What if the emotions you’ve been hiding—anger, insecurity, even shame—aren’t actually the problem, but your greatest teachers?
In this eye-opening episode of Marriage of Greatness, hosts Susan Money and Evan Money tackle a bold new perspective: “Emotions Are Meant To Be Instructive Not Destructive.”
Drawing inspiration from author Tom Holiday, Evan Money reveals his deeply personal journey of overcoming years of rage stemming from childhood pain, showing how unresolved feelings can quietly sabotage relationships, careers, and happiness. Susan Money brings relatable wisdom, sharing how our bottled-up hurts will find their way out, usually at the worst possible moment—and often over something trivial like shopping bags left in the car.
Together, the couple challenges listeners to rethink their relationship with negative emotions. Are you labeling all discomfort as “bad,” ignoring pain because it feels safer, and then finding yourself caught in destructive loops of anger, greed, or insecurity? This episode uncovers how even subtle signs—fake smiles, slammed objects, or endless accumulation—are really signals from within, urging you to heal and grow.
Key highlights include:
Ready to step out of hiding and into healing? Susan Money and Evan Money guide you through a powerful reframing of emotions that just might transform not only your marriage, but every relationship you have.
Timestamped Overview:
00:00:01 – Introduction: Your heart always leaks into your actions
00:01:08 – Welcome to new listeners; shout-outs and inspiration
00:01:55 – Emotions leak out into actions, words, and attitudes—especially for men
00:03:26 – Emotions: Instructive, not destructive;
Evan Money
’s story of anger and forgiveness
00:07:53 – Processing emotions for healing (and why symptoms disappear when you address the root cause)
00:09:34 – Comfortable suffering: Why we avoid dealing with pain until it blows up
00:10:00 – The “bad knee” analogy: Delaying healing and the years wasted in pain
00:12:11 – Deal with issues early; prioritize relationships over distractions
00:13:44 – Symptoms beyond anger: Hoarding, greed, and the never-enough trap
00:16:42 – Escalating addictions: Plastic surgery, tattoos, and culture’s insatiable demands
00:18:11 – Get to the root: Release shame and guilt; emotions as indicators for growth
00:19:27 – Action steps: How will you process and grow?
00:19:52 – Outro: Where to follow the Money’s journey and connect further
Don’t miss this candid, heartfelt episode that could help you turn pain into purpose, and everyday reactions into lasting greatness.
What if the real reason you keep having the same arguments in your marriage has nothing to do with your spouse—and everything to do with unresolved pain you’re carrying from way back?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money, joined by Quinn Lemley, pull back the curtain on the biggest Marriage Challenge nobody talks about: We’re all treating the symptoms in our relationships, instead of digging deep to heal the root cause. Using Evan’s sought-after “Get to the Root” teaching and worksheet, they guide listeners through an honest self-exploration of marital triggers, deep-seated fears, and the unconscious reasons we keep cycling through the same issues.
Key highlights include:
If you’re ready for actionable inspiration and a clear path to truly healing your marriage, tune in to this breakthrough episode!
Timestamped Overview
Ready to stop masking symptoms and finally heal your marriage at the deepest level? Press play, and let’s get to the root—together.
What if your marriage story isn’t over—even after divorce?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money share how one couple went from unhappy marriage to divorce and then back to the altar together, proving that “your marriage story isn’t over until you win.” Drawing inspiration from real-life friends and their own adventures of 100 weddings by Evan’s 100th birthday, Evan and Susan reveal the secret to reigniting your relationship, no matter where you currently stand.
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Ready to transform your marriage and prove the spark is still alive? This episode reminds you that YOU are the spark, and there’s always hope to create your own Marriage of Greatness.
Timestamped Episode Overview:
Subscribe and find out: Is YOUR marriage story just getting started?
What if the secret to an extraordinary marriage was hiding in plain sight—in the winning mindsets of Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Tom Brady, and Patrick Mahomes?
In this game-changing episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep into how the relentless pursuit of greatness by some of sports’ biggest legends can be applied to your marriage. Are you living your marriage like an NBA or NFL champion, or just running laps around mediocrity?
Key Highlights:
The “Marriage Mindset” of Champions: Discover how Michael Jordan's strive for perfection every time he steps on the court can inspire you to bring that same intentionality and effort to your relationship—every single day.
