Send us a text Let’s stop pretending. The happiest couples aren’t lucky, they’re raw, honest, and a little dangerous behind closed doors. In this no-blush episode of Married AF, Matthew & Monica crack open the 7 taboo conversations that turn “roommates” into ride-or-die lovers: unfiltered fears, money secrets, the State-of-Us check-in, past scars, a shared “we” world, laser-fast emotional responsiveness, and yes your detailed desire map (aka the sex menu). We go straight at the headlines,...

Send us a text What if the most dangerous lies in your life aren’t coming from TikTok or culture—but from your own mirror? In this episode, we unpack the identity battles that keep people stuck: the quiet scripts that say you’re not enough, you’ve failed too much, or you’ll never have a “real” marriage. We contrast those lies with biblical truth—Psalm 139, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Ephesians 2:10—and we share a simple, practical exercise our singles group used to replace lies with truth you can car...

Send us a text Ever heard someone say “men are addicted to women”? 😏 Wrong. Men don’t get addicted to any woman, they get addicted to the right one. In this no-filter episode of Married AF, Matthew and Monica break down 11 surprisingly simple things that make a husband obsessed, addicted, and deeply devoted to his wife, not because of flashy grand gestures, but because of the quiet, daily decisions that melt a man’s heart and lock in emotional connection. From public respect that makes him fe...

Send us a text Are you and your spouse more “roommates” than romantic partners? You’re not alone, cultural shifts and daily life pressures are making emotional distance a real threat to modern marriages. In Episode 102 Matthew & Monica Powers unpack why couples drift apart, what the research actually says about connection (and divorce), and, most importantly, practical, faith-friendly steps to rebuild an unstoppable “we.” You’ll hear: Why missing the small moments (Gottman’s “bids for con...

Send us a text This Q&A goes there. From a late-20s Christian woman who’s honoring God but aching for touch…to a new mom whose husband says stay-at-home isn’t a “real job”…to couples wondering if sleep-groping means desire or disaster, and spouses asking, “Can a marriage survive if attraction was never really there?” We tackle the messy middle between body, spirit, and reality with truth, humor, and zero fluff. In this episode you’ll hear: Singles & desire: Where do faithful women tak...

Send us a text Is this the most misunderstood marriage idea of the year? On our 100th episode, we argue that a **healthy marriage requires saying “I do” to multiple people** not other partners, but every new version of your spouse as they grow, change, fail, heal, and mature. No, this isn’t poly, swinging, or sister-wives. It’s the bold, biblical, and practical commitment to re-choose each other across seasons, career shifts, kids, body changes, crises, and midlife rewrites. We tackle: Why “f...

Send us a text Taylor & Travis get engaged…and the internet loses its mind. Then Charlie Kirk tells Taylor to “reject feminism, submit to your husband,” and implies marriage will “fix” her politics. If that’s your gospel, it’s not from Jesus. We break down the Taylor & Travis engagement and the Christian clickbait machine trying to hijack it. Come for the tea, stay for the theology.” We break it all down! Taylor Swift engagement, Travis Kelce, Charlie Kirk rant, Christian marriage, ...

Send us a text What happens when a stolen moment of passion turns into a public spectacle that destroys lives overnight? In this raw and revealing episode, we dive deep into the scandal that rocked the internet. Andy Byron, CEO of a billion-dollar tech company, and his HR exec Kristin Cabot caught in a compromising embrace on a Coldplay concert kiss cam. They weren’t married to each other. But they were married. Their panicked reaction, his retreat and her fall, spoke volumes. And the fallout...

Send us a text In this Married AF episode, we rip off the polite mask and get real about what’s actually driving the wedge between spouses. From low sex drive to emotional burnout, we tackle the marriage challenges that Christian couples and newlyweds alike are quietly suffering through, yet rarely discuss out loud. Here’s what we dive into: 🔥 When your spouse is too tired for intimacy: What do you do when emotional and sexual connection are replaced with silence or shutdowns? The answer may ...

