Manage Self, Lead Others: Emotional Intelligence and Leadership for Managers
Nina Sunday
176 episodes
2 weeks ago
Manage Self, Lead Others is the leadership podcast for people who want to lead with impact — not ego. Smart, grounded, and always relevant, this is your space to reflect, reframe, and rise.
Hosted by Nina Sunday CSP and Hall of Fame speaker, each episode features real conversations with leadership thinkers, industry leaders and workplace experts who share practical ideas and bold insights to help you lead with emotional intelligence, clarity and purpose.
Are you committed to growing yourself to better lead others? Tune in. You'll walk away with strategies you can apply immediately — whether you're a new manager, team leader, or seasoned professional.
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Manage Self, Lead Others is the leadership podcast for people who want to lead with impact — not ego. Smart, grounded, and always relevant, this is your space to reflect, reframe, and rise.
Hosted by Nina Sunday CSP and Hall of Fame speaker, each episode features real conversations with leadership thinkers, industry leaders and workplace experts who share practical ideas and bold insights to help you lead with emotional intelligence, clarity and purpose.
Are you committed to growing yourself to better lead others? Tune in. You'll walk away with strategies you can apply immediately — whether you're a new manager, team leader, or seasoned professional.
Subscribe and join the movement to lead with more humanity.
Scott Dutton is the Conflict Whisperer; a global expert on
difficult conversations, Conflict intelligence®, mediation, emotional
intelligence and workplace culture. As a professional speaker he's known as the fun-maker and spoken to over 25,000 professionals as a speaker or facilitator.
Q. What makes a culture unravel? What toxic behavior is most
prevalent?
Where there's an us-and-them culture, where it gets very
much management vs. staff, where people do not feel comfortable or safe to have
those difficult conversations. Teams need to have a model on how to have those
difficult conversations. one I use is based on a Harvard model; start by asking questions to understand.
A trap in difficult conversations is if they start provoking
the other person and put them on the back foot then - you get defensiveness.
It's being mindful about how you start, and also your tone and body language
and how that comes across; all those things play a part in whether that
conversation is going to go well or not.
The purpose initially is to understand each other before
starting to look at solutions. It's going in open, curious, trying to
understand the other, them understanding you, and then we find a way forward.
If everyone has a model like that it makes it easier.
“Calling it out” is when you see something inappropriate,
you go, 'Hey, hang on there, I'm uncomfortable with that." You make it
clear.
“Calling it in” is more subtle. What it is, I might see you
raise an eye at someone in the meeting, or do something more subtle and I might
say, “I just wondered, in the meeting I saw you make an interesting facial
expression when Mary was talking. I'm just wondering what was going on for you
there?"
I'm not coming in with judgment. I'm coming in with a soft
curiosity and saying, "Hey what's going on there? I saw that."
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Manage Self, Lead Others: Emotional Intelligence and Leadership for Managers
Manage Self, Lead Others is the leadership podcast for people who want to lead with impact — not ego. Smart, grounded, and always relevant, this is your space to reflect, reframe, and rise.
Hosted by Nina Sunday CSP and Hall of Fame speaker, each episode features real conversations with leadership thinkers, industry leaders and workplace experts who share practical ideas and bold insights to help you lead with emotional intelligence, clarity and purpose.
Are you committed to growing yourself to better lead others? Tune in. You'll walk away with strategies you can apply immediately — whether you're a new manager, team leader, or seasoned professional.
Subscribe and join the movement to lead with more humanity.
