Send us a text Are you ignoring deal-breakers or brushing off bad behavior in the hopes that things will improve? In this episode, we explore the importance of discernment when it comes to relationships and how early red flags could be sabotaging your search for your soulmate. If you’ve been ignoring red flags or hoping that things will change, this episode is a must-listen. From emotional manipulation to mismatched life goals, we cover all the signs you shouldn’t ignore. We’ll al...

Send us a text -- Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve. -- You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right. Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in. The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and...

Send us a text You’ve been doing all the “right” things. Staying positive, visualizing, journaling...but love still hasn’t shown up. And now you’re wondering: is my energy the problem? This episode is for you if you've ever questioned whether your vibe is blocking your soulmate—or if you're just tired of the pressure to be high-vibe 24/7. Inside, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and quietest) fears smart, self-aware women carry on their love journey...and reframing it with a powerful a...

Send us a text What if it was already written? In this episode, you’re not just listening, you’re remembering. Through a gentle, immersive meditation, you’ll drop into the version of you who already knows how your love story ends. Not with waiting. Not with doubt. But with deep certainty, connection, and ease. You’ll feel what it’s like to wake up next to your soulmate, to live the love that’s already unfolding for you. This isn’t about “getting high vibe” or pushing yourself to feel m...

Feel like it might be too late to meet your soulmate? You’re not alone—and this episode is the reframe your love life’s been waiting for. If you’ve ever wondered whether being in your 40s makes finding love harder... or if your confidence, standards, and experience actually make you more magnetic... this one’s for you. We’re exploring the question so many women silently carry—and offering a new lens that just might shift everything. You’ll walk away feeling grounded, clear, and more sure than...

You’re doing the work. You’re open. And still… no soulmate. This episode explores a question that lingers beneath the surface for high-achieving women who know they’re meant for more—but can’t quite name what’s off. If you’ve ever thought, “Is it me?” or “What else do I need to fix?”—this one's for you. Highlights A mindset shift that removes the pressure to “fix” yourselfA deeper way to think about readiness for loveThe #1 thought pattern that subtly blocks soulmate alignment Music by 🎼...

As more women step back from dating, we unpack why choosing to stay open to love, especially soulmate love, isn’t outdated… It’s powerful. If you've ever felt like your standards are too high or your heart too hopeful, this episode is your reminder that you're not alone. And you're not wrong for still wanting something extraordinary. Highlights Surprising new stats about who's still looking for love (and who’s not)Why “you complete me” was never the goalA reframe for those who feel out of ste...

Wondering how to build your self-esteem while you’re single? In today’s episode, we explore how to use your time as a single woman to boost your self-worth and confidence. Let’s shift from feeling incomplete to embracing the opportunity for personal growth that singlehood offers. Highlights: Embrace the Opportunity of Singleness – How being single can be your time to become the best version of yourself.Overcoming Negative Self-Talk – How to transform your inner dialogue and treat yourself wi...

Feeling like you're the last single one standing? In today’s episode, we’re exploring why it can seem like everyone else is in a relationship except you. Let’s break down the comparison trap, shift your perspective, and reconnect with the confidence that your soulmate is on their way. Highlights: Why comparison isn’t a true reflection of what’s possible for youHow to spot relationship dynamics that don’t align with your desiresReframing the belief that you’re “behind” on your love journey🎼 M...

In this episode, we're diving into the impact of gender war discourse on your view of love. Whether it's influencer content, online debates, or the algorithm, it all boils down to negativity and division Highlights: How online debates create a false narrative about love and relationships.The danger of being trapped in echo chambers that feed negativity.Why stepping away from divisive conversations can open you up to real, authentic connections.Music Credit: 🎼 Vjazz_Relaxing and BFCMUSIC -- Y...

Feeling lonely, even when surrounded by loved ones? In today’s episode, we’re diving into why that happens and what you can do about it. Sometimes, even the people closest to us can’t fill that deep need for connection, and it’s important to understand why. We’ll explore how to reconnect with yourself, get clear on what you need, and shift your focus to build deeper, more fulfilling connections — with both others and yourself. Highlights: Exploring Loneliness – Understand the root causes of f...

In this episode, we dive into how to use afformations to interrupt negative thought patterns and support your journey to finding love. They serve as a powerful tool to stay aligned with the possibility of meeting your soulmate, even during tough moments. Key Highlights: What afformations are and how they work to reframe negative thoughts.How asking the right questions can open new possibilities for love.The importance of shifting thought patterns without the pressure of constant positivity.🎼M...

High standards in dating are important, but when do they cross the line into delusion? This episode unpacks the fine balance between having strong preferences and creating unrealistic expectations. Learn how alignment—not just a checklist—attracts soulmate love and why the magic of connection happens when you show up as your best self. Highlights: Rethinking High Standards – When expectations support you and when they might hold you back. Energetic Alignment – The connection between who you a...

Stepping into a new year is the perfect time to reset how you approach love and attraction. Instead of forcing outcomes, this is the year to fine-tune your energy, clear subconscious blocks, and create space for soulmate love to unfold in the most aligned way. Highlights: Releasing the Pressure – How to shift from rigid expectations to a more expansive approach to love.Fine-Tuning for Love – Small but powerful adjustments that help you attract the right connection.Leaning Into Support – Why t...

In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match. Highlights: Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and ...

The recent engagements of Zendaya & Tom Holland and Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco have sparked a lot of conversations. People are quick to judge the men in these relationships based on looks, and the comparisons to their successful, glamorous fiancés are hard to ignore. But here’s the thing—there’s something much deeper happening in these connections. While the world focuses on physical traits, what truly holds these relationships together? 🎼 Music by Vjazz_Rela...

In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match. Highlights: Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner. The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering...

Finding your soulmate is about focusing on what truly matters. This episode explores the importance of non-negotiables, shared values, and long-term alignment in a relationship. Learn how to navigate distractions and stay true to your vision for soulmate love. Highlights: Focusing on Non-Negotiables – Identify what matters most to you in a partner and stick to it.Looking Beyond Surface Chemistry – The role of shared values and life goals in building a strong connection.Avoiding Ti...

Feeling torn between wanting love and maintaining your independence? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the fear many successful women have about losing themselves in a relationship. We’ll explore the balance between autonomy and love, and how to attract a soulmate who truly supports your individuality while offering mutual growth and support. Highlights: Fear of Losing Independence: Why it’s natural to feel apprehensive about sacrificing your autonomy in a relationship,...

In this episode, we dive into the question of whether you’re being too accommodating in your quest for love. We examine how societal pressures can push you to settle and how to find a balance between being open-minded and maintaining your standards. Highlights The challenge of balancing openness with personal boundaries in dating.Understanding your non-negotiables, dealbreakers, and preferences for a healthy relationship.How to distinguish between what’s truly important and what might just be...