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Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT - Christian Marriage And Family Therapist, Pastor’s Wife, Mom of 4
388 episodes
6 days ago
Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles. Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do. But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons. It is my prayer that you will find that here. Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life. Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support. Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon! ~ Jess
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Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles. Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do. But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons. It is my prayer that you will find that here. Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life. Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support. Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon! ~ Jess
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Episodes (20/388)
Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
275 // Reality Check: Yes, Your Grumbling Is Hurting Your Christian Family (Gratitude Over Grumbling PT 2)
Find a Christ-centered resource for your family’s holidays.   Episode 275 // Sometimes, we find our greatest motivation in a reality check about life. And that is my goal in today’s episode: not to discourage, but to encourage all of us to work intentionally on our grumbling hearts.    And we’ll find that encouragement with a reality check about how our grumbling - and our gratitude! - impacts the people we love the most.   Last week, we looked at a biblical basis for working on this issue in our lives. But today, we’re going to look around us. At our families. Our homes. Our kids. Our marriages.    Because the reality is, our grumbling is impacting our families. We don’t need to beat ourselves up about it, but we can find motivation to address this issue in our hearts when we realize the impact it can have (that we might not even realize).    Join me in Part 2 of our series on Gratitude Over Grumbling. Let’s dive in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Build a daily Bible and prayer habit with this free 45-day guide.   DEVOTIONAL: Find a Christmas devotional or Advent calendar for yourself or the whole family!   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Yes, Your Emotional Struggles Are Impacting Your Family: How, Why, And What To Do (EP 243)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 12 Easy Ways To Give More Positive Attention To Your Family   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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6 days ago
18 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
274 // A Biblical Call To Be A Grateful Mom… Instead Of A Grumbler (Gratitude Over Grumbling PT 1)
Find a Christ-centered resource for your family’s holidays.   Episode 274 // Happy November, friend! This is the time of year when we have gratitude on the brain. But is it really in our hearts all year long? As Christians, it should be. As moms, we long for it to be.    So we’re kicking off a mini-series today, diving deep into our calling and desire. How can we become more thankful people? What will it take to stop the grumbling in our hearts and our negative thinking?    Well, it starts by grounding ourselves in Scripture.God repeatedly tells his people to be thankful and joyful instead of grumbling and anxious. That’s where everything good and wise in life starts - with the Bible itself!   Dive in with me today, friend, as we look deeply at Scripture to set the biblical stage for our dive into Gratitude Over Grumbling.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Build a daily Bible and prayer habit with this free 45-day guide.   DEVOTIONAL: Find a Christmas devotional or Advent calendar for yourself or the whole family!   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: How To Stop Negative Thinking And Change Direction (EP 271)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 12 Quick Tips For A Low-Stress Holiday Season   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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1 week ago
25 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
273 // 10 Quick Wins For Reducing Stress And Enjoying Christian Family Life More
Grab the Stress Relief Workbook for Christian Moms. Episode 273 // Ever feel a little stressed out? Ha! You’re a mom - of course you do. And heading into the holiday season can sometimes boost our stress level even more. Today, we’ll look at 10 big-picture areas where you can make a difference in your own mental health, stress level, and your home atmosphere.  We’ll look at 5 things to REMOVE from your life and 5 things to ADD to your life, to lower stress and bring more joy and peace to family life. Each one could be its own big topic, but you can make a quick change or two and see a big difference! Ready, friend? Let’s jump in. hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab my free e-book Building Your Mom Toolbox to learn 5 key skills that help every mom. DEVOTIONAL: Go deeper with the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy devotional workbook. WORKBOOK: Grab the Stress Relief Workbook for Christian Moms to walk through 5 steps to help reduce stress. RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Practical Action Steps To Help You Feel Better When You’re Stressed And Emotional (EP 240) RELATED ON THE BLOG: Feeling Like A Stressed Out Mom? Try These 9 Helpful Tips   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here. MISSION Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days. Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com  
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2 weeks ago
21 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
272 // Learning To Say NO As A Christian Mom (If You Want Healthy Boundaries)
