Welcome to the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, where we offer aspiring and established matchmakers the tools, insights, and inspiration to excel in the matchmaking industry. Hosted by industry expert Arlene Washburn, this podcast provides exclusive interviews with successful matchmakers, thought leaders, and other professionals who share their secrets to success. Each episode offers practical tips and strategies to help you grow your business, build strong client relationships, and become an ethical leader in the matchmaking world.
The podcast, sponsored by the Worldwide Referral Network, will feature a special segment highlighting VIP clients of affiliate matchmaking companies. Daters interested in meeting these VIP clients can apply to meet them. The Love Pro Mastermind Academy also supports the podcast, offering professional matchmakers training, certification, and a path to scale their businesses.
Stay tuned for exclusive insights into elite matchmaking and how you can be part of it!
https://lovepromastermind.com/podcast
Welcome to the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, where we offer aspiring and established matchmakers the tools, insights, and inspiration to excel in the matchmaking industry. Hosted by industry expert Arlene Washburn, this podcast provides exclusive interviews with successful matchmakers, thought leaders, and other professionals who share their secrets to success. Each episode offers practical tips and strategies to help you grow your business, build strong client relationships, and become an ethical leader in the matchmaking world.
The podcast, sponsored by the Worldwide Referral Network, will feature a special segment highlighting VIP clients of affiliate matchmaking companies. Daters interested in meeting these VIP clients can apply to meet them. The Love Pro Mastermind Academy also supports the podcast, offering professional matchmakers training, certification, and a path to scale their businesses.
Stay tuned for exclusive insights into elite matchmaking and how you can be part of it!
https://lovepromastermind.com/podcast
Why do professional matchmakers lose clients before ever getting on a discovery call? It's not your pricing or process—it's how unprepared your business looks online.
Arlene Washburn reveals the exact mistakes costing matchmakers thousands in lost business: unprofessional email addresses, broken website links, missing privacy policies, deceptive "As Seen On" marketing, and false success rate claims.
Learn why Gmail addresses kill credibility, how "Number One Matchmaker" claims can get you sued, why taking every client ruins your business, and why desperate sales energy repels quality clients.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:- Professional email requirements- Privacy policy legal obligations - Website audit essentials- FTC & global consumer protection laws- Ethical sales processes- Client acceptance criteria
The good news? Everything is fixable. Most solutions cost under $100.
RESOURCES:Love Pro Mastermind Academy: https://lovepromastermind.comIMCB: https://imcboard.orgWWRN: https://wwrnetwork.com
Educational content only, not legal advice.
Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is becoming a larger part of today’s dating and matchmaking landscape. In this episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn speaks with George, an experienced voice in the ENM community, about how transparency, communication, and compassion are transforming modern relationships.
They discuss:✨ What ethical non-monogamy really means (beyond labels and misconceptions)✨ How to support clients who practice ENM or polyamory✨ The difference between open relationships and consensual non-monogamy✨ How to approach inclusive matchmaking and coaching with integrity
Whether you’re a professional matchmaker, dating coach, or simply curious about alternative relationship structures, this episode offers valuable insights into modern love and professional ethics.
Mentioned in this episode:
Guest: George — Ethical Non-Monogamy Advocate
Website: The-Group.co | JustForDinner.com
Resources:
🎓 Matchmaker Training → LoveProMastermind.com⚖️ Compliance & Accreditation → IMCBoard.org💞 Ethical Matchmaker Referrals → WWRNetwork.com
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In this episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn sits down with Brandan Rader, a relationship expert and coach, to explore how coaching and psychology are transforming the world of matchmaking.
They discuss how behavioral science helps matchmakers better understand their clients, improve outcomes, and redefine compatibility in today’s modern dating landscape. Brandon shares insights on how coaching tools, such as self-awareness and emotional regulation, can empower both clients and professionals.
If you’re a matchmaker, dating coach, or someone curious about the future of love, this episode offers valuable guidance on building stronger relationships and businesses.
