This week’s episode is all about Share the Arrows—a conservative Christian women’s event in Dallas, Tx.
I’ve had the honor of being invited to speak and represent the motherhood perspective from a biblical standpoint for 2024 (the year of its inception) and 2025. And both times were utterly surreal experiences in sheer scope of number of attendees (4,000 the first year and 6,700 the next) and the work involved to prep/run our booth Paint and Prose booth to serve a never-ending stream of customers and moms who stopped by to say hi.
I’m sharing my thoughts and reactions to the event (spoiler: You should definitely come to the next one!) and why this is one women’s conference I’ll gladly say yes to.
Enjoy!
Mentions:
Ep. 53: A Conversation About Deconstruction With Alisa Childers
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Bible References:
Psalm 127:4
1 Peter 3:15
Matthew 10:26-28
Romans 12:15
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
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We’re back with another episode of Whaddya Wanna Know Wednesday in long/form podcast answers.
In this show, we tackle everything from toddler expectations to dating guidelines for teens and lots of things in between!
As always, my goal is to approach each topic from a biblical perspective while encouraging you to seek the Lord for wisdom in how to apply His Word to your specific circumstances.
Enjoy!
Mentions:
What Are Mouths For by Abbey Wedgeworth
Podcast Episode - Talking Toddlers Part 1
Podcast Episode - Talking Toddlers Part 2
Bible References:
Ephesians 6:4
Proverbs 22:6
Romans 5:12
Genesis 1:28
Philippians 4:8
1 Corinthians 12
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
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Today, we’re tackling the hot button topic of whether women should be pastors with my own pastor’s wife, Jenn Witmer.
As female pastors and clerics become more common, it’s inevitable that even the most traditional minds will start to question or at least reconsider the historical church’s position on the subject.
The real question is: Should we?
In this episode, Jenn and I approach the topic with the view of scripture, not culture, as our guide.
We hope this episode provides clarity and direction for everyone who listens and gives food for thought as we engage with the hierarchy of responsibility and giftings the Lord has blessed both men and women in ministry with.
Guest Info:
Jenn Witmer
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Bible References:
1 Timothy 2:10-12
James 3:1
2 Timothy 3:16
1 Peter 3:7
Romans 5:12
Isaiah 55:8-9
1 Corinthians 3:19
Jeremiah 17:9
Philippians 2:12
1 Corinthians 11
1 Corinthians 14
Romans 6:1-2
1 Timothy 3:2
Links:
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This show tackles such a timely topic for children and parents alike: how to approach anxiety from a biblical perspective.
My pastor, Rick Witmer, unpacks his very personal story of struggling with crippling anxiety and how the Lord lead him to write a book for children called Walking With God When I’m Afraid.
The impetus for this book was one of his children’s anxious tendencies, but everyone who listens will find useful/practical/biblically sound strategies for moments of stress, anxiety, and fear.
Be encouraged, friends, that the Lord never leaves us to grapple with our anxiety alone.
Guest Info:
Rick Witmer: Sylvania Church Pastor
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Bible References:
1 Peter 1:3
2 Timothy 3:16-17
2 Corinthians 12:9
2 Corinthians 10:5
Romans 12:15
Proverbs 4:23
Matthew 15:19
Deuteronomy 6:6-8
Matthew 6:25-34
2 Corinthians 10:4
Philippians 4:4-7
Isaiah 26:3
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
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On September 10, all of America (and the western world, at large) was shocked by the violent assassination of Charlie Kirk.
Since then, more words and social media posts have been dedicated to his murder than to any other subject in recent history—prompting a wide range of responses.
This episode is mine—an attempt to respond to the violent, senseless death of a non-violent man with wisdom that only comes from God’s Word.
I pray this episode encourages and challenges you to double down on your commitment to Jesus.
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Bible References:
1 Thessalonians 5:17
Romans 12:15
Proverbs 2
Matthew 25:14-30
Jeremiah 17:9
Matthew 24:12
Ecclesiastes 1:9
1 Timothy 6:12
Proverbs 2:1-15
Genesis 4
Mark 13:11
Luke 23:24
Romans 12:19
1 Corinthians 5:12
James 4:12-13
John 8:11
Matthew 23:27-28
Mark 3:1-6
Ephesians 6:12
John 16:33
John 15:8-25
1 Peter 4:13
James 4:10
Philippians 2:8
Romans 8:28
Psalm 116:15
1 Peter 3:15
Ephesians 6:4
James 1:5
1 Thessalonians 5:17
Romans 5:8
2 Corinthians 5:21
1 Corinthians 3:6-9
Philippians 1:21
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
Hebrews 13:14
1 Corinthians 2:16
2 Corinthians 5:17
Philippians 4:7
Matthew 5:13-16
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
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This episode is a must listen for anyone who’s found themselves looking for answers to questions about the connection between nutrition and our brains, hormones, and overall well-being.