Go deeper with the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy devotional workbook.   Episode 272 // None of us can enjoy family life without having healthy boundaries - with those outside our family and inside it! There are different types of boundaries and they will look different with each person. But they all boil down to the same thing:   What are you willing and able to say NO to?   Saying “no” is a skill that we can build. And saying “no” without the guilt and the awkwardness is an art form that we can practice! Even as Christians, the wise and good thing is to learn when (and how) to say NO and set healthy boundaries.   Today, you’ll get a family counselor’s perspective on the topic of boundaries, along with some practical tips to make saying no more realistic in your own life.    Ready? Let’s do this!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab my free e-book Building Your Mom Toolbox to learn 5 key skills for every mom.   DEVOTIONAL: Go deeper with the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy devotional workbook.   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Finding JOY In The (Hard, Tiring, Wonderful, Important) Journey Of Christian Motherhood (EP 141)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 4 Ways To Fight Mom Burnout Symptoms With Real-Life Boundaries   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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3 weeks ago
29 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
271 // How To Stop Negative Thinking And Change Direction
Get biblical help for those big emotions with the Keep Your Cool, Mama 40-day devotional.   Episode 271 // Getting stuck in a pattern of negative thinking is never helpful. It doesn’t feel good, and it doesn’t help us love our husbands and kids well. But, it’s a really common struggle!   Thankfully, like most areas of life, God has hope for us. There are practical action steps that can help us break this cycle of negative thinking and start fixing our minds and hearts on the things above, where Christ is (Colossians 3). As the Lord works in us, He purifies us. Helps us. Changes us.   Today, I want to share 8 real-life tips that I’ve found so helpful with folks in the counseling room. There’s no magic wand here, but there is the grace and power of God to change your life. And for many of us, that starts inside our own thought life.   Dive in with me, friend.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Build your own habit of Bible reading and prayer with my FREE 45-day Holy Habits: Bible and Prayer Guide: LoveYourPeopleWell.com/Holy-Habits     DEVOTIONAL: Get biblical help for those big emotions with the Keep Your Cool, Mama 40-day devotional.   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: God’s Promise, Peace, and Presence In Your Anxiety (EP 134)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 13 Secret Weapons For How To Stop Negative Overthinking   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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1 month ago
24 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
270 // Building Strong, Happy Relationships When You Have Lots Of Kids
Enjoy my devotional workbook on Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy!   Episode 270 // Every moms wants a deep bond with her kids… and the more kids you have, the harder that can get to manage!   I’ve been a family counselor for 15 years, and I’ve got four little ones of my own: triplets and another little one behind them. They’re all still 5 and under. Life is busy - and I know that if I want strong relationships with each of them, I have to be intentional!   Today, I want to share some tips and encouragements for how to balance everything going on in life and still prioritize that family bonding. How can we go deeper with each of our kids when we don’t have as much time as we’d like?   Let’s get practical, and let’s lean into these oh-so-precious relationships. Join me, friend.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab my free e-book! Building Your Mom Toolbox: Get Your Family Out Of The Rut And Reconnect    DEVOTIONAL: Go deeper with the Lord in my devotional workbook Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: 7 Rhythms That Keep Me Connected With My Husband And Kids Even On Crazy Days (EP 206)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 3 Keys For Christians To Enjoy Family Relationships More   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com  
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1 month ago
27 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
269 // Strengthening Your Christian Marriage In A Hard Season
Find a great resource to strengthen your Christian Marriage right here.   Episode 269 // Every marriage will go through hard seasons. Those seasons may be big or small, impacting the whole family or just you as a couple. But your goal is to get through it stronger and closer on the other side.   Which is definitely possible. I’ve been a marriage counselor for over 10 years, and I’ve helped a lot of couples through a lot of hard seasons. The details can be unique, but there are some areas that are helpful for every couple during these rough patches.   So today, whatever hard season you might be facing in your marriage, I want to offer a few ideas, encouragements, and possible resources to help you today. Some might feel awkward and some might be hard, but we’ll talk about that too.    And P.S. … these are things you can work on all by yourself, to bless and strengthen your marriage.   Ready? Let’s dive in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Find a great resource to strengthen your Christian Marriage right here.   DEVOTIONAL: Boost your marriage communication with the Communicating To Connect devotional for Christian wives.   INTIMACY: A big one for every couple! Try Sheila’s online courses for godly, private support.   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Try #236 for marriage communication, #213 for help with forgiveness, or #237 for a quick intimacy tip   RELATED ON THE BLOG: Read my top-ranked intimacy tips or try this one on communication tips    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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1 month ago