Guest:Website: https://www.brandanrader.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandanraderofficialTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@psychedaboutyouBook: Love Attraction Journal: The Guide to Attract Your Ideal Partner https://a.co/d/f5DFHl8
🎓 Matchmaker Resources: Training & Certification → LoveProMastermind.comCompliance & Accreditation → IMCBoard.orgEthical Matchmaker Referrals → WWRNetwork.com
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Tags: matchmaking, relationship coaching, dating psychology, Brandan Rader, Arlene Washburn, matchmaker mentor
Running a matchmaking business is about more than helping people find love — it’s about protecting yourself, your clients, and your reputation. 💼💘
In this powerful episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with international attorney and arbitration expert Peter Namas to uncover the critical legal and compliance issues every matchmaker needs to know.
👉 You’ll learn:
Why dispute resolution clauses (ADR) are a must-have in your contracts ⚖️
How regulations vary across states and countries — and what that means for your business 🌍
The risks of operating without compliance (lawsuits, reputational damage, even shutdowns) 🚫
How accreditation strengthens credibility, protects clients, and legitimizes matchmaking as a profession ✅
Data protection, refund policies, background checks, and other essentials to safeguard your agency 🔒
Whether you’re a solo matchmaker or leading a growing agency, this episode gives you the tools to stay compliant, build trust, and elevate the entire industry.
✨ Don’t just create love stories — protect your own business story, too.
👉 Learn more about IMCB here: https://www.imcboard.org/about
Today, I’m sitting down with Danielle Selber — a matchmaker who has spent nearly 10 years building love connections in Jewish and LGBTQIA+ communities with her signature approach of radical inclusivity and zero judgment. 💖
In this episode, we dive deep into:
✨ Why matchmaking is about community building—not just one-on-one introductions.
✨ How cultural competency shapes healthier, more respectful dating.
✨ The surprising ways world events and political divides impact singles today.
✨ Why collaboration over competition between matchmakers leads to more success for clients.
If you’re a matchmaker, thinking about becoming one, or simply fascinated by the future of relationships, this is a must-listen. 🎙️
In this powerful episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with board-certified psychiatrist Dr. Peter Zafirides to explore the vital link between mental health and relationships. With over 30 years of experience treating depression, anxiety, ADHD, and bipolar disorder, Dr. Zafirides offers unique insights into the challenges people face in both life and love.
💡 Key takeaways from this conversation:
The stigma of mental illness and how it still impacts communities today.
Why ADHD can be both a challenge and a gift, especially for entrepreneurs and creatives.
The hidden epidemic of loneliness in the digital age, and how it affects dating and emotional well-being.
Shifting dynamics in modern relationships—from changing gender roles to global dating trends.
How meaningful connection and resilience remain at the core of both mental health and love.
Whether you’re a matchmaker, an entrepreneur, or simply someone striving to build healthier relationships, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom and human stories that will inspire you to look at love and mental health in a whole new way.
👉 Tune in now and discover why thriving emotionally is inseparable from thriving in relationships.
✨ In a world where dating apps feel like fast food and AI is writing love notes, what role do REAL matchmakers play?
In this solo kickoff episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn shares:
💡 Why human connection, empathy & accountability can never be automated
💡 How today’s swipe culture has stripped away intention in dating
💡 The rise of loneliness—and how matchmakers are the antidote
💡 The difference between transactional “order-taking” and transformational matchmaking
💡 How ethical standards & mentorship are shaping the future of the industry
Whether you’re a seasoned matchmaker, just starting your journey, or curious about hiring one—this episode will remind you why love is still a human-centered calling. ❤️
What happens when dating, love, and family caregiving collide? 💔💖 In this powerful episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn sits down with internationally recognized caregiver advocate Pamela D. Wilson to uncover the raw truth behind balancing relationships while caring for aging parents—especially those with dementia or Alzheimer’s. 🧠💬
From early family planning and legal must-haves 📝, to finding emotional breathing space as a caregiver 🕊️, to dating with “caregiving commonality” 💑, this conversation delivers practical strategies and heartfelt stories you won’t forget. Discover how to:
✨ Create realistic care plans before crisis hits
✨ Protect your health, boundaries, and relationships
✨ Find partners who truly “get it”
✨ Use community resources (even without big budgets)
✨ Respond with empathy instead of conflict when dementia changes behavior
Whether you’re a matchmaker helping clients, someone dating while caregiving, or navigating family dynamics, this episode is a blueprint for resilience, compassion, and keeping love alive when life gets complicated. ❤️
💥 Are you a matchmaker—or aspiring to become one?
