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Making Changes
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40 episodes
4 hours ago
A collection of podcasts for people just like you, who are on the journey towards finding truth and fulfillment.
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Making Changes
Growing up CODA – Child of Deaf Adults – Part 1
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Making Changes: Growing Up CODA (Child of Deaf Adults) Part 1
Brother Ronnie: And you know what, there is even one specific moment that I remember which is, the minister is giving—he's wrapping up the lesson, he's getting very spiritual; he’s giving the bayubay (advice).  Brethren are feeling it. And I look over at my mother, and I kid you not, she's crying. And I don't know why. I'm thinking, what are you hearing? What are you listening to? What were you getting from this? 

Brother Rowel: You know, again as a child…what would go through my mind is, you can't even hear, you know. Why is this important to you? Why does it matter? You can't even hear. But as a child seeing that, and then finally being able to understand—it’s like, ok, let me stay awake maybe there’s a reason why. 

Aliw: When I first learned about Brother Ronnie and Rowel David’s story, right away, I had so many questions. I was just so curious about how they grew up and became the people that they are now. You see, they’re brothers who are both CODA, an acronym for Child of Deaf Adults. They grew up in Georgia and are now both ministers of the gospel in the Iglesia Ni Cristo or Church Of Christ. 

Brother Ronnie: I remember asking her afterwards, like, Oh, why are you crying?

What did the minister say? And she said, “I don't know, but I felt something. I was feeling something. And it made me feel like crying.”

Brother Rowel: When me and my brother would talk about it, we would always say they really did worship, depending on the Holy Spirit, you know.

Brother Ronnie: It’s one of the biggest lessons we ever got from them. And again, they never explained that to us. They never said anything about the Holy Spirit. They never put that into words but it’s based on the way they live, that’s how we learned it. 

Aliw: From INC Media Audio, you’re listening to Making Changes, I’m Aliw Garcia Pablo. Today’s episode format is a bit different. This is a 2-part series where we’ll sit down with Brother Ronnie and Brother Rowel to see what it was like to grow up CODA and how that shaped their faith. This 2 part episode is so layered as you will see and feel. It's about the struggle of growing up CODA, love for their parents but also the frustrations from the perspective of two young boys whose lives were filled  with setbacks and struggle.   Let’s listen in…

Aliw: Hi, Brother Ronnie, Brother Rowel, thank you so much for taking the time to talk with us. 

Brother Rowel: Thank you, Sister Aliw.

Brother Ronnie: Thank you so much.

Aliw:  We'll start off by asking, what would you say? At what age, would you say that you realized that your home life was a little bit different from the rest of your friends in school or wherever?

Brother Ronnie: It didn't really hit me all at one time. It just kind of, eventually, I understood that our situation growing up is very different from other people. Like, for example, when we would go to the grocery store, and we'd help our mom pay. You know, we'd give the cashier the money, or if we have questions, we would talk for our mother. Same thing with going to the doctor's office—my mother would want to tell the doctor something and the doctor tells us to tell our mom and we’d tell our mom. And then even when he came to school. The teachers are telling us okay, I need to talk to your parents, which have home phone numbers, I can call them. They call us later on, and I'm the one answering the phone. So, it was a gradual thing, I don't think it was a specific age, but, the longer or the more we grew up with our parents the more I realized it really is different from other people.

Bro. Rowel: For me growing up, I thought that everyone did sign language to their parents...
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1 month ago
34 minutes 22 seconds

Making Changes
Finding God Was Just the Beginning
What happens when your skeptical neighbor becomes your sister in faith? For years, Kim said, “I don’t need church. God is everywhere.” But one Sunday, she chose to attend a worship service in the Church Of Christ.

That decision changed Kim’s life and also deepened the faith of her friend Aliw, host of Making Changes. It’s the story of how God moved the pieces in their lives to bring them together and bring them both closer to Him in ways they never expected. Finding God was just the beginning. Real peace comes when you choose Him daily.

00:00 - "When You Believe, Faith Doesn't Die - It Only Grows Stronger"
02:05 - The Reunion: God's Favorite Meets Her Best Friend After Years Apart
06:15 - The Seamless Move: How Everything Fell Into Place for Tennessee
10:09 - From "I Don't Need Church" to Never Missing Service
13:18 - The Saturday Night Call That Changed Everything
14:17 - Walking Into Light: Angels Singing at First Worship Service
17:03 - Why She Never Wanted to Leave After That First Day
23:01 - When Every Doctrine Made Perfect Sense Immediately
24:18 - Sharing Truth with Neighbors: The Captain of Neighborhood Watch
27:13 - The Bible Study That Ended with Slammed Books and Red Pens
29:39 - Getting Andrew and the Kids to Follow God's Call
35:07 - The Heart Transplant Crisis: When Faith Meets Life and Death
38:06 - Approved at the 11th Hour for the Grand Baptism
43:22 - Why Faith Only Grows Stronger After 16 Years
46:15 - The Maturity to Follow God's Disciplines, Not Just Beliefs
49:38 - What Her Christian Friends' Drinking Taught Her About Hypocrisy
52:05 - Being the Only Black Woman: Overcoming Cultural Questions
58:08 - From Heart's Calling to White Shoes: Becoming a Deaconess
1:01:27 - Why She Keeps Wanting to Do More for God
1:04:01 - Raising Kids to Serve God Properly, Not Just Be Happy
1:08:52 - Church as Daily Recharge and Safe Haven from a Nasty World
1:12:03 - How Their Friendship Changed Both Their Faith Perspectives
1:18:48 - Change Is Transformation That Impacts Others

Kim's change wasn't just about joining the Church; It was about understanding that membership is not a destination, but a doorway into deeper spiritual maturity… a deeper connection with God…and a deeper purpose in life.
This was a woman who had moved from simply being in the church to truly becoming God's child. Or God’s favorite, as she proudly puts it. And maybe that's the change we all need to make….not just once, but again and again, as we grow into who God is calling us to become.