26 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
268 // Making Your Bible Time More Meaningful As A Christian Mom
Build the family life you want with the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy devotional workbook   Episode 268 // Personal devotional time or quiet time is a HUGE part of spiritual formation as a Christian. Just because mom life is busy and tiring doesn’t mean our Bible time stops being important!    In fact, I think it’s fair to say it’s even more important for us to get this time as Christian parents. We need Jesus to shape our lives, our families, our homes. How else will we faithfully disciple our children? Where else will we find true joy, peace, wisdom, and patience?    Life may be busy, but I hope that today’s 6 simple steps will be helpful for you. When you get that time with the Lord, these steps will help you go deeper and live it out. Cover that time in prayer, lean on the grace that God is always pouring out for you and your family, and step out in faith.   Join me, friend. Let’s jump in!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab the free 45-day Holy Habits Bible and Prayer Guide   DEVOTIONAL: Grab the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy Devotional Workbook   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: 3 Ways Satan Is Seeking To Destroy Your Family And Your Faith (EP 249)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 5 Powerful Bible Verses To Improve Your Family Relationships   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   ♥️ Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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1 month ago
20 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
267 // How To Get Alone Time And Make It MATTER For Loving Your Family
Find biblical joy during hard seasons of motherhood with the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional   Episode 267 // I love my kids. I love my husband. I love my family. But let’s be real… I also love some “me time” when I’m able to get it.    Lots of moms feel guilty about wanting, needing, or enjoying some alone time. Yet, Jesus himself sometimes got away from other people in order to be alone! To pray, reflect, sleep, and rest.   When moms can get some “me time” and use it rightly, it will fill you up! It will encourage and rejuvenate you for continuing to pour out and love your people well.    Today, let’s look at the value of “me time” along with some reality checks and realistic ideas for how we should use that time. How do we make it valuable? I’ll share some overall principles along with some everyday tips that help me and the women I work with in counseling.    Join me, friend! Let’s dive in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab the free 51 Self Care Ideas List   DEVOTIONAL: Find biblical joy during hard seasons of motherhood with the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Top 10 Coping Strategies Every Christian Mom Needs (EP 231)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 4 Ways To Fight Mom Burnout Symptoms With Real-Life Boundaries   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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2 months ago
21 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
266 // 6 Scriptures You Can’t Ignore If You Want A Christ-Like Home
Build your own daily devotional time with the FREE Holy Habits 45-Day Bible and Prayer Guide.   Episode 266 // Life is always changing. But the Bible is not.   Scripture never changes! It does not adjust to accommodate our busy schedules or reliance on technology. God does not change his mind on what is good or right just because we don’t understand or like it.   There is a biblical picture of what a happy, healthy, and holy marriage looks like. And there is a biblical picture of what happy, healthy, and holy mothering looks like.   Join me today to dive into 6 Scriptures that I have found so helpful over the years. These are the verses that have helped me think through my own family life, and the ones I turn to regularly in the counseling room to help other women strengthen their own family relationships too.    Let’s dive in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Holy Habits 45-Day Bible and Prayer Guide   DEVOTIONAL: Find a devotional to help with YOUR family’s unique needs   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: Let Proverbs 2 Shape Your Year With 3 Powerful, Practical Action Steps (EP 227)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: 10 Great Bible Verses For Your Home And Family   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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2 months ago
25 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
265 // How To Hear From (And Follow!) The Holy Spirit When Your Family Is Entering A New Season