Tune in to this powerful episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast as host Arlene Washburn sits down with leadership coach and speaker Susan Asher for an inspiring conversation on what it truly means to lead in the love business.
From setting healthy boundaries to mastering emotional intelligence and building real client trust, this episode is packed with real talk, actionable tools, and professional insights every matchmaker and coach needs to hear.
✨ Learn how to:
✅ Lead with clarity and empathy
✅ Set and communicate boundaries
✅ Elevate your client experience
✅ Build authority through events & speaking
✅ Stay relevant in a fast-evolving industry
🎧 Listen now and level up your matchmaking game with grace, resilience, and strategy.
💡 Feeling drained, disconnected, or like you're running on empty—despite your passion and purpose?
You're not alone—and it's not just stress. It's burnout, and it's showing up in your health, your relationships, and your business. In this soul-stirring episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn is joined by Jamie London Wollberg, spiritual wellness guide and founder of Wakein, to explore what burnout really is—and how to recover from it authentically.
🔥 From trauma and disconnection to the healing power of micro rituals, Jamie reveals how mission-driven leaders—especially matchmakers, coaches, and entrepreneurs—can reawaken their balance through self-love audits, embodiment practices, and intentional living.
✨ This is a conversation about truth, transformation, and choosing unconditional love—not just as a feeling, but as a daily practice that brings you back to center.
👁️🗨️ You’ll discover:
Why burnout is more than exhaustion—it’s a spiritual and emotional disconnect
How your morning and evening routines can become sacred healing spaces
The hidden costs of being a “human doing” instead of a “human being”
How media, trauma, and cultural conditioning affect your nervous system
Why the real solution isn’t in fixing others—but in rescuing yourself first
💬 “We’re not here to save everyone. We’re here to reconnect with ourselves—and from that place, we create impact.” — Jamie London Wollberg
🎧 Whether you're a matchmaker, a leader, or someone ready to feel whole again—this episode is your call to pause, reflect, and begin again.
➡️ Listen now and begin your journey toward alignment.
What if the modern dating struggle isn’t about swiping left or right—but about ignoring evolution?
On this thought-provoking episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn welcomes evolutionary psychology expert and bestselling author Tim Ash, co-creator of Primal Dating. Together, they unravel the science of attraction, biological asymmetries, and the critical disconnect between how we’ve evolved and how we now date.
Tim dives deep into:
🧠 The truths behind gender differences that society often ignores
📉 Why relationship formation is declining and what it means globally
💡 How to help clients (and yourself) create realistic, biology-informed dating expectations
💔 Why so many women feel let down—and why many men feel invisible
📊 How “dating market value” peaks and declines at different life stages
🔍 How matchmakers can use science to guide clients toward authentic, sustainable relationships
This episode is a masterclass in merging biology, psychology, and practical matchmaking. Whether you're a professional matchmaker, dating coach, or just tired of the confusion in modern dating, this conversation will shift your perspective—and give you language to explain the hard truths clients need to hear.
Are you a matchmaker or coach struggling to build visibility and credibility online? 🚨 It’s time to stop hiding and start showing up—strategically.
In this powerhouse episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, award-winning mentor and matchmaking industry leader Arlene Washburn dives deep with with Vicki O’Neill, a YouTube coach and marketing strategist who teaches service-based business owners how to leverage video to grow their brands authentically and effectively.Vicki shares her expert insights on how matchmakers can use YouTube to create awareness, build emotional connections, and drive real results—all through a fully optimized channel.
Whether you’re camera-shy, sitting on an old channel, or confused about content strategy, this episode unpacks everything from branding your banner to monetizing every video—even before hitting 1,000 subscribers.