Kobe Bryant’s “Mamba Mentality” in Love: Learn why greatness is for those who commit to continual improvement, and how falling in love with the process (not fearing failure or obsessing over “winning at all costs”) radically improves your marriage.
Tom Brady’s Prehab over Rehab Approach: Why investing consistent effort up front prevents the blowups and “injuries” that set relationships back—and how being proactive can spare you years of emotional rehab.
Patrick Mahomes’ Relentless Goal-Setting: How aiming to become the “greatest” in your marriage, and owning the work it requires, can set you on a path few even dream of.
The Grocery Store Analogy: Susan’s insightful analogy on how to take only what you need from each stage of growth—without overwhelm—and why returning “for another lap” can deepen the wisdom you bring home.
The Power of Environment: Why you must surround yourself with greatness, let go of “victim mentalities,” and what it really means to pursue a relationship that inspires—not just survives.
Whether you’re new to the Marriage of Greatness family or looking for that next level, this episode is packed with inspiration, relatable stories, and practical takeaways that will challenge you to be the MVP in your own marriage.
Timestamped Overview:
00:00 – What if we applied the mindsets of Jordan, Kobe, Brady, and Mahomes to marriage?
00:31 – Welcome and intro to the Marriage of Greatness philosophy
02:29 – Susan’s grocery store analogy for personal growth in marriage
05:46 – The “greatness mindset” and why it’s rare
09:31 – The difference between mediocrity and greatness in relationships
11:03 – Kobe’s “Mamba Mentality” and loving the process, not just the results
15:19 – Applying championship methods to marriage (and why “switching teams” isn’t the answer)
18:31 – Tom Brady: Why prehab beats rehab, in football and in love
22:32 – Creating strong, positive habits for families
24:23 – Addressing past hurts—how most adults (and couples) avoid what actually needs healing
28:12 – Patrick Mahomes: The humility and drive behind the “greatest of all time” mindset
31:04 – Evan’s commitment to becoming the greatest husband and final encouragements
Ready to put championship mindsets to work in your marriage? Press play and get inspired to win together—on and off the court.
What if your marriage could be an epic adventure, complete with road trips, RV mishaps, pickleball vows, medieval feasts, and not just one, but 37 weddings—so far?
In this unforgettable episode of Lou Diamond's “Marriage of Greatness” podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money share behind-the-scenes stories from their whirlwind journey across four states, celebrating four new weddings, each with its own heartfelt (and hilarious) twist.
From cozying up (or freezing!) in a conversion van, to a spontaneous pickleball-themed ceremony in Idaho, a lakeside vow exchange in the crisp air of Montana, and an immersive medieval banquet with their literary heroes in North Dakota, the Moneys’ journey is bursting with surprises, warmth, and inspiration. Discover how every wedding features new, specially-crafted vows—never repeats!—and learn why they believe that growing together means always saying “I do” in new ways.
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Whether you’re looking for fresh ways to celebrate your own marriage, or just want a dose of joyful adventure, you’ll discover that “Being great does not mean that you’re perfect... It simply means choosing to do consistently what most people only do occasionally.”
Episode overview:
Ready for a love story that spans the states and the imagination? Hit play and get inspired to make every day—and every vow—count!
What if the secret to transforming your marriage—and even your whole life—was as simple as deciding, right now, how you’ll respond to any situation?
Prepare to be surprised by the revolutionary concept Evan and Susan Money unpack in this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast: you can determine in advance to respond with love, no matter what.
In Episode 90, "Determine in Advance to Respond with Love," Evan and Susan dive deep into the power of making intentional choices before you face tough moments—whether that’s in your marriage, with your kids, coworkers, or even the people who test your patience the most. Drawing inspiration from author Tom Holladay, they reveal why responsibility (your ability to respond) is the true superpower for healthy, thriving relationships.
Key Highlights:
Ready for simpler, more loving connections? Tune in to see how predetermining your responses can reset your marriage and relationships—one loving choice at a time.