If this story has moved you, or you know someone who needs to hear it, share it with them. And don't forget to subscribe to Making Changes wherever you listen to podcasts. And remember, change can also be a transformation that makes you a path for others to find their way to God. So make that change.

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org, the INC media app, or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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2 months ago
1 hour 23 minutes 41 seconds

Making Changes
Three Brothers, One Faith, Bonded By Prayer
The bond their parents instilled in them would carry an older brother through seven years of patiently waiting... and be solidified in one night when the three brothers prayed together, now bound by something deeper than blood.

This is a story that proves some relationships are worth praying for, no matter how long it takes.

Episode Timestamps
00:00 - Three Brothers, One Bond: Growing Up with Pecking Calls
02:18 - The Age Gap Chronicles: From Only Child to Big Brother
06:01 - Pecking Calls and Countdowns: The Brotherhood Rules
1:03:39 - Building Deeper Relationships: From Surface to Spiritual Depth
1:12:41 - Little Glimmers of Hope: Mom Singing, Dad Nodding
1:20:05 - What 18 Years of Patience Has Taught Them
1:25:09 - Parenting with Purpose: Teaching Kids Through Experience
1:29:26 - The Domino Effect: One Calling Changes Generations
1:35:54 - Getting Emotional: Racing Against Time
1:41:22 - Rapid Fire: Funny Brother, Sensitive Brother, Marriage Advice
1:44:18 - Change Is Everything: Blessing, Growth, and God

Eighteen years later, Harmony, Aries, and Adonis still gather after every Sunday worship service to pray for their parents. They've learned that the most profound changes don't happen overnight - they happen one invitation at a time, one prayer at a time.

So if you’re waiting for a loved one to change their heart...or know someone who is… share this story, and remind them that God’s answers are always… always worth waiting for, no matter how long it takes.

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2 months ago
1 hour 48 minutes 25 seconds

Making Changes
Letting Go: Cancer, Control and I Trust You
Ez thought she had everything under control. From the moment of diagnosis, Ez shares her powerful journey from needing control to complete surrender, letting go of everything she thought mattered and turning her pain into service to God and others.

00:00 - The Journey Begins: From Control to Surrender
03:04 - The Unexpected Diagnosis That Changed Everything
07:44 - First Response: "I Trust You"
10:58 - Breaking the News with a Whiteboard Presentation
15:25 - When One Surgery Becomes Six
20:00 - Finding Light in the Darkness Through Daily Anointing
27:26 - Lessons in Faith: What Prayer Really Means
36:47 - The Deeper Roots: How Trials Strengthen Faith
44:03 - From Recipient to Giver: Becoming a Deaconess
48:06 - Advice for Patients: Creating Your Healing Team
51:43 - What NOT to Say to Someone with Cancer
56:53 - Living in Remission: Fear, Faith, and Moving Forward
59:04 - Teaching the Next Generation Through Example
1:01:05 - Why We Need Sharp Edges to Be Rounded Out
1:03:39 - Rapid Fire: Favorite Meals, Congregations, and Life Advice

Ez started her journey believing she could control everything…but after her cancer diagnosis she realized her power wasn’t her ability to plan every detail in her life. It was surrender. Surrender to God’s will. Surrender to God’s plans.

From telling God, 'I trust you' in her darkest moment to becoming a deaconess serving others in theirs, Ez discovered that letting go of what she couldn't control gave her access to something far more powerful - purpose, peace, and the ability to transform pain into service.

If you're struggling to control something today, remember Ez's words: 'Change is an opportunity.' So let go and surrender to the change God has for you. And if you’re a woman listening to this or knows someone who needs to hear this, please - take action on what Ez learned the hard way. Fight for your health. Be your best advocate.

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org, the INC media app, or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.
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2 months ago
1 hour 10 minutes 9 seconds

Making Changes
Broken Together, Healing Together: Surrender
At their lowest moments, Mary and Rashad couldn't have imagined that their story was just getting started. That the same circumstances that nearly destroyed them would become the foundation for something beautiful.

This conversation explores the transformative journey of Mary and Rashad, who faced significant challenges and ultimately found redemption through faith. They discuss their experiences with hitting rock bottom, the importance of intentional prayer, the role of community in healing, and the commitment required in relationships and parenting.

00:00  From Rock Bottom to Redemption
02:59  A New Spiritual Journey Begins
05:52 Experiencing a Different Kind of Worship
08:54 Building a New Community
11:44 Navigating Relationships and Forgiveness
14:57 The Importance of Commitment
17:52 Baptism: A New Beginning
20:49 The Transformation After Baptism
23:40 Facing Life's Challenges
26:38 The Role of Prayer in Marriage
29:39 Parenting with Faith
32:40 Finding Freedom in Faith
47:52 The Power of Forgiveness and Experience
49:03 Learning from Mistakes and Consequences
50:31 Parenting with Faith and Guidance
50:49 Navigating Family Traditions and Beliefs
54:12 Understanding the True Meaning of Christmas
55:58 Inviting Family into Faith
01:01:05 Embracing Change and Overcoming Fear
01:04:46 The Impact of God on Relationships
01:09:43 Finding Peace Through Surrender
01:14:52 The Role of the Church in Our Lives

God didn't wait for them to clean up their act first. He met them right there in the mess and showed them the way out.

