Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest.

In this episode of the His and Hers Podcast, we dive into a heartfelt and challenging dilemma that many of you might relate to. A woman is struggling to move on from a toxic breakup while still being deeply in love with her coparent. She seeks advice on how to heal emotionally while maintaining a healthy coparenting relationship. We want to hear from you! Have you ever had to navigate the complexities of coparenting while still having strong feelings towards your ex-partner? What strategies did you find effective in healing from a breakup while remaining connected as coparents? What advice would you give to this woman? Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people. Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's received will remain anonymous! Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2men Mama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

This dilemma comes in from an anonymous man who has the potential to change his financial situation but at a cost....

Working abroad can have a number of financial benefits such as not having to pay tax and a decrease in cost of living.

This can allow you to earn/save a lot more than you ever would in the UK.

However, as a parent would you leave your child for a period of time in order to take advantage of an opportunity such as this one?

What would you do?

Would you question someone as a parent if they were to move away for an extended period of time?

Is there a happy medium in this situation?

Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people.

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Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective)

Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32

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Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest.

This episodes dilemma comes in from an anonymous woman who appears to have been through the most.

Now some of you may listen to this and instantly think "never me"

However, we all know how difficult things can be when emotions are involved, let alone children.

Have you ever been in a situation which you were hoping would change for the better, but only got worse?

Have you ever been too mentally and emotionally exhausted to make a change you know you needed to make?

Can you relate to this woman at all?

If this was a close friend of yours, what would you tell her?

Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people. Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's received will remain anonymous! Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2men Mama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest.

This weeks dilemma comes in from an anonymous woman who has been longing to start her own family for years now.

Her partner on the other hand has had a change of heart.As a man with 2 children myself, this one hits home.

How important is it that we are intentional with our needs from the beginning?

Should she leave now that their paths have split?

What would you do if you was the woman in this situation

How would you approach the situation if you were the man and now realise you don’t want anymore children?

Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people. Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's received will remain anonymous! Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2men Mama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV.

Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest.

This dilemma comes in from an anonymous male who has clearly got himself in deep waters.Although this may seem like a shock, this scenario is not as rare as it may seem.

How many times have you heard men and women talking about their “work wife/husband” - are they always innocent? Can things really get this messy?

What should he do?

Can you relate to this dilemma at all?

What would you do if you were him?

What would you do if you were his wife or even the mother of his soon to be child?

Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people.

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Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective)

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Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest. In episode six we take on a dilemma from a father whose coparent has moved on and is now ready to introduce her partner to their children. Can you understand his initial reaction? How would you handle this situation if you were either parent? When do you believe a child should be introduced to a partner? Do you believe the other parent should have a say? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section and be sure to tune in to hear our P.O.V Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people. Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's received will remain anonymous! Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2men Mama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest. In episode Five we address a dilemma sent in from a soon to be wife, who has just found out her fiance has lied to her about his relationship with a female friend. She is unsure how to address this situation and who to approach. What would you say to this woman? Would you trust your partner after finding this out? Is it a big deal seeing as the intimacy happened before they were a couple? Would you be ok with your partner having a best friend from the opposite gender? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section and be sure to tune in to hear our P.O.V Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's received will remain anonymous! Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2men Mama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest. In episode four we take on a dilemma from a mother who has heard that her sons father is now ready to build a relationship and play a role, after being absent in their childs life for the past 4 years. What would you do if this was you?🤷🏽‍♂️ How should she go about it? What would you want to see from the father in order to feel comfortable? How do you think this will impact the child? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section and be sure to tune in to hear our P.O.V Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's received will remain anonymous! Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2men Mama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

Welcome to season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest.

In this weeks episode we take on a relationship dilemma that was sent in by a viewer who has been on and off with the father of her child and despite knowing the relationship isn't the one - she is contemplating more children with him so that the children can come from the same parents.

What would you do?

Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people.

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Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com

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Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective)

Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 Follow us: Aaron: IG/Tiktok: @Raisingboys_2menMama Hebz: IG: @iamhebz Tiktok: MamaHebz

Welcome to the second episode of season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest. Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective) Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32 In this weeks episode we take on a Co-Parenting dilemma that was sent in by a viewer who has been struggling to juggle mum life and adult time due to the father of her child making it hard, whilst also guilting her into ending things by using stats and podcasts Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people. Subscribe | Like | Share | Comment Send in your dilemma: DM @rb2mdilemma on Instagram or you can email MamaHebz@gmail.com All Dilemma's recieved will remain anonymous!

Welcome to the first episode of season one of His & Hers POV. Where we take your dilemmas, unpack them, share our opinions and get things off our chest.

Shoutout to Wretch 32 for giving us permission to use his incredible track: His & Hers (perspective)

Music Credit and Permission: @Wretch32

In this weeks episode we take on a relationship dilemma that was sent in by a viewer who had been seeing someone for 9 months and was struggling to understand the status of their relationship.

Be sure to let us know your views on this subject in the comments and share with your people.