Timestamped Episode Overview:
00:00 – Evan introduces the concept: you can choose in advance to respond with love
01:10 – Welcome, new listeners; a special shoutout and episode inspiration
01:58 – The groundbreaking advice from Tom Holladay: decide to respond with love, always
03:32 – Cold plunge analogy: embracing discomfort by predetermining your mindset
05:03 – Susan’s 20-year journey to healthier responses with Evan and their children
08:12 – Why men should ditch the “Mr. Fix It” mindset until asked
09:49 – Proactive communication: “Prehab is better than rehab”
10:27 – How to clarify what your spouse really needs after a long day
11:49 – Setting the tone: morning routines and gratitude
12:56 – Greeting your spouse: why Evan will always out-love the dog
15:27 – Loving greetings when you both work from home
16:40 – The male mindset and “mission mode”—how men can stop and show love
18:41 – Infusing fun into your marriage habits
19:51 – The power of positive answers to “How are you?” and the sacredness of enjoying life
20:58 – Why smiling beats frowning—literally
21:44 – Action steps: How will you put love into action this week?
21:56 – Outro and where to follow Evan & Susan’s 100 weddings journey
Don’t just listen—decide today how you’ll show up for the people you love. Your marriage (and your mood) will never be the same!
What if the best marriage advice you've ever heard was "Separate bathrooms… and unwavering respect"? In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money sit down with Sharon and Mike Lechter—a powerhouse couple celebrating 45 years of marriage, immense financial success, and resilience through unimaginable loss—to reveal what it truly takes to build a marriage of greatness.
Sharon Lechter, entrepreneur, bestselling author, and financial literacy advocate, and her husband Mike, an attorney, licensing authority, and cowboy-at-heart, pull back the curtain on their real-life love story—from a literal “love at first sight” meeting (in the middle of legal discovery!) to blending families, building empires, and even navigating the grief of losing a child.
Key Highlights:
The quirky and powerful practices that have kept their marriage thriving for over four decades (hint: it involves kissing, intentional living, and yes, those separate bathrooms!)
How “intentionality” shaped their business success and their family life
Candid advice on handling money as a couple—combining entrepreneurial and “stingy” mindsets
Their journey through family blending and navigating religious and cultural differences
Surviving tragedy—from the abrupt loss of their son to rediscovering joy together
Little-known romantic gestures, plus a hilarious take on communication ratios in marriage (1 word for every 100!)
Whether you’re newly married, “on round two,” or feeling stuck in a marital rut, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and inspiration to reignite your own marriage of greatness.
Episode Overview & Timestamps:
00:00 – Meet Michael & Sharon: Real-life love at first sight (even during legal discovery!) 02:05 – Who are Sharon & Mike? 44+ years, blended family, and their impressive bios
04:43 – Realizing their marriage was “different”—and why
05:54 – Their whirlwind nine-month courtship and blending families
08:38 – Early marriage lessons: handling inevitable differences & “growth mindset”
10:39 – Faith and family: tackling religious differences and parental acceptance
13:29 – The power of intentionality in marriage and business success
16:41 – Navigating finances as a couple, “money dates,” and blending family money philosophies
24:58 – Why retirement is a myth: passion, purpose, and “refiring”
26:25 – The most impactful marriage advice (“separate bathrooms” and that all-important respect)
34:52 – Weathering loss: grieving the death of a child and finding joy again
41:03 – Best gifts ever given (including buying a ranch together!)
45:21 – If their life was a movie… who would star?
47:41 – Advice for newlyweds and couples stuck in a rut (keep hugging, keep talking, keep loving)
51:47 – The “little things” that make a great marriage: poems, serenades, and the permission to be yourself
53:20 – Closing: final thoughts and blessings from Sharon and Mike
Don’t miss this heartfelt, often hilarious, and deeply insightful conversation with Sharon and Mike Lechter—you’ll walk away with practical wisdom and a renewed sense of what’s truly possible in marriage.
For more info and inspiration, visit Marriage of Greatness on Instagram and check out marriageofgreatness.com.
What if choosing “the right one” for marriage is actually the wrong question?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money upend one of the most common questions about relationships: “How do I choose the right one?” Their surprising answer reveals why this mindset could set you up for disappointment—and how it’s rooted in irresponsibility and a victim mentality. Instead, the secret isn’t about finding the right person, but becoming the right person.
With candid personal stories (did you know Susan didn’t even have a “growth mindset” when she met Evan?) and practical wisdom, they share the mindset shifts and character traits—like integrity and accountability—that create marriages that thrive, not just survive.
You’ll also hear:
Full of encouragement, humor, and raw “aha!” moments, this episode is perfect for anyone seeking to elevate their marriage, or those preparing for that pivotal lifelong commitment.