And it wasn't some overnight miracle. It was messy. It was work. It was choosing God even when their hearts could have chosen an easier way out. But through all of that messiness, their story shows us what's possible when we let go of the brokenness and surrender completely to God.

If Mary & Rashad’s story resonated with you, or if you know someone who's been trying to control their own story instead of letting God write it, share these two episodes. Sometimes we need to hear that surrender isn't giving up - it's finally letting go.

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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Watch Part 1 of Mary & Rashad's Story
Read the Knowing When to Give and When to Take: 
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2 months ago
1 hour 26 minutes 38 seconds

Making Changes
Broken Together, Healing Together: Searching
Two broken people seeking for answers find each other in pain. Church hurt, religious trauma, and childhood abuse bring Rashad and Mary together in their desperate search for healing and truth and in the process, find God waiting for them.

00:00 The Journey Begins: Meeting at a Casino
02:18 First Encounters and Shared Colors
05:39 Rashad's Spiritual Background: From Church Builder to Club Life
10:26 Mary's Childhood: Growing Up with an Abusive, Alcoholic Father
15:07 Breaking Free from Family Dysfunction
16:54 What They Sought in Each Other
19:19 The Interracial Dynamic: Love Beyond Color Lines
21:19 Mary's DUI: The Three Days That Changed Everything
25:52 Rashad's Bible Study Journey: 28 Lessons and Secret Transformation
32:29 The Double Life Dilemma: Mixing Light with Darkness
37:43 The Crossroads: Choosing God Over Comfort
42:10 Prison Phone Calls: Reading Job Behind Bars
46:41 Separate Transformations, One Divine Plan
48:02 Choosing Light: Opening the Door to Change

But their story doesn't end here.

In part two of this episode, you'll hear what happens after Mary called the minister, Brother Mike, their baptisms, and how they learned that true freedom isn't about having no rules - it's about joining God's club and following His way.
Their transformation from from choosing pain to choosing God, proves that sometimes the most beautiful stories come from the most broken beginnings.

If Mary and Rashad's story resonates with you, or if you know anyone who's been choosing their pain over God's healing, share this episode. Sometimes we need to hear that God can write a better story than we ever imagined.
Don't forget to subscribe to Making Changes wherever you listen to podcasts, and remember - change isn't just inevitable, it's necessary. You might as well change for the good.

Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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3 months ago
52 minutes 6 seconds

Making Changes
Stay Close to God: Lessons From Dad
Growing up, Brother Bernard watched his Filipino immigrant father sacrifice everything to start over in America, yet somehow stay completely devoted to his faith. The question that never left Brother Bernard alone: Why? Why was his dad's faith so strong?

In This Episode
00:00 The Search for Meaning
02:54 Lessons from a Father's Faith
05:43 The Journey to the Ministry
08:40 Finding True Happiness
11:42 The Call to Serve
14:50 Faith Through Adversity
17:41 The Impact of Faith on Family
20:45 The Role of Gratitude
23:28 Transformative Changes in Life
26:42 The Legacy of Faith
29:32 Navigating Life's Challenges
32:22 The Blessings of Service
35:11 The Importance of Perspective
38:10 Embracing Change
41:01 The Power of Connection
43:42 Lessons for Future Generations
46:37 The Bigger Picture of Life
49:27 The Importance of Faith in Grief
52:16 The Journey of Self-Discovery
55:14 The Role of a Parent
57:40 Final Reflections on Faith and Family

 

Brother Bernard's journey to joining the ministry shows us that sometimes the greatest changes happen when we stop to understand the why behind what we do, why we’re here, and the true purpose God gives us.

If Brother Bernard’s story resonates with you, or if you know anyone who has ever felt that feeling of getting everything but still feeling empty, share this episode. Sometimes we need someone to tell us that sacrificing for our true purpose doesn’t mean we're at a loss… the truth is, it can be the complete opposite.

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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3 months ago
1 hour 17 minutes 22 seconds

Making Changes
“Don’t Give Up” – How to Help Friends Find God
Feeling discouraged about inviting friends to faith? This week, we're revisiting one of our most replayed moments from last season, the powerful story of Brother Andrey Silva and his friend Errol Viray. It's a reminder that persistence can transform lives, and why you should never give up on the people you care about.

In This Episode

[00:00] Introduction to the episode and revisiting a memorable story.
[01:15] Brother Andre Silva shares advice on helping friends find faith.
[03:45] The significance of perseverance and trust in God.
[06:30] Embracing change with God as a guiding force.
[09:00] The impact of a life of service and spiritual fulfillment.
[12:00] Reflections on change and the importance of a strong foundation.

If this reminder resonated with you, make sure to share this episode with someone else.

Thank you for listening to Making Changes and joining us this season. If you want to listen to the rest of this conversation with Brother Andrey and Brother Errol scroll down to the 2-part episode called “Life of Service” It’s amazing story that every one needs to hear.

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org, the INC media app, or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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Life of Service Part 1
Life of Service Part 2

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3 months ago
8 minutes 11 seconds

Making Changes
James Raiz: Viral Success, Unimaginable Loss
Most people know James Raiz as the box office artist behind Marvel Studios' biggest hits, the energetic host of Time to Draw Live with over a million YouTube subscribers. But behind the viral videos and sold-out shows, James faced a change that would redefine everything he thought he knew about strength.

