In our latest podcast episode, we tackle part one of dealing with difficult people: stop helping them. This might sound counterintuitive, but the reality is that the answer often lies within them, not us. Telling someone what to do doesn't work; they need to see the answer themselves, much like how copying someone's test answers doesn't really solve the problem.

We discuss the drama triangle and how trying to help can actually make us feel good momentarily but disempowers the other person and drains our energy when they don't follow through. If you find yourself being drained by someone, consider whether you're just telling them what to do.

This is part one of dealing with difficult people. You might not be the difficult person, but we all know someone who is, someone who can't seem to follow through. And surprisingly, you might not be helping in the way you think you are.