Timestamped Overview:
00:00 – A shocking take on “How do I pick the right one?” 01:09 – Welcome and introduction to the Marriage of Greatness philosophy
02:48 – Why searching for “the right one” is rooted in victimhood
04:50 – Attracting what you are, not what you want
05:19 – The myth of “the one” and the journey of becoming 06:06 – Susan’s growth mindset story
07:08 – The #1 trait to look for in a partner, and practical character traits
10:11 – Susan’s “list” and surrendering outcome in finding a spouse
13:11 – Growing versus dying: thriving versus surviving marriages
14:05 – The metaphor of Rolls Royce, and outworking the average
15:31 – Practical tips: screens in the bedroom & healthy boundaries
16:59 – Bonus Q: How do I know I’m ready for marriage? 17:31 – The only decision you need to be ready—for marriage or for happiness
19:27 – Challenge to listeners and closing thoughts
Tune in for a fresh and empowering take on love, growth, and what it really takes to build a marriage of greatness!
What if the key to peace in your marriage isn’t about solving every problem—it's about embracing do-overs, ditching perfection, and literally seasoning your relationship?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep into the profound secret of “preserving the peace in your union”—not by striving for perfection, but by consistently choosing actions and attitudes that foster love, healing, and growth. Inspired by a timeless lesson from the Book of Mark, they reveal how to keep the “flavor” alive in your relationship and avoid the silent pitfalls that erode marriages from within.
Key highlights from this episode:
Plus, don’t miss the rapid-fire references to past episodes on stopping toxic teasing, ending pointless fights, and uncovering what really drives money arguments. Evan and Susan wrap up with a powerful reminder that the joy is in the journey—not the destination—and they dare you to take real action today.
Episode Overview with Timestamps:
Ready to transform the peace, passion, and partnership in your marriage? Hit play and jump in now!
What if your marriage could achieve the same level of greatness as a Shark Tank business deal?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep into surprising marriage wisdom gleaned straight from the Shark Tank set—specifically from Robert Herjavec and Mark Cuban’s 14-year partnership. Discover how business principles like purpose-driven growth, relentless optimism, and making the most of every single day can supercharge your relationship.
Get ready for Evan and Susan’s trademark transparent storytelling—from the rollercoaster of their wedding vow renewals (over 100 and counting!) to Susan’s muddy, inspiring journey in her first Spartan Race, and Evan’s unforgettable lesson about forgiveness and the return of a prized Mustang. Through laughter, heartfelt moments, and actionable insights, this episode proves that striving for excellence and expecting to win isn’t just for the boardroom—it’s the secret sauce for an extraordinary marriage.
Key Highlights:
Grab your spouse, take notes, and get ready to bring some Shark Tank brilliance into your own love story!
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What if your marriage could follow the same gripping, transformative path as Hollywood’s greatest heroes?
In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money reveal the powerful, often-unseen stages of the “Hero’s Journey” hiding within every committed relationship—using Top Gun: Maverick as their cinematic guide. Buckle up as they walk you through each phase: from the initial “call” to marriage, through the valley of reality checks and self-doubt, the invaluable role of guides and mentors, to ultimately slaying the dragon of self and rediscovering your partner as your greatest treasure.
Prepare to laugh, nod knowingly, and maybe even be shocked as Evan and Susan lay bare deeply personal stories—like using “I am enough” as a daily reminder, struggling to pay for groceries in their first year, and the moment when trying to change each other nearly derailed their happiness. They share the wisdom of guides like Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages, reveal the vital difference between a merely “good” marriage and a “great” one, and offer actionable steps to ignite your own hero’s return—plus the one “hero’s welcome” most couples miss out on!
Whether you’re just married or deep into your adventure together, this episode will challenge you to see your marriage as the epic journey it truly is… and inspire you to choose greatness every single day.
Episode Overview
Tune in for practical inspiration, movie magic, and a new way to look at the adventure of marriage!
What’s the one belief most couples bring into marriage that could set them up for heartbreak?
Find out in this can’t-miss episode, where hosts Evan and Susan Money have a full-circle moment with their own premarital counselors—and uncover transformational truths about love, expectations, and the true secret to a thriving marriage.
In this heartfelt and revealing episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan sit down with Gene and Teri Engle, the couple who guided them before their wedding over 25 years ago. Now, with 46+ years of marriage and decades of wisdom between them, Gene and Teri share candid insights about what most couples get wrong (and right!) about relationships.