00:00 Introduction to James Reyes
02:15 The Influence of Family and Cultural Expectations
05:30 Discovering Art as a Career
09:45 The Role of Faith in Overcoming Challenges
13:20 Creating Art for the Church and Community
17:05 Navigating Personal Trials: A Wife's Illness
21:30 Finding Strength in Family and Faith
25:45 The Impact of Art on Personal and Professional Life 30:10 Embracing Change and Growth
34:00 The Journey with Marvel and Star Wars
38:20 Teaching and Inspiring the Next Generation
42:00 The Power of Authenticity and Values
45:30 Looking Forward: New Beginnings and Joy
48:00 Closing Thoughts and Reflections

James's story is one of resilience and faith. Because here's what he learned in the space between Marvel premieres and midnight prayers: we don't become who we're meant to be in the comfortable moments. We become who we're meant to be in the moments that require us to hold on when everything in us wants to let go.

If James's journey inspired you, share this episode with someone who needs to hear that change is possible. For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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3 months ago
1 hour 17 minutes 42 seconds

Making Changes
Breaking Limiting Beliefs: From 240 to 26.2
At 31, JP faced a health scare that would change everything. He had to make a choice. Accept the labels that had defined him his whole life - "the smart kid," "not the athletic type," "the one who sits on the sidelines" or take a step outside of the identity he had given himself.

00:00 The Fear of Change
03:01 Defining Health and Identity
06:01 Comfort Food and Emotional Well-being
08:58 Catalyst for Transformation
12:08 Taking the First Step
14:59 Building Momentum and Small Wins
18:13 Overcoming Self-Doubt
20:59 From 5K to Marathons
23:58 The Journey to the New York City Marathon
27:24 Facing Challenges: A Father's Cancer Diagnosis
32:41 The Importance of Health and Nutrition
37:48 The Role of Faith in Personal Transformation
40:51 Consistency Over Perfection in Habits
42:16 Finding Identity Beyond External Perceptions
45:08 Prayers for Persistence and Endurance
46:08 Running as a Metaphor for Life's Journey
48:09 Tears of Gratitude and Future Goals
51:48 Family Pride and Shared Accomplishments
53:05 The Deeper Meaning of Running and Support
55:19 The Power of Small Steps in Change

JP's story began with a prayer in a gym parking lot, but it didn't end there.
The man who once believed he wasn't "the athletic type" is now encouraging young people in his New Jersey congregation to lace up their running shoes. He's showing them the same thing his father showed him in that hospital room... keep going, even when life gets tough. If you're sitting in your own parking lot right now, maybe it's time to pray, take a deep breath, and see what's possible when you refuse to accept the limits others place on you.

If JP's journey encouraged you, share this with someone who needs to hear that faith can grow even when life feels difficult. For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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4 months ago
59 minutes 40 seconds

Making Changes
Mid-Life Career Change: 47-Year-Old Rookie
At 47, most people are settling into their careers, not starting completely over. But Ted Teodoro wasn't most people. After retiring from a successful 20-year finance career, Ted did something that shocked everyone who knew him - he applied to become a police officer, chasing a childhood dream he'd carried for decades.

00:00 Chasing Dreams: A Cop's Journey
10:30 The Immigrant Experience and Parental Expectations
20:17 Faith and Trusting God's Timing
27:22 Navigating Career Changes in Midlife
28:02 Exploring New Horizons in Law Enforcement
29:27 The Academy Experience: Ego and Growth
32:20 Reflections on Youth and Resilience
33:41 Standing Firm: Balancing Faith and Duty
36:35 Navigating Life's Forks: Faith vs. Career
39:42 The Importance of Faith in Challenging Times
45:33 Never Give Up on Your Dreams
47:34 Lessons Learned: Gratitude and Growth
49:20 Risking It All: The Role of Faith in Pursuing Dreams
51:08 The Need for a Higher Power
52:57 Embracing Change for Personal Growth
58:16 Final Thoughts: Change is Good

Ted's story proves that dreams don't have expiration dates and that putting God first doesn't mean giving up on who you're meant to be. After 20 years in finance, he didn't just change careers; he showed us that we can chase our dreams without compromising our faith. So if you're carrying a dream that won't let go, remember: it's never too late to start over, just make sure to consult God and ask Him to guide your decision… that's what Ted did and now he’s living his dream.

If Ted's journey encouraged you, share this with someone who needs to hear that midlife can be the beginning of their greatest chapter.

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4 months ago
59 minutes 49 seconds

Making Changes
The Mindset Shift That Builds True Resilience
Rhea Mae's life changed when doctors said she had an inoperable brain aneurysm and might die. Instead of living in fear, she discovered how a mindset change can help her build resilience no matter what new obstacle was thrown at her. Her story shows how the lessons she learned in the worship services helped her go from asking 'Why me?' to saying 'Use me' for God's purpose.

00:00 The Journey Begins: A Life-Changing Diagnosis
10:03 Faith and Trust in God During Trials
20:05 Transforming Mindset: From Fear to Gratitude
29:58 Facing New Challenges: The Cancer Diagnosis
36:47 Navigating Life's Trials
39:00 The Power of Prayer and Faith
44:40 Resilience Through Resistance
48:43 Choosing to Share Your Story
52:08 Living with Intention and Gratitude
56:08 Embracing Change and Growth

Meng's story is such a powerful reminder that we don't get to choose our trials, but we absolutely get to choose how we respond to them. From brain aneurysm to cancer, she chose surrender over bitterness, trust over fear. So if you're asking "why me?" remember: your current chapter isn't your final chapter, and God is writing a story far better than you can imagine.