Erin Kerry is holistic health coach (and personal friend) who’s passionate about equipping and helping you to “live beyond your label.”
After being given multiple discouraging mental diagnoses beginning at age 18, Erin is now symptom-free and sharing what she’s learned along the way to help others understand how to overcome labels and make actionable improvements in every aspect of their health.
Erin’s new book, Live Beyond Your Label, is full of practical advice and science-backed methods and is available for purchase anywhere books are sold.
Guest Info:
Erin Kerry
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Bible References:
2 Corinthians 5:17
1 Corinthians 2:16
Hebrews 4:12
Deuteronomy 6:5
John 1:2
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Shoowee! Friends! This is not an episode I ever expected to record.
In this show, I tell the story of a health scare I experienced the week before You Bet Your Stretch Marks came out—during our first week back to homeschooling and while my husband was out of town.
Throughout the ordeal as it developed, it was so evident the Lord’s care and provision was going before me every step of the way.
I hope you’ll be encouraged that the Lord cares about the details of your life and truly does work all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
Christianbook.com has an incredible deal for you with 40% off plus free shipping on my new book, and you can receive a scripture freebie from me called The Well-Versed Mama when you submit your pre-order number! (https://misformama.net/you-bet-your-stretch-marks)
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Bible References:
Philippians 4:4
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Join my dear friend and mentor Jennifer Flanders and me as we dive into all things motherhood encouragement.
Whether you’re struggling with encouraging camaraderie between your children, drowning in unhelpful comparison to other moms, or failing to find the joy in the every day, we have a bit of hope for you!
Jennifer is one of my favorite people, not simply because she edits my books, has birthed amazing humans who are some of my kids’ best friends, and tirelessly speaks words of life over everyone she meets but also because she just “gets it,” and she’s for sure “been there” at some point or another with her 12 children, ages 15 to upper 30s.
She is the embodiment of the Titus II, “gone-before” mama friend we all crave, and I know you will be so blessed by this conversation!
If you have not yet pre-ordered You Bet Your Stretch Marks, you can do it today through 9/1 (it releases on 9/2!).
Christianbook.com has an incredible deal for you with 40% off plus free shipping on my new book, and you can receive a scripture freebie from me called The Well-Versed Mama when you submit your pre-order number! (https://misformama.net/you-bet-your-stretch-marks)
Guest Info:
Jennifer Flanders
Mentions:
Ep. 62: Is the Child Free Movement Biblical? (With Jennifer Flanders)
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Bible References:
Proverbs 22:6
Acts 1:15-26
2 Corinthians 12:9
1 Corinthians 1:27
1 Corinthians 3:6-9
John 16:33
Psalm 46:1
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Join us as we unpack foundational and practical helps for how to face “mom rage” head on.
Whether you’re dealing with irritability as the result of wonky hormones after having babies, a colicky baby who’s shredding your last nerve, or just discovering that you’re not as patient as you thought you were before you had kids, this conversation is full of hope for every mom who’s ever struggled with losing her temper.
We tackle how to get out of the house with small children without losing your mind, what “quiet time” really looks like with kids at home, and what to do when you’ve lost your cool and screamed at your kids.
Be encouraged that you are not alone when you struggle–not merely because so many other moms do the same but because your heavenly Father always stands by your side, never leaving or forsaking you.
Angry mom, you are not a lost cause. The Lord is not done with you yet!
Guest Info:
Elizabeth Andreyevskey
Elizabeth is an anger management coach for Christian moms struggling with rage. She has a podcast and a practical course to help mothers.
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Mentions:
The Gentleness Challenge Ebook
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Bible References:
Titus 2
Hebrews 12:6
Galatians 6:2
Romans 12:2
2 Corinthians 10:5
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Come along for the ride on our first WWKW since our sabbatical this summer. We’re tackling: How to store kids' clothing for hand-me-downs, what to do if you miss your life before becoming a mom, homeschool curricula recap, and so much more!
Enjoy!
