In this episode, I have the privilege of chatting with Carolyn Mayling, who shares her remarkable journey through midlife.   The conversation begins with Carolyn recounting her heart-wrenching experience of losing her daughter, Rosie, to a sudden illness. During this difficult time, she discovered an incredible strength within herself. She also delves into the profound impact of grief on her family and how it led her to create a charity in Rosie’s honour. This charity provides support and music therapy to children in hospitals.   Throughout the discussion, we explore themes of resilience, the significance of support, and the enduring legacy of love that transcends loss. Carolyn candidly shares her compelling decision to pursue motherhood again later in life. She also discusses the profound impact of losing Rosie on her marriage and the challenges she faced during her battle with cancer. Carolyn emphasises the transformative power of spiritual awakening and the importance of support and community in overcoming adversity.   Carolyn reflects on her newfound strength and her future aspirations. She continues her ongoing charity work and shares her writing endeavours, showcasing her resilience and determination.     Takeaways The journey of grief is deeply personal and unique Finding strength in the face of unimaginable loss is possible Creating a legacy can be a powerful way to honour loved ones Support systems are crucial for bereaved families The importance of open conversations about grief and loss Resilience can emerge from the darkest experiences It's essential to seek help and support during tough times The IVF journey was filled with emotional ups and downs Motherhood at 54 brought new light and purpose to Carolyn's life. Grief can significantly impact relationships, leading to challenges in communication Support from friends and family is crucial during difficult times Spiritual beliefs provided Carolyn with comfort and guidance Finding strength in adversity can lead to personal growth and confidence.   Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 02:58 - Life Before 05:50 - The Onset of Illness: A Mother's Despair 09:01 - The Diagnosis: A Journey Through Uncertainty 12:01 - The Heartbreaking Decision: Letting Go 14:59 - Coping with Loss: A Family's Struggle 18:01 - Creating a Legacy: The Birth of a Charity 21:07 - Support for Families: Building a Community 23:44 - The Journey to IVF: A Compelling Decision 30:03 - Navigating Grief: The Impact of Loss on Relationships 31:17 - Facing Adversity: Cancer and Personal Struggles 36:04 - Spiritual Awakening: Finding Comfort in Beliefs 39:00 - Resilience and Strength: Lessons Learned Through Loss 41:24 - Looking Ahead: Future Aspirations and Charity Work ---  Learn more about Carolyn: www.carolynmayling.com   Roșie's Rainbow Fund: www.rosiesrainbowfund.co.uk   The Future is Rosie: https://amzn.eu/d/9w4tmeU  Follow Life's 2nd Act:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifes2ndact Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556551936745