In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius steps boldly into emotional maturity, he’s no longer haunted by the woman who ghosted him and has finally confronted the feelings that lingered. It’s healing, it’s honest, and it’s a major step forward.
Meanwhile, Jamell opens up about the quiet shifts that come with long-term love, namely, the emotional and physical rollercoaster of his wife navigating pre-menopause and menopause. From mood swings to misunderstood signals, he talks about learning to adjust, support, and grow through the changes instead of running from them.
It’s a vulnerable and grown-up conversation about how love evolves, bodies change, and ghosts eventually lose their grip.
After a much-needed two-week break, Julius and Jamell return with fresh experiences and even fresher perspective. Julius sets out on his first vacation as a single man, enjoying the thrill of solo freedom—until, just before heading home, a haunting message shows up from the woman who ghosted him months ago.
Meanwhile, Jamell reflects on what it meant to travel without his wife and how distance sometimes sharpens clarity.
Together, the duo unpacks what it really means to move on, why some ghosts come back, and how to know when to respond—or leave the past on read.
In this eye-opening episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell dive into the power of a woman’s intuition—how that unexplainable “knowing” shows up in relationships, especially when things start to feel off.
They unpack the hard line when it comes to adultery and why there’s absolutely no room for it in a committed relationship. Jamell even shares how his wife’s sixth sense kicks in so strong, she can call out his vibe from another country.
From gut feelings to emotional accountability, this episode is all about honoring trust and respecting that deep inner radar most women carry like a superpower.
In this heartfelt continuation from Episode 22, Julius finally opens up about a long-lost heartbreak woven through years of missed chances and unexpected encounters. It all started with a girl he left hanging before prom—back when they were “just friends.” Years later, fate brings her back into his life as his son’s preschool teacher. And after his divorce, he takes a shot at redemption… only to find the tables turned.
As the story unfolds, Jamell digs even deeper—challenging what love really means, how timing shapes our connections, and whether the past ever truly stays in the past.
This episode delivers laughs, vulnerability, and the kind of real talk that leaves you thinking long after it’s over.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius opens up about the raw heartbreak of dating after divorce—and how the playbook he once used no longer works in today’s game. Vulnerable and frustrated, he shares how much the dating world has changed and why it's hitting harder than expected.
Jamell doesn’t sugarcoat it either. He lays down the hard truth about men who rush into new relationships too soon—only to find themselves in the exact same emotional mess, just with a different name and face. New woman, same damn problems.
This episode is honest, unfiltered, and full of those real talk moments every divorced man (and woman) needs to hear.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell explore how the arrival of kids can flip the script on a marriage. What was once date nights and quiet mornings becomes diaper duty and sleepless nights—and not every couple is prepared for the shift.
Jamell doesn’t hold back as he shares his frustration with how some men react under parenting pressure, while also dropping some priceless wisdom his therapist gave him that helped reshape his approach to marriage and fatherhood.
This one’s for the parents, the soon-to-bes, and the couples navigating love in the middle of Lego land.
After a couple of drinks, Julius and Jamell get too honest about the fine line between open communication and stepping on landmines. Jamell may have talked himself into the doghouse, and Julius picks up on some serious energy from Jamell’s wife. From miscues to misreads, they explore how even the best intentions can backfire—and how a little liquid courage doesn’t always help.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell peel back the layers of one of the most essential—but fragile—pillars of any relationship: trust. What does trust really mean? How is it built, and how is it broken? For Julius, the absence of trust was the quiet force that ultimately unraveled his marriage. Together, they examine the ways trust is earned, protected, and sometimes lost—forever.
In this episode of Married Not Married, things get personal as Julius and Jamell unpack the complications of baby mama drama and explore the "Invisible String Theory"—the idea that people are spiritually or emotionally tied to someone for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
Just when Julius thinks he knows all there is to know, Jamell drops a never-before-shared chapter of his love story that has the potential to shift everything. From drama to destiny, this one’s full of unexpected turns and heartfelt truth.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell unpack the programming of a single person vs. someone who's married—and the missteps that can happen when those wires get crossed. Has Julius fully slipped back into his single era? Jamell seems to think so, especially since their hangouts are starting to feel like a risk to Jamell’s marital peace. From last-minute plans to the freedom of doing whatever, whenever, the guys hilariously debate what’s fair game and what’s off-limits depending on your relationship status.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell dive deep into the delicate—and often fiery—power dynamics between your spouse and your immediate family. Who truly takes priority once you're married? Is it Mom? The wife? Do the lines blur when it comes to time, loyalty, and decision-making?