If Meng's journey encouraged you, share this with someone who needs to hear that faith can flourish in the hardest of seasons. For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org, the INC media app, or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

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4 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes 45 seconds

Making Changes
Purpose in the Pain: The Sandwich Generation
This conversation explores the emotional and practical challenges of caregiving for aging parents, particularly focusing on the experiences of the sandwich generation.  Bernie and Jerry share personal stories of loss, adjustment, and the complexities of navigating new roles as caregivers while balancing their own family responsibilities.

00:00 The Role Reversal: Becoming Caregivers

03:05 Navigating Sudden Loss and Immediate Change

05:59 Adjusting to New Living Arrangements

09:08 The Emotional Journey of Caregiving

12:00 Acceptance and the Bittersweet Nature of Aging

14:57 The Challenges of Communication and Connection

18:09 Finding Peace in Caregiving

20:59 The Sandwich Generation: Balancing Multiple Responsibilities

24:03 The Impact of Menopause on Caregiving

26:57 Sibling Dynamics in Caregiving

35:03 Navigating Family Dynamics in Caregiving

38:33 Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Resilience

41:43 Faith and Acceptance in Caregiving

44:53 Finding Strength in Community and Support

49:05 The Role of Faith in Caregiving

51:45 Embracing the Honor of Caregiving

54:44 Anticipatory Grief and Its Challenges

57:56 The Importance of Communication in Caregiving

01:00:11 The Spouse's Perspective on Caregiving

01:06:10 The Power of Prayer in Relationships

01:09:38 Navigating Caregiving Challenges

01:12:20 Acts of Love in Difficult Times

01:16:31 Lessons Learned Through Caregiving

01:22:50 Preparing the Next Generation

01:26:39 Finding Strength in Change

Bernie and Jerry's story shows us that caring for aging parents isn't just a duty. It's discovering love, patience, and faith we never knew we had. So even when we feel overwhelmed and lost, God is shaping us into exactly who we need to be. 

Now if you're in the sandwich generation or facing your own difficult season, remember, God chose you for this assignment and He will give you strength to see it through. 

If you found value in what you heard today, share this with someone who needs to hear that they're not alone in their struggles. 

For more Making Changes podcasts, visit incmedia.org, the INC media app, or find it anywhere you listen to podcasts. Thanks for listening, and may your change uplift you.

 

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4 months ago
1 hour 34 minutes 43 seconds

Making Changes
Voice Notes: When Change is Inevitable
In this episode of Making Changes, host Aliw Garcia Pablo explores the theme of change through powerful stories from individuals who faced various life transitions. From a father's prayer during a medical crisis to a young professional discovering her artistic talents during the pandemic, each narrative highlights resilience, faith, and personal growth.

00:00 Embracing Change: Life's Unexpected Turns

02:14 Faith in Crisis: A Father's Prayer

04:57 Promises and Sacrifices: A Journey Abroad

06:33 Pandemic Discoveries: Uncovering Hidden Talents

08:34 Cultural Lessons: Finding Joy in Service

10:43 The Transformation of Parenthood

12:45 Small Changes, Big Joys: Discovering New Passions

15:01 Evacuated Blessings: Appreciating What We Have

16:50 Taking Risks: The Leap into Business Ownership

19:00 Life's Timing: Patience and Growth

21:08 From Trauma to Triumph: A Journey of Healing

 

That’s what this season of Making Changes is all about. The continuous process of becoming, whether it's through crisis or choice, sudden events or gradual evolution, we're all works in progress. So thank you for listening and watching. We'll be back with more stories of transformation. Until then, make sure to subscribe to Making Changes on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to

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4 months ago
27 minutes 20 seconds

Making Changes
A Life of Service – Part 1
Aliw Pablo: You know, it’s not everyday that I get to catch up with an old friend.

Aliw Pablo: Okay, go.

Brother Andrey Silva: It’s part of the blooper reel. Can we put a blooper reel together?

Aliw Pablo: Yes!

Aliw Pablo: And it’s even more special when that friend is someone who's gone through so many unique life-changing experiences. Like my friend, Brother Andrey Silva.

Aliw Pablo: Okay. Hello, Brother Andrey Silva. How are you?

Brother Andrey: Great. How are you, Sister Aliw?

Aliw: I’m good. Welcome to the Making Changes Podcast.

Brother Andrey: Glad to be here.

[Show open]

Aliw Pablo: If you were a young adult in the nineties like me, you might’ve heard of Brother Andrey. He was the lead singer of Kai, the first (and until now, the only) Filipino boy band who found mainstream success and popularity in the US. A lot has changed since his music career with Kai. Now, Brother Andrey is a minister of the gospel in the Church Of Christ. So today, we’re going to talk about all of the changes he’s gone through, and the life of service that God has paved for him. I’m Aliw Garcia Pablo, and you’re listening to a special episode of Making Changes.

Aliw Pablo: Well, we’re so glad that you traveled all the way here from Texas.

Brother Andrey: Yes.

Aliw: Just to be here on our podcast today.

Brother Andrey: Thank you for having me and praises be to our Lord God.

Aliw: So Brother Andrey, for those that are, you know, who may have known you from years and years ago, like you and I have known each other for like thirty years already. Well, our age has just been revealed. But for those that have known you for a long time and are probably wondering what happened… Brother Andrey Silva, where have you been? What have you been up to?