🔑 Topics you’ll learn:
How to turn fear of judgment into the “Yes Effect” movement 💥
Step-by-step YouTube channel optimization for matchmakers
The secret power of your About section, thumbnails, and hashtags
Why YouTube Shorts and long-form video both matter (and how to use each)
How to monetize right now with lead magnets, programs & coaching
Smart planning tactics to build evergreen content that works 24/7
Why visibility equals trust—and why your first match is between you and your client 💡
If you’re serious about building an ethical and profitable matchmaking business, this is the episode you can’t afford to miss. 💼❤️
🎪 What do a tightrope walker, a lion tamer, and a ringmaster have to do with your love life? A lot more than you'd think!
In this powerful and entertaining episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn sits down with Andreas Georgiou, aka “The Match Creator,” to unravel the deeper truths of modern compatibility using his revolutionary Circology™ framework.
🔥 Whether you're a matchmaker, coach, or dating with intention, this episode dives deep into:
Why most people confuse what they want with what they need in a partner
How Andreas’s Circus Question™ reveals your dating archetype (and your ideal match)
The psychology behind unrealistic expectations (hello, Rolls-Royce syndrome!)
How to spot toxic dynamics before you're emotionally attached
Why the best matchmakers don’t just “take orders” — they teach people how to date smarter
💡 Arlene shares her own circus archetype (tightrope walker!) and how her need for balance in life mirrors the kind of support real relationships require. Together, they break down why coachability is non-negotiable, how narcissism isn’t always a red flag, and how shared leadership is redefining healthy relationships in today’s dating world.
🎧 If you're tired of mismatched dates, disillusioned clients, or swiping without substance—this episode is your blueprint for better love.
In this eye-opening episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with Andreas Georgiou—CEO of Circology™, dating coach, and creator of The Circus Question™, a revolutionary tool redefining relationship compatibility.
Andreas shares his powerful personal story of transitioning from a 13-year relationship and a career in architecture to becoming an undercover dating coach.
Frustrated by the inefficiencies of online dating in midlife, he used his design thinking to create a single-question framework that cuts through the noise and reveals true compatibility.
You’ll discover:
🎪 Why Andreas uses circus roles to map out personality dynamics
📱 How The Circus Question™ is being used in real-world dating events and even corporate HR departments
❤️ Why Gen Z is shifting away from traditional dating models
🚗 The “shared car ride” metaphor that redefines how we view relationship alignment
💡 Why most dating apps aren’t asking the right questions—and how that’s by design
Whether you’re a matchmaker, coach, or someone navigating love yourself, this episode offers a refreshing, intelligent, and heartfelt approach to building better relationships.
👉 Tune in and rethink how we find—and stay with—the right partner.
🔥 Midlife isn’t a crisis — it’s a CALLING.
But for millions of women between 40–64, hormonal shifts hijack their energy, libido, mental clarity, and confidence… and almost no one is talking about it.
In this eye-opening episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with Dr. Manna Semby, a licensed naturopathic doctor and functional medicine practitioner, for a raw, real, and revolutionary conversation about women’s health, hormones, love, and liberation.
You’ll learn:
✅ Why up to 70% of women suffer in silence from Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM)
✅ The dangerous myths surrounding hormone therapy — and what science actually says
✅ How hormone depletion affects relationships, brain fog, sex drive, and emotional well-being
✅ Why vaginal estrogen is a game-changer (yes, even for your 98-year-old grandma!)
✅ The shocking gender gap in medical research — and how it's failing women
✅ How to reclaim your energy, confidence, and desire at any age
✅ Why men need to hear this too — because empowered women transform families, marriages, and communities
💥 Whether you’re a woman navigating midlife or someone who loves one, this episode will change the way you think about health, aging, and vitality.
🎧 Tune in, take notes, and share with every woman (and man) who needs this truth.
🎙 Coming Up on the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast with our host, Arlene Washburn! 🎙
Meet the Unstoppable Frankie Picasso
Get ready for a powerhouse episode!
We’re thrilled to welcome Frankie Picasso—Master Coach, bestselling author, radio host, and socialpreneur—to the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast.
With a rich background in transformational coaching and humanitarian entrepreneurship, Frankie is no stranger to guiding people through powerful personal shifts… and that’s exactly what matchmakers do every day.
As the founder of The Good Radio Network, Frankie uses media as a force for good—something we deeply believe in too.
In this episode, we explore how purpose, empathy, and courage intersect in both matchmaking and coaching, and how professionals in the relationship industry can harness these principles to create impact-driven businesses that change lives.