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Bible References:
Philippians 4:11-13
Philippians 2:6-11
Mark 10:45
1 Corinthians 10:31
Romans 12:2
Matthew 5:28
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Jeremiah 18:6
Romans 8:28
Psalm 27:13
Genesis 19:26
Psalm 34:18
Psalm 46:1
1 Peter 5:7
John 4:24
2 Corinthians 10:5
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
We are back with season 3 of the M is for Mama Podcast and kicking it off with a great podcast full of helpful tips with KyAnn Molina from Simple Rhythms for Busy Moms.
Whether you have a good routine that could use a few tweaks or feel like you’re drowning in daily tasks with no rescue in sight, we’ve got encouragement for you!
We chat gospel-centered encouragement and vision as well as doable, boots-on the-ground ideas that can help you move from operating in burnout to feeling confident that you’re moving forward with purpose.
Enjoy!
Guest Info:
Kyann Molina
Kyann helps busy moms simplify their daily routines so they have more time with their family.
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Check Out Her Podcast: Simple Rhythms for Busy Moms
Follow Along With Her On Instagram!
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Bible References:
Galatians 5:1
Luke 6:45
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
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In our last show before we take a break for summer 2025, we chat about the final book in the M Is for Mama trilogy: You Bet Your Stretch Marks.
I reveal where the title came from, why it’s countercultural to the common narrative about “worth it” in motherhood and flesh out what it means to have a “tiger-striped soul.”
Be sure to pre-order You Bet Your Stretch Marks (link below) for all the stories, Scripture, and lessons learned. But in the meantime, enjoy this preview + pep talk all rolled into one!
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Mentions:
Podcast Episode With Jennifer Flanders
Tools Not Treasures Podcast Episode
The Truth About Honest Motherhood Series Episode 1, Episode 2, Episode 3
Pre-order You Bet Your Stretch Marks!
Bible References:
1 Corinthians 3:19
Philippians 2:6-11
Luke 9:23
Romans 6:6
2 Corinthians 4:8-9
Galatians 6:9
Matthew 6:25-34
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Welcome to our monthly installment of me answering your burning questions on long-form here on the podcast.
Today’s episode tackles topics I get asked about every single week (like prepping for adding a new baby to your clan and how to talk to your children about sex) and one I’ve NEVER received (“should I attend a divorce party?”).
As always, the goal is the ground every answer in God’s Word (and common sense: NO divorce parties).
Enjoy!
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Mentions:
It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn by Greta Eskridge
Bible References:
Malachi 2:16
Hebrews 4:12
Isaiah 55:11
2 Peter 1:3
James 1:5
Genesis 34
Deuteronomy 6:6-8
Mark 10:45
Romans 12:1
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
We are in a whirlwind season of finishing school, taking trips, meeting deadlines, and transitioning to different vehicles.
It’s good stuff, but it can feel like a lot all at once. So today, we’re doing a good ol’ brain dump of all things life lately in the Halberstadt household to get you up to speed.
Enjoy!
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Mentions:
Mother's Day Eclairs (We Substitute Normal Flour For the Gluten Free and It Works Great)
Bible References:
Matthew 6:26-30
1 Corinthians 10:31
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Paint & Prose
In this episode, my friend and fellow mom + author, Laura Wifler, and I dig into a plethora of motherhood topics from a biblical perspective—listening to the Lord for direction in our callings, grief in unmet expectations, struggles which are hard but not bad, and even those which are hard and bad.
Through it all, a central theme emerges: We are not victims of our circumstances, and Christ did not rise from the dead for us to wallow in our troubles—real and heavy though they are.
Or, to put it more succinctly: Jesus > pity parties.
Make no mistake, though, Laura knows whereof she speaks as she has walked a challenging road as a mom to a child with significant disabilities due to a rare condition. And yet, her hope is in the Lord, Maker of heaven and earth—and yours can be too, my friend.
After all, as Corrie ten Boom put it, “There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still.”
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Guest Info:
Laura Wifler
Instagram - laurawifler
Site - laurawifler.com
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Bible References:
Matthew 22:36-40
Hebrews 12:2
Psalm 23
2 Corinthians 12:7-10
1 Thessalonians 5:16-17
Matthew 5:10-12
Nehemiah 8:10
Psalm 34:8
Matthew 10:29-31
Psalm 27:13
1 Peter 2:23
Philippians 2:6-12
Luke 11:2-4
James 2:14-26
Hebrews 4:15
Isaiah 53:3
Matthew 28:20
1 Peter 5:7
Jeremiah 17:9
Romans 8:37
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Paint & Prose
We’re back with the fan-favorite monthly install of Whaddya Wanna Know Wednesday in which listeners submit questions, and I answer in longer form than my usual WWKW slides on Instagram allow.