Grab the FREE E-book - Building Your Mom Toolbox: Get Your Family Out Of The Rut And Reconnect   Episode 265 // We’re entering the fall season. For most of us moms, that means new family routines, and getting back to “regular life.” This is not only the perfect time to consider tweaking and strengthening some family rhythms, but also the time when you might be feeling the itch for something to change.   That itch might actually be a call from the Holy Spirit.   When you feel like things are a little off track - take a pause, and do something about it!    When you are entering a new season or a new phase of family life - take a pause, and approach it intentionally!   We always want the Lord to speak and to show us the path forward. But sometimes, we’re so busy and life is so loud that we miss what He’s saying.   So when you feel that nudge, take it seriously. I want to give you some ideas today for HOW to do that, so you can enter this next season of family life STRONG - happy, healthy, and holy.   Join me today for some biblical encouragement and practical ideas for this season - let’s jump in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Building Your Mom Toolbox E-book: Get Your Family Out Of The Rut And Reconnect   DEVOTIONAL: Find a devotional to help with YOUR family’s unique needs   RELATED ON THE PODCAST: A Season of Stress: 10 Encouragements To Find Light At The End Of The Tunnel (EP 238)   RELATED ON THE BLOG: Learning How To Trust God Completely   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon for just a few dollars a month, and grab access to our 2025 perk of daily(ish) devotionals!    Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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2 months ago
23 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
264 // Wisdom For The Woman Of (Wannabe) Noble Character - Proverbs 31:1
Support the show on Patreon and grab access to 100+ devotionals from 2025!   Episode 264 // Let’s set some goals today for the incoming Fall season of our families’ lives… how do you feel about the Proverbs 31 woman?   She’s intimidating, but she can be a very helpful picture to lead us into setting goals and clarifying priorities for our families.    Hop in to join me for a few devotional thoughts on this extraordinary woman. After all: “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Proverbs 31:1.    * *And if you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional thoughts, with more coming every week, support my ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com  
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2 months ago
8 minutes

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
263 // Wisdom For The Mom With The (Wannabe) Perfect Plans - Proverbs 16:1
Support the show on Patreon and grab access to 100+ devotionals from 2025!   Episode 263 // What are your plans for the day? Are you SURE they’re God’s plans for your day?   I’ve loved Proverbs 16:1 for a long time, because it challenges my natural desire for lists, schedules, and controlling my own plans. I’ve got 4 little kids… any thoughts of controlling the plans are an illusion.    But God always has a plan - and it’s good, it’s best, and it’s what we ultimately want for our families. Join me today for a devotional thought centered in Proverbs 16:1 - “To humans belong the plans of the heart, but from the Lord comes the proper answer of the tongue.”   * *And if you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional thoughts, with more coming every week, support my ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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3 months ago
8 minutes 5 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
262 // Wisdom For The (Potentially) Stupid - Proverbs 12:1
Support the show on Patreon and grab access to 100+ devotionals from 2025!   Episode 262 // No one wants to be thought of as stupid. But none of us really enjoy discipline and correction either. So how do we make sense of Proverbs 12:1 - “Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.”   Join me today for a Christian mom-to-mom devotional for encouragement and help from this unusual proverb in Scripture!   * *And if you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional thoughts, with more coming every week, support my ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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3 months ago
8 minutes 45 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
261 // Wisdom For The (Potentially) Quarrelsome Wife - Proverbs 21:9
Support the show on Patreon and grab access to 100+ devotionals from 2025!   Episode 261 // The book of Proverbs gives us wisdom, hope and encouragement. And today, we’ll take a look at Proverbs 21:9 and find wisdom for ourselves as wives.    It’s not an easy proverb to read, but it should hit close to home for all of us: “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” Proverbs 21:9   Eek. No one wants to be married to a quarrelsome wife… and none of us want to BE one either! Join me today for a short devotional thought on this provoking proverb, and let’s find encouragement together.    * *And if you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional thoughts, with more coming every week, support my ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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3 months ago
7 minutes 29 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
260 // Psalm 86: Can I Really Call Out To God And Be Heard? (Summertime In The Psalms Series)
Join the Faith Fiver Club to support the show for just a few dollars a month at Patreon!   Episode 260 // God is always with you. He hears every prayer, and He responds.    Of course, that doesn’t always look like we hope it will. And He does not always act in ways that we desire. But our prayer journeys build a connection with God that carries us through hard and difficult seasons.    Join me today for a devotional thought from Psalm 86, and let’s deepen our personal walks with the Lord as we consider his Word together.    This is part of our Summertime in the Psalms series, and I’m so glad you’re here!   (If you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional moments, with more coming every week, support this ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!)   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com  
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3 months ago
10 minutes 54 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
259 // Psalm 90: Do You Have A Heart Of Wisdom? (Summertime In The Psalms Series)