Brother Andrey: I’ve been in Africa for the… decade, almost a decade. I was assigned there as a minister, doing the work of the ministry in Africa. You know, I often tell the brethren that, you know, as ministers who are assigned there, we were able to have a front row seat to the amazing things that our Lord God was doing for the Church on that continent. It was a lot of work, and so we also witnessed how God truly upheld us as we fulfilled our duties in the ministry; taking care of the brethren, making sure that the Church would progress and grow, which was the aim of the Church Administration in the first place for sending us there. Many memorable experiences. I learned how to ride a horse in Africa.

Aliw: I have seen those pictures, like on mountain tops, right?

Brother Andrey: Yes. There in the country of Lesotho, which is known as the Mountain Kingdom, there was a group of people or a village there in the middle of the mountains, who were thirsting for the words of God. And we’ve had brethren who are from there wanting us to share the words of God there, and so we would have to ride two hours on horseback up and down about five mountains before we would reach that village. A village called Ha-Lerumonyane Village.  And a memorable experience in that place is the first time I was able to go there. ‘Cause I remember how difficult it was to get there, you know, it’s very-

Aliw: Have you ridden horses before?

Brother Andrey: That was the first time, and so very painful.

Aliw: I can imagine. For two hours?

Brother Andrey: Two hours on a mountain, rocky.

Aliw: One way. Two hours on a mountain, one way.

Brother Andrey: One way. Two hours, one way. But to finally get to that last mountain, and as soon as you get over that peak,
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1 year ago
33 minutes 34 seconds

Making Changes
A Life of Service – Part 2
A Life of Service: Part 2

Brother Andrey Silva: And there were times when in the middle of the night he would give me a call, you know, pick me up and, you know, his face would be bloodied. 

Errol: There's so many times during the journey that I thought I was going to quit.

Aliw Pablo: Quit life? Quit the band? Quit—

Errol: Yeah. All of it.

Brother Andrey Silva:

One of the things that I saw that would help him make a change in his life, was if he was in the Church.

Aliw: You know,  all friendships go through highs and lows but what happens when a friend refuses to give up in saving someone’s life? Refuses to give up in helping a friend make changes in his life?

Brother Andrey Silva: Because God is the solution to all things, 

Aliw: Welcome to part two of our conversation with long time friends and KAI bandmates, Brother Andrey Silva and Errol Viray.  You’re listening to this special episode of the Making Changes Podcast, I’m your host, Aliw Garcia Pablo. Today’s episode is about  friendships that run deep and friends who never give up.

Brother Andrey Silva: That was the only solution I can think of, to help my friend, my brother. 

Aliw Garcia Pablo: Well, hello, Errol. 

Errol Viray: Hello.

Aliw Garcia Pablo:  Welcome to Making Changes podcast.

Errol Viray: Thank you for having me.

Aliw Garcia Pablo:  Can't help but notice the shirt, though, like we got to show off the shirt. 

Errol Viray: We had to, right?

Brother Andrey Silva:  I'm trying to find out when I'm gonna get mine. 

Aliw Garcia Pablo:  You don’t have one?

Errol Viray:  I sent it to your brother.

Brother Andrey Silva: You gave it to my brother?

Errol Viray: Yeah. 

Brother Andrey Silva: You think that's ever gonna touch my hands?

Aliw Garcia Pablo:  I've been seeing these Kai shirts on social media. Is there, like, a ‘90s revival happening or what’s going on? 

Errol Viray: Yeah, you know what? Very much so. So, it's popping up everywhere right now and then with this, these shirts kind of came up because of demand, you know.

Aliw Garcia Pablo: But you know, when you guys look at that shirt, when you look back at those young boys at that time, and the dreams and things that you were looking forward to, who were Andrey and Errol in those shirts?

Brother Andrey Silva: We were starving artists. No, you know, when I look at that shirt, and during that time frame, we were some excited kids who were ready to embark on this amazing musical journey that our Lord God was allowing us to experience. 

Aliw Garcia Pablo: Yeah, but you know, your friendship goes beyond Kai. You know, there are people who are, who are in bands together, and it's clearly just a working, professional relationship, right? But what kind of brotherhood did you guys have and share? 

Brother Andrey Silva:  When it comes to the name Kai, right? Like, it stands for Kaibigan or friendship. We chose that name because we were all friends before the band, you know, because we considered ourselves brothers, actually in that group. And so for us to be able to have those extraordinary experiences as brothers, you know, it made it more enjoyable, honestly and meaningful.

Aliw Garcia Pablo:  You're the only son in your family, right? Because you have sisters. 

Errol Viray:  Yes, three sisters.

Aliw Garcia Pablo:  Three sisters, yeah. And growing up, what kind of childhood did you have that, you know, having a friend like Andrey was, like, literally having a second brother? 

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1 year ago
55 minutes 41 seconds

Making Changes
Growing Up CODA: A Year Of Change
Growing Up Coda: A Year Of Change

 

[Chatter] 

 

[ Show opens]

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: Alright, ok we’re all ready? 

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: Hello Brother Ronnie, Brother Rowell, it's been a while since we've seen you last. 

 

VO: Believe it or not, it's been a year since we published the very first episode of the CODA series, where we first met Brother Rowel and Brother Ronnie David both CODAs or children of Deaf Adults and ministers of the gospel in the Church Of Christ.

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: Ka Ronnie, do you want to sit up a little bit? 

 

[laughter] 

 

VO: So much has happened with the David family since we last talked. So we thought it would be worthwhile to catch up. And because September is Deaf Awareness Month, what better time than now.  