💛 Whether you're an aspiring matchmaker or a seasoned pro, this conversation will inspire you to think bigger and serve deeper.
In this episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with another industry innovator to explore the matchmaking system explicitly designed for professionals who want to grow, without compromising on quality, ethics, or personalization.
You’ll hear how matchmaker April Beyer leveraged 25+ years of experience to develop a psychology-driven, values-based platform that eliminates the guesswork in client compatibility, improves efficiency, and empowers collaboration across the industry. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by operations or unsure about client fit, this conversation offers the clarity and structure you've been looking for.
💡 Inside this episode:
The moment matchmakers know they should refer a client, and how to do it right
Why professionalism, presence, and relatability are essential for attracting top-tier clients
A deep dive into the 10 values-based compatibility categories behind “The Myers-Briggs for the heart”
A robust framework for running your matchmaking business smarter, not harder
How technology can elevate—not replace—your matchmaking expertise
Whether you're building your business or ready to scale, this episode is your roadmap to a more aligned, future-forward matchmaking practice.
🔗 Connect with April Beyer:
Website: aprilbeyer.com
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/aprilbeyer
Instagram: @april__beyer
Email: adbeyer@levelconnections.com (for demos and collaboration)
🎙️ Hosted by Arlene Washburn, Matchmaking Mentor | Ethical Matchmaking Advocate
Matchmaker Accreditation: IMCBoard.org
Dater's Resource: WWRNetwork.com
In this episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn speaks with U.S. and Canadian immigration attorney Andy Semotiuk, who has helped over 10,000 clients with immigration and legal challenges. Together, they explore what it takes to make international relationships work—legally, emotionally, and practically. Whether you’re a matchmaker guiding clients through global romance or a dater in love across borders, this episode is packed with wisdom. Andy breaks down the most common challenges couples face, how post-COVID remote work reshaped dating, and what to know before crossing international lines for love. Plus, hear the one question he says can help anyone find “the one.”🎯 Topics Covered:
👤 Guest: Andy SemotiukImmigration Lawyer | Forbes Contributor | Author | Former UN Correspondent📘 Books: Solomea, The Young Professional, A Promise Kept🌐 Website: pacelawfirm.com | www.myworkvisa.com🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andysemotiuk/
Host: Arlene Washburn — Matchmaking Mentor & Ethical Matchmaking Advocate
🎓 Become a Certified Matchmaker: LoveProMastermind.com🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arlenewashburn/⚖️ Matchmaker Accreditation: https://IMCBoard.org
What makes an intelligent, accomplished woman fall for someone she’s never met—and lose over $1 million in a romance scam?
In this profoundly moving episode, Debby Montgomery Johnson—former Air Force officer, businesswoman, and now scam prevention advocate—opens up about how she was groomed for two years by a man who knew exactly what to say to a grieving widow. But this story doesn’t end in heartbreak—it ends in healing, purpose, and a surprising twist: Debby found love again through a matchmaker.
Now known as The Woman Behind the Smile, Debby shares the emotional, financial, and psychological toll of online fraud and how she turned her pain into advocacy to help protect others from romance scams.
This episode is a must-listen for matchmakers, daters, and relationship professionals who want to understand the real risks of online dating and the importance of ethical matchmaking.
🔗 Resources Mentioned:
💡 Want to Make a Difference in Love Lives?
Become a matchmaker and help ethically change lives.
👉 Contact Arlene Washburn or visit LoveProMastermind.com to get started.
In this episode, Arlene Washburn is joined by marketing strategist Cat Orsini, creator of the Firework Experience, for a powerful conversation on how matchmakers and service-based professionals can attract clients without the chase.
From CRM automation to relationship-based marketing, Cat reveals how to transform your network into a high-converting visibility machine — all while staying true to your values. You’ll hear why authenticity outperforms algorithms, the most significant mistakes service providers make when trying to get leads, and how naming conventions can actually elevate your brand authority.
This episode is a must-listen if you’re ready to reverse the chase and have your dream clients asking to work with you.
👉 Resources mentioned:
Contact Cat Orsini
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catorsini/
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