Join the Faith Fiver Club to support the show for just a few dollars a month at Patreon!   Episode 259 // Psalm 90:12 is a powerful verse that should point us not only toward the wisdom and goodness of God, but also toward a reality check for our own busy lives.    Our days are numbered. This may feel especially true when we consider the realities of family life. How long will your children be innocent in childhood? How long until they leave the home? How much time do you really have to influence and teach them? To build deeper relationship with them?   Today, I’ll share a short devotional to offer us all some biblical encouragement and real-life clarity for family life.    This is part of our Summertime in the Psalms series, and I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s dive in.   (If you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional moments, with more coming every week, support this ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!)   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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3 months ago
6 minutes 6 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
258 // Psalm 139: Are You Praying For What Really Matters? (Summertime In The Psalms Series)
Join the Faith Fiver Club to support the show for just a few dollars a month at Patreon!   Episode 258 // Prayer is the centerpiece of Christian life. But it’s easy to spend too much time on the day-to-day little things and miss out on praying for the deeper, richer priorities of life.    Today’s psalm will help us get back on track. We’ll take a look at Psalm 139 and consider together how our prayer lives for our family can focus on the biblical truths of what our families need.   This is part of our Summertime in the Psalms series, and I’m so glad you’re here.   Let’s jump in.   (If you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional moments, with more coming every week, support this ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!)   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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4 months ago
7 minutes 7 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
257 // Psalm 88: How Can We Struggle And Suffer Well? (Summertime In The Psalms Series)
Join the Faith Fiver Club to support the show for just a few dollars a month at Patreon!   Episode 257 // “But I cry to you for help, LORD; in the morning my prayer comes before you. Why, LORD, do you reject me and hide your face from me?” Psalm 88:13-14.   Not an easy prayer. But this psalm is so REAL for us. We’ve all had these seasons, where we are desperate for the Lord’s help and yet we feel like He is absent and ignoring us.    He’s not ignoring you, friend. He’s not absent.    Join me today for a short devotional looking at these verses for a moment of biblical encouragement in our hardest seasons. This is part of our Summertime in the Psalms series, and I’m so glad you’re here.   (If you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional moments, with more coming every week, support this ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!)   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com  
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4 months ago
8 minutes 40 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
256 // Psalm 1: Who Is Influencing Your Children? (Summertime In The Psalms Series)
Join the Faith Fiver Club to support the show for just a few dollars a month at Patreon!   Episode 256 // We’re diving into the Psalms for the month of July, and starting right at the beginning today! Psalm 1 is such a helpful reality check for each of us - for our own lives, but also for our responsibility as moms.   Summer can bring a lot of fun and freedom… so perhaps it’s even more important to be intentional and biblically-minded about how we are allowing ourselves and our children to be influenced.    Join me for a short devotional in Psalm 1 today, for biblical encouragement and some real-life wisdom from God’s Word.    (And if you’d like to get access to 100+ of these devotional thoughts, with more coming every week, support this ministry on Patreon inside our Faith Fiver Club!)   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   Find a DEVOTIONAL on family relationship topics at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals    Dive into 300+ podcast episodes here or READ them on the blog at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/blog    GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   Support the show on Patreon today! - And enjoy this year’s PERK of new daily(ish) devotionals this year to encourage your faith & family life in 5 minutes a day!   Share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today :-)    And while you’re here - please leave a 5-star review for the show! What an encouragement!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com
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4 months ago
6 minutes 47 seconds

Love Your People Well | A Therapist’s Tips For Christian Mom Life, Marriage Help, And Family Relationships
Welcome to the Love Your People Well Podcast! Every week here on the show, you’ll get biblical encouragement, gospel hope, and practical tips from my work as a marriage and family therapist and my own home life as a mom of 4 littles. Every mom can struggle with feeling distracted and discouraged. We can start to feel like we’re drowning in all the important things we want to do. But every mom also wants to ENJOY her family. You want to find purpose in your motherhood. You want a happy marriage, quality family time, and a close family bond. You want more time with Jesus, more self care, and more joy during the hard seasons. It is my prayer that you will find that here. Take a deep breath, friend, and listen in for a few minutes today. You’ll get tips, you’ll get encouragement, and most of all, you’ll get God’s Word and the peace, joy, and purpose that He offers you in this crazy journey of Christian family life. Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell to grab some free resources, check out my line of devotionals, and get more support. Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon! ~ Jess