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: Hello, Brother Ronnie, Brother Rowel, it’s been a while since we’ve seen you last. 

 

Brother Rowel David: Hello, Sister Aliw.

 

Brother Ronnie David: Hello, Sister Aliw.  How are you?

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: We’re good. How are you doing? How are you both?

 

Brother Rowel David: Well, doing well, doing well.

 

Brother Ronnie David: Doing great

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: We just wanted to check in with you both and see how things are and just the impact and the feedback you've gotten from the CODA series, 

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: Would you say that there are people that you may have known for a long time, and after seeing your stories and hearing your stories, were  there things that they were surprised to learn?

 

Brother Ronnie David: I've had a lot of brethren who from my past local assignments, they texted me, they called me and they said, “I didn't even know. I had no idea.” Because the thing is, we don’t put this out there. It's not something that, “hey, hello, my name is Ronnie and my parents are deaf.” For them, one thing that got me was they said, “I see why you did the things The way you did. I see why.

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: Your story, you know, the CODA series was—is really a family story. And I am so curious to know have parents come up to you? Have kids come up to you? As far as helping bridge that cultural divide, generational gap, whatever gap happens as we grow older?

 

Brother Rowel David: You know, some are coming up and asking, you know, “what, do you think we shouldn't do if, you know, this is the situation. You know, my child is going through this, do you think you can help them with this and that?” And so, I feel like because of that video, because of that series, it's opened up a lot of doors. It's actually opened, like, in the sense of parents, now seeing things in a different way as well. Because now they're seeing things that you know, hey, this could be affecting my child, or me not doing this could be hindering them in this way.

 

Sister Aliw Pablo: One thing too, as far as opening up conversations, I'm curious as far as faith sharing, how has the feedback been from brethren who do have friends who are hearing-impaired and and how have they shared the content with them?

 

Brother Ronnie David: You know, it's funny, because I feel like some brethren never thought about inviting a deaf person to a Bible study. They never thought about inviting a deaf person to listen to the words of God. But that's an option.
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2 years ago
47 minutes 20 seconds

Making Changes
Keeping Your Christian Faith While in College
Aliw: Hey, it’s Aliw. It’s now August, and here, where I live, in the Bay Area, the weather’s getting cooler, and our days are getting shorter. You know what that means, summer’s winding down and it’s almost time for students to head back to school. So, this episode is for students! Specifically, college students who are leaving home for the very first time. 

 

And even if you’re not moving, but are still about to go to college, I understand that that change is profound and challenging in itself. I’m a mom of two college students, myself, so trust me, I know! 

 

These are the challenges that Marielle and Chanelle talk about in this episode, and more specifically, trying to hold on to their Christian faith while they’re in college. We’re bringing back this episode from our first season because what they talk about is timeless. 

 

I want to thank them both for being so honest and brave during this conversation, and letting us all be a part of it. And I hope you’re able to share this conversation with someone in your life who’s about to face this milestone. 

(music fades in)

Marielle Magno: Why I liked University of San Francisco is because I could still easily go home. It’s not that long of a commute. But I’m also far enough to be pretty independent, but still be close to home. 

Chanelle Amoguis: That must be exciting. What are your feelings right now? You know, thinking about dorming and moving?

Aliw Garcia Pablo: Meet Marielle and Chanelle. Marielle is an incoming college freshman, sitting down and talking to Chanelle who graduated college last year. 

Marielle:  So like, while you were in Korea, um, how, how did you like to stay true to your faith and not be easily tempted and influenced, while dorming and being away from home?

Chanelle:  That’s a good question. 

Aliw: Studies show that there’s a growing trend that reveals that some college freshmen aren’t just preparing to say goodbye to their families. They’re preparing to say goodbye to their faith as well.  With newfound freedom and away from the eyes of their parents and temptations everywhere. What can one do to keep their Christian faith strong and thriving while away in college? 

Chanelle: Setting boundaries is so important. And you have to constantly tell yourself like, this is a line and this is a line that I will not cross.  And they say “will not” instead of “cannot” because if you say “cannot” it’s like you’re restricting yourself. But if you say “will not” that puts you in control of your decision… 

Aliw:  So, today we’re having that tough conversation. Is it possible to remain as a true and faithful Christian while away in college? A phase in life that the world says is a time for exploration and self discovery? Or could college actually be a time that can bring a person even closer to God? I’m your host, Aliw Garcia Pablo, and you’re listening to Making Changes.

[Show Open]

Aliw: Marielle was so excited to be asked to be part of this podcast. She starts her freshman year at the University of San Francisco in the Fall. She’ll be getting advice from Chanelle from Hawaii, who moved 1000s of miles away from her family, and studied in South Korea. We’ll hear about real life experiences and real world advice from one Christian to another and learn tips on how to navigate around the changes that come during this part in young adulthood but always with God by their side. Let’s listen in.

[Music ends.]

Marielle: Hi, Chanelle.
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2 years ago
33 minutes 4 seconds

Making Changes
Christian Brotherhood

Aliw Pablo: Hi, Brother Eric, thank you so much for joining us. And before we bring on our guest that you're going to thank, can you tell us a little something Brother about who you're going to be thanking today?



Brother Eric Waterman: Today, I'm thanking Brother Bob Pellien.  I met Brother Bob Pillien back in 1989, he introduced me to my beautiful wife and then he married my son, and he's been there on all the important occasions of my life and always been there whenever I needed him, good times, bad times, storms and sunny days and rainy days. You know, just a real solid brother, a really nice friend, you know, could never count your blessings. But he's one of the greatest blessings of my life.