The guys debate whether it's a democracy or a dictatorship behind closed doors, and what happens when you're stuck in the middle. Tune in for real talk, honest laughs, and maybe even a little therapy.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell explore one of the biggest questions in relationships: What is real love, and how do you know when you’ve found it? Inspired by a Jay Shetty "On Purpose" podcast featuring Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez, Julius reflects on Blanco’s heartfelt take on love and how men should show up for their partners.
But Jamell isn’t sold—he argues that what sounds like true love might just be the Honeymoon Phase. The two go head-to-head, breaking down the difference between infatuation and lasting love while debating the real keys to a successful relationship.
Is love a fairytale, or is there a formula to make it last?
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell welcome a guest who has lived through the highs and lows of marriage and divorce—only to find love again through a dating app. Could this success story change Julius’s skeptical stance on online dating? Will he take the bait or keep swiping left on the idea?
Join the lively debate as they dive into the realities of modern matchmaking, the risks and rewards of digital romance, and whether true love can really be found with just a tap.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell take a hard look at the modern dating scene, questioning if today’s dating apps are truly helping people find love or just fueling superficial connections. Jamell challenges Julius on his dating criteria—how much of an age gap is he really open to? And is he looking for love in the right places?
As they unpack the struggles of finding something real in a world of instant gratification, Jamell shares a piece of timeless wisdom he received in his twenties from an elder—advice that just might be the key to finding lasting love.
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In this episode of Married Not Married, Jamell gets real about the struggle men face with their ego when everything they’ve built suddenly crumbles. From having the dream job that supports the family to losing it all—home, cars, stability—he shares the emotional toll of feeling like a provider who can no longer provide.
But in the midst of the storm, an unexpected truth emerges: the strength of a partner’s love. Jamell opens up about the humbling experience of losing control and the surprising, unwavering support his wife showed him when he needed it most.
Join us as we explore resilience, pride, and the lessons learned when life forces you to start over.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell welcome a special guest who offers the female perspective on divorce. While women initiate nearly 69% of divorces, the journey is never simple. Our guest opens up about the two times she presented divorce to her husband—six years apart—with the second time becoming the final straw after receiving confirmation from her children.
Through faith in God and a strong support system, she found the strength to move forward. Join us as we explore the emotional weight of making this life-altering decision, the power of resilience, and the role faith plays in finding peace after divorce.
Julius isn’t sold on Jamell’s dating strategy of "playing the field" and "sowing your royal oats" before settling down. He still sees himself as a pure romantic, believing in love at first sight and deep connections. But while Jamell loves giving Julius a hard time about it, the truth is—he’s a hopeless romantic himself.
In this episode, the duo debates love, timing, and whether you should follow your heart or play it smart in the dating world. Who’s got it right? Tune in for laughs, lessons, and some unexpected confessions.
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell dive headfirst into the world of post-divorce dating. Julius is ready to get back out there, but Jamell isn’t convinced he’s thinking clearly—or with the right head! With humor, real talk, and a few hard truths, they explore whether jumping into something serious too soon is a wise move or just a recipe for disaster. Should Julius take his time and enjoy the ride, or is he truly ready for love again?
In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell take a deep dive into the journey of recovery after divorce. Building on their previous discussion, they explore the emotional, mental, and practical steps needed to regain stability and move forward. From embracing self-care and redefining personal goals to recognizing the importance of support systems, they break down what it takes to heal and build a healthy mindset after separation. Whether you're in the thick of it or on the other side, this conversation offers real talk, insight, and encouragement for starting fresh.
In this episode of "Married Not Married," Julius and Jamell welcome a special guest who offers an entertaining perspective on navigation love after divorce. They delve into the realities of re-entering the dating world with a "been there, done that" mindset, emphasizing the importance of mutual contribution in new relationships. Join us as we explore the conditions and insights that shape fulfilling partnership the second time around.