Send us a text Let’s be real: most couples stop talking about sex long before the problems start showing up in the bedroom. In this raw and honest episode, we tackle real problems that destroy happy marriages not because of lack of love, but because of lack of communication. Whether you're newlyweds or decades deep into married life, this episode unpacks the 4 sexual needs most couples never talk about and why avoiding them causes emotional and spiritual distance. From desire differ...

Send us a text What happens when the smiling couple on social media closes the front door? Behind the curated photos and perfect captions, many marriages are crumbling under the weight of fake happiness. In this raw, real, and necessary conversation, we expose how pretending everything is fine, when it’s not, slowly suffocates love, kills sexual intimacy, and leaves couples emotionally disconnected and spiritually depleted. This episode is packed with expert talk, marriage advice, and self-im...

Send us a text Could your good intentions be breaking your marriage? What if your attempts to guide, correct, or "support" your husband are slowly suffocating your intimacy and turning your partner into a project? In this bold, eye-opening episode, Matthew and Monica Powers dive headfirst into one of the most destructive, but often ignored, dynamics in marriage: the mothering of husbands by their wives. These aren’t malicious actions. They’re subtle, daily habits: redoing the dishwasher after...

Send us a text What happens when married couples choose freedom over family? In this episode of Married AF, Matthew and Monica Powers unpack the rising trend of the DINK lifestyle, "Dual Income, No Kids" where couples opt out of parenthood in pursuit of adventure, financial freedom, and personal growth. Inspired by a viral Business Insider article, we dive into the story of a Canadian couple who quit their jobs to travel the world child-free and explore why more millennial and Gen Z marr...

Send us a text What do you do when your marriage feels like it’s barely holding together? When love feels distant, communication is broken, and you're wondering if it's even worth the fight? In this raw and genuine conversation, the Married AF Podcast dives headfirst into the real problems couples face behind closed doors. From marriage challenges to emotional disconnect, we're not afraid to talk about what’s really tearing couples apart — and how to turn things around through honesty, self-i...

Send us a text In this eye-opening Q&A episode of The Married AF Podcast, we tackle the real problems married couples face behind closed doors straight from the hearts of our small group community. From intimacy challenges to emotional disconnect, we offer honest, faith-centered answers that speak to the soul of every marriage. Join us as we dive into authentic questions about sex, boundaries, and balancing love with life’s chaos, including: ✔️ What to do when one spouse seems flirty ...

Send us a text What happens when spiritual leadership in a marriage falls on just one person, usually the wife? In this expert-led episode of Married AF, we dive into the growing challenge of one-sided spiritual responsibility in relationships. Many women are exhausted from carrying the faith load alone, while their husbands remain distant or passive. With powerful statistics and real questions from our community, we explore why spiritual leadership matters and how it shapes the direction of ...

Send us a text The conventional wisdom about why men leave marriages often misses the mark. Forget the stereotype of men simply wanting "another piece" – the truth is far more nuanced and surprisingly similar to why women initiate divorce. Emotional disconnection tops the list of reasons men walk away from marriages. Just like women, men deeply crave meaningful connection with their partners and suffer when they feel like mere roommates in a stagnant relationship. When men feel unheard and n...

Send us a text What's driving the surprising trend of women initiating 70% of divorces in 2024? We're tackling this eye-opening statistic and diving deep into the reasons behind this significant shift in marriage dynamics. The data challenges our traditional assumptions about who ends marriages and why. Through honest conversation, we unpack three primary reasons women cite for leaving: emotional disconnection, lack of support, and differences in personal growth trajectories. Each represents...

Send us a text Marriage can feel like living with a stranger when we drift from soulmates to roommates. The signs are subtle but unmistakable: conversations become purely logistical about schedules and responsibilities; physical touch feels obligatory rather than passionate; and shared laughter—that vital connection point—becomes rare. This shift happens when life drowns out our relationship with its constant demands. We give our careers, children, and social obligations our best energy whil...

Send us a text Ever found yourself wondering if you're falling short in the bedroom? You're not alone. In this refreshingly honest episode, Matthew and Monica Powers break down the taboo topic of sexual inadequacy with their trademark blend of humor, wisdom, and practical advice. The conversation dives deep into recognizing the warning signs that your intimate life might need attention—from avoiding conversations about sex to treating intimacy as just another item on your to-do list. With ch...