting love! Words from True Mother: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Talks/hakjahanmoon/hjh980401.htm?utm_source=chatgpt.com Words from True Father: https://www.tparents.org/Moon-Books/sm-gww/GWW-02.htm

We all need and crave connection. Join Benjy as he dives into the importance of building a support network and connecting to a community.

We all have low moments in our lives. Benjy shares his personal experiences as well as words from our True Parents to help us when we find ourselves in these low times.