Highlights include:
Whether you’re newly engaged or decades into marriage, this episode will leave you inspired to invest in your relationship, ditch unrealistic expectations, and create meaningful, joy-filled traditions with your spouse.
Timestamped Overview: 00:00 – Evan & Susan introduce Gene and Teri Engle, their premarital counselors
02:00 – The significance of outgrowing attachment to things and embracing giving
08:20 – The most memorable gifts exchanged in nearly five decades of marriage
10:55 – What made the Engles’ marriage “different” from the start—and how their friends noticed
15:35 – The biggest lies couples tell themselves and each other about marriage
19:46 – Where do unrealistic expectations in marriage come from?
23:07 – Love languages, communication, and why your spouse "doesn’t just know"
26:48 – If your marriage was a movie… what would its title be?
29:08 – How the Engles process seeing couples thrive—or not—after counseling
32:11 – Why every couple, even the “strong” ones, need continued support
34:39 – Dream trips, Wimbledon, and the value of “we” time throughout marriage
38:41 – Keeping marriage the center: covenant, kids, and carving out couple time
40:34 – The Engles’ final wisdom for staying connected, playful, and prayerful
41:41 – Outro and how to follow the Marriage of Greatness journey
Listen in for real talk, real laughs, and real hope from two couples committed to helping you move from good to great in your marriage!
What if you could look at your life today and know what you’d regret not doing before it’s too late?
In this deeply personal and inspiring episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money crack open their “deathbed regrets” lists—and urge you to do the same. Inspired by their last episode’s exploration of regret, they share not just the big, once-in-a-lifetime dreams they refuse to leave undone, but also the smaller, joy-fueled adventures and experiences that make life together truly great.
Key highlights you’ll hear in this episode:
Whether you’ve just met the Marriage of Greatness family or are a returning listener, this episode is your call to reflect, connect, and finally make your own list—because the sooner you write it, the sooner you can start living it.
Episode Overview
Your adventure starts with a list. Are you ready to make yours?
What if the greatest pain at the end of your life isn’t failure, but regret?
In this transformative episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money tackle the gut-wrenching reality of living a life filled with “somedays” and “what ifs.” Drawing inspiration from a powerful quote by Deshauna Barber—“Do not fear failure, but rather be terrified of regret”—Susan shares heartbreaking stories from decades of convalescent ministry, witnessing firsthand the agony of dreams deferred.
The conversation dives into why we put off what matters most, the destructive “rules” we invent for ourselves, and how embracing imperfection can spark real joy and adventure in your marriage and your life. Evan and Susan recount personal stories of their 100-wedding journey, question why our culture glorifies destination over journey, and reveal moving takeaways from true tales like the man who wished he’d given his wife a flower every morning while she was alive.
Key highlights include:
Are you building memories or collecting regrets? Don’t miss this heartfelt, motivating episode that might just change the way you approach your one beautiful life—and your most treasured relationships.
Timestamped Overview:
Listen, reflect, and take your first step toward a life—and marriage—without regrets.
What if everything you thought you knew about marriage—the struggles, the myths, the “happily ever after” fairytale—was only scratching the surface of what’s truly possible?
In this life-changing episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money welcome Rachele and Emilio, the visionary duo behind Relationship Renegades, for a candid, deeply inspiring exploration of love, growth, and breaking free from limiting relationship narratives.
Relationship Renegades Emilio + Rachele
Key Highlights:
Debunking Marriage Myths: Discover why being “married and miserable” isn’t inevitable, and how Rachel and Emilio have redefined what a thriving marriage looks and feels like—starting from the very first days they met.
The Three (or Four!) H’s of Relationship Success: Learn how the principles of being healthy, happy, harmonious (and creating a little bit of heaven on earth) have helped them transform years of pain and toxic cycles into a model for conscious partnership.
Alchemizing Your Relationship: Uncover the power of radical self-awareness, breaking generational patterns, and making inner work a daily, joyful journey rather than a grind.
Practical Tools to Try at Home: Rachel and Emilio reveal their fun, game-changing techniques, like “owning your stuff” as a couple, playful reset buttons (“Take Two!”), and intentional communication to dissolve tension and boost intimacy.
