Both silent, both ignoring each other, both not willing to give a hand. Sounds familiar? A deadlock situation is not uncommon in a relationship - but how can you get out of it?
Evie and Ben figured out that they need to be friends in order to start resolving their conflict.
But it’s not only that. It also helps to them to remember that they support each other and that they want the best for each other.
AANNDD find out why Ben is the one that says No way more than Evie.… and why Evie asks more, although that’s not statistical relevant whatsoever.
This episodes take-away for #Sh*t-Free-Love
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Have you ever found yourself jumping from relationship to relationship without ever figuring out what you actually want from it?
Have you ever lost yourself in a relationship? Realising that you never knew what you wanted in the first place.
How do you actually figure out what you want from a relationship? short answer: date yourself.
But what does that mean?
Evie and Ben talk in this episode on how Ben used to distract himself with countless situationships on the „seeing each other“ level that didn’t come to fruition and how Evie and her female friends thought that they would be the bad guys if the guy didn’t like them. ‚course you‘ll get tons of tips from pur fuck it toolkit - like deleting all your dating apps (obvs).
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If you ever thought; wow, I didn’t know who I was in that relationship. That wasn’t me - this episode is for you!
I didn’t know who I was in that relationship. Does this resonate with you? In this episode it’s all about identity in relationships. Not only what makes your identity, but rather how you ARE in a relationship and how you CHANGE.
Ben proposes 3 stages in a relationship: The pre, the during and the post relationship phase. So basically with which identity you went into the relationship, how you developed your identity during the relationship and how you reflect on your identity after the relationship, aka. which things on your identity have permanently changed.
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Who's the person that fights for their ideas and who's the person that wants to save the relationship?
In this episode we're talking about the two types of relationship dynamic: the activist and the pacifist.
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Early in their relationship, Ben met a friend he used to have sex with and was wondering whether or not he should tell Evie…
So, do you need to tell your partner everything you get up to? Or are some things easier to just keep to yourself?
In this episode you'll hear all of the uncomfortable truths we've had to share in our relationship, what really happens when you're honest, and if we think that complete honesty helps or hinders a relationship.
If you’re trying to build trust and open communication in your relationship, this episode is for you.
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In the first episode, we set the scene of what a sh*tty relationship is and what a healthy relationship is. We explain you what you'll need to create a healthy relationship and where we will start. Oh, and we tell you how we met in Mexico. 👩❤️👨