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We are all guilty of losing sight of purpose and why we are given this life… we sometimes get caught and wrapped up in worldly desires, where it takes presidency over faith and purpose. In this episode I sat down with Leyla Mehmet , a PT for the celebrities, where we spoke about my hijab journey, why I decided to cover, what life was growing up in Leyla’s home, a Turkish patriotic household , the understanding between faith and culture , the evolution of her yearn and love forIslam and more. More content to follow. Please check out Leyla on insta : @leylvmehmet Make sure you like , share and subscribe to my channel if you haven’t already- you can follow me on Instagram @iamHebz Love and appreciate you. ✨🙏🏽🫶🏽🥰 Filmed by Moi, so apologies for the quality 🫣🫠😅

Part 2 sit down with one half of the 'When the Kids Go to Bed Podcast' - Aka Truly.

We spoke about self reflection, accountability and the evolution of our understanding of love.

- Toxic Love

- Healthy 'Boring' Love

- Trauma

-History repeating itself

- Marriage

- Faith and Culture

- Its a You Problem- if you keep attracting the same energy

-Changing the Narrative

- Difficulty of looking in the mirror (self reflection)

- being single vs. jumping from relationship to another

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Part 2 sit down with Aaron. This time to learn more about him and why he started his Raising Boys 2 Men page plus he answered some of the public’s questions. Within this conversation we unpacked the following: - importance of therapy and releasing - How and why RB2M was birthed - Aaron’s personal growth - Talks with Omari - Babysitting Mindset when it comes to co-parenting - Q&A with Aaron - The art of understanding - Co-parenting struggles and obstacles - The damage of overthinking and comparison - Letting a good one go And MORE!
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I sat down with Jazmine (again) to talk about our first marriages. What we understood about marriage before entering it and what rookie mistakes and lessons learnt along the way. Touching on: - Traditions - Religion - Culture - Young perception of Love - Marriage = Freedom - Understanding of Love - Learning ourselves - Ignoring red flags - Pressure of marriage - Accepting its failed - Divorce Subscribe on ‘Mama Hebz’ YouTube channel so you know when new episodes are out. Please like, share with your friends and share your thoughts and stories in the comments. Follow us on Instagram: @growingupbritish.h @iamhebz TikTok: MamaHebz YouTube: Mama Hebz 📍 Jukebox Studio 🎥 @aladdin.b_ t

I sat down with my brother, my orig CO-HOST of the 'Growing Up Bristishh' Podcast and unpacked all things around financial literacy growing up to him today.

we touched on :

- Childhood understanding of finance

- Parents outlook on money management/Finance

- The importance of money

- Cultural understanding of money

- Fatherhood: the adjustment of how CK viewed money

- Financial pressures of being a man when it comes to finance and dating/courting

- Mental Health links to Finances

+ More <3

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I sat down with Meriam and spoke on life for her in the public eye as a North African Muslim Woman in the Media who is still navigating and finding her feet. we touched on: - Being Cancelled - Being the only Muslim in the room - Gaining Respect in the industry - Conscious conversations - Being Purposeful - Backlash of some Muslims - Remembering God - InterRacial Marriage - Family - And then some :P Subscribe on ‘Mama Hebz’ YouTube channel so you know when new episodes are out. Please like, share with your friends and share your thoughts and stories in the comments. Follow us on Instagram: @growingupbritish.h @iamhebz YouTube: Mama Hebz 📍 Jukebox Studio 🎥 @aladdin.b_ t

Life is a beautiful struggle. We are constantly trialled and tested- this is all part of our growth.

I sat down with the lovely Tamsyn, one half of @whenthekidsgotobed podcast to discuss GROWTH.

we spoke honestly about our personal journeys and how that looked like.

Every experience shapes us and leads us to react to it - leading to your path constantly changing.

However without taking time out to accept your circumstances, understand the change and dictate it rather than coast through it - we will never grow and evolve in the best way. We will become victim of circumstances- feeling out of control, feeling like failure or acting like we got it together.

lets face it we are all going through something- and many of us spend a lot of time keep ourselves busy rather than accept our position and take time to assess and improve it. Denial.

Topics: - Parenting Growing up - Single Motherhood - Strong mothers

- Your growth impacting your children's growth

-Growing with your children

- Knowing your worth. - Domestic Abuse - Growth - Therapy - Relationships - Unlearning /Relearning Behaviour - Motherhood - Teenage Motherhood - Feeling like a failure - Life Struggles

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I sat and spoke to Zakarriyah for the THIRD time but this time to talk about Traditional Roles and marriage.   

We covered: 

- Family Traditions  

- Growing up what tradition looked like at home 

- Getting Ready for marriage  

- Becoming THAT Spouse (before meeting your person) 

- Coming correct with intentions (don't say you're ready - you need to BE READY)  

- Love 

 - Religion Teachings of Marriage  

- What does Traditional Roles look like? (Childhood and Islamic)   

Check out the other two episodes ft. Zakarriyah (Ep 4 https://youtu.be/buc7i8CxDLY and 10 https://youtu.be/YPZP00yzuY8 )   Subscribe on ‘Mama Hebz’ YouTube channel so you know when new episodes are out.   

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