The Real Secret Ingredient: Hear why placing spirituality or a higher power at the center of their relationship—the “triangle” that includes self, partner, and God (or whatever you choose to call the divine)—has kept their connection strong through every season.
Put This Episode Into Action:
Create Your Relationship Vision: Reflect with your partner (or yourself) on what you truly want to create together. Remember, your marriage can be whatever you decide to make it—don’t settle for society’s defaults.
Daily Gratitude: Practice appreciating even the smallest joy or act of connection in your relationship. As Rachel and Emilio share, the “journey is the joy”—there’s no arrival point, just daily opportunities to choose each other.
Try the Reset: Next time you hit a rough patch, call for a playful “Take Two” or “Reset Button”—break out of negative patterns by starting the moment over with intention and lightness.
Make Self-Work a Game: Shift from seeing personal growth as a chore to embracing it as a joyful, ongoing adventure. Challenge yourself to “own your stuff” first and watch the positive ripple through your dynamic.
Connect with a Higher Purpose: However you define it, anchor your partnership in something greater than yourselves. Explore what spirituality, purpose, or shared values look like for your relationship.
Ready to rebel against limiting love stories and become a true Relationship Renegade? Listen now and start creating your very own marriage of greatness—one intentional, joy-filled day at a time.
Links & Follow-Up:
Check out Relationship Renegades on Instagram @relationship.renegades and get inspired by their anniversary video
Discover more at evanlovesusan.com and marriageofgreatness.com
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What if money isn’t actually the root of your relationship arguments?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep beneath the surface of couple’s financial disputes to reveal the true causes—and, more importantly, the real solutions. Are you ready to finally end all money arguments with your partner? Get ready, because this conversation might just transform the way you see money, security, and love forever.
Key Highlights from Episode #80:
It’s Not About the Dollars: Evan and Susan reveal that money arguments are rarely about the cash itself. Instead, they're rooted in deeper needs—like women’s desire for security and men’s quest to prove they “have what it takes.”
Role Reversals & Spending Habits: Whether it’s “spender vs. saver” or vice versa, listen as our hosts unpack the emotional voids we try to fill through shopping or saving, and how these habits are reinforced in our society.
Practical Tools for Peace: The Moneys share their life-changing monthly budget meeting ritual—a simple, handwritten approach that brings clarity, security, and unity without the spreadsheet headaches.
Generosity Breaks the Cycle: Discover how shifting from scarcity to generosity can free couples from the “wolf” of greed and anxiety, and hear about the transformative Journey of Generosity (JOG) experience.
Faith, Love & True Security: Find out why lasting security and self-worth can never be found in money or things, but in something much deeper and more enduring.
Take Action—How Listeners Can Grow this Week:
Start Your Monthly Money Meeting: Grab a pen, paper, and your partner—ditch the spreadsheets and phones. Outline all monthly expenses together and review honestly, adjusting as you go.
Put On Your CFO Hats: Approach your financial conversation as business partners; take the emotion out and focus on clear, honoring communication.
Find the Leaks: Review subscriptions and spending; cut or consolidate where needed to stop financial “leaks.”
Experiment with Generosity: Increase your giving—even just by 1%—and watch what shifts in your outlook and relationship.
Reflect on Your Security: Take time to consider where your sense of security really comes from. Is it money, things, or something deeper?
Share Your Wins: Let Evan and Susan know how you’ve put these principles into action—reach out on Instagram (@MarriageOfGreatness) or through their website.
Ready to break the cycle and build a marriage that’s not just good—but truly great? Dive into this episode, and take your next step toward financial peace and relational greatness today.
Don’t forget! For inspiration throughout the week, follow Marriage of Greatness on Instagram and check out EvanLovesSusan.com for their 100 weddings adventure, plus resources, budgeting templates, and more ways to connect.
Subscribe now on Apple, Google, Spotify, GoodPods—or wherever you listen!
What if the biggest difference between a lousy, good, and great marriage isn’t what you think?
In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money reveal the real, transformative factors that separate struggling relationships from thriving ones. Drawing inspiration from John Gordon’s “7 Commitments of a Great Team” and real-life stories, they unpack why most couples get stuck—and how you can break free.
Key Highlights:
Action Steps for Listeners:
Want even more inspiration? Download Evan & Susan’s free Vow Renewal Handbook at evanlovesusan.com and follow their journey to 100 weddings. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!
