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Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
Todd Creager
253 episodes
6 days ago
In this revealing episode, relationship expert Todd Creager tackles the profound identity crisis that occurs when infidelity is discovered. If you've betrayed your partner, you're not just facing relationship damage—you're confronting fundamental questions about who you are. Todd guides listeners through five essential questions for identity rebuilding: Who am I now that I've betrayed my values? Can I become trustworthy again? Is change possible? What does recovery look like for serial betray...
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In this revealing episode, relationship expert Todd Creager tackles the profound identity crisis that occurs when infidelity is discovered. If you've betrayed your partner, you're not just facing relationship damage—you're confronting fundamental questions about who you are. Todd guides listeners through five essential questions for identity rebuilding: Who am I now that I've betrayed my values? Can I become trustworthy again? Is change possible? What does recovery look like for serial betray...
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Mental Health
Society & Culture,
Health & Fitness,
Sexuality,
Relationships
Episodes (20/253)
Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#254 | How to Rebuild a New Identity After Cheating on Your Partner
In this revealing episode, relationship expert Todd Creager tackles the profound identity crisis that occurs when infidelity is discovered. If you've betrayed your partner, you're not just facing relationship damage—you're confronting fundamental questions about who you are. Todd guides listeners through five essential questions for identity rebuilding: Who am I now that I've betrayed my values? Can I become trustworthy again? Is change possible? What does recovery look like for serial betray...
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6 days ago
15 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#253 | Why Did I Cheat? Understanding the Real Reasons Behind Infidelity (And How to Stop)
If you've been unfaithful to your partner, you're probably drowning in one question: "Why did I do this?" And if you're the betrayed partner, you desperately need to understand: "How could they do this to me?" In this episode, I'm talking directly to people who've cheated—though I want betrayed partners to listen too. Because understanding what drives infidelity isn't about excuses. It's about getting to the truth of what's really happening beneath the surface. After decades of working with p...
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1 month ago
16 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#252 | What Kind of Therapy Helps You Heal Infidelity?
In today's episode, I'm diving deep into one of the most important questions I get: when there's been a discovery of infidelity, when do we need therapy? What kind of therapy? What makes sense? I'll be blunt with you - I think you always need therapy after infidelity. Here's why: it's so painful that emotions completely take over. Friends or family may not always be the right people to go to during these times because they have their own feelings. When you're in that stress mode, in that surv...
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1 month ago
10 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#251 | Do I Need to Separate to Have Clarity After Infidelity?
One of the most common questions I get from betrayed partners: "Todd, do I need to separate from my partner to get clarity? Do I need to separate to have self-dignity?" And I completely understand why people ask this. When you discover infidelity, your nervous system goes into shock. You can't think straight. You're so agitated by your partner's presence that all you want to do is cry or hit or scream. And here's what I know for sure: you cannot go back to business as usual like nothing happe...
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1 month ago
10 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
# 250 | What Boundaries Are Needed After Discovering Infidelity?
After you discover infidelity, everything changes. The sacred boundary around your couple has been ruptured by secrets, and now you need to rebuild it from the ground up. But what does that actually look like day-to-day? In this episode, I walk you through the specific boundaries that are needed post-discovery so that healing can happen and your relationship can thrive again. And I need to be clear about something right up front: if you're the one who betrayed, you don't get to keep your "pri...
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1 month ago
12 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#249 | Can You Really Forgive After Infidelity? Finding Your Way Back to Peace
One of the most painful questions I get asked: "Todd, how do I forgive my partner after they cheated on me?" It feels like a monumental task when you've been so hurt, so tossed around, so dishonored by your partner's secrets. Here's what I want you to know right up front - you don't have to forgive. That's totally up to you. But if you can, it makes you feel better because forgiveness is really about the person forgiving, not the person being forgiven. In this episode, I walk you through the ...
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2 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#248 | When a Person Who Betrayed is Becoming Trustworthy: Key Signs to Watch For
In this episode infidelity expert Todd Creager discusses one of the hardest questions you're grappling with right now: How do you know when your partner who betrayed you is actually becoming safe again? You thought they were trustworthy before, and then your whole world got turned upside down. I hear this all the time from my couples - "I never thought my partner would be capable of doing that." So how do you recognize real change when you see it? This is such an important question, and...
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2 months ago
11 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#247 | Understanding Multiple Infidelities: Essential Insights for the Betrayed Partner
What happens when your partner hasn't just cheated once, but multiple times? If you're dealing with serial infidelities, I know you're asking yourself some really painful questions: "What's wrong with me?" "Why do they keep cheating on me?" "Was any part of our relationship even real?" And here's the thing - after decades of working with thousands of couples, I have some answers that might surprise you. In this episode, you'll discover: Why multiple infidelities are never about you, the...
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2 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
# 246 | How Old Do You Feel? The One Question That Saved My 41-Year Marriage
Have you ever noticed how your partner can turn you into a defensive teenager faster than anyone else on the planet? Hi everybody, this is Todd Creager. Picture this: You're a successful adult who handles boardroom meetings, manages a household, and navigates life's challenges with confidence. But then your spouse gives you some feedback, and suddenly you're feeling like a scared 6-year-old who's about to get in trouble. If that sounds familiar, this episode will change everything for you. As...