Aliw Pablo:  From INC Media Audio, this is Making Changes, a podcast about the changes we go through and the life lessons we learn along the way…always with God by our side. I’m your host, Aliw Garcia Pablo. 



Hi everyone! Welcome to season 2 of Making Changes. I know it’s been a while we’re really excited to share this new season with you. You know, it’s not surprising that everyone who works on this podcast loves to hear stories about big life changes, the pivotal moments in our lives when everything begins to shift. But lately, we’ve also been talking a lot about those friends, acquaintances, sometimes, complete strangers—those individuals who become instrumental in making these big changes in our lives. And that’s exactly what brought us to season 2 of Making Changes. 



We’re calling this our “Thank You” series—it’s basically surprise phone calls or video calls to people who have made a positive change in someone’s life, and it’s a chance to say thank you. 



Today, we’ll hear from  Brother Eric Waterman, a minister of the gospel who will be talking to a friend and fellow minister who has had a great impact in his life for over 30 years. Let’s listen in… 



Brother Eric Waterman:  Good morning, Brother Bob. How are you there? 



Brother Bob Pellien: Brother Eric! Nice to hear from you, Brother. We haven't talked in a long, long time. How have you been? How's the family?



Brother Eric Waterman: Oh we're very well, Brother. 



Brother Bob Pellien: So are you getting old yet?



Brother Eric Waterman: Yes, I hit the big 65 last year. So I'm officially a senior citizen. So I have my senior moments now. So but I try, I try my best to be happy. 



Brother Bob Pellien: There you go.



Brother Eric Waterman: Brother Bob, I just wanted to take the moment to really from the bottom of my heart, really, thanks for always being there. Always being a great friend. And always for the constant reminders, the advice, your kindness, the care, the counsel. You know, you've counseled me with my mom, with my ministry and my membership with my wife, with my family and with my kids. I mean, whenever I needed it, it just seemed like I got through to you, you know, and like, you were you were the cavalry, man. You were always you know, when I was surrounded, and the Indians were all around me, you would always just say, Brother, you know, we're sending the cavalry. And every time you know, it was just there. And, you know, that's what friends are for, you know, to the good times.



Brother Bob Pellien: We really consider you Brother Eric, a very dear friend and an important part of our family and our life too. But no need to thank me because it's God that is good. You know,
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2 years ago
18 minutes 57 seconds

Making Changes
On Following My Dad’s Footsteps
Making Changes - On Following My Dad’s Footsteps
Aliw: Hey everyone, it’s Aliw. For this month, we wanted to feature this special episode, between father and son, who are both in the holy ministry. If you haven’t heard this conversation between Brother Donald and Brother Daniel Pinnock, I guarantee it’ll leave you with a smile on your face, and you’ll pick up some worthwhile life lessons, as well. It’s a moving and candid conversation between father and son about being dads, and devoting their lives to the Church. 
Brother Donald Pinnock: You know, what's really strange, son? When we visited you in France, when we went to Marseille, and you were preaching in—
Brother Daniel Pinnock: Oh man, I totally forgot about that…
Brother Donald: ...in Tagalog, and also English. I'm sitting there listening to my son preaching Tagalog and also slices of English and French at the same time. And it was just like, wow. But I did notice, I really noticed that for you, I wasn't there, because you were really concentrating on the brethren. And I could, I could also feel that the love that you have for them.  So, that just made me even prouder, I suppose, and now, I'm telling you,
Brother Daniel: Well, like father, like son, Pop, it’s all the mercy of God.
[Show Open]
Aliw Garcia Pablo: No matter where you are in the world, there is one thing we have all experienced together, change. This pandemic has forced us out of our comfort zones, and has pushed us into a new norm. And we simply surrendered and figured out a way to thrive. I'm your host, Aliw Pablo, and welcome to Making Changes, a new podcast from INC Media Audio. In this podcast, you'll hear honest conversations between two people who are on the same path to change, but are in different stages in their journeys. And we'll learn how they've navigated their way around their new normal, but always with God by their side. 
On today's episode, you'll meet a father and son who have both decided to devote their lives in the holy ministry, Brother Donald Pinnock, assigned in Toronto, Canada, and also the host of the INC Media show, The Solution. We'll be talking with his son, Brother Daniel Pinnock, currently assigned in Val-d’Oise, France, just outside of Paris. Today, we'll learn about this close-knit father and son relationship, and they'll take us back to their journey and how they answered God's call to devote their lives to the Church. Brother Daniel who calls his dad, Pop, will seek advice from his father, on parenting his two young sons, while living a life in service to God and others. We’ll be flies on the wall as they share life lessons they've learned along the way. Let's listen in.
Brother Daniel: Hey, Pops, thanks for sitting down with us and having this kind of conversation with me. How's everything there?
Brother Donald: Good, son. It's great to talk to you. You know how much we miss you and the family.
Brother Daniel: I miss you and mom, too. Please give my love to mom and Chantel.
Brother Donald: Always.
Brother Daniel: First off, Pop, try not to cry, okay? 
Brother Donald: I can't promise you anything.
Brother Daniel: Right off the bat, Dad, I just wanted to say, thanks. I've never really had a chance to, you know, say thank you for the advice and guidance that you've given me throughout my life and throughout both my pre-ministry and ministerial life. So you still continue to give that kind of advice. So I still want to express the kind of gratitude and know that when it comes to everything you've taught me up until this point, and all the advice that you still give. I'm always taking it to heart and I try my best to follow it. So,
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2 years ago
35 minutes 39 seconds

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