Step into greatness in your marriage—starting today.
Timestamped Overview
00:00 Romantic Vow Renewal Inspiration
04:44 Cluttered Spaces and Awkward Visits
08:45 The Tipping Point of Suppression
12:33 "The Biggest Room: Self-Improvement"
13:27 Undistracted Communication in Marriage
18:40 R&B Legends Turn Marriage Healers
20:34 "Strengthening Bonds: Beyond Repair"
23:48 Choose Love Over Fear
26:11 Avoiding Travel Stress
28:53 Resistance Training for Mental Growth
What if everything you thought you knew about respect in marriage was wrong?
In this episode, we’re breaking the old myths wide open and redefining what respect truly means between spouses—and it’s more powerful (and practical) than you might think.
In “Let’s Talk About R-E-S-P-E-C-T” (MOG Episode #78), hosts Evan and Susan Money take you on a transformative journey to reshape your understanding of respect within marriage. Inspired by insights from Tim Ruffalovich, this episode dives deep into how respect isn’t something that can be demanded or handed out—it must be earned through intentional, consistent action.
Through their signature warmth and real-life anecdotes, Evan and Susan unpack their own unique acronym for RESPECT, offering you a fresh, actionable framework:
Key Highlights:
For more tools, inspiration, and to follow their journey to 100 weddings, be sure to check out marriageofgreatness.com and find Marriage of Greatness on Instagram.
Subscribe, listen in, and start raising the bar in YOUR relationship—respect isn’t a finish line…it’s a daily choice.
Timestamped Overview
00:00 "Marriage and Respect Insights"
03:51 "Understand Love Languages"
09:14 Improving Marital Communication
12:05 "Creating Space for Connection"
16:08 "Spiritual Growth by Example"
19:45 "Respectful Touch in Relationships"
20:34 Consent and Comfort in Touch
25:51 Consistency Empowers Personal Growth
26:56 Truth in Love: Self-Reflection
32:02 Be a Truth Teller
34:23 From Honesty to Transparency
37:02 "Marriage of Greatness Podcast"
What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage wasn’t about changing your partner—but shifting your own mindset?
In this energizing episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money reveal the hidden power behind lasting change in relationships: your mindset. Prepare to be surprised by why New Year’s resolutions, grand romantic gestures, or even willpower alone won’t sustain growth or joy in your marriage. Instead, Evan and Susan break down the “frameworks” (not formulas!) that real couples have used to shift their thinking—and how these small mental tweaks create huge behavioral transformations.
Key Highlights:
Put It Into Action:
Listener Challenge:
Susan closes with a practical call to action—how will you put these mindset shifts into practice? Jot down even one change you want to make and take that step today.
For more, subscribe to the Marriage of Greatness podcast and follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddings at evanlovesusan.com and marriageofgreatness.com.
Timestamped Overview
00:00 Marriage: God's Design for Greatness
03:14 "Couple Mindset Frameworks"
09:04 "TEDx Marriage Renewal"
12:16 "Creating Your Marriage Puzzle"
15:14 "Recalibration Through Lent"
16:40 "Filling Dietary Voids Healthily"
20:01 Thriving Beyond Adversity
23:38 Navigating Relationship Challenges
27:47 Achieving Greatness in Marriage
What if the secret to an extraordinary marriage wasn’t found in romance or passion, but in something most people overlook—companionship?
In this powerful and uplifting episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money sit down with Tim and Janet Rafalovich, a couple who have been married for 38 years and have spent much of their life mentoring and counseling other couples. What makes their marriage unique? It’s not just their love for each other or their picture-perfect stories—it’s the intentional, day-in, day-out practice of choosing each other as companions, partners, and best friends.
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Timestamped Overview
00:00 "Marriage and Generosity Journey"
05:51 "Janet: Lively Companion and Support"
07:28 Companionship Strengthens Our Marriage
12:00 "Commitment and Communication in Marriage"
13:35 Prioritize Spousal Love Over Kids
19:14 Family First, Church Second
22:11 "Build, Don't Dismantle Relationships"
26:06 Emotions Reveal Our Values
27:36 "Faithful Partnership and Growth"
33:02 "Sarcasm's Hidden Truth in Relationships"
33:46 Respect: Relate, Connect, Lead, Care
37:01 Thriving Together Against the Current