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2 months ago
16 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
245 | The Hidden Truth About Infidelity: Why It’s Never Really About You (And What It Actually Reveals)
Todd's sharing a conversation that could completely change how you think about betrayal and recovery. He recently interviewed Lora Cheadle, a betrayal recovery coach and attorney who discovered her husband's 15-year affair. What drew him to Lora is that she speaks from a deeper place about infidelity—challenging the rigid ideas that keep people stuck rather than helping them heal. Here's what we explore together: Why betrayal uncovers hidden truths about how we've been "performing" in life in...
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3 months ago
35 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#244 | Why Attachment Styles Impact Your Sexual Desire
In this episode, Todd Creager shares insights you probably won't find in most relationship books or articles - discoveries he's made from three decades of working with couples about how childhood attachment patterns can directly impact sexual desire in adults. This isn't typical relationship advice. These are real patterns Todd has observed in his practice that help explain why some people struggle with sexual desire, especially after commitment. In this episode, you'll learn: Why men with ov...
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3 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#243 | How Your Attachment Style Affects Addictive Behaviors
Have you ever wondered why some people turn to addictions while others don't? In this eye-opening episode, I dive deep into the fascinating connection between our attachment styles and addictive behaviors. Drawing from my years of experience as a therapist, I explain how the way we were nurtured as children impacts our emotional regulation and potentially our relationship with addictive substances and behaviors. In this episode, you'll discover: - The crucial link between your early childhood...
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3 months ago
16 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#242 | The Joy of Kissing: Rekindling Passion Through Life's Most Intimate Act
Have you noticed that kissing has taken a backseat in your relationship? As a relationship expert who's helped countless couples rekindle their passion, I've discovered that many couples who once shared passionate kisses now rarely lock lips – some haven't kissed in months or even years. In this episode, I dive deep into the science and emotion behind kissing, sharing why this intimate act is crucial for maintaining a vibrant, connected relationship. What you'll discover in this episode...
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3 months ago
7 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#241 | Attachment Styles & Infidelity: What You Need to Know
In this episode, Infidelity expert Todd Creager explores the crucial connection between attachment styles and infidelity - a topic he's helped thousands of couples navigate throughout my career. Drawing from his extensive experience as a relationship expert, Todd helps you understand how your early attachment patterns might be influencing your current relationship dynamics and potentially contributing to infidelity. In this episode, you'll discover: • The three main attachment styles (s...
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4 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#240 | Attachment Styles: How They Affect Your Love Life
In today's episode, I'm discussingsomething I see constantly in my therapy practice - attachment styles and how they profoundly impact our intimate relationships. As this topic becomes increasingly mainstream, I want to help you understand what your attachment style means for your relationships and, most importantly, how you can develop healthier patterns. In this episode, you'll discover: The four main attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized) and how they develop from ...
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4 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#239 | The Hidden Cost of Not Fixing Your Communication Patterns
In this episode Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager is diving deep into something he's observed over decades of working with couples - the devastating hidden costs of not addressing broken communication patterns in your relationship. Having worked with countless couples, he's seen how unresolved communication issues can slowly erode what was once a sacred connection, leading couples to simply "settle" for a shell of what their relationship could be. In this episode, you'll di...
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4 months ago
12 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#238 | Why Love Isn't Enough: Breaking Free from Repeating Arguments
Have you ever wondered why you and your partner keep having the same arguments over and over, despite how much you love each other? In this powerful episode, I dive deep into why love alone isn't enough to break free from repetitive conflict patterns and what you can do to create lasting change in your relationship. Here's what you'll discover: • The surprising reason why we get stuck in survival mode during arguments, and how our childhood experiences shape our current relationship patterns ...
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5 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#235 | The Truth About Your "Broken" Self: It's Just Nervous System Overload
In this powerful episode of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, I'm going to share why those moments when you freeze up, explode, or feel emotionally flooded aren't signs that you're broken – they're actually your nervous system trying to protect you. Through my years of experience as a therapist, I've seen countless individuals and couples transform their relationships once they understand what's really happening in their body during these challenging moments. In this epis...
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5 months ago
16 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#237 | Why Just Talking About It Isn't Working - Moving From Conflict to Connection
Ever wonder why talking about relationship problems sometimes makes things worse? In this episode, Todd Creager therapist and relationship expert shares why "just talking about it" isn't always the solution – and what you can do instead. He's seen countless couples struggle with communication, only to end up more frustrated than when they started. But there's hope, and he's here to show you a better way. In this episode, you'll discover: - The crucial difference between "ven...
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5 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#236 | What Your Parents Never Taught You About Healthy Love - The Truth Revealed
In this episode, Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager dives deep into what our parents (and society) never taught us about healthy love. Just like we take golf lessons to improve our swing or attend medical school to become doctors, shouldn't we learn how to create and maintain healthy relationships? Drawing from my 40+ years of experience as a relationship expert, I share why most of us weren't taught the essential skills for lasting love and what we can do about ...
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5 months ago
13 minutes

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
In this revealing episode, relationship expert Todd Creager tackles the profound identity crisis that occurs when infidelity is discovered. If you've betrayed your partner, you're not just facing relationship damage—you're confronting fundamental questions about who you are. Todd guides listeners through five essential questions for identity rebuilding: Who am I now that I've betrayed my values? Can I become trustworthy again? Is change possible? What does recovery look like for serial betray...