Today’s show centers around 2 themes that emerged from the questions submitted: outward appearance and earning an income from home.
As always, I strive to approach every topic from a “what does the Bible say” approach, and neither of this week’s topics is an exception.
God’s Word has plenty to say about both how we are to cultivate beauty and how we are to steward resources like jobs and money.
Be encouraged that, no matter the topic, the Bible has principles which can guide us as we seek to honor God and follow His will in the daily details of our lives.
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Bible References:
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Colossians 3:23-24
1 Peter 3:3
Proverbs 31
Proverbs 4:7
2 Chronicles 7:14
James 4:17
1 Timothy 5:18
Links:
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Paint & Prose
In this episode, we dive right back into the deep waters of “Christians and Fertility” with a continued goal of bringing this topic under the magnifying glass of Scripture and historical Christianity.
We both truly believe that when the goal is to say, “What does God’s Word say about this,” we will receive wisdom and conviction that is timely and effective.
As we tackle topics like surrogacy and “family planning,” we hope this conversation sparks thoughtful consideration and an ultimate desire to pursue God’s will above all else in this and every area of life.
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Bible References:
Genesis 1:27-28
Ruth 4
Romans 8:14-17
Luke 18:1-8
2 Corinthians 12:7-10
James 1:26
Matthew 27:32-56
Acts 2:14-41
1 Timothy 5:8
Psalm 127:5
Genesis 1:28
2 Corinthians 12:9
1 Corinthians 10:31
Acts 20:27
Have Questions or Comments?
Email Me - abbie@misformama.net
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Paint & Prose
In this episode, Pastor Wit and I tackle one of my most requested topics: How to approach issues like childbearing, birth control, infertility, IVF, and so much more from a biblical perspective.
Our goal is to equip, encourage, and exhort fellow believers to think about each of these topics from a place of prioritizing God’s Word, rather than cultural influences or man’s wisdom.
We pray this episode is a useful tool to every Christian who finds him/herself grappling with how to approach fertility with integrity and righteousness.
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Mentions:
Podcast Episode with Really Very Crunchy
Bible References:
Genesis 1:25-8
Psalm 127:3
Genesis 9
Genesis 11
Malachi 2:13-15
Matthew 19:6
Genesis 4:1-16
Matthew 28:16-20
1 Timothy 5:9
Titus 2
Ephesians 4:29
John 14:15
2 Peter 1:3
Exodus 20:13
Matthew 22:39
Leviticus 17:11-12
Psalm 139
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Paint & Prose
We’re diving back with part 2 of our 100 Things for Moms episode in honor of 100 WHOLE episodes of M Is for Mama (can’t believe it!).
In this one, we tackle top 10 snacks, dinners, habits I find helpful, and much more,
My goal with these episodes is to show you how many ways there are to do motherhood well, not to tell you, you should only do it like I do. I hope you’ll be encouraged to look for ways that work well for you and your family.
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Mentions:
Bible References:
1 Corinthians 10:23-33
Philippians 2:14-16
Galatians 2:20
John 3:30
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Paint & Prose
As I contemplated the milestone of filming 100 episodes for a podcast that, 10 years ago, I couldn’t have even fathomed making even one episode for, I knew I wanted to pack as much value for moms as I could into one show.
To that end, you will find my favorite Bible verses, top 10 family meals, things I would let go, hills I’ll die on, and so much more.
Consider this your handy-dandy reference episode for the top 100 things I prioritize in our home daily.
Enjoy!
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Bible References:
Galatians 6:9
Deuteronomy 6:6-8
Ephesians 3:20
2 Corinthians 5:17
Psalm 127:3-5
Psalm 27:13
Romans 12:12
Romans 8:28
Romans 5:3-5
1 Thessalonians 5:18
Matthew 5:16
Ephesians 6:4
Hebrews 4:12
Isaiah 55:11
2 Peter 1:3
2 Corinthians 10:31
1 Corinthians 6:19
Romans 12:18
Exodus 20:2-17
Matthew 6:19-21
Ephesians 3:20
Matthew 14:17-19
Links:
The Gentleness Challenge
Penny Reward System
Paint & Prose
